FabSwingers.com forum: What in your opinion would be a good addition to this site..or would you like to see improved/remove

By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As a matter of interest..

I'll start by restricting the area from where others can message me from..you?

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."

Might cut down on the number of PM’s that women have to deal with?

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
yep ..feedback is good most of the time

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too."
yep great ideas .. keep em coming

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

Pop up chat box when chatting to "friends"

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too.yep great ideas .. keep em coming "
maybe a dating button we could tick on the looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc

Also general interests

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc

Also general interests "
liking it ...but wouldnt that take away the chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc

Also general interests liking it ...but wouldnt that take away the chat?"

I agree but it would give people things to talk about besides sexual interests and their pics

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By *iceguy78Man
over a year ago

st helens

Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely think there should be a dating section!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

The need to be at least photo verified to the site as this helps not only the site but users and site better control of

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

More interests would be great - would like to be able to filter couples out if they're strictly full swap only etc

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I definitely think there should be a dating section!"
this is a popular idea I mean even some couples are looking to date the ladies and gents for their plus ones

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By *ina_tightsTV/TS
over a year ago

burnley

i think there should be a tv/ts chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site should go back to a swinging site. It has become commercial and all about the money now. Pay your subscription and you can pretty much do as you like with no repercussions. I am leaving after my subscription runs out after 8 years and not one of the site supporters will take any time finding out why and to be fair they don’t even care. Why!!! Because as one member leaves they have another 10 join and therefore that’s all the site cares about. It’s about time the site asked what the real members thought about it, listened to them, did something about it and not wrap them on their knuckles for having an opinion that they don’t like

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I think the site should go back to a swinging site. It has become commercial and all about the money now. Pay your subscription and you can pretty much do as you like with no repercussions. I am leaving after my subscription runs out after 8 years and not one of the site supporters will take any time finding out why and to be fair they don’t even care. Why!!! Because as one member leaves they have another 10 join and therefore that’s all the site cares about. It’s about time the site asked what the real members thought about it, listened to them, did something about it and not wrap them on their knuckles for having an opinion that they don’t like "
that's really sad ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely think there should be a dating section!"

Good idea, I also think being able to like messages would be good.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

This is such a shame

so sorry your experience has been crap x

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By *unsome2somexxxCouple
over a year ago

carlisle

When looking in meets and organised events section radius rather than general area North West is a large area

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."

Agreed xx

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Also a option to put ' bi playful '.

Being on the club scene for only a year, we have met soooo many that are not bisexuals or bi curious but are definitely bi playful like myself xx

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By *iscreetSucker1Man
over a year ago

nr Liskeard

Have push notifications again, was handy and useful. Still miss them

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Being able to block all smokers

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

There should definitely be more use of distances on the site

ie Block messages more than x-number of miles away.

New photos sorted within x-number of miles away.

Hot photos by closest etc.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Keep them coming x

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had

Different age ranges for different sexes

I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Searchable on all profile data fields, is an essential need

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had

Different age ranges for different sexes

I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.

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do you want an infinity of buttons..ha

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I suppose when it comes down to choices it's the most obvious that will get chosen or the list will be endless ..and you cant please everyone.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd like to see the software stopping people showing in multiple chat rooms at once and why do certain members on cam not show up on mobile chat

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

"Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had

Different age ranges for different sexes

I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.

do you want an infinity of buttons..ha "

No, but I would just like a way of blocking messages from significantly older guys who havent read my profile but allow messages from older women who have.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who meet

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By *abulousTwo!Couple
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Be able to have "offline mode" that allows you full access but prevents the ravenous hoards of guys pouncing on your inbox as soon as they see "online"

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By *abulousTwo!Couple
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Oh and please please make East Anglia a region, we're not "East Midlands" - it takes 4 hours to drive to Nottingham from Norwich!!!

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in."
I think this forum should be infinite and auto delete when either event finished or after 6 month

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"People who meet

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there's only so much a site can facilitate

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."

It's baffling that this hasn't already been implemented

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them."

They show next to your username.

