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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand when profiles say no 'single males' no problem with that at all, I get it.

What I hate though is when I have to choose between declaring myself to be one thing or another when it's actually possible to be both, or to at least be one thing or another depending on what is wanted.

I like to explore different pleasures but because of certain 'labels' there are some people I can't message. I could change the label, but then I'd ruin my chances with other people, I always have to choose.

I don't want to lie, I want to be up front and honest, and say "I like this AND I like that, but if you want ONLY this or ONLY that then that's fine as long as we BOTH enjoy it"

This site is supposed to HELP people explore sex, not limit us to choosing between one lifestyle or another depending on which might give the best returns, when we could be having BOTH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite sure what you are saying

Some things are easy you are either single or you are not, you are totally straight or you are bi or gay

What things do you think are hard to chose between so not to put certain people off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kinds lost...think you need to explain exactly what you mean for people to comment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand when profiles say no 'single males' no problem with that at all, I get it.

What I hate though is when I have to choose between declaring myself to be one thing or another when it's actually possible to be both, or to at least be one thing or another depending on what is wanted.

I like to explore different pleasures but because of certain 'labels' there are some people I can't message. I could change the label, but then I'd ruin my chances with other people, I always have to choose.

I don't want to lie, I want to be up front and honest, and say "I like this AND I like that, but if you want ONLY this or ONLY that then that's fine as long as we BOTH enjoy it"

This site is supposed to HELP people explore sex, not limit us to choosing between one lifestyle or another depending on which might give the best returns, when we could be having BOTH."

Fab does HELP people explore sex,its there profile and if they dont MEET single men thats up to them What members put on there profile is what they want its simple as that

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unless it s the bi / straight / curious debate..... I'm also lost

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I understand when profiles say no 'single males' no problem with that at all, I get it.

What I hate though is when I have to choose between declaring myself to be one thing or another when it's actually possible to be both, or to at least be one thing or another depending on what is wanted.

I like to explore different pleasures but because of certain 'labels' there are some people I can't message. I could change the label, but then I'd ruin my chances with other people, I always have to choose.

I don't want to lie, I want to be up front and honest, and say "I like this AND I like that, but if you want ONLY this or ONLY that then that's fine as long as we BOTH enjoy it"

This site is supposed to HELP people explore sex, not limit us to choosing between one lifestyle or another depending on which might give the best returns, when we could be having BOTH."

Set up two profile...

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