FabSwingers.com forum: Any way to see friend invites you've sent?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few times in the past week or two we've that a few people have "accepted your friend invite" now, the weird thing is that we (mostly) only send friend invites to single guys who we've met in person and we've not been sending invites recently.

We honestly don't remember sending friend invites to these accounts (especially to single guys) maybe we spoke to these people a long time ago and they are only accepting invites now (although that still seems a little odd).

This isn't a problem with the way we run our account today but we had been thinking of putting some face pictures in our friends only area and deleting all of the random friends we've not actually met in person.

Of course if there are friend invites pending then how do we find them? We don't want to add face pictures and then find in a few months time that someone accepts an old invite and has access to our friends only pics.

It would be a huge benefit for us to see any "pending" invites we've sent so we can delete them!

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By *ouplefor funCouple
over a year ago

near kilmarnock

Good idea

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By *aza_46Woman
over a year ago

Cork City

I've also had friends requests accepted and I know I have not sent them or even seen their profile. So it wasn't a case of me hitting send a friend request..

Quiet bazaar

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

That is definitely quite bizarre.

Thankfully that's not happened to me.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

We've also had a few accepted that we never sent. Quite bizarre indeed. Vx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only solution for this if you keep a fab diary it's not available on the site but call it your own little black book...

I've noticed only is option to send a request but not too cancel this...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have had friend's requests accepted from people I definitely have not sent friend requests to.

I would suggest when you send a c request use the private note feature, and then if you receive an acceptance from someone you haven't got a private note you know that you didn't actually send one.

It won't help with the past but it will help going forward.

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By *evilmademedoitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The friend invite being between Wink and Hotlist has meant that there have been times when I’ve hit the wrong option, could it be that’s what you’ve done. Seems weird for randoms to be added if you did t do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The friend invite being between Wink and Hotlist has meant that there have been times when I’ve hit the wrong option, could it be that’s what you’ve done. Seems weird for randoms to be added if you did t do it. "

Don't think it's that as these are not profiles we'd either wink or hotlist, we only do that for couples and the option is hidden on mobile on the menu.

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