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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility" It would just get lost in the sea of other options or forums, the same people who would meet anyone regardless of preferences ,looks , age, size ect would and would say or do anything for meet would add those forums or options to their wish lists. Very quickly the genuine people in the category you speak of OP would realise nothing is different from any other forum or preference. As said earlier make contacts and friends and see where it leads . Another good tip would be not to shag until at least the 4th or 5th meet as then at least you will know they want to meet you as opposed any random that they hooked and a quick shag and block. | |||
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"It would just be another easy platform for guys to make false promises to women to get then into bed. You want a swinger to date? Get on tinder, they are all on here too. " bit cynical...most of the women i know are too savvy to be that easily talked out of their knickers. I don't think you're giving women the credit they deserve and being unfair to guys at the same time. | |||
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"It would just be another easy platform for guys to make false promises to women to get then into bed. You want a swinger to date? Get on tinder, they are all on here too. bit cynical...most of the women i know are too savvy to be that easily talked out of their knickers. I don't think you're giving women the credit they deserve and being unfair to guys at the same time." Thats avery good description of me | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility It would just get lost in the sea of other options or forums, the same people who would meet anyone regardless of preferences ,looks , age, size ect would and would say or do anything for meet would add those forums or options to their wish lists. Very quickly the genuine people in the category you speak of OP would realise nothing is different from any other forum or preference. As said earlier make contacts and friends and see where it leads . Another good tip would be not to shag until at least the 4th or 5th meet as then at least you will know they want to meet you as opposed any random that they hooked and a quick shag and block. " i think you're wrong and here's why. On a site like this there's no real option to say you're also looking for a relationship, where as on other dating sites there's no option to say you have a varied outlook on sex and sexuality. The vast majority of women on the vanilla sites would run a mile if they saw you wearing a dress, theres enough people like that on this site. Your options on vanilla sites, if youre going to be honest about who and what you are and are into, are at best limited at worst (its normally worse) none existant. So if you have an "alternative" sex life a dating aspect to a site like this would be great, even essential. | |||
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"I'd love this. " so wpuld i. Vanilla Dating sites are atrocious | |||
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"yes this is a great idea.. as lockdown has carried on...from the early days to this recent clampdown I've been getting lots of ads for dating sites on my Facebook. i think it's just about socially accepted that although not firmly within the rules dating and social distanced courtship has been going on. i think fab is more of a place for sexual expression and moral acceptance than swinging and groups sex. Definately worth thinking about " | |||
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"Love the idea. Count me in.. love to meet a fellow partner and continue the lifestyle" same here. I much preferred this lifestyle as a couple | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility" I'm with you on this. I prefer the lifestyle with a partner, you cant find a suitable partner in vanillaland. Live your profile by the way. I wish you weren't over 300miles away | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility It would just get lost in the sea of other options or forums, the same people who would meet anyone regardless of preferences ,looks , age, size ect would and would say or do anything for meet would add those forums or options to their wish lists. Very quickly the genuine people in the category you speak of OP would realise nothing is different from any other forum or preference. As said earlier make contacts and friends and see where it leads . Another good tip would be not to shag until at least the 4th or 5th meet as then at least you will know they want to meet you as opposed any random that they hooked and a quick shag and block. i think you're wrong and here's why. On a site like this there's no real option to say you're also looking for a relationship, where as on other dating sites there's no option to say you have a varied outlook on sex and sexuality. The vast majority of women on the vanilla sites would run a mile if they saw you wearing a dress, theres enough people like that on this site. Your options on vanilla sites, if youre going to be honest about who and what you are and are into, are at best limited at worst (its normally worse) none existant. So if you have an "alternative" sex life a dating aspect to a site like this would be great, even essential." Thanks, you've put my thoughts on this into words very well! | |||
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"It would just be another easy platform for guys to make false promises to women to get then into bed. You want a swinger to date? Get on tinder, they are all on here too. " No one is on tinder to date haha! It’s the same people as on here! | |||
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"all sorts of kinky folk on here want to date and have meaningful relationships not just fuck and go d" You're right. I'm one of them | |||
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"It would just be another easy platform for guys to make false promises to women to get then into bed. You want a swinger to date? Get on tinder, they are all on here too. No one is on tinder to date haha! It’s the same people as on here! " I don't know if it's my age range. But I can't find any ha ha ha. I've had two regular relationships from there. Alot treat it just as a normal dating app now. | |||
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"Count me in too " Ok ONE....! | |||
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"I like this idea quite alot. All it would take is add one more forum Topic like "LFR" I know it's not the sole reason for this site as it's for "swingers" but I dont feel it actually really is in that sense anymore anyway I dunno. I See it more as a place where people that are open sexually can meet tbh x" LFR? | |||
