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By *penbicouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

It's a silly and unnecessary feature that simply encourages people to message and avoid someone's profile completely.

For example, our profile says quite clearly that we don't want messages from straight men. But they don't even get to see it if they just press that button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please, so annoying commenting on a thread then getting private messages regarding said post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it please admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a bit of communication via it so long as it's related to the topic.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would be better removed, in my experience here. Forum threads fill with requests to users to keep discussion to the forum.

Often clicked in error too.

Best to leave those who are determined to chat, to have to visit the user's profile

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It's a silly and unnecessary feature that simply encourages people to message and avoid someone's profile completely.

For example, our profile says quite clearly that we don't want messages from straight men. But they don't even get to see it if they just press that button. "

They do get to see it, they're just choosing to ignore it. As an example, I clicked to message one of the posters on this thread to test it, and got the following warning:

"STOP. THINK.

*username* is not looking to meet Women

You are much more likely to get a reply from people who are looking for Women"

The most effective way to stop this is to simply block single men from messaging you at all.

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By *penbicouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The most effective way to stop this is to simply block single men from messaging you at all. "

What if you want bi men to contact you, but not straight ones? Or didn't want to meet with people who were 420 friendly? They'd have to read your profile to know that.

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By *penbicouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton


"They do get to see it, they're just choosing to ignore it. As an example, I clicked to message one of the posters on this thread to test it, and got the following warning:

"STOP. THINK.

*username* is not looking to meet Women"

Using the example I posted, they don't get to see it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Option would be great if was In the message filters for the forums too switch off/on private message but none of this the user isn't requiring message via the forum which just gets ignored and sent anyway a proper control off/on

Please x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

agree i hate the Reply privately button as it encourages people to not post on the forums and post directly to you witch mean less and less women and couples post on the forum because they get pissed of with the private mail from them ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nudge

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