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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that? "

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that? "

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that? "

If it helps, I've looked at your profile and now wish I didn't

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Bugger I so wanted to ignore this but couldn’t help myself…. Profile checked

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By *nA - TGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stratford

I did the same.

Tut.

I apologise profusely of course. I mean what a thing to do.

Sorry.

Gary Lineker would be comparing me to 1930s Germany. I will go and rebuke myself for looking at your amazing profile.

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Wow! Transphobic? Really?

We don't get single men on there as we don't want them, was just wondering that's all

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

If it helps, I've looked at your profile and now wish I didn't "

Any particular reason?

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching . "

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We don't care who looks at our profile but isn't the who's looked at you supposed to be people that match your preferences? That is my point, nothing transphobic about it whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't care who looks at our profile but isn't the who's looked at you supposed to be people that match your preferences? That is my point, nothing transphobic about it whatsoever. "

No is the simple answer. People might search, see you in forums or whatever and look. There isn’t an algorithm matching people.

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We don't care who looks at our profile but isn't the who's looked at you supposed to be people that match your preferences? That is my point, nothing transphobic about it whatsoever.

No is the simple answer. People might search, see you in forums or whatever and look. There isn’t an algorithm matching people. "

Thank you. Just something we were curious to find out is all. Have a lovely day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only single men who dont show on the looked at me bit if you have them filtered out... its just the way of the site

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"Its only single men who dont show on the looked at me bit if you have them filtered out... its just the way of the site"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

If it helps, I've looked at your profile and now wish I didn't "

Lol this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?"

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

If it helps, I've looked at your profile and now wish I didn't

Lol this! "

Any particular reason my lovely?

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find "

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

"

They still show on looked at me, however I’m not made of sugar and looks never killed a person yet.. except Medusa…now there’s a gal!

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

They still show on looked at me, however I’m not made of sugar and looks never killed a person yet.. except Medusa…now there’s a gal!"

Despite my sizeable frame I am also not made of sugar. Well not 100%

I'm not fussed who looks at my, I'm a massive exhibitionist so the more that look the better. We just don't want to waste anyone's time. We don't get single guys or 20 year olds or 70 year olds looking at us as that's outside our preferences so we were just wondering if it was something we were doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

They still show on looked at me, however I’m not made of sugar and looks never killed a person yet.. except Medusa…now there’s a gal!

Despite my sizeable frame I am also not made of sugar. Well not 100%

I'm not fussed who looks at my, I'm a massive exhibitionist so the more that look the better. We just don't want to waste anyone's time. We don't get single guys or 20 year olds or 70 year olds looking at us as that's outside our preferences so we were just wondering if it was something we were doing wrong "

Anyone can look at your profile, in spite of your settings, however only your age range and filters prevent direct messaging. My filters are high and include that you must be a site member to message.

Filters are good, however it’s worry remembering that if you tick or block too many boxes, you’ll invariably end with nobody being able to message you. If you like to show off, then open your filters and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not looking for women but I still look at female profiles on here. Because I’m curious about people in general, I like well composed photos regardless of gender, maybe they said something in a forum that made me want to go see who said it, list goes on.

I view in ninja mode though. Because I don’t want some bloke kicking off about me looking at his profile.

But looking doesn’t mean I want to meet the profile. Just means I looked. That’s all it is really.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

They still show on looked at me, however I’m not made of sugar and looks never killed a person yet.. except Medusa…now there’s a gal!

Despite my sizeable frame I am also not made of sugar. Well not 100%

I'm not fussed who looks at my, I'm a massive exhibitionist so the more that look the better. We just don't want to waste anyone's time. We don't get single guys or 20 year olds or 70 year olds looking at us as that's outside our preferences so we were just wondering if it was something we were doing wrong "

Just because they don't show on your "Looked at Me" page doesn't mean they're not looking at your profile. It's just the weirdness of the site that removes the men from the list when you have blocked them in your message filters. Try dropping your filters when it's quiet, give it a few minutes to refresh then be surprised how many men are actually looking!

But it would be nice if this applied to all genders, rather than just guys.

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We're not talking about stopping people from looking at our profile, we don't mind who looks at it.

We're talking about the who looked at you feature showing people that you're filters are open to and not showing people that you're filters are closed to.

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"We are not looking for TV/TS yet they keep coming up in "looked at you"

Is there anyway to stop that?

Why does that bother you? It is no different a TV/TS looking at your profile than any other member that you don't want to meet looking at it.

And no you can't stop it, bit transphobic/offensive to ask it really ..

If you don't want people looking at your profile, then hide it and do your own searching .

We only get who looked at us from the people that we've set our preferences to and TV/TS. We have nothing against them whatsoever, but we're not looking for them. It was merely a question asking how do we stop that. We don't get them from single men or people outside of our age range. Does that then make us sexist and ageist as well?

My filters are set to block couples. They’re far too entitled I find

So you're not looking for couples, so you don't want them to contact you? What's the difference?

They still show on looked at me, however I’m not made of sugar and looks never killed a person yet.. except Medusa…now there’s a gal!

Despite my sizeable frame I am also not made of sugar. Well not 100%

I'm not fussed who looks at my, I'm a massive exhibitionist so the more that look the better. We just don't want to waste anyone's time. We don't get single guys or 20 year olds or 70 year olds looking at us as that's outside our preferences so we were just wondering if it was something we were doing wrong

Just because they don't show on your "Looked at Me" page doesn't mean they're not looking at your profile. It's just the weirdness of the site that removes the men from the list when you have blocked them in your message filters. Try dropping your filters when it's quiet, give it a few minutes to refresh then be surprised how many men are actually looking!

But it would be nice if this applied to all genders, rather than just guys."

Thank you, that's a really nice, informative answer x

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By *otbeefandonions OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"I’m not looking for women but I still look at female profiles on here. Because I’m curious about people in general, I like well composed photos regardless of gender, maybe they said something in a forum that made me want to go see who said it, list goes on.

I view in ninja mode though. Because I don’t want some bloke kicking off about me looking at his profile.

But looking doesn’t mean I want to meet the profile. Just means I looked. That’s all it is really. "

Good points, well made x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Many people browse in stealth mode so you'd never know they looked anyway.

The 'who's looked at me list' is a bit pointless really. People won't know if they're interested in, or attracted to someone til they look.

If they're not at all interested in the slightest they'll still show in the list.

If they are interested then you'd assume they'd wink or message.

It's another odd facility that some people stress over, like sent messages.

No point in worrying about it or over analysing it.

A

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