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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Does that mean I've been blocked?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It means the sender deleted their profile

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Ohhh ok, thank you

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By *reedomDwarfCouple
over a year ago

Grain area

You can be blocked by the receiving end and it looks the same as if they have left the site - every message sent or received just disappears.

They haven't left, they've just blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages disappear if they leave.

If blocked the messages are still there but you can't reply to them.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Messages disappear if they leave.

If blocked the messages are still there but you can't reply to them."

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By *akingtheplungeMan
over a year ago

kent

I have had sent and received messages disappear, im not blocked and they have not left, so I Don't think it's either of those reasons

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have had sent and received messages disappear, im not blocked and they have not left, so I Don't think it's either of those reasons "

Then you may have clicked delete all as they don't disappear

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By *akingtheplungeMan
over a year ago

kent

I didn't think so, its happened lots of times and sounds like I'm not the only one it happens to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages only disappear in a few scenarios.

1) When you delete them.

2) When a member leaves the site by closing their account (even if you keep their messages or your sent items, they're purged).

3) If you are flagged for photo verification and 'hidden' until the verification photo is approved ((I previously made the stupid mistake of signing up with a VPN a few years ago and was automatically flagged within about five minutes, but managed to get a few messages off to people I knew) my inbox and sent items were wiped. I assume that means the sent items were erased from the sender's folders too as I temporarily 'ceased' to be on the site whilst pending photo verification). When approved and restored, the folders are empty.

I'm unsure as to what happens if they're suspended, but imagine it is the same as if you are flagged for photo verification or if you choose your own account (i.e. all communication on both sides is purged).

I am slightly forgetful, but I have this niggle in the back of my head whispering to me that I may have read somewhere that read messages are purged after six or twelve months, to clear up server space - can an admin confirm or reject that? I may be confusing it with another site.

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