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By *etersailor69Man
over a year ago

Milton

Add age on the names in the rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to see an option to search photographs by location

Nothing worse than scrolling thru hundreds of pics just to see any from locals

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Improvement on the filters ,so they can't be bypassed by adding a pic and then removing it.or being able to change your age to get round a filter.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

And as many people have said elsewhere... A Nudist section in the Forum. Yes there are nudists forums elsewhere on t'internet but there's even more options online for discussing Covid, yet we still have a Virus section.

And, yes, Swinging and Naturism are two totally different things, but whether the hardcore nudists like it or not there is some crossover and it is relevant

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options)

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."

This

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in."

Disagree with this... We're very much on and off this site depending on what's going on in our regular life. We have fab friends going back years.. If we have to start a new profile from scratch everytime then i don't think we'd bother coming back at all

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By *assyscot1Woman
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

Having a go to bottom option in messages so you can go to oldest message first without having to select next and scroll down. The option to go to top is there so going to bottom should be simple to do to

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If you could change the sites name what would you rename it??

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in.

I’ve been thinking about it.

It would be helpful to receive an email reminder to log in otherwise your account will be deleted. Then you just log in and keep account alive.

My point was rather in case of someone passing, when you go, your account goes too, hope it makes sense.

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By *loydyMan
over a year ago

British

To be able to reply to a message saying no thanks so it doesn't cost you a message

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"To be able to reply to a message saying no thanks so it doesn't cost you a message"

Already exists.

No reply is your reply in itself, as stated by Fab FAQ.

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By *itherofustwoMan
over a year ago

swansea

What about a picture or video league table for those who want to be noticed by others?

We don’t all want the attention.... but some crave it lol....

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.

Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them.

They show next to your username."

Still can't see them. Maybe because I'm not using a mobile version. Anyway, I won't lose any sleep over it. Lived all this time without knowing about these features!

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

To seperate TS from TV/CD

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options) "
agree

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us."

Agree with this

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us."

Unworkable. Most of the time there is a natural offset in favour of male partners being slightly older than the female. Rightly or wrongly, that's how it seems to be.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us.

Unworkable. Most of the time there is a natural offset in favour of male partners being slightly older than the female. Rightly or wrongly, that's how it seems to be."

Unless, of oourse, you are talking of applying it as an option, in which case why not.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Option to hide online now and last seen feature

Options to limit who can view your profile

More options to limit who can message eg body type/ height/ sexual orientation/ ethnicity

Tighter blocking features so would be unable to see forum posts, profile pics, status updates

Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc

A ‘no thanks’ button, as some still don’t take the hint when you just ignore or delete their message

Remove the feature to show that messages are read/ unread.

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By *ueanddave2Couple
over a year ago

Broughton-in-Furness

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc

YES!!!

this is essential, absolutely mad that you have to delete a post and re write it to make a correction!

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."

As above it works well, another site does this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restrict messaging until you’re photo verified

Knowing who’s hot list you are on

Restrict messages from people out of your range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Restrict messaging until you’re photo verified

Knowing who’s hot list you are on

Restrict messages from people out of your range"

Also being able to keep ongoing conversations at the top so you don’t lose them

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By *a4558Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd say more options for meets. Like . House party . Private party bi female party etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating section

Dating options in account details

More specifics on the search facility

Options to filter messages more so only those that fit the criteria of what you’re looking for come through rather than everyone solely based on gender

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Definitely hide the blue dot.

And a better filter to stop those with no public pics to be able to bypass filters.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."

That would most likely lead to more abuse.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

A next pic button when viewing galleries would be handy... or at least so im told

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.

That would most likely lead to more abuse."

...potentially, but other sites that have this feature leave it up to the owner of the picture whether or not to display the comment. A report button would give further control, but that puts more on the admin.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc

YES!!!

this is essential, absolutely mad that you have to delete a post and re write it to make a correction!"

Great idea. I'm always deleting to avoid being shamed by my slapdash errors!

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

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you mean like this..hehehe

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By *hocolateDelightMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Having the functions already available actually working correctly especially in relation to who and who can’t message you or view your profile would be a good start. Clear separation demarcation between those who just want to chat and post pictures verses those who actually want to meet would be useful. Name and shame section for the abusive, the perpetual no shows etc

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Being able to view the entirety of your hot/block list is something that really needs to happen, just to combat the spam.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Having the functions already available actually working correctly especially in relation to who and who can’t message you or view your profile would be a good start. Clear separation demarcation between those who just want to chat and post pictures verses those who actually want to meet would be useful. Name and shame section for the abusive, the perpetual no shows etc"

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By *otstuff69xCouple
over a year ago

dundee

instant chat messenger be good,so you can chat right there and not having to wait on replies by normal messaging

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By *heggMan
over a year ago

South Brum

"Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc"

This. Definitely this.

