FabSwingers.com forum: sent messages read/unread/deleted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not too keen on the system that provides feedback to other users as to whether the message they have sent has been read, unread, or deleted.

I'm sure anyone who receives a lot of messages (and I'm talking over 150 a day) will agree that it is just not reasonably possible to reply to every one (usually as just a simple "thank you" reply seems to mark the start of a conversation!)

We do read every single message we get and I'm not saying we dislike getting messages from anyone (we appreciate them all!), but thanks to this "feedback" system, we have received a few unpleasant messages questioning us as to why we have not replied.

Anyway, my question: is there a way to opt out of it?

thanks

Mr H

By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Anyway, my question: is there a way to opt out of it?

There's not but we can appreciate your comments and stopping uncolicited 2nd messages is something we are looking at.

Aside from that, our first bit of advice would be to set filters to stop anyone outside your criteria e.g. age and sex preferences from contacting you:

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

Admin x