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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham

In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site?

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Search engine through messages. Or a connection between the profile and sent messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "

Been able to type a title or a few words on each picture or video we post

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By *penMindedMaleMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "
ability to search block list my typing in a username

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

A choice to hide “online” blue dot, along with when last seen.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

All profiles must be photo verified before being able to message

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By *ity_BoyMan
over a year ago

London

Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks "

Do they? Today I learned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smaller areas so eg east anglia .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Search ability on all data fields that users enter, including build, height etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Differentiate between meet in person and photo verified filters.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks

Do they? Today I learned!

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We have 7 that say they're three weeks old.....so.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message replies that say "Yes I will fuck you"

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By *artymanMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sort options on search, for example distance, at present the results are returned in any order.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Better filters so people can't add a pic or change age to message.

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham

I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

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There is no easy way to remedy that though

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham

Amen to that.

I am East Anglia too. I “can accommodate” … but it’s a 4 hour round trip for you to come to a party at my house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Higher character limit on updates. If twitter sorted that shit then so can fab

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though"

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "

Limit single men (maybe couples too?) to 5 ‘first’ messages on a single day - obviously, enable them (us) to continue a conversation to any reply they (we) receive.

Maybe, increase that slightly for verified/Site Supporters?

It would force men to read profiles and only target good matches, saving women/couples from being bombarded with messages. That would be good for us men too, as it would increase the likelihood that our messages would get read - then maybe we’ll receive responses…

Maybe put a limit on the number of words that must be in that first message (i.e. A minimum of 100 words) or similar?

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham

Yes - I am wondering if Fabs was inadvertently designed (from the outset) with an inherently male perspective?

To a certain extent that’s understandable, a lot of single guys pay the bulk of the fees - they are an important customer.

Maybe we do need a bit of a re think?

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham

Yes - I am wondering if Fabs was inadvertently designed (from the outset) with an inherently male perspective?

To a certain extent that’s understandable, a lot of single guys pay the bulk of the fees - they are an important customer.

Maybe we do need a bit of a re think?

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By *heekyfun84Man
over a year ago

county durham

Better verifications for new accounts to stop the fakes they must photo verify or even video verify within 24 hours or account deleted

Allow to search the meets advertised looking for your sex as you can when generally looking/searching for people

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

They should make it more easily accessible to Scandinavian women

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN

there are many members who live permanently in Spain - so perhaps a Spanish page and home location would be great. There are pages for the USA, Australia Canada etc which are hardly used but we in Spain do get loads of messages from people in the UK thinking that Portsmouth is our location

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

A faceplam emoji.

A

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


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Maybe put a limit on the number of words that must be in that first message (i.e. A minimum of 100 words) or similar?"

The very first meet we ever had was a one line comment from a single male that made us laugh so much we answered then met three days later. We would have lost out on a great meet had it been limited to more words.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

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Or use the tools provided and filter out single men

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Better filters so people can't add a pic or change age to message."

They can only change age once

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Differentiate between meet in person and photo verified filters."

You can search for verified by meet only to get round this

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? ability to search block list my typing in a username "

If you are the desktop you can click on "find" from the three dots at the right then enter the name to find it on the page. Not sure if there is the same way or equivalent on the phone but I am sure there must be

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Search ability on all data fields that users enter, including build, height etc"

This

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London


"Search ability on all data fields that users enter, including build, height etc"

This and other users ability to search based on what they are looking for.

I am South Asian and I have come across profiles saying they don't want to meet Asians. I respect their preference. Instead,

1) They could have an option to choose ethnicities, height and build they are looking for along with age preferences which are already available

2) Then I could have a search filter to look only for profiles whose preferences match my profile.

This would save a lot of time for both the people involved.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

The ability to block some one who's pics or video's you may have fab'ed

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

A better filter to out women who are really looking to be paid for sex pr only fans

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By *oung GunnerMan
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

To be given the opportunity to meet someone , all I see is you must be tall, you must be able to hold an amazing conversation , we are who we are .

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

This is actually my decision suggestion. But posting here because making the changes should be straight forward.