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By *icked JezebelWoman
over a year ago

East Midlands not

Get your geography right please.

Northamptonshire is not in the West Midlands. This messes with searches! West Midlands comprises Staffordshire, Warwickshire, Shropshire, Herefordshire, and Worcestershire. The East Midlands includes the counties of Lincolnshire, Northamptonshire, Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, and Rutland.

Ethnicity would be a useful filter please. What's the point of it being part of our details when it's not something that can be used in searches/filters.

Also a filter to block smokers

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"As a matter of interest..

I'll start by restricting the area from where others can message me from..you? "
when i go to another area of britain i can change to a local postcode and town and see all the locals and they can see me,, why not the same when i go abroad to spain greece etc ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."

This is the most worrying for me. How blocked accounts can see an interact with you on forums so you are reluctant to discuss things as they can see.

Also blocked accounts should be blocked. I can still see if they are online and when last on as well as status updates so presumably they could see me if they know and blocked as a sort of loophole??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a Tinder style Like/Dislike would be perfect to le out the riff raff from your searches.

The ability to message any women means they're getting inundated by all sorts of weirdos.

And then men would have better luck getting replies as they're actually messaging those with a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A way of liking people's statuses, good for example looking for a fuck and being able to like statuses to show intrest

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By *arlofunMan
over a year ago

darlington

You should receive feedback from admin if you have reported another member, like what action was taken. Because at the moment you just report someone and that’s it.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"A way of liking people's statuses, good for example looking for a fuck and being able to like statuses to show intrest "
such tact gets you no where !! Be respectful!!

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Get your geography right please.

Ethnicity would be a useful filter please. What's the point of it being part of our details when it's not something that can be used in searches/filters.

Also a filter to block smokers

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I'm nothing to do with admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would permanently remove wonko from the site

The man is a waste of bandwidth

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous.

This is the most worrying for me. How blocked accounts can see an interact with you on forums so you are reluctant to discuss things as they can see.

Also blocked accounts should be blocked. I can still see if they are online and when last on as well as status updates so presumably they could see me if they know and blocked as a sort of loophole??"

Anyone can set up a new profile in a heartbeat.

So people you block can easily set up a second profile and browse the forums at will. There's no workaround for that at all. Any site member can see anything posted by anyone in the forums. This isn't bookface where you can select posts to be visible to a select audience.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I think a Tinder style Like/Dislike would be perfect to le out the riff raff from your searches.

The ability to message any women means they're getting inundated by all sorts of weirdos.

And then men would have better luck getting replies as they're actually messaging those with a mutual attraction "

There's a simple way of doing this.

When you're browsing just block anyone you'll never be interested in. Stops them showing up in future searches and prevents them ever messaging you.

The solutions to most things people ask for in here are often already there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show if I'm on someone's hot list

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc

This. Definitely this."

You already can.

Choose browse and 'advanced search'.

You can search by distance, age (and if you meet their age preferences), sexuality, smoking status, interests....pretty much everything. You can tick the 'Looking to meet' box too to show who's actively looking.

Again. These things are already there.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Show if I'm on someone's hot list"
I like this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Show if I'm on someone's hot listI like this "

I don't. Our hot list is also a 'not' list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a not meeting/meeting/just camming indicator. Like a red/amber/green indicator. Easier to see who is actually meeting

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Show if I'm on someone's hot listI like this

I don't. Our hot list is also a 'not' list"

Yep. Ours is multi use.

Hot.

Not.

Forum mods in case of emergency.

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By *parks133Man
over a year ago

luton

Be able to go in a private room with another user for private can fun .

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Better gender categories.

Better forum location threads - my choices are London / UK...

Be able to use emoji from my keyboard rather than the provided ones.... I'm seeing so many ?? now and like it or not they're commonplace pretty much everywhere else.

Maybe a feature to turn off winks, so many people say they don't like them...

