FabSwingers.com forum: If you have sent a message before

By *irty_newcastle OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

To someone and not recieved a message back, if you try to message them again a warning appears.. I am sure you have all seen it.

I dont know how the admin/mods of this site have been brought up but to be blatantly ignorant and bad mannered to other people is seen as a negative to us decent and educated people!

Maybe they need to re-evaluate what is seen as bad mannered.

The amount of people who delete messages and block you for sending "one" extremely polite message is an absolute disgrace.

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By *az79Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I agree with you. If they're not interested, at least reply back with a polite no.

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By *irty_newcastle OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

"I agree with you. If they're not interested, at least reply back with a polite no."

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

What is your issue with the warning?

It is there to prevent people being pestered with unwanted messages

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By *irty_newcastle OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

"What is your issue with the warning?

It is there to prevent people being pestered with unwanted messages"

Then reply to our message with a "thanks, but no thanks! and we wont message them again!

Not a difficult concept surely??

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Site rules state it's not rude not to reply. If you're pestering people who you've contacted before, you're wasting your time as well as theirs

Admin x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"What is your issue with the warning?

It is there to prevent people being pestered with unwanted messages

Then reply to our message with a "thanks, but no thanks! and we wont message them again!

Not a difficult concept surely??

No it's not difficult. However, for an alternative view. Search the forums on this particular topic and you will see lots of reasons why people do not reply. I personally perceive no reply as no thanks.

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