If I block someone, the meets/events posted by them should not be visible when I search for meets/events in an area. I can see some profiles who I am never going to meet. It would be nice to filter out the meets posted by them

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

Or use the tools provided and filter out single men "

The comment was very much tongue in cheek

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? ability to search block list my typing in a username "

If your on the desktop version, pess Ctrl+F, type the name and then press return.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"A better filter to out women who are really looking to be paid for sex pr only fans"

Report is the best option as "outing " people is against site rules

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

Or use the tools provided and filter out single men

The comment was very much tongue in cheek "

With that emoji? Ok

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By *inkyyorkshireMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

The ability to add comments on photos and videos you like or intrest you rather than just a Fab!

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

County searches for meets rather than such a broad area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A list of likes and dislikes like Bumble has

So if I'm into rock, only what a particular ethnicity etc - I can then dig down further and do a more specific search

I'm sure people would pay more or at least you would get more subscribers

Bumble's way of doing stuff is quality

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When searching in Ireland, and specifically in the Republic of Ireland, the ability to search for members other than by county.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The endless crying and moaning from unread messages the minute one moans place them in cool down mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "

For the admin to care when you have issues with the site

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By *illy71Couple
over a year ago

Staines

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By *illy71Couple
over a year ago

Staines


"Better filters so people can't add a pic or change age to message."

By Lilly71Find posts by Lilly71 Couple

just this minute!

You can only change age once, in case you made a typo, they did that for the reason you state

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site?

For the admin to care when you have issues with the site "

But they doooo

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By *illy71Couple
over a year ago

Staines

To have more attributes, race, hair colour etc.and be able to filter on those, plus to specify age range for each of a couple, not have the range applied to either/or

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Minimum cock pictures allowed IE one

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I think it would be good that if a profile gets reported by say 3 different profiles for bad behaviour or abuse they get an automatic ban.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked should be BLOCKED

1. No appearing on my blocked list or theirs, which shows when online, status a updates and profile photo

2. They cant see your forums posts or replies, which sometimes discusses times for socials etc.

4. They cant see when you’re online!

How dangerous that blocked people can still see the above! :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

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Ban all entitled couples

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By *erlicanMan
over a year ago

Newbury

Also be able to comment. There are some fabulous videos here, and a 'fab' doesn't seem enough to show proper appreciation.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"I think it would be good that if a profile gets reported by say 3 different profiles for bad behaviour or abuse they get an automatic ban."

Surely it's just so easy to set up another profile though.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"I think it would be good that if a profile gets reported by say 3 different profiles for bad behaviour or abuse they get an automatic ban.

Surely it's just so easy to set up another profile though. "

Yes but I guess if they carry on being obnoxious that would get banned too soon enough

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Able to restrict people and fabbing from viewing your profile based on gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pagination of forum threads!

Better search facility

More options like Bumble has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way the site has gone downhill over the years, I`m tempted to say just close it.

Way too much time spent trying to get a meet nowadays - and then when you do, they turn out to be nothing like on their photos - and their house is like a shit tip.

It's largely become just another social media inane chat site now (seriously just look at the shite talked on here) - a real pity because it used to be fantastic.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think it would be good that if a profile gets reported by say 3 different profiles for bad behaviour or abuse they get an automatic ban."

That could be used maliciously by three different friends. However, Admin have lots of things in place to deal with reports and if a report is verified people could end up with a warning then a 5 day ban and a total ban if people are constantly breaking rules

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Way too much time spent trying to get a meet nowadays - and then when you do, they turn out to be nothing like on their photos - and their house is like a shit tip.

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I am not sure Admin can make people do their housework before a meet

For the pic thing though, I would report so Admin can check it out

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think it would be good that if a profile gets reported by say 3 different profiles for bad behaviour or abuse they get an automatic ban.

That could be used maliciously by three different friends. However, Admin have lots of things in place to deal with reports and if a report is verified people could end up with a warning then a 5 day ban and a total ban if people are constantly breaking rules"

Or a total ban without any warning depending on what the report is

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

The search criteria and sexual preferences definitely need to be expanded

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By *ity_BoyMan
over a year ago

London


"Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks

Do they? Today I learned!

