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"We would love a Smoker,Non smoker filter ....would be very helpful when searching x" I think that's a great idea xx | |||
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"We would love a Smoker,Non smoker filter ....would be very helpful when searching x" That’s one of the options in advanced search. | |||
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"We would love a Smoker,Non smoker filter ....would be very helpful when searching x That’s one of the options in advanced search." Thats what I was thinking theres the option there to choose smoker or non smoker... | |||
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"Are we talking as in a specific height as in a measurement? Similar to say the age ranges? If so what about we make it All specific and throw in dress sizes..... Etc etc" Well it would help either way! Save time and lotta heart ache lol | |||
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"Does hight matter that much " Yeah if he's 5ft and am 5ft 10 lol | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!!" Ofcourse but am 5ft10 and finding it hard to find ppl taller.... | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!! Ofcourse but am 5ft10 and finding it hard to find ppl taller.... I have the same issue. Im a tall lady and i prefer tall men! Its soo strange that you can filter out ppl of different races but mention height and folk get sensitive. " I know hun .... | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!! Ofcourse but am 5ft10 and finding it hard to find ppl taller.... I have the same issue. Im a tall lady and i prefer tall men! Its soo strange that you can filter out ppl of different races but mention height and folk get sensitive. " Blokes get sensitive because other than wearing Cuban heels they know there's cock all they can do about it | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!!" I have a bit of a thing for short women so would be searching for that sometimes. Sometimes I’m after some long legs to wrap round me others a small woman. It would be amazing to be able to find what your actualy looking for. | |||
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"Can we also have if people have pubes on there face or not as I'm not a fan of beards. Maybe an option if they have hair, saves me looking for non baldies. And while were at it people with there own teeth. Much thanks! " Wouldn't it be good if you just got given a questionnaire to what exactly your looking for down to the very last detail I wonder how many men that could bring up? Well I like beards and own teeth should be an option .... | |||
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"Dress size filter be good to go along that height filter " Exactly good one! Wish it was definitely a thing | |||
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"People will most likely lie. The amount of people that insist they're over 6 foot and you meet them and they're 5'8" Same with people wanting filters for body size. It's easy to lie. It already happens with ages, so many people take years of themselves." Yeah seemingly ppl don't know how to measure their height and just guess lol hate that especially cause am 5ft10 and need taller...shorter fellas just don't look right standing beside me lol and yeah sorry loe about their age too especially when they send you pics of their body and you know its a body of a 20something guy and he says he's 45 .... then you see a face pic then they are such a catfish ...ppl waste too much time lying !! | |||
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"I agree. Would cut down on me reading profiles that I don’t suit. " Exactly waste enough time as it is! | |||
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"Yeah seemingly ppl don't know how to measure their height and just guess lol hate that especially cause am 5ft10 and need taller...shorter fellas just don't look right standing beside me lol" I say this all the time and get comments like ‘well were not here for marriage or dating why does height matter?’ ‘Its just sex not planning on standing together’ ‘were all the same height laying down.....’ These comments show me folks dont consider socials, they will shag anyone attraction be damned and your views dont matter. | |||
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"Yeah seemingly ppl don't know how to measure their height and just guess lol hate that especially cause am 5ft10 and need taller...shorter fellas just don't look right standing beside me lol I say this all the time and get comments like ‘well were not here for marriage or dating why does height matter?’ ‘Its just sex not planning on standing together’ ‘were all the same height laying down.....’ These comments show me folks dont consider socials, they will shag anyone attraction be damned and your views dont matter. " Ohh I hear ya hun...I mean certain positions you need to be same height or there abouts for them to work and a decent size package too lol for me I can't imagine standing in a bar with a wee shortly of a man it would be weird now a taller guy would be grand! We all have different specifications we want in a play date! Men would literally shag anyone but us women have a preference....and like to be attracted and well matched to play .... | |||
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"Can we also have if people have pubes on there face or not as I'm not a fan of beards. Maybe an option if they have hair, saves me looking for non baldies. And while were at it people with there own teeth. Much thanks! Wouldn't it be good if you just got given a questionnaire to what exactly your looking for down to the very last detail I wonder how many men that could bring up? Well I like beards and own teeth should be an option .... " Probably not many but yeah would save all the faffing around. | |||
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"It’s funny how a bald short man with £millions bank account would suddenly change the preferences .... I look at some women pics with high standards or very demanding and I think if men were not that fussy the only choice they would have is the one from the bedside table " Always wonderful to see such bitterness about women from people who expect women to meet them. | |||
