FabSwingers.com forum: Admin are ruining the site

By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

You want the job?

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By *ekezza and BilfCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

They're Admin, not baby sitters and volunteer their time, if you feel you can do better put your name forward

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job"

You could use your post as a CV for the admin position, guaranteed to go top of the list of candidates.

Good luck in your new career.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I know this thread will be locked but before it is I you get the opportunity to expand on 'banning people for using punctuation'

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

People don't get banned for punctuation, so that is not true.

If people are reported, Admin will re_iew the complaint, as I would imagine there will be 3 sides to some of the stories. If warranted, people will be sanctioned in someway.

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

They don’t do their jobs and are ruining the site.

Been on this site for over a decade and it is by far the worst it’s ever been

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes they have done.

Somebody placed a full stop in a status and it got flagged as being a link to a different site = 3 hour ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job"

What you say is not true.

If people are being banned there will be another reason and not punctuation.

People's profiles get changed if they have chosen the wrong sex . For example single people who mention Thier FBor partners in them.

Failure to meet, what exactly do you mean by that? That if we don't meet we should be thrown off the site.

How do you know who is a fake and who is not?

I don't find the site useless at all, if you are then it's down to how you are using it not anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they have done.

Somebody placed a full stop in a status and it got flagged as being a link to a different site = 3 hour ban"

That's no big deal though is it. A 3 hour ban is not anything to throw the toys out of the pram for.

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Maybe ppl could grow up with replies and just open their eyes to the fact that an awful lot of long term members are leaving the site and are flagging admin as the reason.

Take it nobody wants fab back to its best then and are happy with it being used by fakes and used as an advertisement for only fans ect.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Yes they have done.

Somebody placed a full stop in a status and it got flagged as being a link to a different site = 3 hour ban"

A whole 3 hours? Though I'm pretty sure the algorithm picked up another site not the full stop

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

So because it’s only 3 hours it’s fine then that admin wrongly banned somebody?

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

And a failure to meet us when somebody plans to meet and then does not show up without giving an explanation.

You don’t seem to understand how this site runs well enough to be commenting on it.

I’ve been on the site for over a decade on and off and it’s never ever been this bad

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"They're Admin, not baby sitters and volunteer their time, if you feel you can do better put your name forward"

They sign up to do a job and over the past 6 months have been useless at their administrative duties.

If they cannot perform the job correctly and keep inline with the sites t&c themselves then they should not volunteer should they!!

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"You want the job? "

No because I do not have the time to do the job nor the want to do it.

However those who do volunteer for the role should make sure that they are able to actual perform the role.

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By *ekezza and BilfCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Why don't you leave if you hate the site

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job

What you say is not true.

If people are being banned there will be another reason and not punctuation.

People's profiles get changed if they have chosen the wrong sex . For example single people who mention Thier FBor partners in them.

Failure to meet, what exactly do you mean by that? That if we don't meet we should be thrown off the site.

How do you know who is a fake and who is not?

I don't find the site useless at all, if you are then it's down to how you are using it not anyone else.

Right 1st of all their is no issue with people have a single profile if part of a couple as long as it is explained clearly.not all swinging couples play together and this has been acceptable for over a decade.

And when pictures of a well known pornstar who is around 40 has her pictures up on this site as a 22/23 year old then yes that’s fake.

The admin pick and choose and do very little to improve the site as a whole.

Infact since the latest drive by fabs for new admin,the site has declined dramatically.

I’ve been on the site on and off for over 10 years so I have the experience to say this is by far the worst that fab has ever been

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Why don't you leave if you hate the site"

Why should I leave a site I’ve happily used for over a decade all because the site has gone to shit after the recent admin recruitment drive.

They hired numpties to do the admin clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And a failure to meet us when somebody plans to meet and then does not show up without giving an explanation.

You don’t seem to understand how this site runs well enough to be commenting on it.

I’ve been on the site for over a decade on and off and it’s never ever been this bad"

Excuse me??

I have been on this site for almost 10 years, so don't talk down to me.

You have posted a grumbling thread and are now ranting at people who disagree with you. If you don't want that then don't start a thread.