We have 7 that say they're three weeks old.....so.........

A"

Well, they disappear after some time. I think it is around 3 weeks.

Makes messaging people who don't use the website frequently rather useless as they don't know you've messaged them when they log back in.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "

One of my photos being number one in hot photos and lots of couples contacting me for a meet

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Blocked should be BLOCKED

1. No appearing on my blocked list or theirs, which shows when online, status a updates and profile photo

2. They cant see your forums posts or replies, which sometimes discusses times for socials etc.

4. They cant see when you’re online!

How dangerous that blocked people can still see the above! :"

Totally agree with this. I don’t understand why it’s not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be non-sexual interests included somewhere.

For instance, I'd love be to go sailing again...with 'benefits'.

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By *onkey 2023Man
over a year ago

Cross Hands

The ability to set an option to ‘ping’ up on the phones of others when you’re within a mile or so.

Let’s say you’re out somewhere, feeling horny and would love to find someone who is thinking the same. You activate the selection button on your phone, and if they have the selection button activated on their phone as they are also feeling horny, then the phones ‘ping’ each other.

It would give the option to find likeminded people. Could then message each other and take matters from there...just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They seriously need to get someone to revamp it first and foremost and then start adding new features.

I'm a developer with 20+ years experience and would quite happily help out in exchange for membership.

The barebones of what the site does is good - just needs bringing up to scratch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Differentiate between meet in person and photo verified filters.

You can search for verified by meet only to get round this"

Yes I know that, what I mean is the mail I get. I have my filter set to allow only verified profiles to mail me, but that means either photo verified or meet verified can mail me. I don't want those who are only photo verified to mail me, I find that it is predominantly those who send the nonsense messages.

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I want a like button for posts/comments in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Search engine through messages. Or a connection between the profile and sent messages. "

Please explain......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why limit single men? Does that mean we limit single women too?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"The ability to set an option to ‘ping’ up on the phones of others when you’re within a mile or so.

Let’s say you’re out somewhere, feeling horny and would love to find someone who is thinking the same. You activate the selection button on your phone, and if they have the selection button activated on their phone as they are also feeling horny, then the phones ‘ping’ each other.

It would give the option to find likeminded people. Could then message each other and take matters from there...just a thought "

Sorry but I’d leave Fab if this became a thing.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"Yes - I am wondering if Fabs was inadvertently designed (from the outset) with an inherently male perspective?

To a certain extent that’s understandable, a lot of single guys pay the bulk of the fees - they are an important customer.

Everything is male centred.. that's why they message what they've seen in porn they have no reality life clue.. and neither do some women

Maybe we do need a bit of a re think? "

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By *arrior PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? ability to search block list my typing in a username "

You can search for words through the functionality of your Web browser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? ability to search block list my typing in a username "

Ctrl+F or a search function like ‘find on page’ on your mobile browser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That if you block a user on one profile it blocks them on any additional profiles they may have as well. Prossibly wishful thinking as profiles aren't linked x

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By *izhome1Couple
over a year ago

North West Leicestershire

To have a delete folder so that you can get a message back if you have deleted it by accident

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands


"They seriously need to get someone to revamp it first and foremost and then start adding new features.

I'm a developer with 20+ years experience and would quite happily help out in exchange for membership.

The barebones of what the site does is good - just needs bringing up to scratch"

This, badly needs an upgrade behind the scenes to allow a lot these great ideas to be put in place.

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By *ity_BoyMan
over a year ago

London


"The ability to set an option to ‘ping’ up on the phones of others when you’re within a mile or so.

Let’s say you’re out somewhere, feeling horny and would love to find someone who is thinking the same. You activate the selection button on your phone, and if they have the selection button activated on their phone as they are also feeling horny, then the phones ‘ping’ each other.

It would give the option to find likeminded people. Could then message each other and take matters from there...just a thought "

This just sounds really creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a separate folder for friends messages rather than them being jumbled in with all the other messages and missed

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks

Do they? Today I learned!