And be able to stop genders from fabbing your pics (same as message filters). I block guys from messaging and winking, but then they just fab every pic to try and get your attention that way!

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By *hily2Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

How about bringing back the map option to search but make it a bit more interactive…….i know it will still be a rough area as no one wants to know if their neighbours are on here…..or do you???lol

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"How about bringing back the map option to search but make it a bit more interactive…….i know it will still be a rough area as no one wants to know if their neighbours are on here…..or do you???lol"

Absolutely not… think this could be very dangerous in the wrong hands. No one needs to see someones (even approximate) location on a map. If someone wants you to know where they are, they can share that information themselves. I would be outta here if Fab brought that feature in

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By *hily2Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

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By *hily2Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

I never meant that it should show your street name….. I meant give or take a 5 mile radius…. Like what we have now but just graphically represented!

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Photo verification as standard, which checks on the pic being photoshopped. Would cut out a lot of the jokers.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult.

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Mail separated into 'Friends' and 'Others'. I want to prioritise replies to friends and not have to scroll to find them lurking in the depths

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult. "

Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"Oh and please please make East Anglia a region, we're not "East Midlands" - it takes 4 hours to drive to Nottingham from Norwich!!!"

This above anything else!

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult.

Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too

Couldn't you just not look at them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options) "

+1 I would also like to see this, we move all around the country it would make it easier to keep track of people in that area we would like to meet when there.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult.

Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too

Couldn't you just not look at them?"

Of course, but the forum post was ‘what could be a good addition to the site’. As the other poster has said, if we have the option to turn off the option to Fab pics, why can’t we also turn off winks and friend requests

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By *enfella4uMan
over a year ago

staffs

I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "

You want locations published publicly on the Internet for anyone to browse?

Probably not the best idea is it....

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "

Theres already a very popular website with a chat function just for that purpose.

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By *i4twoMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.

People over 6ft scare me

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By *1newcdTV/TS
over a year ago

France

To filter/search for people based on sexual preference (straight, bi, gay, all etc). It seems like such a necessary feature, and I can’t imagine it being a massive thing to add.

That, and separating out the TV/TS gender. They shouldn’t be joined together.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

Don’t allow hidden profiles to wink you. Seems completely pointless. Perhaps they could also be a bit more discerning with the forum posts. It must take up quite a bit of bandwidth allowing people with posts like “what’s your favourite flavour custard” or “who has double glazing.”

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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Stanford-le-Hope

"To seperate TS from TV/CD"

Agree

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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Stanford-le-Hope

The option to like a status without having to send a message.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Additional information in the FAQ for those struggling on here so are some basic guidance to assist them to create their own bio. As the forums gets flooded time and time again asking the same question

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"The option to like a status without having to send a message. "

Like this

aye

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By *1newcdTV/TS
over a year ago

France

If you delete a comment in a thread, that thread still appears in your “Recent Threads you posted to” section. Quite annoying as I’ve no interest in said thread, I posted accidentally in it.

It’s not a major issue I’ll admit but still annoying.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

I appreciate that everything people suggest can’t be done but there are hardly any updates done to this site which is a shame. Things such as updating gender and geographic locations are tiny changes that could be made in a day.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"As a matter of interest..

I'll start by restricting the area from where others can message me from..you? "
everyone should be photo verified before they are allowed to use the site,, it might help stop fake profiles,,

single guys pretending to be couples or single females

i think the last 3 verifications anyone gets should be on open display for others to read and know when the last time the person they are chatting too actually did have a meet

and if it was an actual meet or a phone or webcam meet..

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.

People over 6ft scare me

Haha love it :-

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.

People over 6ft scare me

Haha love it :-

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sometimes it's just a bridge to far

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I never meant that it should show your street name….. I meant give or take a 5 mile radius…. Like what we have now but just graphically represented!"

How could this be shown graphically without showing exact location? I'm probably just being dim!

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By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

Yes. Individual photo feedback would be mint.

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By *uzy swallowTV/TS
over a year ago

Warminster

Being able to search meets with a wanting to meet tv filter x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Being able to turn off/on photos within the message filters would stop people receiving unwanted photo's

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Different areas for different kinks, so you don't have to wade through tons of irrelevant stuff?

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.

That would most likely lead to more abuse."

Seems to work ok on dozens of other sites....

