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'Won't meet smokers'

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By *annyd57 OP   Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-Sea

What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry"

How much time did it waste?

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Some message us and when we see that on their profile. When we reply, "sorry we both smoke,so u wont meet us" they change thier minds and say they dont mind if we smoke. Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry

How much time did it waste? "

It takes me about a second to get to that point. I want that second back

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By *uff the Boner!Man
over a year ago

SWANSEA

Won't meet married men playing away would help save time too lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Surely you have to view a profile to see if you're compatible anyway ,so I don't think it wastes time .

We only know if someone might be for us after we have viewed their profile.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry"

Profiles already list what people have selected they will meet. You'll also see "not looking for" when they have actively blocked single guys from messaging them. Then there is the great big honking warning when you message someone who hasn't selected your gender and you're outside the age group but they havn't explicitly blocked you.

How many more red flags do you need?!

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry"
I agree

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry"
I used to put I'd meet smokers but I've changed my mind and now don't, smokers stink sorry no disguising it sorry

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Won't meet married men playing away would help save time too lol "

It would save SO much time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

Harry"

As a smoker I'm quite sure the "won't meet smoker" is the second lie after "I'm single/my wife agrees" so won't make any difference

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"What's the point of viewing someone's profile and then see this? Why can't this be added to the likes of 'won't see single men' and save people from wasting their time?

Thanks

HarryI used to put I'd meet smokers but I've changed my mind and now don't, smokers stink sorry no disguising it sorry "

It's very true ... they taste weird too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had that.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It is possible to filter smokers out in the advanced search

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"It is possible to filter smokers out in the advanced search "
I'd prefer to filter out smelly farters.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No different from those saying looking for a woman and end up looking at a guys profile you won't lose any sleep

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"It is possible to filter smokers out in the advanced search I'd prefer to filter out smelly farters. "

Yeah but those sneaky women always blame dogs/socks/us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about people who vape? I'm always unsure if this counts as smoking or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks "

We get this a lot too! Why even have it on their profile if they’ll make an exception? And that’s just it, with our boundaries we wouldn’t move them just cos we like someone’s pics or think they’re hot so we do question why others would

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks

We get this a lot too! Why even have it on their profile if they’ll make an exception? And that’s just it, with our boundaries we wouldn’t move them just cos we like someone’s pics or think they’re hot so we do question why others would

Mr"

Exactly..we are the same and for me a turn off to be someones exception lol

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"What about people who vape? I'm always unsure if this counts as smoking or not lol "

I always wonder this. Vapers don't smell in the same way smokers do

But I know some people actively hate people sucking on a vape every 4 seconds

So I guess you've just gotta have the conversation at some point perhaps.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks "

It's frustrating that this happens, because I get the reverse. "You say you won't meet smokers, but everyone makes exceptions". I don't. It's even on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I always wonder this. Vapers don't smell in the same way smokers do

But I know some people actively hate people sucking on a vape every 4 seconds

So I guess you've just gotta have the conversation at some point perhaps. "

Yeah, if I'm meeting I'll have a quick vape beforehand and then leave it in my pocket/on the side and not touch it till I'm alone again, purely out of respect for anyone who does say they won't meet smokers and because people who have their vape attached to their gubs, I just don't understand lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks

It's frustrating that this happens, because I get the reverse. "You say you won't meet smokers, but everyone makes exceptions". I don't. It's even on my profile "

I don’t understand it either?

Would never message someone if they have won’t meet smokers. Just chancing their luck on both sides

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We get messages from people all the time who have won’t meet smokers on their profile.

Then when we question why they have messaged as I smoke..normally say will make an exception.. ah no thanks

It's frustrating that this happens, because I get the reverse. "You say you won't meet smokers, but everyone makes exceptions". I don't. It's even on my profile

I don’t understand it either?

Would never message someone if they have won’t meet smokers. Just chancing their luck on both sides "

Agreed

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I know it's people's preference but never really got the won't meet smokers thing. I guess some might smell and taste of ashtrays but vast majority don't. I've met people before and not even realised until late a night they go outside to light up. Perhaps my senses are desensitised

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I know it's people's preference but never really got the won't meet smokers thing. I guess some might smell and taste of ashtrays but vast majority don't. I've met people before and not even realised until late a night they go outside to light up. Perhaps my senses are desensitised "

I get nosebleeds around even the residue of cigarette smoke. It's not super common, but for me that's why - nosebleeds kind of kill the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's people's preference but never really got the won't meet smokers thing. I guess some might smell and taste of ashtrays but vast majority don't. I've met people before and not even realised until late a night they go outside to light up. Perhaps my senses are desensitised "

I certainly have never been told I smell of ashtray quite the opposite. But it’s everyone’s own preference

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I know it's people's preference but never really got the won't meet smokers thing. I guess some might smell and taste of ashtrays but vast majority don't. I've met people before and not even realised until late a night they go outside to light up. Perhaps my senses are desensitised

I get nosebleeds around even the residue of cigarette smoke. It's not super common, but for me that's why - nosebleeds kind of kill the mood "

Oh really wow. Never heard of that. That must be difficult in life generally, especially a few years back.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I know it's people's preference but never really got the won't meet smokers thing. I guess some might smell and taste of ashtrays but vast majority don't. I've met people before and not even realised until late a night they go outside to light up. Perhaps my senses are desensitised

I get nosebleeds around even the residue of cigarette smoke. It's not super common, but for me that's why - nosebleeds kind of kill the mood

Oh really wow. Never heard of that. That must be difficult in life generally, especially a few years back. "

Yeah. It used to be pretty brutal. But it's not personal in the slightest (some people think it is!) - just don't like getting nosebleeds.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"What about people who vape? I'm always unsure if this counts as smoking or not lol "

I think technically it does, I vape but my profile states non smoker. I’m usually pretty upfront about it before a social though.

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By *helovesitwetCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"It is possible to filter smokers out in the advanced search "
very simple go on advance search and filter out what you don't want and then tick won't meet smokers ..and also put won't meet or will meet smokers in bold on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Won't meet married men playing away would help save time too lol "

Or anyone cheating without knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will not meet vapers

Smelly breath

Smelly feet

Armpits like fried onions

You know..

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

So often we’re messaged by “non smokers” that have a picture on their profile with a cigarette.

There’s more to selecting the right people than Fab filters.

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