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Only if the recipients inbox fills up!

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By *pecialK87Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

The option to filter profiles by weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The option to filter profiles by weight."

...and cholesterol level.

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By *ughandJayneCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Maybe if Gran Canaria ( in particular Playa del Ingles ) could have its own sub-forum and club listings that don't seem to be in the Channel Islands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that have straight on profile being able to message you if you are bi or gay.admin and moderators taking a Draconian attitude to some things on forums and also they should do something about the endless people who only seem to stay on here for a few days messing people about ,but keep coming back under different profile names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what suggestions you post on here fab don't bother to listen or do anything and ignore your suggestions

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By *otty BikerMan
over a year ago

Warrington

An in app chat facility as WhatsApp or messenger, in addition to emails, it's make for much easier chatting.!

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"An in app chat facility as WhatsApp or messenger, in addition to emails, it's make for much easier chatting.! "

Definitely this

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"The ability to set an option to ‘ping’ up on the phones of others when you’re within a mile or so.

Let’s say you’re out somewhere, feeling horny and would love to find someone who is thinking the same. You activate the selection button on your phone, and if they have the selection button activated on their phone as they are also feeling horny, then the phones ‘ping’ each other.

It would give the option to find likeminded people. Could then message each other and take matters from there...just a thought "

Sounds like a great option for gay/bi-men. Can't see many others wanting to use that Well there would be thousands of straight single men using it but maybe only a handful of single ladies or couples. There are exceptions but this isn't generally the place where "I'm in the area nearby and feeling horny" works very much.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"The way the site has gone downhill over the years, I`m tempted to say just close it.

Way too much time spent trying to get a meet nowadays - and then when you do, they turn out to be nothing like on their photos - and their house is like a shit tip.

It's largely become just another social media inane chat site now (seriously just look at the shite talked on here) - a real pity because it used to be fantastic."

How about you just leave if so bad and not close it as quite a lot of us enjoy and get great value from the site

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

A year or two ago I would have said some form of chat function like kik or telegram including the option to create groups (esecpaily for 4 way couples chat) but these days not even sure that is needed. Think it would too open for abuse and people hassling others unless very strict restrictions were in place. I guess it could be an opt-in function. But then don't think it would make a huge improvement in use of the site in terms of actually getting to meet people.

I think perhaps the biggest thing to address is some way to stem the tide of ladies (and couples) getting flooded with messages especially when new. I know so many ladies basically given up with Fab and female half of couples who rarely look as they can't be arsed to deal with the hassle.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"The option to filter profiles by weight."

I’d like to see IQ filter for sure.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

I think perhaps the biggest thing to address is some way to stem the tide of ladies (and couples) getting flooded with messages especially when new. "

There is, there are filters to use here.

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

New profiles get tips on where to find the tools to do this

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"An in app chat facility as WhatsApp or messenger, in addition to emails, it's make for much easier chatting.! "

Or you could just use another app to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock/pussy/arsehole pick filter. If your click no in the settings you won't see these pics

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By *om RakewellMan
over a year ago

stafford

I would say Stop free membership on the site after the 1st Month completely maybe? .. make it an introductory offer .. and not allow another new membership created from the same IP address or phone number perhaps for a further month?

Other than that use a ‘ you stay ,you pay ‘ approach instead for all members .

Definitely would sort out the recent increase in cloaked paid services being advertised on here now

just through creating a free membership with one photo and adding ‘ my Kik id is kind of tells you what they are doing doesn’t it !

Would put a stop to I should think most of the time wasting kids on here creating fake accounts and the multi profiled / same person issues that happen in here too . Which skews the data just a tiny bit if nothing else when one person has 3 different ?

All no doubt unlikely to happen but I’d say useful if it did :/

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

An unlimited supply of freely available females. lol.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

To not be able to see any profiles that have blocked single guys. So for example, on the who's online, only show people who are looking for guys.

To be easily able to see when someone has responded to a forum post.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" .

Definitely would sort out the recent increase in cloaked paid services being advertised on here now

just through creating a free membership with one photo and adding ‘ my Kik id is kind of tells you what they are doing doesn’t it !

