FabSwingers.com forum: Compulsory photo?

By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

No.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……

No. "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cos 9/10 times its a dribbling winky

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Don't message profiles with no pictures

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ideally yes or at least send one with first message fed up having to ask for one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……"

People can or do put up profile pictures l don't think profile pictures should be complusory but each to their own .

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……"

Yes and no...

Yes if you want to see others with photos. No and you can only see others with no pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Can it be a pic of my donkey ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?"

Plenty of asses on here already.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?

No."

What about my neighbour ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?

Plenty of asses on here already.

You shock me Leo .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think much otherwise I would shagtonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think much otherwise I would not* shagtonight "

Not*

Freudian slip

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……"

O.P. My actual thoughts are these.... stop getting annoyed at what people do that you don't want them to do and focus on the folk that do what you want them to do e.g. meet your expectations picture wise.

It's up to YOU to put the effort in for yourself not everyone else.

Besides a pic of what ? Some bloke 10 years ago who turns up 5 stone heavier and sans his hair .....

A pic is titillation it's not proof of anything and it's certainly not a guarantee.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……

Yes and no...

Yes if you want to see others with photos. No and you can only see others with no pics."

Not a bad idea, although I have read some take them down to stem the incoming messages

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, it really should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's appalling when people have no profile photo and you're forced to message them.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No because its a good filter

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s their profile. They do as the want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It's appalling when people have no profile photo and you're forced to message them. "

I only did it once

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

It's up to them if course, but we don't tend to reply to blank profiles.

If they can't put any effort in to a profile then they are probably not worth the effort of meeting.

Also people treating this as something they should be hiding doesn't help with the stigma.

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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

No, because it's a good way of stopping the harassment and barrage of "hi xx" "what you up 2" "can I throw my hat in the ring" type messages we used to see 50 times a day. You can ignore these profiles, or when searching use filters so you don't see people that want to be incognito for whatever reason. Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m turned on by the mystery. I like wanking over silhouettes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I don’t think it should be compulsory. They potentially reduce the number of people that will interact with them if they don’t have any though but that’s their choice.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's up to them if course, but we don't tend to reply to blank profiles.

If they can't put any effort in to a profile then they are probably not worth the effort of meeting.

Also people treating this as something they should be hiding doesn't help with the stigma.

1. Correct

2. Incorrect

3. Incorrect.

33% hmmmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No I don’t think it should be compulsory. They potentially reduce the number of people that will interact with them if they don’t have any though but that’s their choice. "

CORRECT !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m turned on by the mystery. I like wanking over silhouettes."

Wipe up after.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No, because it's a good way of stopping the harassment and barrage of "hi xx" "what you up 2" "can I throw my hat in the ring" type messages we used to see 50 times a day. You can ignore these profiles, or when searching use filters so you don't see people that want to be incognito for whatever reason. Simple really. "

Correct !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m turned on by the mystery. I like wanking over silhouettes.

Wipe up after.....

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By *yche_xWoman
over a year ago

nearby

I really want to say yes because they do irritate me! I guess each to their own. But if u message me from a profile with no profile photo, your never going to get a reply

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……

Yes and no...

Yes if you want to see others with photos. No and you can only see others with no pics.

Not a bad idea, although I have read some take them down to stem the incoming messages

Mr "

Yeah I do that... Otherwise I can't keep up with all the winks and messages... I've got a life outside fab you know.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?"

The wee donkey?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can it be a pic of my donkey ?

The wee donkey? "

Jesus , Mary and Joseph .........

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"No I don’t think it should be compulsory. They potentially reduce the number of people that will interact with them if they don’t have any though but that’s their choice. "

I’m glad you said ‘potentially’ there Babs

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It's appalling when people have no profile photo and you're forced to message them.

I only did it once

Me too

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Why? You'd just end up with loads of pictures of a thumb or something instead

At least... I think it's a thumb

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never reply to anyone without a photo.

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By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

"Perhaps unjustified but I find it annoying when a profile has no pictures at all. Should it be compulsory to have at least one picture when setting up a new profile?? Thoughts……

It's up to YOU to put the effort in for yourself not everyone else.

Besides a pic of what ? Some bloke 10 years ago who turns up 5 stone heavier and sans his hair .....

A pic is titillation it's not proof of anything and it's certainly not a guarantee."

Wow! Ok

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By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

"No cos 9/10 times its a dribbling winky"

Haha! Oh Jeez you’re right!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

“Nah peeps gonna be peeps, if they don’t wanna show, then it’s gonna be a no”

Some gangster, probably

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No... Just block people with none from messaging

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By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

Just to clarify…. I’m not suggesting it ruins my entire day!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just to clarify…. I’m not suggesting it ruins my entire day!!"

good!

You can filter out those profiles

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Never reply to anyone without a photo. "

That's what my mama told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It is up to each profile whether they wish to display a pic or not.

Some people are not able due to work reasons or whatever.

I would however be in favour of every profile needing a green flag and be photo-verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ask them to send me one. A lot of people do not like to show there face on a profile, I understand why. I think if it was compulsory then a lot of people would be put off.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No,it's a good filter though .

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By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

"I just ask them to send me one. A lot of people do not like to show there face on a profile, I understand why. I think if it was compulsory then a lot of people would be put off. "

I wasn’t suggesting a face pic, that’s quite understandable why some wouldn’t want to, just a genuine profile picture perhaps

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By *our Hero OP Man
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

"Nope. It is up to each profile whether they wish to display a pic or not.

Some people are not able due to work reasons or whatever.

I would however be in favour of every profile needing a green flag and be photo-verified. "

Yes that’s a good idea

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

It's possible to filter out those without a public photo from messaging you, and it's a search filter as well. So no, shouldn't be compulsory, perhaps instead learn to use the tools that are available to give you the experience you're after?

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