FabSwingers.com forum: Missing messages

By *outhEastPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

I find it strange that only a selection of messages I’ve sent still show in my “sent messages” This is not a timescale thing as I have older messages - I find this unhelpful as I try not to send 2/3rd messages to the same people - But as you Ladies and Couples get 00’s of messages I find it helpful to see if a message hasn’t been opened and probably lost in the masses or if it’s been read and kept as in both cases I may try sending a gently follow up message say 2/3 months later I also always include something like apologises if you did read my original message and it wasn’t of interest etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

have the people concerned still got active profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked at the profile, it says if you have messaged before and how long ago. That should stop you repeat messaging, no?

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By *outhEastPaul OP Man
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Yes to Nice and I know but as I tried to explain doesn’t give total answer - Thanks to both anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes to Nice and I know but as I tried to explain doesn’t give total answer - Thanks to both anyway "

What's your actual query?

Messages will show if they've been opened or not. Am I misunderstanding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get no response, move on, don't message again, it's annoying when it happens. If they wanted to reply, they more than likely would have. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they didn't reply and you send a message again you should get the warning page saying you've messaged this user before and they didn't reply blah blah. I just used to delete all my sent mail as soon as I sent it. They'll either reply or they won't.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If people leave the site their messages disappear.

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By *rMrMrsMrsCouple
over a year ago

durham

Hi were having issues where our sent messages are missing but our received message are still their so you can't follow your conversation.

Very frustrating as you can't remember what you have sent.

Why are our conversion been deleted?

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