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"Wait until you get to our age then you see the invites drop off a cliff, but single guys never stop messaging and that includes the guys with a couples profile saying that they will be passing by and have an hour to spare" Well I'm not far off your age! And yes, it's already got very lonely on here. ![]() | |||
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"I know it's probably been on the forums before, but I think it would be lovely to have a section or chat room for us older fabsters. I think once the guys hit 60, it goes really quiet on here for us. Be nice to chat with others in the same boat!" Speak for yourself. I still do OK. Lol | |||
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"Wait until you get to our age then you see the invites drop off a cliff, but single guys never stop messaging and that includes the guys with a couples profile saying that they will be passing by and have an hour to spare" I wish I was closer to you | |||
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"People have started threads for us older fabbers. Indeed I have done so myself. They're quite successful for a while ![]() Well you look pretty amazing yourself | |||
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"People have started threads for us older fabbers. Indeed I have done so myself. They're quite successful for a while ![]() Thank you | |||
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"Yes I said a little white lie about my age, because of little in the way of chat. But now I've run out of fives this march, I shall embrace sixty, whether there is chat or not." A little white lie ![]() | |||
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"Yes I said a little white lie about my age, because of little in the way of chat. But now I've run out of fives this march, I shall embrace sixty, whether there is chat or not. Did the lie grant you success, I'm my age and happy with it, I'm told I look younger but what's the point of the lie. Be happy of your age and hopefully your health. If people don't want to meet me because of my age then we wouldn't get along anyway, chatting, sex or other " Great to hear from a fellow swinger who’s comfortable in his own skin I applaud you - I’m proud I made it to 61, and I agree, them that pass us by, well, it’s their loss not mine/ours | |||
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"I think an over 55’s section on The Forum would be a good idea. Then we could more easily organise socials etc. There are a lot of us, it would be responding to customer needs ![]() There's nothing stopping you from starting an over 55s thread ![]() | |||
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"I think the solution is a few of us older well -established sort of guys rent a grand house for a one-off party? Silver-Fox & Vixen Upstairs - Downstairs Deviant Downton Eyes Wide Shut Charlie’s Angels It would be a bit of a financial risk, and sausage-fest risk too? Any ideas how we can be confident to get nice party guests and ensure everyone’s safety? " It would be a financial risk. You could issue invitations to people you consider nice and hire bouncers. None of this would guarantee sex to everyone though. What age range of guests would the men hiring the venue expect and how would the ones who didn't get lucky feel about shelling out their share of the cost? | |||
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"I remember years ago when I was here and turned 51, damn, the amount of women who cut their age range at 50!" Yeah i remember that too. Wait til you get to my age, you may as well be dead!! ![]() | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet?" Only those whose settings are allowing messages from 60 year olds. If people set filters I think its their choice and respect that. For me its more about their attitude and a shared idea of fun rather than a specific number. | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet? Only those whose settings are allowing messages from 60 year olds. If people set filters I think its their choice and respect that. For me its more about their attitude and a shared idea of fun rather than a specific number." So the age of those you meet isn't an issue for you? | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " Well i can see why! X | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " I'm not surprised, I would & 69 is my favourite number x ![]() | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet? Only those whose settings are allowing messages from 60 year olds. If people set filters I think its their choice and respect that. For me its more about their attitude and a shared idea of fun rather than a specific number. So the age of those you meet isn't an issue for you?" Hi Gorgeous x | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " Wish I lived. Laser, would love to meet you :,) | |||
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"I don't think they lie about their age ,but how many on here update their age every year ,say they've been on here 10 years and they are still 50" You can only change your age once, if you want to change it again you have to ask admin. Otherwise your age updates automatically on your submitted birthday. | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet? Only those whose settings are allowing messages from 60 year olds. If people set filters I think its their choice and respect that. For me its more about their attitude and a shared idea of fun rather than a specific number. So the age of those you meet isn't an issue for you?" Not as long as they are in full knowledge of what they are doing. | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet? Only those whose settings are allowing messages from 60 year olds. If people set filters I think its their choice and respect that. For me its more about their attitude and a shared idea of fun rather than a specific number. So the age of those you meet isn't an issue for you? Not as long as they are in full knowledge of what they are doing." Oh yes, of course and over 18 naturally. I find it interesting different attitudes towards the age range people are happy to meet ![]() | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " Yvonne no wonder you still get offers you are stunning. Its slightly different when your a guy even if in the main you are just offering a nice massage. But good on you, you keep having fun its what keeps you young. | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " Wow I would even shag a cardboard cut out of you. ![]() | |||
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"I know it's probably been on the forums before, but I think it would be lovely to have a section or chat room for us older fabsters. I think once the guys hit 60, it goes really quiet on here for us. Be nice to chat with others in the same boat!" well you are 65yo and have bi curious on your profile(which most couples on here will not meet) but you are not looking for single guys (who cannot contact you) so you have removed a good 60% of the people who would happily chat and maybe invite you to meets with bi guys and bi couples,, bit like shooting yourself in both feet ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I know it's probably been on the forums before, but I think it would be lovely to have a section or chat room for us older fabsters. I think once the guys hit 60, it goes really quiet on here for us. Be nice to chat with others in the same boat! well you are 65yo and have bi curious on your profile(which most couples on here will not meet) but you are not looking for single guys (who cannot contact you) so you have removed a good 60% of the people who would happily chat and maybe invite you to meets with bi guys and bi couples,, bit like shooting yourself in both feet ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I've got to say, you're dead right. I'd completely forgotten I'd got filters set that way. I shall correct that. | |||
