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By *atthew 776 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

your town

Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots

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By *illan-KillashMan
50 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots "

I rate you 0. You didn't show up to a meet we arranged.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Central

Much of what you list are behaviours that can be reported. Inappropriate behaviour doesn't deserve to be rAted, if such a user doesn't belong on the site.

Fab Admin always investigate reports that others make, as they outline in their explanations of what happens when reports are made. Ultimate sanctions can include losing site access. Rather than duplicate evaluation of inappropriate behaviour, I suggest that we don't and just leave it to Admin.

It's easy for people to misuse a ratings system, for whatever their reasons, as sad as it is. . Who would police it? At what cost?

Fab needs us to take a buyer beware approach to picking and meeting others. The verifications can be used to help your judgement but they are not infallible. We can all do much more than just using verifications to pick who we'll want to meet.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
50 weeks ago

your head

It's not trip advisor

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By *entle_lover_xMan
50 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots "

Pmsl at rating on profile reading ability

Not laughing so much at labelling people idiots. Perhaps they are great at sex but failed the reading comprehension test?

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
50 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots "

Fantastic idea. I'm really upset tbh you didn't even bother to show up to our meet so being able to rate you low based on that would be ideal

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
50 weeks ago

Chatham

Get endless messages from straight men who say there bi curious.

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By *amieLDN22Man
50 weeks ago

London

Reliability, punctuality and authenticity rating system would be useful. Far too many men posing as women and people who have zero intentions to meet. And that's before you get to the wankers and content collectors.

You set up the meet and put considerable effort into hosting and person/cpl don't even show up or give explanation. Ghosting basically. Happens too many times on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots

Fantastic idea. I'm really upset tbh you didn't even bother to show up to our meet so being able to rate you low based on that would be ideal "

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By *burns7Man
50 weeks ago

walsall


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots

Fantastic idea. I'm really upset tbh you didn't even bother to show up to our meet so being able to rate you low based on that would be ideal

"

Same reaction

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
50 weeks ago

Middle England


"It's not trip advisor "

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

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By *illan-KillashMan
50 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"It's not trip advisor

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
50 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"It's not trip advisor

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

"

I'd rather not get 3 stars out 5 for appearance and 2 for sexual performance Simple veri will suffice. Of course what is most likely if we had rating is that everybody would give 5 out 5 in almost all cases.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
50 weeks ago

Middle England


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet."

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
50 weeks ago

Great Dunmow


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place. "

This whole topic of negative verifications has been covered so many times and it just doesn't work. Too open to abuse. Too much time required by admin to verify negative feedback and deal with inevitable abuse of the system.

If we had swapped messages and agreed to meet but then I bottled it, changed my mind and didn't show up I could easily leave you negative feedback and you could do the same to me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
50 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's not trip advisor

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet."

Next veri I get, I want someone to rate my cooking

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
50 weeks ago

Stockport


"It's not trip advisor

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

Next veri I get, I want someone to rate my cooking "

Edible. I didn't die.

Cooking was okay as well.

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By *illan-KillashMan
50 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"It's not trip advisor

Then why bother with a verification system? It's all the same objective even if it's labelled something else or implemented in a slightly different way.

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

Next veri I get, I want someone to rate my cooking "

I'm on it.........

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By *illan-KillashMan
50 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place. "

And you missed mine....

How about if I left you a negative feedback score, just because I didn't like your posts on the forum, although we've never met, never spoken, never agreed to meet?

It's so easy to abuse.

If people rely solely on verifications in determining who to meet, that's on them.

A verification isn't a guarantee of anything, good or bad.

Too many people rush to meet, don't carry out their due diligence and then want the site the put systems in place to fix where it went wrong.

Fab is a place to connect people. It's not a babysitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place.

And you missed mine....

How about if I left you a negative feedback score, just because I didn't like your posts on the forum, although we've never met, never spoken, never agreed to meet?

It's so easy to abuse.

If people rely solely on verifications in determining who to meet, that's on them.

A verification isn't a guarantee of anything, good or bad.

Too many people rush to meet, don't carry out their due diligence and then want the site the put systems in place to fix where it went wrong.

Fab is a place to connect people. It's not a babysitter."

This 100% fab gives you the tools you make your own connections and decisions, its not upto fab to babysit you

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
50 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots

Fantastic idea. I'm really upset tbh you didn't even bother to show up to our meet so being able to rate you low based on that would be ideal

Same reaction "

And it's totally fake lol... we've never arranged to meet.

But look how easily a rating system such as the OP proposed can be abused

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
50 weeks ago

Middle England


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place.

And you missed mine....

How about if I left you a negative feedback score, just because I didn't like your posts on the forum, although we've never met, never spoken, never agreed to meet?

It's so easy to abuse.

If people rely solely on verifications in determining who to meet, that's on them.

A verification isn't a guarantee of anything, good or bad.

Too many people rush to meet, don't carry out their due diligence and then want the site the put systems in place to fix where it went wrong.

Fab is a place to connect people. It's not a babysitter."

That's because you're thinking that's how I would implement a rating/verification system.

It's not going to happen so its an academic exercise.

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By *atthew 776 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

your town


"Maybe have a rating system,

Did they no show

Are they a fake ( man acting as couple)

Profile reading ability

Are they rude/aggressive

Verifications are great but there are verifications on idiots

Fantastic idea. I'm really upset tbh you didn't even bother to show up to our meet so being able to rate you low based on that would be ideal

Same reaction

And it's totally fake lol... we've never arranged to meet.

But look how easily a rating system such as the OP proposed can be abused "

I was getting lost with people saying I didn’t meet but I’m with you, yeah not a good idea after all

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By *illan-KillashMan
49 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"

The purpose of the verification is simple, turned up as planned and looked like their photos.

It's not a review of the resort, the beach or the buffet.

I think you're missing the point. A verification is always positive. So if someone doesn't turn up, is late, let's you down last minute etc you have no way of knowing other than they may have less verifications than someone else.

You seem to have lost the gist of original post by the OP.

Like I said it's just a different way of achieving the same thing or may be trying to improve what's already in place.

And you missed mine....

How about if I left you a negative feedback score, just because I didn't like your posts on the forum, although we've never met, never spoken, never agreed to meet?

It's so easy to abuse.

If people rely solely on verifications in determining who to meet, that's on them.

A verification isn't a guarantee of anything, good or bad.

Too many people rush to meet, don't carry out their due diligence and then want the site the put systems in place to fix where it went wrong.

Fab is a place to connect people. It's not a babysitter.

That's because you're thinking that's how I would implement a rating/verification system.

It's not going to happen so its an academic exercise."

Oh now I'm curious.....

How would you implement a rating system?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Central

Someone struggling to get any meets, could add negative ratings against all the local competition.

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