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

When messaging someone, the additional function of being able to "add a direct private VIDEO".

Currently you can only add a direct private photo.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

The option to hide specific photos as you come across them, rather than just seeing or hiding them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy that posts 10 pictures weekly of himself in inappropriate underwear

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By *mg 321Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "

The site specifically doesn't permit the posting of venues, other than swinging clubs. Posting other details gives an opportunity for people to be targeted, including for violence etc

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"If you could change the sites name what would you rename it??"

The fifth dimension

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"The guy that posts 10 pictures weekly of himself in inappropriate underwear "
just block them and all pics disappear too ..

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"If you could change the sites name what would you rename it??

Swab Fingers.

Then nobody in the outside world would realise it wasn't just about keeping your mitts clan!

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.

Also, bring back having your message history showing in the messages. It used to be the main reason i paid for site support, so i could see the previous conversations I’ve had with people. Now all i can see is that I replied 3 months ago but not what I actually said.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.

It does via the group messages in mailbox settings

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

"The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.

It does via the group messages in mailbox settings "

That only shows messages from a few days, in the past they kept the full message history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.

The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.

Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money.

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

"Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.

The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.

Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money. "

Along a similar vein (but worse, IMO) are the catfishes and abusive people. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve reported a fake profile - often with verification - because they’ve used a photo from the internet. I realise they can just create another profile but in the very LEAST they should get the boot for that. Perhaps being able to attach images to reports would be an idea, so we can include screenshots.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

They should have an “I’m the ethnicity they’re looking for”. You can search for people by ethnicity as it is, so would be good to be able to search for people whose preference you fit.

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

A yes or no tick box similar to the smokers one for will meet married without consent.

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

came to say this. Sometimes I recognise a profile picture but can’t remember how the conversation went, it would be really helpful to click on their profile and see all correspondence between you

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"A yes or no tick box similar to the smokers one for will meet married without consent. "

This would be ideal though many people will not be happy with it.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I see often that admin don't have the time. I understand that, but, I'd imagine there could be quite a few designers here who could volunteer to possibly make things happen that admin may agree with

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By *alum 69-69Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Being able to like someone's status and comment on it

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.

The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.

Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money. "

The crazy thing is that if you reload that pic or vid it will often be accepted on the second/third/fourth attempt. A photo/video is either acceptable or it’s not. No consistency and no-one seems to know what they’re doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comments on pics or vids would be hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a waste of time never any response or action 9n suggestions

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By *haveadreamMan
over a year ago

Fens

Be consistent with banning pic, I had pic remover that have been on my people for years as it said that faces on my pics did not hide woman's faces enough, then you look at some pics shown with less than 10% of the coverage that I had on mine.

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By *ullSocialRobbies OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"This is a waste of time never any response or action 9n suggestions"
I'm nothing to do with this site ..but you never know who's watching ..you grump

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By *axyMan
over a year ago

Great Ayton

"People who meet

Problem if someone's a paid member!

Also why?

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

When you add to your own hotlist,being able to SORT them into order of , say, name or proximity would be good

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By *idsguySY1Man
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Please move ‘Shrewsbury’ to SHROPSHIRE not WALES

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By *izredCouple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

Ability to go straight to messages you've exchanged when looking at someone's profile.

Eg be able to click through to messages from the "you messaged them" section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.yep ..feedback is good most of the time "

This would be good. Also being able to Fab a Status update.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

A search on height would be great.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Why not have a 'Perfect Match' algorithm?

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By *piceyMan
over a year ago

your marital bed given the chance

Regions aligned. For example I’m in Norfolk but nearest region as an option is East Midlands, which is at minimum a good hour away.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences. "

There is a tick box in the search for looking to meet today but that needs people to have a meet posted maybe a tick box on your profile for meet today to do that for you

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences.

There is a tick box in the search for looking to meet today but that needs people to have a meet posted maybe a tick box on your profile for meet today to do that for you

You don't need to have a meet posted. There's literally a tick box option to be added to the 'meet today' list for 1,3,6,9 or 12 hours.

It's been a feature for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being able to block all smokers"

Not sure how helpful that would be to be honest. When I used to meet as a single outside of clubs, I met a fair amount of single guys who did smoke but lied about it on their profiles.

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