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By *azzap33 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Durham

I think it would be beneficial to see the (deleted) text alongside or instead of the (unread) text when you’re on your ‘sent’ messages.

It works for if someone reads your text as the bracket changes from (read) to (deleted) but if they don’t read the message it just stays as (unread).

I understand that if they’ve been online and maybe after a few days and still (unread) then they’re probably not going to reply, some better indication may be helpful.

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By *ntrigued888Woman
13 weeks ago

Beds

What do you mean, when a message is deleted without being read?

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By *earlfireMan
13 weeks ago

Margate

The message is deleted before it was read.. it's the status on what the sender of the message sees

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By *ucka39Man
13 weeks ago

Newcastle

But users can read the messages without opening the message in group settings or from received or sent

Basically if someone is interested would reply if found the message amongst the pile

No response isn't an indication to everyone

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By *earlfireMan
13 weeks ago

Margate

This is by design from what I understand, I don't agree on some of the elements of messaging. Especially if information is lost when a user leaves the site.

The way to look at it, is they are deleting and ignoring

Now.. does this feed the habit of constantly messaging which people moan about here?

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By *bflirtyCouple
13 weeks ago

Milton Keynes


"But users can read the messages without opening the message in group settings or from received or sent

Basically if someone is interested would reply if found the message amongst the pile

No response isn't an indication to everyone "

Not sure I understand what you mean about reading the messages without opening. How exactly do you do that?

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

There and Here


"But users can read the messages without opening the message in group settings or from received or sent

Basically if someone is interested would reply if found the message amongst the pile

No response isn't an indication to everyone

Not sure I understand what you mean about reading the messages without opening. How exactly do you do that?"

You can read a message thread from the sent message box without the latest message you've received showing as read

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By *azzap33 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Durham

Sorry what I meant is if someone deletes a message before reading it, for the sender it will just show in ‘yellow’ and (unread) but never change to ‘white’ and (deleted).

Basically just looking like someone may not have opened the message and getting them to send more

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

You can solve this issue by deleting your sent items and getting on with your life.

There's a handy reminder Fab pops up if you accidentally go to message a new person twice

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Don't worry about sent messages.

The only ones that matter are replies. 🤷‍♂️

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