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By *ungkinkygeek1996 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

I've had to block males from messaging because even though my profile states I'm straight quite a lot of men on here are horribly pushy and do not take no for an answer, it's actually quite shocking how much some of them kept pushing before I had to block males completely.

This may not be the same for everyone just my personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I have to block all single men from time to time so that I can concentrate on conversations I’ve already started, as otherwise my inbox gets swamped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to block all single men from time to time so that I can concentrate on conversations I’ve already started, as otherwise my inbox gets swamped. "

I'm not surprised with a profile like that..

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "
the person might only be looking for a bi couple. It's all personal preference.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

People may want to just contact those they are interested in themselves rather than having a lot of random people messaging them.

It is up to them how they choose to use their filters and their profile.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Just because you are bi it doesn’t mean you specifically want the same sex to contact you. I’m bi but don’t enjoy just playing with a female I’d want a guy as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

I'm bi I love both genders but I am not currently looking for other women for 1-1 meets. Trying to meet single woman on fab is quite frankly bloody hard work haha. I meet them in clubs it is much easier that way.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

See you are pretty new here

Quite frankly it is really entitled of you to think that just because a man is bi he wants messages from bi men, including you. Ditto straight ladies block getting messages from straight men sometimes. Some people want a break from messages. Some people prefer to find others and message rather than receive messages. Some bi people just want to meet couples. All kinds of reasons.

Just let people do what they want and respect their wishes. We all use this place in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

It's a short and sweet answer from me

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because quite frankly, single men send shit messages.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do block a particular category of profile from viewing yours? I’m not sure that’s possible..

you may have blocked their ability to message you, but not from viewing your profile.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too"

Yes but you are straight so understandable. OP was asking about bi or bi-curious men. And you haven’t blocked all men from viewing your profile - that is not possible

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

Because you don't want to be bombarded by messages?

I'm bi - into pretty much any demographic - and have blocked everyone from messaging me because I don't want to deal with the Fabmin. I'll find people I'm looking for.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too"

You can't block demographics from viewing your profile. Only individuals.

You won't see them on who's looked at me (my views dropped from hundreds plus to single digits when I stopped men messaging me) - but that doesn't mean they're not looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too"

You cannot block an entire cohort from viewing your profile, on here. But you can block individuals.

I'm Trans and I can see your profile, which proves you wrong. I'll be honest though, your profile itself (including the title) is an instant 'No' to someone like me - I didn't like reading it. So, I've taken the liberty to put you on my blocklist - Because this is for the best, believe me.

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By *CLM87Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

So I play with women.. but never on my own, only with a man there. So would be pointless them messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why on here you can put on your profile that you're bi or bi curious and then block members of the sex you claim to be attracted too makes 0 sense we are all here for fun if you're. Ot that into men don't post you're bi it's very misleading "

Some people are not as diligent as others when they're creating their profile. And yet, for others, their preferences may change. When you add in how difficult it can be to get a decent profile up and running on here, you soon realise that these issues are par for the course.

Not everyone has the time to constantly update their profile, and the text editing facilities on this site NEED updating. And with that in mind, I personally brush over these issues. Because without a complete UX/UI overhaul of this site, those issues are here to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too"

You keep posting things like this and I just wanted to correct you as it's causing some confusion for others. Unless you hide your profile, this isn't a feature of the site. Men can still view your profile, even if men can't message you. You've blocked men from messaging you, you cannot block men specifically from viewing your profile, unless you individually block every single guy who looks at your profile or comments on here (some people have the option enabled, to hide that they viewed your profile).

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too

Yes but you are straight so understandable. OP was asking about bi or bi-curious men. And you haven’t blocked all men from viewing your profile - that is not possible

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Perhaps he means he's no longer available in the search facility for those demographics.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Blocked all men and trans messaging and viewing my profile too

Yes but you are straight so understandable. OP was asking about bi or bi-curious men. And you haven’t blocked all men from viewing your profile - that is not possible

Perhaps he means he's no longer available in the search facility for those demographics."

Well assume that was a given from the beginning as most straight men don't tick the looking for men and TV boxes. Who knows. We may never find out. Perhaps now in shock at realising men can now see his profile! Ah shock horror. Might catch something or turn him gay

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

They might want to do their own search rather than be inundated with messages

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"They might want to do their own search rather than be inundated with messages "

Indeed - as a couple of people have already commented. Keep up

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