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Why don't you leave if you hate the site"

Are you ready for your singles profiles to be changed by admin???

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Yes they have done.

Somebody placed a full stop in a status and it got flagged as being a link to a different site = 3 hour ban

That's no big deal though is it. A 3 hour ban is not anything to throw the toys out of the pram for.

Well here’s an idea then,don’t be the 1 to start talking down to others if you don’t want it aimed back at you.

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"And a failure to meet us when somebody plans to meet and then does not show up without giving an explanation.

You don’t seem to understand how this site runs well enough to be commenting on it.

I’ve been on the site for over a decade on and off and it’s never ever been this bad

Excuse me??

I have been on this site for almost 10 years, so don't talk down to me.

You have posted a grumbling thread and are now ranting at people who disagree with you. If you don't want that then don't start a thread.

And you can’t disagree with actual facts that go against the t&c of the site.

So you start the talking down and then also go on to make no sense.

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job

What you say is not true.

If people are being banned there will be another reason and not punctuation.

People's profiles get changed if they have chosen the wrong sex . For example single people who mention Thier FBor partners in them.

Failure to meet, what exactly do you mean by that? That if we don't meet we should be thrown off the site.

How do you know who is a fake and who is not?

I don't find the site useless at all, if you are then it's down to how you are using it not anyone else.

And when pictures of a well known pornstar who is around 40 has her pictures up on this site as a 22/23 year old then yes that’s fake.

The admin pick and choose and do very little to improve the site as a whole.

Infact since the latest drive by fabs for new admin,the site has declined dramatically.

I’ve been on the site on and off for over 10 years so I have the experience to say this is by far the worst that fab has ever been "

Couples who have single profiles also, often use them to try to get meets with people not looking to meet couples. They also use them to bypass people's filters too. If they are playing single then there is no need to mention their partners on their profiles is there?

I think you are being very rude to Fab admin...

You need to go and cool down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And a failure to meet us when somebody plans to meet and then does not show up without giving an explanation.

You don’t seem to understand how this site runs well enough to be commenting on it.

I’ve been on the site for over a decade on and off and it’s never ever been this bad

Excuse me??

I have been on this site for almost 10 years, so don't talk down to me.

You have posted a grumbling thread and are now ranting at people who disagree with you. If you don't want that then don't start a thread.

And you can’t disagree with actual facts that go against the t&c of the site.

So you start the talking down and then also go on to make no sense.

Congratulations"

What on earth are you talking about? You are the one making no sense.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Something is vexing the OP... but sure what though ..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Too be honest the staff on the site have always been extremely helpful, even though they also have a life beyond the site. So I don't agree with you Op I've been here a long time so have enough experience of the site....

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Has anybody else recently found that the admin on this site have become utterly useless.

Banning ppl for using punctuation,

Physically changing peoples profiles for no reason.

Not doing anything to failures to meet.

And allow fakes to roam free to the point there is a profile on this site of somebody aged 22 yet the pictures are that of a pornstar in her late 30s yet nothing is done.

admin you are ruining this site and it’s about time the members took control and stopped allowing admin to get away with doing a shitty job

What you say is not true.

If people are being banned there will be another reason and not punctuation.

People's profiles get changed if they have chosen the wrong sex . For example single people who mention Thier FBor partners in them.

Failure to meet, what exactly do you mean by that? That if we don't meet we should be thrown off the site.

How do you know who is a fake and who is not?

I don't find the site useless at all, if you are then it's down to how you are using it not anyone else.

And when pictures of a well known pornstar who is around 40 has her pictures up on this site as a 22/23 year old then yes that’s fake.

The admin pick and choose and do very little to improve the site as a whole.

Infact since the latest drive by fabs for new admin,the site has declined dramatically.

I’ve been on the site on and off for over 10 years so I have the experience to say this is by far the worst that fab has ever been

I think you are being very rude to Fab admin...

You need to go and cool down.

You need to start making sense.

You say some couples use single profiles to get around meeting people who don’t want to meet couples.

Yes those would be the scumbags of the site.

