FabSwingers.com forum: Comments on photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it?

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There's only so many times you could say "nice cock"

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Fabtwatter

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Christ no

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"There's only so many times you could say "nice cock" "

Oh I don’t know, I don’t think I’d tire of hearing that

Whilst many would be positive comments, unfortunately i do feel it would be abused by some idiots on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm not a fan of the idea myself.

It's bad enough with the 'Fab for a ....' additions.

Commenting on photos would be open to abuse as well as flattery and that wouldn't improve the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc"

Thats a good idea. What if you could delete comments? Or deactivate them from your settings? Would allow every the option then i guess

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

I think it's an awful idea and it would just lead to more abuse and snidey comments. Bo.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

No thank you. I don't have the time or the wherewithal to read p+sitive or negative comments that would be left on my photographs.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some things should be left well alone. I'd hate to see some comments that would be left...especially if someone was told no! x

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By *ayRyuMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Oh certainly not. The negative comments would outweigh the positives hugely.

Imagine an the people who don't get a response to a message suddenly leaving venomous comments!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’d just add to our block list faster due to the pervy comments

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

S-Exeter

"Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it? "

What would be the point? We as guys wouldnt get any anyway, women would turn them off as they would be deluded by thirsty guys trying to get their end away.

It's pointless

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I don't really see what value it would add. And some people will no doubt just get negative about body size, pubes, kinks they don't approve of, interior design etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it? "

No. As it could lead to negative comments. Fab is a pleasure palace for potential positions of positive news views and pleasantries not profanities.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it?

No. As it could lead to negative comments. Fab is a pleasure palace for potential positions of positive news views and pleasantries not profanities. "

Its a shame the nature of people is to be negative towards people who clearly have a common interest and lifestyle choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well"

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience."

It still doesnt stop anyone buying the membership though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc"

Good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc

Good idea. "

Except thumbs down is negative I wouldthink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience.

It still doesnt stop anyone buying the membership though "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc

Good idea.

Except thumbs down is negative I wouldthink. "

The fab emojis currently dont have the thumb down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience."

I have seen comments left on other sites it was awful interaction. People who do not know you calling you names is to me derogatory and not within site rules. I know what you mean though.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sounds messy; I put my own comments on my pics.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd keep it as it is.

Moderators have a really hard time as it is, so I'd prefer development given to features that aren't as likely to add to their workload

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

Nope. I used a site before this where you could comment on photos and they were banal in the extreme as would all expect

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nope. I used a site before this where you could comment on photos and they were banal in the extreme as would all expect "

Hmm your pics, I have thoughts. All of them positive

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

It’s a sad state of affairs when we all immediately know the probable outcome of such an initiative - that people will abuse the privilege by being nasty, insulting, jealous, bitter and vengeful.

It was a nice thought OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! The abuse that could be open to would be insane. People already show themselves and their bodies off when they find the confidence to do so. If there's any chance they could be discouraged by that then it just shouldn't happen!

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"There's only so many times you could say "nice cock" "

Especially on a woman's photos

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it? "

In effect leaving a Fab is the equivalent of a thumbs up (or vice versa depending on your point of view). No one can leave a thumbs down or negative comment. That seems to be sufficient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it was pre written comments and you can select from a list of 5 or 10. All would be possitive and approved by Fab.

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

God no!

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"What is it was pre written comments and you can select from a list of 5 or 10. All would be possitive and approved by Fab. "

Then it kind of loose the point as a fab would do the same of 200 “love the picture comments”. I totally understand the idea and in theory it would be great but in reality i just think the current system is probably the best of both worlds

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It's hard enough when some idiot decides to message you to say how horrible you look. I'd rather not make it easier for idiots to do so. Plus I have a feeling once one did say something negative it would be a bit of an opening of the flood gates.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I think given the mails and comments women already get, that would be just adding more of same.

I suppose I have seen photos that I’d praise as brilliant or clever, and I can think of a few women that are very creative that I see on local updates, but the downside outweighs any positive use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double urgh!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That should be on the hell no list along with voicenotes.

Mmmmmmm in a forum post or message is bad enough without actually verbalising it.

Comments on photos will not all be positive and will be abused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many

emoji my pics would get?

Certainly more than the tabs they get

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton

I'd be more interested in having more specific search categories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no!

I think if that were the case you would see a lot less people uploading pictures. The comments are easy to ignore/delete when said in private but opening yourself up publicly like that would be too much.

