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"I would probably change the rule about newbies not being able to post on the forum for 336 hours. There probably is a valid reason for that rule but I have no idea what it could be. " - User 123 joins Fab, immediately spams forum about how we can pay to fuck her or see her paywalled porn. User gets banned. User 124 joins Fab and does the same, because same person. - User 456 joins Fab, uses the forum, gets a permanent ban for good reasons. User 457 joins Fab and ditto. | |||
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"I would probably change the rule about newbies not being able to post on the forum for 336 hours. There probably is a valid reason for that rule but I have no idea what it could be. " To stop people signing up new accounts so they can insult or argue "anonymously" or work around a ban? Cal | |||
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"I would like to see the "bad word filter" improved, so people can mention pesky unwanted plants, or sorting the wheat from the chaff, without their word becoming just "s" or "ing"... or that you can't mention your favourite soft drink but can type cocaine and marijuana in full" Yes | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned." And because I’m all about fairness they can call me a cunt too. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned." You can call me a cunt anytime babes. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes. "We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️ | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️"You've only ever called me a numpty  | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️
You've only ever called me a numpty "And I meant it. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️
You've only ever called me a numpty
And I meant it."Well, as long as you meant it! 🤗 | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️
You've only ever called me a numpty
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"I would probably change the rule about newbies not being able to post on the forum for 336 hours. There probably is a valid reason for that rule but I have no idea what it could be. - User 123 joins Fab, immediately spams forum about how we can pay to fuck her or see her paywalled porn. User gets banned. User 124 joins Fab and does the same, because same person. - User 456 joins Fab, uses the forum, gets a permanent ban for good reasons. User 457 joins Fab and ditto." Very valid point. The forum would be awash with spammers | |||
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"I would probably change the rule about newbies not being able to post on the forum for 336 hours. There probably is a valid reason for that rule but I have no idea what it could be. - User 123 joins Fab, immediately spams forum about how we can pay to fuck her or see her paywalled porn. User gets banned. User 124 joins Fab and does the same, because same person. - User 456 joins Fab, uses the forum, gets a permanent ban for good reasons. User 457 joins Fab and ditto." Yep. | |||
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"I would change the one that says that when you join a site and agree to all their rules and regs you then get to try and change the ones you don't agree with or feel imposed by. " Haha, this reminds me of all the people who move to our village because they liked it so much, and then set about trying to change stuff.  | |||
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"I'd make it so you can't screenshot. Mrs " You don't have to screenshot. Images can be downloaded directly. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to find a post or where in the post someone has put their reply without having to scroll it all " On chrome browser and others click the dots in the top right and select find in page. Type in the profile name and that takes you directly to their post. If you then click on the green arrow while still in that mode it takes you directly to every post that person has made. | |||
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"I’d like a forum purge. One day a year where it’s a free for all. No rules and whoever survives the night has to kiss and make up in the morning." Ah so the fabswingers version of the PURGE. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to find a post or where in the post someone has put their reply without having to scroll it all " yes, this. | |||
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"I'd make it so you can't screenshot. Mrs " Agree! Other sites do it and it makes me feel so much more comfortable sharing photos etc. Wife | |||
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"I'd make it so you can't screenshot. Mrs You don't have to screenshot. Images can be downloaded directly. " Or taken from another phone….. But to put even one obstacle in front of those who are picture snappers and share them elsewere would help. | |||
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"I’d like a forum purge. One day a year where it’s a free for all. No rules and whoever survives the night has to kiss and make up in the morning. Ah so the fabswingers version of the PURGE." Yes. I live for chaos. | |||
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"I’d like a forum purge. One day a year where it’s a free for all. No rules and whoever survives the night has to kiss and make up in the morning. Ah so the fabswingers version of the PURGE. Yes. I live for chaos." Yes! Chaos!!!! | |||