So surely it makes sense then that couples who play as singles should mention that they are part of a couple so that others can decide for themselves.

Your latest comment literally makes no sense whatsoever and contradicts itself

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Bans are rarely handed out for no reason. Sometimes it happens but it is rare and if someone leaves over a 3 hour ban they are pretty childish.

Someone not showing up well that's one persons word against another and hard to prove and plenty on here report people as timewasters just because they have said no. So no admin most likely won't ban anyone just because of one report and rightly so.

As for changing profiles yes it happens usually though there is a reason for it to happen and they can always get it changed back if genuine. And while yes it must be annoying for those who is wrongly happens to,it proves admin have taken reports seriously on here.

As for fakes yes there are a fair few on here and personally I just block any I come across it's easier than expecting everyone else to do it for me.

But then that's my attitude on here I concentrate on my own journey and don't expect fab to hold my hand and to change things to suit what I want off here.

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Too be honest the staff on the site have always been extremely helpful, even though they also have a life beyond the site. So I don't agree with you Op I've been here a long time so have enough experience of the site.... "

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us

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By *eminisub OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"And a failure to meet us when somebody plans to meet and then does not show up without giving an explanation.

You don’t seem to understand how this site runs well enough to be commenting on it.

I’ve been on the site for over a decade on and off and it’s never ever been this bad

Excuse me??

I have been on this site for almost 10 years, so don't talk down to me.

You have posted a grumbling thread and are now ranting at people who disagree with you. If you don't want that then don't start a thread.

And you can’t disagree with actual facts that go against the t&c of the site.

So you start the talking down and then also go on to make no sense.

Congratulations

What on earth are you talking about? You are the one making no sense.

You contradicted yourself massively in your previous comment.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us"

Why do couples need admin more than single men?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Jeez lady - take a chill pill. I have reported various things on here: had my pics nicked and had someone cut n paste a stellar veri I had given to another guy word for word. Nothing done but hey there are 36k currently online so that is a lot of opportunity for "issues" to arise and be reported. I got cheesed me off at the time but got over it...good outweighs the bad on here imho. If/ when that balance changes I will get my coat and I know where the door is.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us"

No it's not needed more for females or couples. The site provides plenty of ways for someone to help themselves on here. Common sense helps a lot more especially when it comes to fake profiles etc.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us"

As you've mentioned that you have been on the site over a decade, yet still haven't figured out how to use it. Because normal procedure would be available to discuss with the site owner or admin but you choose to raise your rant in public. My experience of the site is something you'll never know but the fact I'm still here happily using the site with no major concerns but am aware should I have any, too use what is available so the matter can be addressed which would be the professional way to go forward....

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us"

Nice how you put a lot of thought into this and decided to leave out people whom are bi, bi curious TV and TS like they didn't matter

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us

Nice how you put a lot of thought into this and decided to leave out people whom are bi, bi curious TV and TS like they didn't matter

And Gay

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By *ekezza and BilfCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Our singles profiles exist perfectly well alongside this couples one. You sound jealous of others tbh

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I’ve been on the site over a decade on and off so know the site even better.

Admin have been useless and as a single male you will not have a clue what it’s like for couples and females and how admin is needed more for us

Nice how you put a lot of thought into this and decided to leave out people whom are bi, bi curious TV and TS like they didn't matter

And Gay "

May be falling on deaf ears now

I think the point is ... if you suspect a profile ... report it

If you suspect a time waster.. report it

Any other issues with other site users .. report it

Admin will always look into reports ... it may not result in the response you want but it will be dealt with fairly

Also, I think you'll find admin get numerous reports and messages daily ... as such they don't have time to respond to every message ... but rest assured it will be investigated and dealt with appropriately

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

This is the best way to give feedback

https://www.fabswingers.com/contact-us/mod

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

For clarity, there is not a 3 hour ban for a status or a full stop.

You can however get a status removed for naming and shaming while using the full stop, then if people do it again they can be banned from using a status altogether.

I suppose it is fair that Admin give people a chance first, this is explained in the following post about what Admin say they do with reports.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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