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By *ornypair300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

Ok so bare with us here , we are noticing it’s alot harder and we mean ALOT. Harder to find people we have a connection with since the lockdowns started . So we checked our local area last night to find that 47 local females 52 local couples and 200+ single men local . Seems there’s a lot to be said for the sheer numbers of single men on here now and we are not alone in feeling that the genuine people are being drowned out by it or simply given up and left the site . Looking to hear other people views and thoughts on this

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

This isn't something which has suddenly happened overnight, it has always been a feature of this and many other sites.

Are you still using the same tried and tested approach that you've used for years? Perhaps try something which stands out to reach a wider audience?

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By *ornypair300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

Most definately not trying the same old methods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree, we have hardly any couples near us its all single men and a few fake females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply being polite and having manners go a long way xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you search for exactly what you want and use message filters to block those you don't want from messaging you, nobody will be drowned out.

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

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I could be wrong but I think what _ornypair300 may also be saying is that with the current ratio of single men compared to women/couples that some from

These groups will just give up when they’re getting

300 or 400 plus messages that are simple “wanna fuck” style messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could be wrong but I think what _ornypair300 may also be saying is that with the current ratio of single men compared to women/couples that some from

These groups will just give up when they’re getting

300 or 400 plus messages that are simple “wanna fuck” style messages"

Too rite xx putting some thought into a message and reading someones profile goes a long way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you search for exactly what you want and use message filters to block those you don't want from messaging you, nobody will be drowned out. "

This, why complain about a situation that you can remedy easily by blocking single men if they are overwhelming you and put the onus on you to find what it is you want, much less stressful

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

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I think the worst thing is that possibly half of those numbers were shown the site by a friend and think that this is just another Site like PoF. And have a skewed vision of what the Swinging community is actually all about!

Wrongly thinking that most females on here will fuck anyone that asks, then get offended or butt hurt when turned down

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the moment a lot of people are dormant or are less likely to engage.

My filters are currently as high as they go and will be until this is over, for example

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I could be wrong but I think what _ornypair300 may also be saying is that with the current ratio of single men compared to women/couples that some from

These groups will just give up when they’re getting

300 or 400 plus messages that are simple “wanna fuck” style messages"

That's their choice but if the volume of messages they receive overwhelms them applying filters and searching for what they want will solve the problem.

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By *ornypair300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

So a lot has been said and suggested here , it’s not that we are overwhelmed or anything it’s just the sheer numbers that are out there when in reality maybe 10% of them will be genuine and not just want to pic collect or waste time . Seems that someone mentioned it being like POF and that may be right but that’s not what the swinging community is about , as a couple we enjoy the social side just as much as the play time . Seems that is missed by a vast majority here now tho . Yes we use message filters ect and send mails to those who interest us but often find that if we don’t want to “fuck now” then it’s game over

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

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"So a lot has been said and suggested here , it’s not that we are overwhelmed or anything it’s just the sheer numbers that are out there when in reality maybe 10% of them will be genuine and not just want to pic collect or waste time . Seems that someone mentioned it being like POF and that may be right but that’s not what the swinging community is about , as a couple we enjoy the social side just as much as the play time . Seems that is missed by a vast majority here now tho . Yes we use message filters ect and send mails to those who interest us but often find that if we don’t want to “fuck now” then it’s game over "

It was me who wrote the PoF comparison. I think that a lot of new people to the site who haven’t experienced a club setting don’t really understand or take into account the social side of the lifestyle and just think that because you’re on here that everyone just wants quick sale day hook ups

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

There seems to be a lot of couples with profiles that read similar to:

"we got bored during lockdown so decided to check this out".

Doesn't come across like the lovely swinger folk we're used to on here... But then again, maybe new people and ideas will inject some new ideas and fun to the party. As long as they are genuinely OK with the ethos of swinging and not just using it until new porn story lines appear on their normal streaming service.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Think the fab is as good as it’s always been , seems to be plenty of couples that are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it hard too, we get so many messages from single men or obviously fake profiles. We think photo only verified to even set up an account

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