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"I'd like to see some nuance in the interests. Such as fister and fistee. I'm sure that two people have turned up to the meet with lube and boxing gloves only to both end up saying, 'Oh.' " This made me lol! | |||
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"I'd make it so you can't screenshot. Mrs " I believe screenshots are not allowed occasionally one may slip past the mods though  | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’" 👍👍 | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’" Do you think £5 is enough of a deterrent? I wasn't a site supporter for a decade. Didn't change how I used the site. Likewise I know many who aren't interested in photo verification. They're still real as I've met them. A paywall isn't the magic wand people think it is. | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’ Do you think £5 is enough of a deterrent? I wasn't a site supporter for a decade. Didn't change how I used the site. Likewise I know many who aren't interested in photo verification. They're still real as I've met them. A paywall isn't the magic wand people think it is. " I would suggest you are in the minority, not the majority. I doubt many fantasists would stay long paying £5/£10 a go just to get their jollies setting up couples accounts, etc. The site should be doing more to get rid of the fake profiles and profiles who haven’t been site verified, let alone the content creators who use this site as a platform to get more users on their ‘other sites’ | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’ Do you think £5 is enough of a deterrent? I wasn't a site supporter for a decade. Didn't change how I used the site. Likewise I know many who aren't interested in photo verification. They're still real as I've met them. A paywall isn't the magic wand people think it is. I would suggest you are in the minority, not the majority. I doubt many fantasists would stay long paying £5/£10 a go just to get their jollies setting up couples accounts, etc. The site should be doing more to get rid of the fake profiles and profiles who haven’t been site verified, let alone the content creators who use this site as a platform to get more users on their ‘other sites’" Block new profiles from messaging you. Block unverified profiles from messaging you. You can even block non site supporters from messaging you given you feel that they may be more likely to be 'not genuine'. Block any segments that you're not interested in from messaging you and perhaps even those that you are, and make first contact yourself. Report anyone you feel is a content creator looking to make money. Its against site rules. There's lots of tools available on the site, but the biggest are free. Your own judgement and common sense. Paywalls aren't the answer. Plenty of sites charge and have the same issues you state. Fab has always been free to use and people have managed to successfully navigate the site without paying for years. | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’ Do you think £5 is enough of a deterrent? I wasn't a site supporter for a decade. Didn't change how I used the site. Likewise I know many who aren't interested in photo verification. They're still real as I've met them. A paywall isn't the magic wand people think it is. I would suggest you are in the minority, not the majority. I doubt many fantasists would stay long paying £5/£10 a go just to get their jollies setting up couples accounts, etc. The site should be doing more to get rid of the fake profiles and profiles who haven’t been site verified, let alone the content creators who use this site as a platform to get more users on their ‘other sites’" £5/10 a month for live comedy personalised just for you? (Comedy being yanking people's chains) Sounds like a bargain to me. | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’ Do you think £5 is enough of a deterrent? I wasn't a site supporter for a decade. Didn't change how I used the site. Likewise I know many who aren't interested in photo verification. They're still real as I've met them. A paywall isn't the magic wand people think it is. I would suggest you are in the minority, not the majority. I doubt many fantasists would stay long paying £5/£10 a go just to get their jollies setting up couples accounts, etc. The site should be doing more to get rid of the fake profiles and profiles who haven’t been site verified, let alone the content creators who use this site as a platform to get more users on their ‘other sites’" I would go so far as to suggest that anyone consistently meeting or chatting to timewasters(a very subjective term anyway and open to interpretation), fantasists or content creators are in the minority not the majority. I've been here 8 years and never once engaged with anyone fitting those descriptions and every time one of these threads pops up the vast majority agree they have never had these experiences. I've found that most who advocate for keeping everything behind a paywall need to take a step back and have a look at how they are vetting those they are chatting to because all the tools are already available. If the site really was rife with all these characters the law of averages would say that everyone on the site would have come across them. Strangely enough that's not the case and it's not down to luck. Just common sense. Why is it the sites responsibility to hold everyone's hand? | |||