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"It’s funny how a bald short man with £millions bank account would suddenly change the preferences .... I look at some women pics with high standards or very demanding and I think if men were not that fussy the only choice they would have is the one from the bedside table Always wonderful to see such bitterness about women from people who expect women to meet them." How’s it bitter? We constantly get the stick but can’t retaliate? I am most of the time at 99% gentleman | |||
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"It’s funny how a bald short man with £millions bank account would suddenly change the preferences .... I look at some women pics with high standards or very demanding and I think if men were not that fussy the only choice they would have is the one from the bedside table Always wonderful to see such bitterness about women from people who expect women to meet them. How’s it bitter? We constantly get the stick but can’t retaliate? I am most of the time at 99% gentleman " It certainly sounds bitter when you say we’re only interested in men with money, even if they’re unattractive. It sounds bitter when you say our standards are too high, especially when you’re implying that we’re not attractive enough to have high standards. | |||
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"It’s funny how a bald short man with £millions bank account would suddenly change the preferences .... I look at some women pics with high standards or very demanding and I think if men were not that fussy the only choice they would have is the one from the bedside table Always wonderful to see such bitterness about women from people who expect women to meet them. How’s it bitter? We constantly get the stick but can’t retaliate? I am most of the time at 99% gentleman " Why do you assume women's standards would be different elsewhere? I would prefer my bedside table option to someone I don't find attractive! | |||
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"We would love a Smoker,Non smoker filter ....would be very helpful when searching x" I think it be great to have it set automatically in searches, set once and then ignore, or if set in you profile link to search unless one opts out. It's not really something that someone wants one week and not another week. Something I've always wondered why it does ever since joining. | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!!" Me too! Or probably not actually... That's the problem! What other filters? Eye colour, hair colour? Weight? IQ? | |||
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"I'd be totally for this. And also for the smoker / non smoker option. And maybe add vaper as well, since a lot of the hardcore non smokers see that as smoking x" Oh, and distance! Distance would be a great filter to put on x | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon " Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that." I don’t know I dont give anyone crap or hard time or be nasty if lady said I’m not their type or doesn’t reply it’s not my style but having a filter would be better so I know they are submissive would make it a lot easier as other filters too | |||
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"I reckon when searching you should have the option of min and max height filters ..... you agree? " There will be some very very sad single guys if you add yet another thing to stop them having any chance in talking to anyone | |||
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"I reckon when searching you should have the option of min and max height filters ..... you agree? " Agreed !! Make things easier for us short people since taller woman don’t really go for short men | |||
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"I jist find it odd you'd rule someone out based on height - tall or short doesnt matter to me. Tall women give the best hugs and short women make me feel big lol. When it comes to aesthetics obv people have preferences but for these to be absolute i find weird. I get the dress size / build thing but if someone is in proportion to this preference then taller or shorter seems entirely irrelevent." So you say yourself, shorter ladies make you feel big. Maybe us taller ladies would like to feel small now and then? | |||
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"I jist find it odd you'd rule someone out based on height - tall or short doesnt matter to me. Tall women give the best hugs and short women make me feel big lol. When it comes to aesthetics obv people have preferences but for these to be absolute i find weird. I get the dress size / build thing but if someone is in proportion to this preference then taller or shorter seems entirely irrelevent. So you say yourself, shorter ladies make you feel big. Maybe us taller ladies would like to feel small now and then? " Im saying ruling people out on it seems weird to me. People can clearly do what they want. Tall women want a guy bigger than them to make themselves feel feminine - this has very little to do with attraction and everything to do with ego. In my case im saying tall and short have benefits but i wouldnt stipulate anyone had to be a certain height to sleep with me. I mean...id feel weird fucking a midget but some of them midgets are also hot as fuck | |||
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"I reckon when searching you should have the option of min and max height filters ..... you agree? There will be some very very sad single guys if you add yet another thing to stop them having any chance in talking to anyone" Yeah but then you will meet someone that suits you rather than someone who's near a foot shorter....ppl get butt hurt enough when you don't reply or delete their message...so why not put a height filter then you get matched with someone you'd prefar than wasting other folks time | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that." I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. " I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it. | |||
