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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? "  | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? " Should be a no idiots option ? | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? " Except they do have that option on fabguys , why the difference? | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? Should be a no idiots option ?" No need for that is there ? | |||
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"There should be extra options for a lot of things but it ain't gonna happen. If safe sex isn't listed as an interest chances are they're up for bareback." I don’t think that last part is true , I would suggest that there are hundreds if not thousands on here that list safe sex and still play bare ( either from here or in normal life ) . I have never played bareback with anyone off this site but I have in my life away from fab . | |||
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"There should be extra options for a lot of things but it ain't gonna happen. If safe sex isn't listed as an interest chances are they're up for bareback. I don’t think that last part is true , I would suggest that there are hundreds if not thousands on here that list safe sex and still play bare ( either from here or in normal life ) . I’m not against playing bareback either , feel free to block , but it never ceases to amaze me how holier than thou some people are on here . I have never played bareback with anyone off this site but I have in my life away from fab ." | |||
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"I've suggested this before. It doesn't look like this site has had any updates in easily 10 years. Many with safe sex ticked are happy going bare, it would be helpful to see who is more clearly. Xx" Exactly ! Anyway , you can’t still be alive Jessica ........it’s Russian roulette you know , one in six chance of death !  | |||
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"Definitely its an option on the other site fabguys so don't see why not on here people would still likely be dishonest though a lot of people hide that they play bare so safe only women and couples don't rule them out " Yep , double standards . | |||
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"I've suggested this before. It doesn't look like this site has had any updates in easily 10 years. Many with safe sex ticked are happy going bare, it would be helpful to see who is more clearly. Xx Exactly ! Anyway , you can’t still be alive Jessica ........it’s Russian roulette you know , one in six chance of death ! "I've definitely had sex with more than 6 men  xx | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? Should be a no idiots option ?" This would be a very quiet place if that happens  | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? Except they do have that option on fabguys , why the difference?" I couldn't tell you, I've never been on that site. I am still of the opinion that it is not a great idea to be actively assisted in seeking out people who practice unsafe sex. It's true, consenting adults can do as they please and I am not here to judge anyone who plays that way. People who practise safe sex can and will continue to use protection and minimise the risk to themselves. My views may be outdated, but is promoting risky behavior.....risky behaviour itself? L | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? Except they do have that option on fabguys , why the difference? I couldn't tell you, I've never been on that site. I am still of the opinion that it is not a great idea to be actively assisted in seeking out people who practice unsafe sex. It's true, consenting adults can do as they please and I am not here to judge anyone who plays that way. People who practise safe sex can and will continue to use protection and minimise the risk to themselves. My views may be outdated, but is promoting risky behavior.....risky behaviour itself? L" Neither have I , but I know it’s on there . It’s got nothing to do with promoting safe sex if they are happy to have it on the other site . | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? " The site promotes and enables meeting for sex , before and during a pandemic. That is risky behaviour. Being a swinger puts you at a greater risk than a none swinger. You would be amazed at the amount of safe only couples who play bare ... If you don't believe me place a dummy profile up and say you want bare only ... | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? " exactly this it’s unsafe | |||
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"I've suggested this before. It doesn't look like this site has had any updates in easily 10 years. Many with safe sex ticked are happy going bare, it would be helpful to see who is more clearly. Xx Exactly ! Anyway , you can’t still be alive Jessica ........it’s Russian roulette you know , one in six chance of death !
