FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking people who block us guys

By *ickomxxx OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Fed up with seeing who has viewed my profile then find I cannot view their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to block whoever they want, they may have looked then seen you werent for them so blocked so they wont come accross you again

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We block guys who have clearly not read our profile before messaging, usually don't accommodate. Also any guy who does not take no for an answer and continues to try and pressure us into meeting. We block to stop them pestering day after day

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By *inja 636Man
over a year ago

Grays

It works both ways I tend to block anyone I mail who are not interested purely on the basis it saves my time I always politely tell people this too

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"People are entitled to block whoever they want, they may have looked then seen you werent for them so blocked so they wont come accross you again"

This 1000%

Whenever we were looking for meets (yes, a couple who sent messages rather than sit back and wait!) we'd browse the profiles of single men looking for potential company and if we came across any that we were 100% sure we'd never be interested in, then we'd block them so that they didn't appear in any future searches.

It's a great permanent filter and the only way to remove someone from a saved set of search parameters permanently.

Nothing personal. They'd done nothing wrong. They just weren't for us.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

We switch the option for single men to message us off when we open our inbox to 50 at a time and just get sick of the important messages being pushed to the bottom but will reopen them up when the mood takes us. I’m so fed up with reading these entitled posts from single guys “saying they are leaving” or moaning about this and that. If they did less moaning on the forums and put more effort into their profiles and manners when contacting people on here they’d be far better off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they did less moaning on the forums and put more effort into their profiles and manners when contacting people on here they’d be far better off."

Absolutely right. Like many before if we don't like your picsprofile or message, wink or friend request we block you.

To the OP, the problem is internal and not external, remember that in this it is you that has the problem. If you want to change it then please change yourself, your behaviour and your approach.

Good luck.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

I really fail to understand why solo guy constantly complain on here about getting blocked, ignored or rejected. Couples and lone women get bombarded by optimistic guys who turn sour.

When they want what you offer they will come to you.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

"Fed up with seeing who has viewed my profile then find I cannot view their profile! "

Then don't look at who has viewed you

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Fed up with seeing who has viewed my profile then find I cannot view their profile! "

Block them back then however once someone has blocked you then they can no longer view your profile either

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why do you need to look, if they were interested they would have messaged you... A look means nothing

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"People are entitled to block whoever they want, they may have looked then seen you werent for them so blocked so they wont come accross you again

This 1000%

It's a great permanent filter and the only way to remove someone from a saved set of search parameters permanently.

Nothing personal. They'd done nothing wrong. They just weren't for us.

Actually I think what the OP is talking about in this case is not people who have “blocked” As such.. as they wouldn’t show up on looked at me lists…. But those people who have chosen to hide their profiles!! So yes i kinda get the frustration……

… but I ticked the box to say I don’t want to show up on peoples “looked at me” lists… so I perv profiles in stealth in plain sight and you wouldn’t even know to get annoyed about it…So I hold up my hand and plead guilty!!!!

Heck… not even going to try and say I am not a hypocrite on this!!!! Maybe the moral of the story is if they looked and didn’t send anything… consider that a no!!!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If i contact someone and they cross out my message they get blocked.

Saves me wasting my time contacting or looking at their profile again.

Way I see it they have done me a huge favour.

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By *walexxMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Yes I agree with this but there aren’t any real way of stopping someone’s choice to hide their profile. As annoying as it is, you get the option to block them to stop then appearing in your viewed list.

Happy fabbing

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If I message someone and they dismiss my message or block me I simply do the same.

Saves my time, I. Don't need to see them again and if they get on hotpics they won't get fabbed by me.

I see it more of a help tbh

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