"

It does. Please report

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By *winga2Man
over a year ago

Stranraer

Ability to block people properly, including seeing posts in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notifications for replies on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I search meets, filter to only see those where they want to meet single blokes (for example)

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By *un beforeMan
over a year ago

london colney

Getting rid of all the fake couple profiles and banning there IPs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All profiles must be photo verified before being able to message "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smaller areas so eg east anglia ."

Oh you mean specific post codes, I think you'll find that's already in place

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

Some sort of regular feedback from the site owners!

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By *otty BikerMan
over a year ago

Warrington

We've got an "I think it's Fab " button, how about an

"I think it's Sad" one too for all those pics that deserve it lol

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By *uke Duchess llCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Cut down on the amount of single guys on site,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All profiles must be photo verified before being able to message

Definitely this "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better communicating with each other, but that's not down to the site but us individuals to do. Unfortunately, some can't be even bothered to read profiles and seem to ask questions to which they've already an answer for. So no, I've no constructive feedback really since I believe the site is already reasonably well constructed for it to be a success. It's simply down to us individuals to make it better by effectively communicating with one another and to respect each others wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cut down on the amount of single guys on site,"

Ban all arrogant couples

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

A meet

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By *.DickyFitzwell..Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Smaller areas so eg east anglia .

Oh you mean specific post codes, I think you'll find that's already in place "

you are correct with post code being available, but East Anglia is not in the Midlands, which is a vast area on its own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cut down on the amount of single guys on site,

Ban all arrogant couples "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some sort of regular feedback from the site owners!"
definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notifications for replies on the forums."
yes this is a good idea

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Search ability on all data fields that users enter, including build, height etc"

This… with more options and details added…

For example the limited sexual orientation options are not very 2023

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By *harlienbobbyCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? ability to search block list my typing in a username "

Doesn't a "search in page" work?

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By *harlienbobbyCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Unread messages not disappearing after 2 weeks "

I find they only dissappear if the user deletes their account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be the ability to look at profiles and have a link to their forum posts.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Blocked should be BLOCKED

1. No appearing on my blocked list or theirs, which shows when online, status a updates and profile photo

2. They cant see your forums posts or replies, which sometimes discusses times for socials etc.

4. They cant see when you’re online!

"

Absolutely agree.

Also, more varied sexuality/gender options. And it's been said (ignored) a million times, but separate TS from TV/CD, they are not the same thing, and TS is a hella outdated term anyway. I like fab a lot but a little getting-with-the-times spruce up wouldn't go amiss. The formatting is kinda dated.

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By *xplorer1980Man
over a year ago

Stockport

An app

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By *ircumMan
over a year ago

Eastham Wirral

Less men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They seriously need to get someone to revamp it first and foremost and then start adding new features.

I'm a developer with 20+ years experience and would quite happily help out in exchange for membership.

The barebones of what the site does is good - just needs bringing up to scratch"

Owners... Just use chat gpt, save yourself the hassle lol

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By *exySiren01Woman
over a year ago

RCT

Not losing verifications when a user leaves the site...you should be able to keep the verification but just have their username replaced with something like previous site user

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By *un4allxxCouple
over a year ago

Sudbury

make it cover EU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper emojis would be nice

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By *exfreakssCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The ability to add comments on photos and videos you like or intrest you rather than just a Fab!"
agreed

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham


"Not losing verifications when a user leaves the site...you should be able to keep the verification but just have their username replaced with something like previous site user"

That’s a good / sensible suggestion.

(I didn’t know you could lose verifications),

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By *eynard_Argent OP   Man
over a year ago

Witham


"Less men "

Reducing the pot of paying or potentially paying customers would not be a good idea.

Improving the ratio would be a good idea though.

Just need to think of enhancements to achieve this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not losing verifications when a user leaves the site...you should be able to keep the verification but just have their username replaced with something like previous site user

Yes brilliant idea

That’s a good / sensible suggestion.