I've definitely had sex with more than 6 men xx"You harlot ! | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? exactly this it’s unsafe "So why allow it on their other site that is just for gay/ bi men ? It’s ok for them to facilitate for gay / bi men but not fit straight people / swingers ? Makes no sense at all . | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? " I was told by a MOD a while ago, bareback is ok to do and not against site rules. | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? " The preferences don't mean much on here either way. It just gives impressions for others to observe, doesn't mean they adhere one way or another. | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? The preferences don't mean much on here either way. It just gives impressions for others to observe, doesn't mean they adhere one way or another." That’s not true of everyone on here though . | |||
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"Good idea but can't see this happening. There's not even an option to filter out messages from bi/bi curious guys. The choice is all guys or no guys." Yes , very odd that ! | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? " Definitely it is on fabguys | |||
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"I really don't think the site would want to be promoting or facilitating risky behaviour? " Its standard on sister site Fabguys. Can't really call it promoting stuff because there's a search criteria for smokers and non smokers.. Thats not promoting smoking. | |||
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"Definitely its an option on the other site fabguys so don't see why not on here people would still likely be dishonest though a lot of people hide that they play bare so safe only women and couples don't rule them out " And this ia the problem. Bareback fuckers will lie just to get some pussy or arse. Always have and always will. Take care of your own health as only one life we get. If they want to risk theirs it is their choice, but i will not have them risking ours! | |||
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"It will just be lots of people with only safe sex messaging barebackers, telling them they don't put it on their profiles because some don't like it, same as the "straight" that are looking for sex with other men, now" Very true | |||
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"It will just be lots of people with only safe sex messaging barebackers, telling them they don't put it on their profiles because some don't like it, same as the "straight" that are looking for sex with other men, now Very true "This! I commented on a bare vs protected thread once... loads of guys actively looking for bare messaged me. My profile clearly says it’s not optional- but they said that’s what they all say and always play bare. So pointless being able to filter it really ha | |||
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" I think it would make it easier to make an informed decision. I don't have safe sex listed as an interest but I don't have any interests listed. I foolishly assume that people use condoms... a very naive assumption. I don't think it's right to make assumptions either way - and anything that clears up any ambiguity would be a good thing. I don't think that barebackers should be villified - anything which encourages stealth (in both senses of the word) promotes risky behaviour. If the barebackers could be loud and proud (some of them are anyway) it would help be people to make a more informed decision. That can only be a good thing. No?" That is such a true statement stop vilify people its its their adult choice. There are things am not into but i dont get on me high horse or preach to people. Its not against the law at the end of the day | |||
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"Not being funny but why on earth would people offer bare back. There's many risks and you dony know if they have anything " All sex is risky, people just have different limits for how much risk they're willing to accept. For me I can feel the difference and men not finishing inside me takes away a huge part of the experience for me, physically and emotionally. So I play bare only and would find this filter useful, I know the risks, it's up to me and men I have sex with xx | |||
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"I agree with Jessica. Fucking and sucking with a condom is like playing a guitar with gloves. To climax I need to feel the juices and spasms of a lafy's climaxing pussy first. There is nothing worse for a man than being hard and not being to ejaculate semen. Many of the ladies I have had sex with including my ex wife complained about the latex in the condom irritating their sensitive pussies. Have other ladies found this too? " Use latex free | |||
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"I've suggested this before. It doesn't look like this site has had any updates in easily 10 years. Many with safe sex ticked are happy going bare, it would be helpful to see who is more clearly. Xx" Yes, Totally agree | |||
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"I agree with Jessica. Fucking and sucking with a condom is like playing a guitar with gloves. To climax I need to feel the juices and spasms of a lafy's climaxing pussy first. There is nothing worse for a man than being hard and not being to ejaculate semen. Many of the ladies I have had sex with including my ex wife complained about the latex in the condom irritating their sensitive pussies. Have other ladies found this too? " I do get a lot drier with a condom, even latex free, it doesn't feel very nice xx | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? Should be a no idiots option ? This would be a very quiet place if that happens "But safer. If people want to take the risk fine. But dont put me or my mrs at risk by lying just to get a fuck! | |||