You would also get people discussing amongst themselves, for everyone to see and that’s just

no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*shakes head. No no no no no

I can see how it’s broken before that would even begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be more interested in having more specific search categories."

There are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X"

Interesting take. Seems youre more in favour than most are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's hard enough when some idiot decides to message you to say how horrible you look. I'd rather not make it easier for idiots to do so. Plus I have a feeling once one did say something negative it would be a bit of an opening of the flood gates. "

Absoultely see where youre coming from.

Shame so many ruin what could be a fun feature

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think given the mails and comments women already get, that would be just adding more of same.

I suppose I have seen photos that I’d praise as brilliant or clever, and I can think of a few women that are very creative that I see on local updates, but the downside outweighs any positive use "

Seems that the majority agree. Shame we live in a society where negativity wins

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X

Interesting take. Seems youre more in favour than most are."

Absolutely yes! ?? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the fact we can fab them is sufficient. Comments are likely to be graphic or insulting and I don’t believe that’s necessary.

I wish we had the ability to fab posts ie thumbs up or down, laugh emojis etc"

U can

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By *omKsubSMan
over a year ago

Newton

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience."

You'd think so. I've had some very nasty comments aimed at some of the women in my pictures, the majority from site supporting women who cant take being told no.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No thanks, I get the occasional negative private message but feel there would be many more if you could comment on a picture.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Absolutely not that would be awful imagine the comments you would get. Plus its going to be a huge task to moderate as well

What if it was only gold supports that could comment? It would reduce the comments and i think the negative comments also. As youd assume gold supporters are here for the positive experience."

Some of my most vile messages have been gold supporters. Paying extra doesn't make them nicer people.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X"

Good god no!!

The weird creepy messages are enough without hearing the tone in their voice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X

Good god no!!

The weird creepy messages are enough without hearing the tone in their voice too

This.. bad enough getting hi im near you messages without actually hearing it said in the creepy way it comes accross

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"What is it was pre written comments and you can select from a list of 5 or 10. All would be possitive and approved by Fab. "

Why not just send a message if you need to comment. Or don't and just fab the pic. From a woman's point of view I don't look at them anyway so I don't see any advantage of adding comments

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Yes good idea! Plus voice notes I love plenty site for the voice notes! I have a big thing for voices! X

Good god no!!

The weird creepy messages are enough without hearing the tone in their voice too

This.. bad enough getting hi im near you messages without actually hearing it said in the creepy way it comes accross"

Totally agree. Voicenotes are fine from people I know. From randoms absolutely not!!!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Keep reminding yourself OP that this is a site for swingers to meet and/or to converse not OF or for men to comment on photos. You get enough cliche comments about photos on the forums as it is.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Out of the many features that have been requested for 15 years or so - some, probably hundreds, if not thousands of times - I think they should have the development time and money priority that this would take from the budget. Pics can already have positive feedback left, via fabs. The other long requested features have no current alternative options. I propose no this suggestion but to refocus on the requests in the backlog, including additional profile data elements that can be included in searches. There are many more things that many want and we'd all really benefit from

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

"Nope. I used a site before this where you could comment on photos and they were banal in the extreme as would all expect

Hmm your pics, I have thoughts. All of them positive

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

"Nope. I used a site before this where you could comment on photos and they were banal in the extreme as would all expect

Hmm your pics, I have thoughts. All of them positive

Been on my hotlist a long time. Hmu and I will tell you exactly what I think

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
over a year ago

somewhere in Cheshire

"Just a thought. If you could comment on photos, similar to other social media platforms. Could make it a site support only feature.

Whats everyones take on it? "

What’s next giving photos a score out of 10 ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's only so many times you could say "nice cock" "

True, but I never get tired of hearing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple"

Just dont fab the ones you dont like, people put pics on for themselves not for others, i dont like 100s ive seen so i just scroll past them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple"

That would be awful.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple"

I would just repeatedly use this button on anyone who thought this was a good idea regardless of what pics they had.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple"

Just because you don't like it doesn't mean everyone else feels the same.

Nobody actually needs to know if you don't like their pictures, just scroll on by if you don't like what you see.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

God no, people can be awful in private messages, let's not give em a soapbox to stand on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No....I don't think that'd be a good idea....some may be critisised....let's face it.... some pics aren't good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not it’s a terrible idea their is already enough Discrimination on here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple"

That seems cruel and unnecessary

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"We think that a "NOT FAB" button is needed - people should know - if their Photo is not what everyone likes, as well what we like.

Simple

That seems cruel and unnecessary "

Yeah that's a bit grim, if you don't like it just move on.

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