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"Everyone is entitled to an opinion whether you agree or disagree. But having been on this site many years we have never known it as worse as it is now. It seems full of people wanting ‘friends’ to get their videos to top spot in order to further their own ‘business’ elsewhere and people who simply want to get their kicks from having profiles which aren’t site verified and complaints to admin go ignored. Yes we do block and have settings but they simply leave creative new account and return" I've been here since 2018 and in every year everyone has complained it's never been worse. I'm not sure anyone has said you're not entitled to a view. We just disagree. | |||
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"Not so much a rule change as a technical one - I'd amend quotes on the forum to only quote the post you are replying to, rather than also quoting the two dozen posts before that. " You can edit the text in a post, so if you want to reply to a specific part of a post you can just quote that part. Similarly to your request, I'd like quotes to actually reference the user who made them. | |||
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"I would like to see the "bad word filter" improved, so people can mention pesky unwanted plants, or sorting the wheat from the chaff, without their word becoming just "s" or "ing"... or that you can't mention your favourite soft drink but can type cocaine and marijuana in full" and cooking oil too, the one that's an anagram of pear. | |||
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"No reports go ignored. Every verified report would be dealt with one way or another" Hey 👋 I sadly disagree with you , I've reported profiles that continously breach fab Terms and Conditions yet they continue active and doing the same breaches. I'm happy with rules as long as universal for all members. There's lots of breaches currently on forums and profiles mentioning other platforms and social media from the same users. | |||
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"No reports go ignored. Every verified report would be dealt with one way or another Hey 👋 I sadly disagree with you , I've reported profiles that continously breach fab Terms and Conditions yet they continue active and doing the same breaches. I'm happy with rules as long as universal for all members. There's lots of breaches currently on forums and profiles mentioning other platforms and social media from the same users. " The likes of this wouldn't be ignored. Rules are the same for everyone. They may have recieved a warning when you seem to be expecting a suspension. If you see them doing it again then report as obviously different sanctions will then be applied. | |||
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"Back to the OP please" Hi Ruby The one I would find most useful is a change to the ‘Browse Meets’ search criteria to show people wanting to meet single guys (or couples or F’s if that is you). You can specify the poster category but not what they look for. So that often means trawling through many records to find the relevant ones. The OP | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️
You've only ever called me a numpty "imagine the cunt doing that to you | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned." Fair. | |||
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""no reply means no thanks" bullshit. If it's a no then a pre written out saved message can be sent by pressing a single button on the latest message. It would be very quick and shows that the receiver has read your message/ viewed your profile and decided no and has the courtesy to send you that pre recorded / written message, instead of just an ignorant delete. " But it would also allow people you are not interested in to get round any filters you might put up in the future | |||
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""no reply means no thanks" bullshit. If it's a no then a pre written out saved message can be sent by pressing a single button on the latest message. It would be very quick and shows that the receiver has read your message/ viewed your profile and decided no and has the courtesy to send you that pre recorded / written message, instead of just an ignorant delete. " How many messages do you get a day? | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️
You've only ever called me a numpty "I love you dress with buttons up the front. 😇 | |||
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"We would remove the ‘rule’ whereby one person has made an observation / complaint, that we as a couple, “it seems to be a male only posing as a couple” We have supported this site for probably around 15 years. Admin, for whatever reason, removed Eli’s photos and changed our profile to a male profile. As a guesstimate, couples profiles must be around 80% of the time predominantly managed by the male. We can only think that we politely said ‘no’ to an admin and they took it on themselves to screw us over. Be interesting to see if this has happened to anyone else?" The site doesn't work like that. A profile would only be changed if there is proof that there is only one half of a couple there. It won't be because you rejected an Admin. If you think a mistake has been made you can ask Admin to review for you from the contact links | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. You can call me a cunt anytime babes.