(I didn’t know you could lose verifications), "

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By *loydyMan
over a year ago

British


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "
being able to actually talk to admin about bans and things

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Not losing verifications when a user leaves the site...you should be able to keep the verification but just have their username replaced with something like previous site user"

Oh yes, it’s a good idea

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Not losing verifications when a user leaves the site...you should be able to keep the verification but just have their username replaced with something like previous site user"

I also agree with this, although, I can appreciate how the verification system could be abused this way, as you could start spoof profiles and verify yourself then leave, and several times over……

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Make it a full pay site. This would reduce the amount of fakers and time wasters massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a "scratch and sniff" photo gallery...eeeeugh!

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By *orthernMonkey67Man
over a year ago

Rhondda Cynon Taff

Being able to set a minimum message length for replies recieved... Sick of the 'wanna fuck' messages, you know the ones.. 2 words or a one liner... Means no effort put in at all... Oh & the copy & paste messages that tell you how sexy you look in your pics... When you havent put any pics to public... Yeah you know the copy & paste ones that you can spot a mile away...especially when theyve sent it on a regular daily basis to you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be good to be able to pick more than 1 interest when searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? being able to actually talk to admin about bans and things"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a full pay site. This would reduce the amount of fakers and time wasters massively "

I'm on other sites where you have to pay ... you still get loads of fakes and timewasters etc.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Make it a full pay site. This would reduce the amount of fakers and time wasters massively

I'm on other sites where you have to pay ... you still get loads of fakes and timewasters etc."

I use another site, which only charges men to use it, but it does mean there are far far less guys in there, than here. Using a site which has a 50/50 split is a far better experience than Fab at times

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"In your opinion what is the ONE thing to change or address that would improve the Fabswingers site? "

People accepting that it's just a contact site. Nothing more.

It offers no guarantees, it's not responsible for people deciding who is 'genuine', suitable or good potentials to meet, not a babysitting service that manages interactions and that no matter what bells, whistles, gadgets and gizmos were added - it still won't make anyone more successful when it comes to meeting others.

So maybe some way of managing people's expectations when joining up would be an absolute godsend......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a full pay site. This would reduce the amount of fakers and time wasters massively

I'm on other sites where you have to pay ... you still get loads of fakes and timewasters etc.

I use another site, which only charges men to use it, but it does mean there are far far less guys in there, than here. Using a site which has a 50/50 split is a far better experience than Fab at times "

I prefer Fab how it is

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Make it a full pay site. This would reduce the amount of fakers and time wasters massively

I'm on other sites where you have to pay ... you still get loads of fakes and timewasters etc.

I use another site, which only charges men to use it, but it does mean there are far far less guys in there, than here. Using a site which has a 50/50 split is a far better experience than Fab at times

I prefer Fab how it is "

60% single guys, 35% couples, and 5% single women? Just like your average swinger club night?

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Make it more in you different gender identities and couple’s dynamics. Maybe make a club account setting too

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Be able to add a video without having to be meet verified…..:

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Thread closing at 175 posts…..Why?

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By *dftroubleMan
over a year ago

Newport

Being able to search new photos in your area

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By *wm19Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Better messaging system. Separate inbox’s for friends or hotlist profiles. More variables that you can search by.

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By *onic2Man
over a year ago

Bromley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a good idea to have two inbox messages so we can distinguish between Friends n non friends.?

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By *reampie Cleaner 69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I am surprised no one has mentioned the male female ratio yet.

There is no easy way to remedy that though

Don't allow any more single male accounts...

"

And why is that then?

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

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By *opking99Man
over a year ago

Wales

Searches for videos?

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Age groups.....over 50s

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By *uncan LovelengthMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Being able to narrow search by body type. Being able to see just fabulous BBWs for example would be amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search by cock size and locality

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By *m_hardMan
over a year ago

Swaffham

It will not change much no matter what you wish for. The owners don't seem to care or want to invest in developing more functionality. Just look at the web site to get a feel for how dated the whole thing is. I will not be surprised if one day it is simply switched off and that will be that.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It will not change much no matter what you wish for. The owners don't seem to care or want to invest in developing more functionality. Just look at the web site to get a feel for how dated the whole thing is. I will not be surprised if one day it is simply switched off and that will be that."

