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Pansexual sexual identity option please.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im pretty sure that there are more sexual identities other than just:

Heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual.....

As someone who classes themselves as Pansexual I hate having to put Bisexual just because there isn't the option

I'm sure there are others that feel the same?

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By *aomiDePlumeTV/TS
over a year ago

Hampton

I feel the same way.

I felt quite uncomfortable having to compromise with bi.

The whole thing is far broader than one or the other.

Can there be other options?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please add Hetero-flexible to that. A lot of people are happy to have incidental contact with the same pink bits during a multi person meet but are not attracted to same-sex and are not "curious" about it either.

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By *ackietv1TV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

There are over 300 genders. Can they all be added?

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

I identify as a microwave please add this gender

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I seem to be a wanker

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"There are over 300 genders. Can they all be added?"

Just highlights the absurdity of all the made up, off the hoof language.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Pan here aswell. It would be nice to have the options updated.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Or maybe a box that displays

"Please Ask!" In the sensuality field.

So then you're not having conform, and you can either explain more on your profile, or by message to those that ask.

I just pick straight as it is simpler than explaining what I'm attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt this mean 'gay'

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"There are over 300 genders. Can they all be added?"

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head


"Doesnt this mean 'gay'"

Pansexual doesn't mean Gay.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available. "

'commonly identified'?

Ah come on now ffs

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available.

'commonly identified'?

Ah come on now ffs"

Not too sure what the issue is here? There are lots of people out there who identify as non-binary or trans.

C x

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By *uggestableWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm pan, too, and would love to see this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd guess it could be difficult to include every single variation. Like a lot of things, the majority is used. Could use your profile to get whatever further information you feel is required?

Possibly a more workable solution would be to remove that option or have it so it can be left blank.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available.

'commonly identified'?

Ah come on now ffs

Not too sure what the issue is here? There are lots of people out there who identify as non-binary or trans.

C x"

Trans is already there. The latest fashion of 'non binary' doesnt merit a change to the site

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I identify as a microwave please add this gender "

You should try identifying as someone with a sense of humour slightly more advanced than Piers Morgan’s.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available.

'commonly identified'?

Ah come on now ffs

Not too sure what the issue is here? There are lots of people out there who identify as non-binary or trans.

C x

Trans is already there. The latest fashion of 'non binary' doesnt merit a change to the site"

Interesting that you consider it a fashion. Ah well, that's where our views of the world will never align so no point in continuing the discussion.

All the best.

C x

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By *issKitty6TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Trans is already there but lumped in with TV. Transvestite and Cross dressers aren't the same as trans.

TV and cd are valid but to put us all in the same group does us all a disservice. And as for the antiquated views being espoused on here, shame on you for being so disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gender options should definitely be expanded as long as it accompanies biological sex. I know that many people's attractions go beyond these days but for the vast majority of people, it still comes to just stripping it back to biological sex and one question, have you a cock or vagina?

There is no reason why the site can't be updated to reflect both sex and gender options.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"I'm pan, too, and would love to see this. "

What is pansexual? Sorry, just asking you because you were the latest person to claim it.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Totally agree. And when it comes to gender, at least add the most commonly identified like non-binary and trans rather than the outdated terms currently available.

'commonly identified'?

Ah come on now ffs

Not too sure what the issue is here? There are lots of people out there who identify as non-binary or trans.

C x

Trans is already there. The latest fashion of 'non binary' doesnt merit a change to the site

Interesting that you consider it a fashion. Ah well, that's where our views of the world will never align so no point in continuing the discussion.

All the best.

C x "

Come on. It's all fashion.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Trans is already there but lumped in with TV. Transvestite and Cross dressers aren't the same as trans.

TV and cd are valid but to put us all in the same group does us all a disservice. And as for the antiquated views being espoused on here, shame on you for being so disrespectful "

Shame is an interesting one on a sex site.

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By *exyLeeLeeWoman
over a year ago

leeds

How about just putting it in your profile. That way people will actually read a profile more hopefully.im pansexual but put gay as its easier. That way i can explain it if needed.

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I’m obsese but identify as curvy!