We use it as a term of endearment up here so you’re definitely a cunt ❤️"Same in Ireland.. its normal everyday language. | |||
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"Every member must pay to be here. I think that would get rid of 95% of the dreamers, time wasters and complete fantasists that have absolutely no intention of meeting and have took zero time to try and understand what this site is about or what the genuine members are actually looking for. I would also remove the content creators who are only using this site to promote their ‘other interests’ and allow any member to be ‘friends’" Definitely. | |||
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"You won’t be able to see posts from people you blocked and they can’t see yours. You’re totally invisible for each other." | |||
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"This is one of the only sites where you actually can join an have chats and meets without paying,and It would be a shame to change that.it is not easy for people to discreetly pay if they need complete discretion and secrecy. It is the beauty of the site." Are they not allowed to be picky. End of day women are here for us we are not just a local penis receptor | |||
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"If you have been on for a year with no veris or being photo verified you profile should be removed and email blocked" For sure with photo verification, it's not difficult but irl verifications can be difficult to get, kick off everyone without one and you'll be talking to the same 6 dozen people all day Blocking emails is utterly pointless , it's not like it's difficult to create a new one | |||
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"... verifications can be difficult to get ..." Nonsense. For any reasonably normal person, meet verifications are extremely easy to obtain. They go to a club. They chat to people, including the staff, not necessarily about sex and swinging. They ask folks to verify them. If everyone declines, there's something seriously wrong with them. And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. | |||
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"If you have been on for a year with no veris or being photo verified you profile should be removed and email blocked" Way too long - two months, three at most. There is absolutely no good reason for not being photo-verified. | |||
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"Blocking emails is utterly pointless , it's not like it's difficult to create a new one" Quite right. Blocking should be applied to the IP address. | |||
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"... verifications can be difficult to get ... Nonsense. For any reasonably normal person, meet verifications are extremely easy to obtain. They go to a club. They chat to people, including the staff, not necessarily about sex and swinging. They ask folks to verify them. If everyone declines, there's something seriously wrong with them. And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. " The expense is often prohibitive. | |||
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"I would not allow filtering of non site supporters. What is the point? It is not always easy for people to support the site all the time..." Gold membership works out to 10p per day. Anyone who can't afford that, can't afford to meet. | |||
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"And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. " Define "reasonably normal" So people with disabilities, the neuro divergent etc should just buck themselves up and get to a club? For a group of people whose friends and family may well judge them pretty harshly on their lifestyle,there's some very judgemental people on here | |||
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"... verifications can be difficult to get ... Nonsense. For any reasonably normal person, meet verifications are extremely easy to obtain. They go to a club. They chat to people, including the staff, not necessarily about sex and swinging. They ask folks to verify them. If everyone declines, there's something seriously wrong with them. And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. The expense is often prohibitive. " I guess that it comes down to how seriously someone takes their hobby. An evening of clubbing invariably costs less than a night in an average hotel. Anyhow, let's agree to differ - I know better than to argue with a Mod. | |||
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"And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. Define "reasonably normal" So people with disabilities, the neuro divergent etc should just buck themselves up and get to a club? For a group of people whose friends and family may well judge them pretty harshly on their lifestyle,there's some very judgemental people on here" "Reasonably normal" = not a complete twat. Judgemental? Pots and kettles. If you're going to paraphrase me, please don't insert stuff that I didn't say, infer, or mean. As for neurodivergency... Folks who actually know me could certainly testify that my autism sometimes causes 'interesting' happenings. | |||
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"I’d like to be able to call other forum users cunts without getting banned. And because I’m all about fairness they can call me a cunt too." It’s not that everyone is a cunt a just like the word lol | |||
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"... verifications can be difficult to get ... Nonsense. For any reasonably normal person, meet verifications are extremely easy to obtain. They go to a club. They chat to people, including the staff, not necessarily about sex and swinging. They ask folks to verify them. If everyone declines, there's something seriously wrong with them. And, pre-emptively... If someone doesn't want to go to a club, then lacking verifications is simply self-inflicted. The expense is often prohibitive. " Then a small social or free event as they have loads at no cost, Then it shows your commitment to the lifestyle | |||
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