FabSwingers.com forum: Search Filter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now I know a lot aren’t going to like this one

But does anyone else think there needs to be a physique filter in the search options

For all genders that is

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Yes

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

"Now I know a lot aren’t going to like this one

But does anyone else think there needs to be a physique filter in the search options

For all genders that is"

Absolutely.

We aren’t looking for endearing personalities

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

No. Because not everyone uses the same descriptive scale.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Oh!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm not sure it would work with the current physique options?

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

"Now I know a lot aren’t going to like this one

But does anyone else think there needs to be a physique filter in the search options

For all genders that is"

What’s the criteria? Weight? Body fat %? BMI? Self description? Understand where you are coming from as we all have preferences but probably impossible to put in place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Because not everyone uses the same descriptive scale."

I agree

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

No it's so subjective.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I struggled to know where to put myself in the fab categories. In some lights I have a six pack so that makes me athletic. But I also have big boobs so that makes me curvy. I have incredible legs that put me into fabulous. And stretch marks and a mum tum. So I went with average.

But you do you. I'd like to be filtered out of your searches.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"We aren’t looking for endearing personalities "

I am. Sure it's nice to enjoy some of the visual delights fab has to offer but it's the personality that sparks my interest and makes me consider a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really needed? Surely you can see from photos how someone looks?

As others have said the deceptions mean different things to different people.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Just like age, height, marriage status, location etc it would take the person to actually be honest about their size. So it's a flawed search from the start tbf

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Just like age, height, marriage status, location etc it would take the person to actually be honest about their size. So it's a flawed search from the start tbf"

That's actually true

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope because I don't think you'd be happy with the results. People are happy within their own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very subjective thing though, the way people describe themselves. I can't see it working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A filter like that would probably be unworkable.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Now I know a lot aren’t going to like this one

But does anyone else think there needs to be a physique filter in the search options

For all genders that is"

Define these.

Average ?

Curvy ?

Fabulous ?

And then work out if large relates to height, weight or shape?

Does athletic mean long distance runner thin or shot putter muscular? Rugby prop forward or leaner winger?

Does slim mean just lean or a complete lack of body fat?

Given that people fib about age, height, dick size, location, jobs (yes they do) and are going to be very selective about the tick boxes they use so that they attract others as best they can.....

Can you not just make a judgement based on the pretty pictures?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Judging by yours it’s very difficult, as people don’t like to reveal the truth.

I’m noticing the people who disagree are the ones self conscious about their physique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by yours it’s very difficult, as people don’t like to reveal the truth.

I’m noticing the people who disagree are the ones self conscious about their physique "

I am not self conscious about my physique.

If you don't want people to disagree with you, don't start threads on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by yours it’s very difficult, as people don’t like to reveal the truth.

I’m noticing the people who disagree are the ones self conscious about their physique "

Also you say call yourself "Average" but you are actually skinny. Average I would fuck, skinny I would not. Therefore the message filter you suggest would not work for me

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Jesus it was here being debated you didn't have to be rude man

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Judging by yours it’s very difficult, as people don’t like to reveal the truth.

I’m noticing the people who disagree are the ones self conscious about their physique "

Me never am I'm very happy and I come as a whole package

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I struggled to know where to put myself in the fab categories. In some lights I have a six pack so that makes me athletic. But I also have big boobs so that makes me curvy. I have incredible legs that put me into fabulous. And stretch marks and a mum tum. So I went with average.

But you do you. I'd like to be filtered out of your searches.

That’s the issue with the current body type selections though fabulous means different things on how you apply and it has been used as a term for very large which if you look at the current selections seems to follow that trend

Not to say your legs aren’t fabulous though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by yours it’s very difficult, as people don’t like to reveal the truth.

I’m noticing the people who disagree are the ones self conscious about their physique "

How did you reach that conclusion, after reading the replies?

I think this tells us a lot more about you than anything else.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Not only do I find it awkward to know where to put myself others will always disagree.

When I first joined I put myself as large. I got nice comments telling me I was ample or curvy and not to say I was large but when I put ample or curvy I got nasty comments telling me I was fat.

I now just put fabulous people can make their own judgement from my pics.

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