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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would this ever be implemented where you could set a filter to only accept messages from people within say a 50 mile radius? Although then it would stop forum people from possibly messaging.

I just don’t see the point in messaging someone 100’s of miles away. I don’t want to have to block all males because it’s not possible to search all areas and some can slip through the net.

Just getting loads of messages from outside Wales and it’s annoying.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You could put this in the site feedback section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, that's a bit harsh about the rest of the nations in the Union. What about making friends? I guess if it's optional, it's not a bad (and workable) idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you that confident the best sex is within a 50 mile radius ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing against other places it’s just disappointing when you see someone handsome and then see that they’re hours away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing against other places it’s just disappointing when you see someone handsome and then see that they’re hours away. "

This is a valid struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessssssss this would make my time here so much easier! Currently I can choose to accept messages from every man on the site, or none, with age being basically the only filter. Distance for me would be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love this filter...

Sometimes I don’t even open messages if I know the area isn’t close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessssssss this would make my time here so much easier! Currently I can choose to accept messages from every man on the site, or none, with age being basically the only filter. Distance for me would be amazing."

Ah but then we wouldnt be able to chat!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Nothing against other places it’s just disappointing when you see someone handsome and then see that they’re hours away. "

It can be devastating

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Would you want the registered location though, or their mobile location (as per Who's Near). Pretty easy to change location on your profile to get around a filter if you wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessssssss this would make my time here so much easier! Currently I can choose to accept messages from every man on the site, or none, with age being basically the only filter. Distance for me would be amazing.

Ah but then we wouldnt be able to chat! "

We're friends, so yes we would x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Although, I was messaged by someone who lived in the Midlands but came down near me regularly to see his family.

It was fine back then as I was doing one off hotel sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a bit of effort, I'm not arsed how big or winding your message is, show me the distances you are prepared to travel on my list

Kinda lets me know how much effort your likely to put into other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of effort, I'm not arsed how big or winding your message is, show me the distances you are prepared to travel on my list

Kinda lets me know how much effort your likely to put into other things "

I'm not willing to travel far because I'm busy and frankly can't be bothered to sit in a car for hours. Doesn't mean I won't put the effort in when I do meet a guy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of effort, I'm not arsed how big or winding your message is, show me the distances you are prepared to travel on my list

Kinda lets me know how much effort your likely to put into other things

I'm not willing to travel far because I'm busy and frankly can't be bothered to sit in a car for hours. Doesn't mean I won't put the effort in when I do meet a guy though. "

I'm different in a lot of ways I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of effort, I'm not arsed how big or winding your message is, show me the distances you are prepared to travel on my list

Kinda lets me know how much effort your likely to put into other things "

I don’t think the distance you’re willing to travel has any reference to how much effort you’ll put in upon meeting. I have narcolepsy, if I drive for too long I would fall asleep. I fall asleep on trains and have missed stops. I can’t do long distance. Plus when someone is travelling to me for a first meet it puts unnecessary pressure on me. I never know till I’ve seen someone in the flesh if I want to even kiss them so to have someone travel a long way, for what could possibly only be a coffee just seems pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of effort, I'm not arsed how big or winding your message is, show me the distances you are prepared to travel on my list

Kinda lets me know how much effort your likely to put into other things

I don’t think the distance you’re willing to travel has any reference to how much effort you’ll put in upon meeting. I have narcolepsy, if I drive for too long I would fall asleep. I fall asleep on trains and have missed stops. I can’t do long distance. Plus when someone is travelling to me for a first meet it puts unnecessary pressure on me. I never know till I’ve seen someone in the flesh if I want to even kiss them so to have someone travel a long way, for what could possibly only be a coffee just seems pointless. "

That's got to suck, as we are well aware we all have our own preferences thoughts and opinions and that's 1 of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking that with me maybe it's a case of, if you ain't broadening the horizons then it's just making do.

I'm not 1 for making do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d fully support a filter like this. Some folks are not practical about travel distances or bothered to update their locations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessssssss this would make my time here so much easier! Currently I can choose to accept messages from every man on the site, or none, with age being basically the only filter. Distance for me would be amazing."

snap ...me too

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