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"Yes I said a little white lie about my age, because of little in the way of chat. But now I've run out of fives this march, I shall embrace sixty, whether there is chat or not. Did the lie grant you success, I'm my age and happy with it, I'm told I look younger but what's the point of the lie. Be happy of your age and hopefully your health. If people don't want to meet me because of my age then we wouldn't get along anyway, chatting, sex or other Great to hear from a fellow swinger who’s comfortable in his own skin I applaud you - I’m proud I made it to 61, and I agree, them that pass us by, well, it’s their loss not mine/ours" And can I say you BOTH look great!! | |||
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"I’ve just turned 63 and to be honest my interest in this site has reduced .. can’t seem to find an interesting male ![]() ![]() You hopefully will after this forum post ![]() | |||
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"Perhaps there'll be a new site started.Fabswingers for oap's !" Fabsaga or sagafab ![]() | |||
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"Our real age is on our profile, never thought lie about it, maybe we should have lol x" No, you both look great ![]() | |||
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"Shame some couples not looking for single guys" No it isn't ![]() | |||
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"It seems the vast majority of females( on here) , especially the ones of a certain age , only go for the younger male I think that says a lot about the females that are on here , more than anything. " I have no agenda but I'm interested in what it says about the women of a certain age ![]() | |||
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"I am 69 and I have no trouble attracting 40 to 60 year olds " You are definately very sexy lady ![]() | |||
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"I hit 60 and had to check that my cock hadn't fallen off. Even people i had met previously because they had 60 limit were no longer contactable. Older women will still attract younger men but older guys will struggle with younger and even older as they dont need to adjust age setting. always plenty of young cock for them. but hey thats the game we were all young once ![]() If you'd been in contact previously you still have been able to message them ![]() | |||
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"I am 69 and I have no trouble attracting 40 to 60 year olds " That's not surprising, you look amazing. XXX | |||
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"We like guys our age but don’t get many request ! So tend to go to clubs for soft swing . A fantasy is to be videoed on one of our woodland walks when we shag in the the forest ." But your profile says looking for couples , not guys ![]() | |||
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"I hate the term 'older woman', im mid 50's and I'm just a woman. I don't find young guys sexy, i like experience and conversation. Gone are the days of having an athletic chap throwing my size 8 body round the bedroom. Middle age brought with it a bigger dress size and the need for men with realistic dad bods who remember the Clangers and did the Tiger Feet dance! " Don't forget The Wombles and Morph ![]() | |||
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"I know it's probably been on the forums before, but I think it would be lovely to have a section or chat room for us older fabsters. I think once the guys hit 60, it goes really quiet on here for us. Be nice to chat with others in the same boat!" Very happy to chat. I find it difficult as there's much competition it seems. | |||
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"...men with realistic dad bods who remember the Clangers and did the Tiger Feet dance! " Tiger Feet Dance no, but I can sound like the Soup Dragon ![]() | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " You look amazing so no wonder you get plenty of offers. | |||
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"Definitely like a dad bod. A man with a body like that of Ashley Banjo would just make me feel insecure about my wobbly bits! " Lovely legs! Xx | |||
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"If we're having a new forum for 50+ are we going to have arguments over the default font size?" Nahh, your phone/pc can do that If you know how ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Wife likes older men over 65. " Shame i can't see you ![]() | |||
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"I think an over 55’s section on The Forum would be a good idea. Then we could more easily organise socials etc. There are a lot of us, it would be responding to customer needs ![]() ![]() I have to say like yourselves Nicecouple536 most of the more mature people on here are very attractive you might say the cream of the crop. | |||
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"Out of interest what age women and men are you all contacting and hoping to meet?" Becuase I am in the main interested in sensual massage and soft play age doesn't concern me more how nice people are and how receptive they are to having a nice sensual time with now hang ups. | |||
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"I’ve just turned 63 and to be honest my interest in this site has reduced .. can’t seem to find an interesting male ![]() ![]() I’d love to have a chat with you | |||
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"Every cloud has a silver lining: the percentage of the population of GB and Ireland that is over 65 is rapidly growing; so ageism will decreasingly be an issue in society as our numbers increase. " ![]() | |||
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"Last year of the fifties for me. I'm quite specific about my preference age group (50ish-60ish) as I know what works for me. Few folk seem to pay attention to that though. I like to think I'm in the category of being a dynamic ager, kicking 60 but still with a youthful perspective on life and intimacies. Life may well be a cabaret but finding the elusive connection with someone compatible in age range, who can keep up (in all senses of the phrase), can be another story... " Not sure I follow ![]() | |||
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"We're as old as we feel. Age is just a number!" I'm as old as the husband I feel... and he's ten years younger than me ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Wait until you get to our age then you see the invites drop off a cliff, but single guys never stop messaging and that includes the guys with a couples profile saying that they will be passing by and have an hour to spare" If they've only got an hour to spare, I doubt they'd be any use, 1. because it takes time to build the excitement and 2. You'd want longer than an hour!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It would be great to have a over 60 room for us older fabbers ![]() Great idea !!!! | |||
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"It would be great to have a over 60 room for us older fabbers ![]() This is my personal opinion I've seen this suggested a few times but I'm not sure it would work. This thread has been running for many weeks but only 164 comments have been made, that would be a real slow chat room. I appreciate that people might have continued chatting by private message. | |||
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"Well I'm 69 I still get lots of offers " Can see why sexy lady. | |||
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