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"I jist find it odd you'd rule someone out based on height - tall or short doesnt matter to me. Tall women give the best hugs and short women make me feel big lol. When it comes to aesthetics obv people have preferences but for these to be absolute i find weird. I get the dress size / build thing but if someone is in proportion to this preference then taller or shorter seems entirely irrelevent." I don’t understand the dress size and build difference to height? Isn’t it just another characteristic and people’s preferences? I’d love this filter, but it would actually backfire on me as tall girl from a guys preference! | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. " That is very true we are very respectful and have to earn the right to be a Dom With a sub and we never do things the sub doesn’t like or isnot ailing to do which is sorted out after we build up trust and that take a while not like the wannabe doms who haven’t got a clue how to treat a lady | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it." You haven’t read my profile then it doesn’t work like that maybe a wannabe Dom plays like that but not me it’s about trust and other things which takes time nothing to do with shoving A cock down someone’s throat | |||
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"I think my preference might actually be for shorter guys " That’s different most lady’s like a man to be taller usually but you like shorter | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it. You haven’t read my profile then it doesn’t work like that maybe a wannabe Dom plays like that but not me it’s about trust and other things which takes time nothing to do with shoving A cock down someone’s throat " Quite honestly your username would be more than enough to put me off. | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it. You haven’t read my profile then it doesn’t work like that maybe a wannabe Dom plays like that but not me it’s about trust and other things which takes time nothing to do with shoving A cock down someone’s throat Quite honestly your username would be more than enough to put me off." We would never meet anyway and there is nothing wrong with the name | |||
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"Well, that's us f****d then.. Short lives matter!!!" SHORT LIVES MATTER! | |||
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"I jist find it odd you'd rule someone out based on height - tall or short doesnt matter to me. Tall women give the best hugs and short women make me feel big lol. When it comes to aesthetics obv people have preferences but for these to be absolute i find weird. I get the dress size / build thing but if someone is in proportion to this preference then taller or shorter seems entirely irrelevent." Think you summed it up when you said 'I find it odd'. Isn't that what any filter is for? People have preferences and not everyone understands or may even agree, however one needs to respect and not try to change them to fit into our way of understanding. Question to those who have mocked this idea, do you any filters? If so are you maybe being a tad hypocritical? | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it. You haven’t read my profile then it doesn’t work like that maybe a wannabe Dom plays like that but not me it’s about trust and other things which takes time nothing to do with shoving A cock down someone’s throat Quite honestly your username would be more than enough to put me off. We would never meet anyway and there is nothing wrong with the name " No sub “needs to be punished” by default, and no “Dom” has the right to say that a sub who is not their sub needs punishment or anything else. | |||
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"Submissive and not submissive aswell and single or married or attached would be wonderful too but can’t see these filters popping up anytime soon Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that. I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. I’m put off by anyone who tries to shove it down people’s throats. Doms who feel the need to tell everyone how dominant they are, and fill their profiles with all the things they want to do to some poor woman without any inkling that she might have something to say about it, really put me off. The good Doms don’t need to go on about it. You haven’t read my profile then it doesn’t work like that maybe a wannabe Dom plays like that but not me it’s about trust and other things which takes time nothing to do with shoving A cock down someone’s throat Quite honestly your username would be more than enough to put me off. We would never meet anyway and there is nothing wrong with the name No sub “needs to be punished” by default, and no “Dom” has the right to say that a sub who is not their sub needs punishment or anything else." It's only a profile name lady's that read my profile that I chat with know this and all submissive lady's know it's not punishment or pain if they enjoy it it's pleasure | |||
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"I think my preference might actually be for shorter guys That’s different most lady’s like a man to be taller usually but you like shorter " My mum was taller than me and my dad short so it's not a big deal for me, I don't need protecting, or throwing around the bedroom and you have to be over 6'4" for me to see you as tall anyway as, apart from dad, that is average height for the men in my family, so ya know | |||
