FabSwingers.com forum: Three messages and no reply rule

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So….I keep reading and hearing from friends that it’s hell on fab with inboxes overflowing and multiple messages. Currently you get a nudge - you have messaged this person already. It down to the individual (stalker) to decide if they keep sending

Any chance you can build on that - you have messaged this person three times and they haven’t replied…..you can’t message them again until they reply to you.

Seems simple - and if there is a reply then there would be no ongoing limits to messages between person A and B.

Just seems to be the “flood” in mailboxes that kills this site for most people (most ladies - guys are mostly the culprits here).

By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

"So….I keep reading and hearing from friends that it’s hell on fab with inboxes overflowing and multiple messages. Currently you get a nudge - you have messaged this person already. It down to the individual (stalker) to decide if they keep sending

Sounds good idea but if i message someone and they read it but don't reply or wink then i assume they are not interested and won't message again.Least to say i don't get much fun on here.

Any chance you can build on that - you have messaged this person three times and they haven’t replied…..you can’t message them again until they reply to you.

Seems simple - and if there is a reply then there would be no ongoing limits to messages between person A and B.

Just seems to be the “flood” in mailboxes that kills this site for most people (most ladies - guys are mostly the culprits here).