FabSwingers.com forum: People Who Never Show Up

By *igDog200 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Scotton

I know others have this problem. This evening I was approached by someone who wanted to meet They sent pics, then sent other details and agreed to come over. I even got a message while they where supposedly en route.

When I messaged asking for an update they just blocked me.

Please can the owners of Fab come up with a way to deal with these people.

Today 5 guys areeed to meet and 1 messaged to say circumstances had changed and he would not be able to make it. The rest either blocked me or just went silent

Why do people do this? What goes on on their minds that gives them a thrill to behave like this.

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By *enaiWoman
47 weeks ago

worcester

The same woman has done this to me twice.

In the past I was stood up 9 times in a row by men over a 6 week period.

It destroys my faith in people.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

What can fab do? It's not a babysitter service, Maybe look at how your choosing your potential meets, use filters etc provided. If someone stood you up once why give them a second chance?

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By *exymarvelMan
47 weeks ago

cardiff

Once bitten twice shy, however it makes life difficult for us genuine guys

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By *astle321Man
47 weeks ago

pershore

"What can fab do? It's not a babysitter service, Maybe look at how your choosing your potential meets, use filters etc provided. If someone stood you up once why give them a second chance? "

This sounds like "victim blaming " to me.

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By *heelerMan
47 weeks ago

Northants

If you get messageing one another get to know each other better before arranging to meet ,one off meets are too easy just to call off.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"What can fab do? It's not a babysitter service, Maybe look at how your choosing your potential meets, use filters etc provided. If someone stood you up once why give them a second chance?

This sounds like "victim blaming " to me."

Shaming noone, someone let's you down, doesn't show do u really say yeah ok al neet u again? Maybe you think of second chances yeah ok if they get in touch and give u a reason but not if they just didn't show

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

Fab has a system for this. Report the user to Admin. All reports are investigated

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
47 weeks ago

Wherever

"Once bitten twice shy, however it makes life difficult for us genuine guys"

Why? I’d say it makes it actually easier. Blaming others for your misfortune is never a good look though.

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