It's been aroumd since 2006 and the most popular swinging site in the UK for years.

It's going nowhere.

Seems the only people who feel it needs any major changes are those that struggle to use the site as it is and find meets. If, in its present form it doesn't work for anyone then maybe it's not the site that's the reason.....

A

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow


"It will not change much no matter what you wish for. The owners don't seem to care or want to invest in developing more functionality. Just look at the web site to get a feel for how dated the whole thing is. I will not be surprised if one day it is simply switched off and that will be that.

It's been aroumd since 2006 and the most popular swinging site in the UK for years.

It's going nowhere.

Seems the only people who feel it needs any major changes are those that struggle to use the site as it is and find meets. If, in its present form it doesn't work for anyone then maybe it's not the site that's the reason.....

A"

Don’t think that’s entirely true. We are one of the many couples or singles who get meets and feel it should be updated. Better search options, updating of genders etc

To say that only people who don’t get meets want changes is a bit unfair.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It will not change much no matter what you wish for. The owners don't seem to care or want to invest in developing more functionality. Just look at the web site to get a feel for how dated the whole thing is. I will not be surprised if one day it is simply switched off and that will be that.

It's been aroumd since 2006 and the most popular swinging site in the UK for years.

It's going nowhere.

Seems the only people who feel it needs any major changes are those that struggle to use the site as it is and find meets. If, in its present form it doesn't work for anyone then maybe it's not the site that's the reason.....

A

Don’t think that’s entirely true. We are one of the many couples or singles who get meets and feel it should be updated. Better search options, updating of genders etc

To say that only people who don’t get meets want changes is a bit unfair. "

It was a generalisation of course. But it's a free site. You don't have to pay to arrange meets, run your profile and contact others, unlike many sites/apps.

Even if you choose to pay it's a fiver a month. But that's personal choice.

In an ideal world we'd all get what we wanted, the site would have each and every upgrade suggested. But that costs money. Any for the vast majority wouldn't significantly change either their experience of the site nor the 'success' they have on it.

It works as it is. Look at it this way - you don't need a ferrari to drive from a to b. You don't need to fly first class to get from a to b. Likewise you don't need to have expensive professional photos on your profile to attract interest, nor hire a scriptwriter to create your profile text.

Above all else, its a contact site. Nothing more all you need for that is a 'shop window' of images, some words, some basic info about yourself (age, height, gender, sexuality etc) and the ability to send and recieve messages. All of which have existed since 2006.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the single most infuriating things is when a women reads but doesn't reply to a message, this leave the man in limbo, not knowing if the women is interested or not. Understand that women can't reply to everyone otherwise they run out of messages, so how about a simple thanks but not interested "button" ???

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"One of the single most infuriating things is when a women reads but doesn't reply to a message, this leave the man in limbo, not knowing if the women is interested or not. Understand that women can't reply to everyone otherwise they run out of messages, so how about a simple thanks but not interested "button" ???"

So many other threads about this. When users have replied with a "thanks, but no thanks" they get bombarded with offensive and abusive messages.

A read and no reply means there is no reply. Just accept that and move on.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"One of the single most infuriating things is when a women reads but doesn't reply to a message, this leave the man in limbo, not knowing if the women is interested or not. Understand that women can't reply to everyone otherwise they run out of messages, so how about a simple thanks but not interested "button" ???"

If she was interested then she'd reply.

Simples.

A

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

It's good that I can block men from messaging me but would be better if there was a option for me to block men from viewing my profile and fabbing my pictures too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's good that I can block men from messaging me but would be better if there was a option for me to block men from viewing my profile and fabbing my pictures too"

You can turn off fabs but that would mean nobody could fab your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the single most infuriating things is when a women reads but doesn't reply to a message, this leave the man in limbo, not knowing if the women is interested or not. Understand that women can't reply to everyone otherwise they run out of messages, so how about a simple thanks but not interested "button" ???

If she was interested then she'd reply.

Simples.

A"

I get that, but come on we are supposed to be adults, a little bit of manners wouldn't surely go a miss

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