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"How about just putting it in your profile. That way people will actually read a profile more hopefully.im pansexual but put gay as its easier. That way i can explain it if needed. "
Not being disrespectful, just ignorant of certain terms, what does pansexual actually mean? , Mrs xxx

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x"

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender "
I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms"

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities."

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Boy this thread sure is a step back in time and not for the good.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow


"Boy this thread sure is a step back in time and not for the good."

Agreed! After reading this thread perhaps they need to set up a gender of “70s throwback”

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up "

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt this mean 'gay'

Pansexual doesn't mean Gay. "

So if you fancy someone regardless of their gender, I'd still say your a gay if your a bloke and go with another bloke Or a woman to go with a woman????? Or at least bi sexual surely?????? If a bloke goes with a bloke that makes him gay or if he likes men and women, hes bi

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Doesnt this mean 'gay'

Pansexual doesn't mean Gay.

So if you fancy someone regardless of their gender, I'd still say your a gay if your a bloke and go with another bloke Or a woman to go with a woman????? Or at least bi sexual surely?????? If a bloke goes with a bloke that makes him gay or if he likes men and women, hes bi"

“A gay”? This whole comment is making my head hurt.

Please read the thread above and do some research, for the love of god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gay......yes, a gay, descriptive, a gay meaning singular gay, not a group, you might want to get some paracetamol or ibuprofen if your head hurts

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x"

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying? "

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x"

I dont need to look into it. They are the same thing

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x

I dont need to look into it. They are the same thing"

They absolutely aren't but if you chose to continue to form misguided opinions based on a significant misunderstanding of facts, that's entirely up to you.

C x

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x

I dont need to look into it. They are the same thing

They absolutely aren't but if you chose to continue to form misguided opinions based on a significant misunderstanding of facts, that's entirely up to you.

C x"

So male and female are biological sex, but they aren't genders?

Or are they genders also, so in turn are just 'social constructs'? Or are they just 'social constructs' when being referred to as a gender?

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x

I dont need to look into it. They are the same thing

They absolutely aren't but if you chose to continue to form misguided opinions based on a significant misunderstanding of facts, that's entirely up to you.

C x

So male and female are biological sex, but they aren't genders?

Or are they genders also, so in turn are just 'social constructs'? Or are they just 'social constructs' when being referred to as a gender? "

If you Google "the difference between gender and biological sex", all the information you'll ever need is right there.

C x

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can anyone tell me what the term means, its confusing, Mrs x

A 2 second google search would have told you it is attraction to others regardless of gender I did that but just more confused, isn't it the same as bisexuality, read that even the LQBTQ+ community are confused by some of the terms

No, not the same, that’s the entire point of this post. Bisexuality refers to being attracted to men and woman (2 = bi) whereas the OP is advocating for the addition of pansexuality as it means you are open to all gender identities.

Which is basically bisexual.

As there are clearly only 2 genders. Until we started making some up

Gender is a social construct. It's all made up.

I believe what you are referring to is biological sex which is entirely different to gender.

C x

So male and female is just made up is it? That what you're saying?

No, not in the slightest, as male and female are definitions of biological sex. It might be worthwhile going and looking into the difference between gender and biological sex. Then you'll understand my comment.

C x

I dont need to look into it. They are the same thing

They absolutely aren't but if you chose to continue to form misguided opinions based on a significant misunderstanding of facts, that's entirely up to you.

C x

So male and female are biological sex, but they aren't genders?

Or are they genders also, so in turn are just 'social constructs'? Or are they just 'social constructs' when being referred to as a gender?

If you Google "the difference between gender and biological sex", all the information you'll ever need is right there.

C x"

Ah i see. No answer for me then. Fair enough

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

Everyone loves a label.

Gender debates drives me nuts!

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Everyone loves a label.

Gender debates drives me nuts!"

They drive me nuts too cus people can't keep their narrow minded hateful mouths shut.

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick


"I identify as a microwave please add this gender

You should try identifying as someone with a sense of humour slightly more advanced than Piers Morgan’s. "

This might be the best thing I've ever seen on fab. All the tits included. No notes.

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