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"I am most of the time at 99% gentleman" Try being 100% a gentleman 100% of the time. Not because it might get you sex, but because it's the right thing to do. = "Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that." I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type." "That is very true we are very respectful and have to earn the right to be a Dom With a sub and we never do things the sub doesn’t like or isnot ailing to do which is sorted out after we build up trust and that take a while not like the wannabe doms who haven’t got a clue how to treat a lady" CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG! Red flag! Red flag! Congratulations! You boys have just outed yourselves as being either clueless or mendacious, very definitely not doms, and probably unsafe play partners too. = "Tall women want a guy bigger than them to make themselves feel feminine - this has very little to do with attraction and everything to do with ego." Erm... no. Just no. I'm a *really* tall guy. Tall enough that tall women have sought me out because my stature helps them feel more feminine. They want to feel feminine because we live in a society that conditions women from birth to believe they *must* be feminine. They spend their whole lives being treated as "lesser" women because their height somehow disqualifies them from their femininity. It's cruel, it's unnecessary, and it is down *solely* to the toxic misogyny that absolutely permeates the very fabric of our civilization. So, fucking no, it's nothing to do with "ego". It's entirely to do with tall women being treated like shit their entire lives because they don't conform to some externally mandated standard of femininity. Patriarchy: Blaming women for the problems caused by the patriarchy. = Height filter is a nice idea. Unfortunately it won't filter our liars, but that's the case with all filters. People *do* know how to measure themselves. They just lie about it. And I say all this as a *very* tall guy who would doubtless be excluded by a lot of searches. | |||
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"Fucking hell. State of some of the guys in this thread. I am most of the time at 99% gentleman Try being 100% a gentleman 100% of the time. Not because it might get you sex, but because it's the right thing to do. = Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that." I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. That is very true we are very respectful and have to earn the right to be a Dom With a sub and we never do things the sub doesn’t like or isnot ailing to do which is sorted out after we build up trust and that take a while not like the wannabe doms who haven’t got a clue how to treat a lady CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG! Red flag! Red flag! Congratulations! You boys have just outed yourselves as being either clueless or mendacious, very definitely not doms, and probably unsafe play partners too. = Tall women want a guy bigger than them to make themselves feel feminine - this has very little to do with attraction and everything to do with ego. Erm... no. Just no. I'm a *really* tall guy. Tall enough that tall women have sought me out because my stature helps them feel more feminine. They want to feel feminine because we live in a society that conditions women from birth to believe they *must* be feminine. They spend their whole lives being treated as "lesser" women because their height somehow disqualifies them from their femininity. It's cruel, it's unnecessary, and it is down *solely* to the toxic misogyny that absolutely permeates the very fabric of our civilization. So, fucking no, it's nothing to do with "ego". It's entirely to do with tall women being treated like shit their entire lives because they don't conform to some externally mandated standard of femininity. Patriarchy: Blaming women for the problems caused by the patriarchy. = Height filter is a nice idea. Unfortunately it won't filter our liars, but that's the case with all filters. People *do* know how to measure themselves. They just lie about it. And I say all this as a *very* tall guy who would doubtless be excluded by a lot of searches. " Your entitled to your opinion and I respect that but you don't know me so you can't just make assumptions sir | |||
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"Fucking hell. State of some of the guys in this thread. I am most of the time at 99% gentleman Try being 100% a gentleman 100% of the time. Not because it might get you sex, but because it's the right thing to do. = Women get enough crap off “Doms” on here without inviting it like that." I wasn’t aware that you are put off by us? Unless you met some ass dum we are the most respectful type. That is very true we are very respectful and have to earn the right to be a Dom With a sub and we never do things the sub doesn’t like or isnot ailing to do which is sorted out after we build up trust and that take a while not like the wannabe doms who haven’t got a clue how to treat a lady CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG CLANG! Red flag! Red flag! Congratulations! You boys have just outed yourselves as being either clueless or mendacious, very definitely not doms, and probably unsafe play partners too. = Tall women want a guy bigger than them to make themselves feel feminine - this has very little to do with attraction and everything to do with ego. Erm... no. Just no. I'm a *really* tall guy. Tall enough that tall women have sought me out because my stature helps them feel more feminine. They want to feel feminine because we live in a society that conditions women from birth to believe they *must* be feminine. They spend their whole lives being treated as "lesser" women because their height somehow disqualifies them from their femininity. It's cruel, it's unnecessary, and it is down *solely* to the toxic misogyny that absolutely permeates the very fabric of our civilization. So, fucking no, it's nothing to do with "ego". It's entirely to do with tall women being treated like shit their entire lives because they don't conform to some externally mandated standard of femininity. Patriarchy: Blaming women for the problems caused by the patriarchy. = Height filter is a nice idea. Unfortunately it won't filter our liars, but that's the case with all filters. People *do* know how to measure themselves. They just lie about it. And I say all this as a *very* tall guy who would doubtless be excluded by a lot of searches. " Oh dear lord. The patriarchy? Incoherent, undergraduate, pseudo intellectual americana | |||
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