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"Maybe it could be a separate option in the same way as smokers or non smokers, and a filter that would block profiles of those you didn't want to appear in your profile search." Good idea | |||
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"Good idea but can't see this happening. There's not even an option to filter out messages from bi/bi curious guys. The choice is all guys or no guys." But you have bicurious yourself. I wonder if women fingering and exchanging body fluids is just as risky  | |||
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"It will just be lots of people with only safe sex messaging barebackers, telling them they don't put it on their profiles because some don't like it, same as the "straight" that are looking for sex with other men, now" Is that the fab straight or the straight, straight | |||
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"Should there be an option for bareback in preferences and in the search tab ? The preferences don't mean much on here either way. It just gives impressions for others to observe, doesn't mean they adhere one way or another." Very true. We had a good few cpls chatting to us on here when we first joined who amitted they had done a lot of bareback with others. Others who also said they bareback regular with a few regulars. But what if the regulars are also barebacking with others themselves and not telling the others russian roulette springs to mind. | |||
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" I think it would make it easier to make an informed decision. I don't have safe sex listed as an interest but I don't have any interests listed. I foolishly assume that people use condoms... a very naive assumption. I don't think it's right to make assumptions either way - and anything that clears up any ambiguity would be a good thing. I don't think that barebackers should be villified - anything which encourages stealth (in both senses of the word) promotes risky behaviour. If the barebackers could be loud and proud (some of them are anyway) it would help be people to make a more informed decision. That can only be a good thing. No? That is such a true statement stop vilify people its its their adult choice. There are things am not into but i dont get on me high horse or preach to people. Its not against the law at the end of the day " But is if you infect someone with hiv . Putting others lives at risk is just not on. If you want to play russian roulette with your life fine. But dont out ours at risk by lying. | |||
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"yes...and some of us take PrEP " Like all precautions even prep is not 100%. | |||
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"I agree with Jessica. Fucking and sucking with a condom is like playing a guitar with gloves. To climax I need to feel the juices and spasms of a lafy's climaxing pussy first. There is nothing worse for a man than being hard and not being to ejaculate semen. Many of the ladies I have had sex with including my ex wife complained about the latex in the condom irritating their sensitive pussies. Have other ladies found this too? Use latex free " Why. He loves the feeling. Also loves playing russian rulette | |||
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"Not being funny but why on earth would people offer bare back. There's many risks and you dony know if they have anything All sex is risky, people just have different limits for how much risk they're willing to accept. For me I can feel the difference and men not finishing inside me takes away a huge part of the experience for me, physically and emotionally. So I play bare only and would find this filter useful, I know the risks, it's up to me and men I have sex with xx" | |||
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"Not being funny but why on earth would people offer bare back. There's many risks and you dony know if they have anything All sex is risky, people just have different limits for how much risk they're willing to accept. For me I can feel the difference and men not finishing inside me takes away a huge part of the experience for me, physically and emotionally. So I play bare only and would find this filter useful, I know the risks, it's up to me and men I have sex with xx" | |||
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"Not being funny but why on earth would people offer bare back. There's many risks and you dony know if they have anything " Not being funny but why would anyone piss or shit on each other or stick their tongue up someone’s arse, or shove metal bars down their japseye.........live and let live . | |||
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" I think it would make it easier to make an informed decision. I don't have safe sex listed as an interest but I don't have any interests listed. I foolishly assume that people use condoms... a very naive assumption. I don't think it's right to make assumptions either way - and anything that clears up any ambiguity would be a good thing. I don't think that barebackers should be villified - anything which encourages stealth (in both senses of the word) promotes risky behaviour. If the barebackers could be loud and proud (some of them are anyway) it would help be people to make a more informed decision. That can only be a good thing. No? That is such a true statement stop vilify people its its their adult choice. There are things am not into but i dont get on me high horse or preach to people. Its not against the law at the end of the day But is if you infect someone with hiv . Putting others lives at risk is just not on. If you want to play russian roulette with your life fine. But dont out ours at risk by lying. "Every time somebody pulls out the Russian roulette phrase , Russian roulette is a one in six chance of dying ! Dying from sexual intercourse is millions to one , almost nobody dies from an STI in the U.K. now . | |||
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