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"I like this idea quite alot. All it would take is add one more forum Topic like "LFR" I know it's not the sole reason for this site as it's for "swingers" but I dont feel it actually really is in that sense anymore anyway I dunno. I See it more as a place where people that are open sexually can meet tbh x LFR?" Looking for Relationship | |||
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"Single men would still outnumber single women by 500 to one " That low you think | |||
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"Single men would still outnumber single women by 500 to one That low you think " And some men and women would like just for hookups | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility It would just get lost in the sea of other options or forums, the same people who would meet anyone regardless of preferences ,looks , age, size ect would and would say or do anything for meet would add those forums or options to their wish lists. Very quickly the genuine people in the category you speak of OP would realise nothing is different from any other forum or preference. As said earlier make contacts and friends and see where it leads . Another good tip would be not to shag until at least the 4th or 5th meet as then at least you will know they want to meet you as opposed any random that they hooked and a quick shag and block. i think you're wrong and here's why. On a site like this there's no real option to say you're also looking for a relationship, where as on other dating sites there's no option to say you have a varied outlook on sex and sexuality. The vast majority of women on the vanilla sites would run a mile if they saw you wearing a dress, theres enough people like that on this site. Your options on vanilla sites, if youre going to be honest about who and what you are and are into, are at best limited at worst (its normally worse) none existant. So if you have an "alternative" sex life a dating aspect to a site like this would be great, even essential." Yeah i have recently tried Tinder as Chloe. Only like i had was from a girl who thought i was a real genetic girl (must of been blind ) | |||
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"Single men would still outnumber single women by 500 to one That low you think And some men and women would like just for hookups" Right not a bad thing lol | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility" Sounds reasonable but I suppose that whatever you find on here can then develop to wherever it needs to | |||
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"Maybe a seperate site would be good...Fab Dating " yes. People of a swinging nature deserve to be able to date and dating sites are still operating.. and i think?? its still socially acceptable to date.. tho nowhere to go.. d | |||
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"Maybe a seperate site would be good...Fab Dating " That’s a good idea | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility" Yes please | |||
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"Glad to see this discussion rekindled! I put my hand up, feels important to me. Think I've always had a curiosity with alternative/kink/swinger life-style and in the last few years it's been getting better and better, going to clubs, getting invited to parties, and meeting the most lovely amazing people. I'm also dating out in the "vanilla world" and am stumped how to reconcile the two worlds. Dont want to lie-by-ommission or to suppress my swinger urges but also feel acutely most vanilla people would find it totally unacceptable. So jump at the idea of "fab-dating" and welcome genuine advice on this dilemma? " I openly advertise im on a swingers site and that if this is a problem then they not the guy for me ...... they are more than welcome to join me in the scene as long as they don't expect me to go fishing with them hahahahaha | |||
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"I dream of finding a lady that i can share my heart with, travel, take to dinner, holidays, vanilla activities. I still believe in holding the door open for a lady, chivalry and that long lost virtue treating her with respect. But i also love to watch my partner having fun with other people. I would ideally like a proper relationship with a lady who also enjoys this lifestyle, is there one out there for me??? " They deffo need a dating section on the forums | |||
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"Reading some of the profiles of the women in this thread , some would be a rare old catch too. Bring on a dating section. " Is that meant with sarcasm? Brilliant | |||
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"As a web developer, it’s easy enough. Good idea to have a dating section. *Mind is thinking of all the possibilities* I know it’s been talked about so much on here, and even when people do put it in their profile, it never works... at least by having a dedicated section you will find like minded people looking for the relevant thing as you are and that they are actually looking for a relationship while also staying in the scene. " Well I’m thinking you should get started on it ASAP | |||
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"Reading some of the profiles of the women in this thread , some would be a rare old catch too. Bring on a dating section. Is that meant with sarcasm? Brilliant " It was lol. No offence intended though. Well for most anyway. | |||
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"Reading some of the profiles of the women in this thread , some would be a rare old catch too. Bring on a dating section. Is that meant with sarcasm? Brilliant " | |||
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" I know a couple who met as singles on here and they have been together a few years and said it was great to meet someone and not have to worry about bringing up the lifestyle as a potential issue. " We did too, getting married next year Think it’s a good idea, but as has been said, there will always be some people who abuse and ruin it somehow | |||
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"As a swinger who would be open to something developing further from meets, and hearing some others have a similar interest, could this be added as a feature on profiles or a separate forum? This is not my primary goal of the site and if it ever happened it would come under the added bonus category, but I am sure there would be others who would be interested in a feature like this to show they wouldn't mind it as a possibility" Great idea | |||
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