FabSwingers.com forum: If The Moderators Allow....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

....have you any suggestions to improve Fab for the benefit of all?

Personally, so it would seem, we can get rid on the "wink" since it would appear most say that they don't respond or even ignore them...and

I think a "thanks but no thanks" button option on receiving a message

If not removed, how about you?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I think this sort of stuff goes in the feedback forum.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I want a random faf generator button

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this sort of stuff goes in the feedback forum."

I accept what you say but after doing a quick straw pole it would seem to show that on here it would reach more, I might be wrong.

Actually if posted in the wrong place don't Posts get moved to what the Moderators consider the most appropriate "place?"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I like the wink function myself but would like to be able to put photos in a different order.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I think this sort of stuff goes in the feedback forum.

I accept what you say but after doing a quick straw pole it would seem to show that on here it would reach more, I might be wrong.

Actually if posted in the wrong place don't Posts get moved to what the Moderators consider the most appropriate "place?"

They do if they are online or someone reports the thread. But yes, more people will see it on here

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd."

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time."

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve asked before that If you click a no thanks button when you delete the message that the person can’t message you again for a month so you don’t get the thanks for replying

or the your a fat bitch I don’t want you anyway messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink button does work, keep it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also.

I really think there should be a celebrity death forum.

I don’t need to see it when I’ve logged onto the lounge for some light relief.

I get that some people thrive on spreading bad news and their need to get in and post it before anyone else lee does first is strong but put them all in one place where they can depress each other to their hearts content

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much "

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this sort of stuff goes in the feedback forum.

I accept what you say but after doing a quick straw pole it would seem to show that on here it would reach more, I might be wrong.

Actually if posted in the wrong place don't Posts get moved to what the Moderators consider the most appropriate "place?"

They do if they are online or someone reports the thread. But yes, more people will see it on here

Hopefully it will stay here and more can contribute and put forward new improving ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also.

I really think there should be a celebrity death forum.

I don’t need to see it when I’ve logged onto the lounge for some light relief.

Haha spot on, can't wait to say RIP whoever the fuck

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go. "

That's pussy power

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people."

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It would be nice to have an edit feature for when your phone decides it knows best and changes words and spellings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a 'potentially fake profile' button, just below (friend, wink, report, etc.).

If multiple people think the same thing and someone gets 7 in a week, then admin have a decision to make. (They could ask the profile to send 'we are genuine,

, written down in a photo, to continue on the site'

We all know there are loads of sad chaps pretending to be a couple on here! (Stolen holiday snaps etc.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles don't become public until a face photo (the one where you have to write "Fabswingers blah blah blah...) has been verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!"

What is it's point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....have you any suggestions to improve Fab for the benefit of all?

Personally, so it would seem, we can get rid on the "wink" since it would appear most say that they don't respond or even ignore them...and

I think a "thanks but no thanks" button option on receiving a message

If not removed, how about you?

I way prefer the wink system thanks! Much better than random messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!"

I just told you it does.

Should we remove just everything that doesn't work for you?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I like the wink.

Yes, some don't like it, but then most don't like or don't use the forums, but we shouldn't get rid of them.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time."

ahhh but that shows your commitment to my butterfly perusal

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Profiles don't become public until a face photo (the one where you have to write "Fabswingers blah blah blah...) has been verified. "

Good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just improve the thread message function, so it works like any other forum/thread anywhere else on earth, with notifications when people comment/reply to your messages.

And keep private messages for longer. Why do they disappear

after a time? It’s very annoying!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!"

From what I've read most women on here check out the profile before even bothering to read a message, so surely if using a wink keys then know you are interested and draws their attention to your profile, it saves them the time to read a message and you the time to write it. Only if you get a wink back do you need to start messaging.

It's just much more efficient and with womens inboxes flooding with messages, I would have thought that would have been appreciated.

Perhaps FAB could even make it so you 'need' a matching wink to message (or at least have it as an option).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the wink function because I am too shy to message someone I like, I'll send a wink instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a 'potentially fake profile' button, just below (friend, wink, report, etc.).

If multiple people think the same thing and someone gets 7 in a week, then admin have a decision to make. (They could ask the profile to send 'we are genuine,

, written down in a photo, to continue on the site'

We all know there are loads of sad chaps pretending to be a couple on here! (Stolen holiday snaps etc.)

Certainly can agree with that, great point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go. "

Take!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

All new profiles should have message filters locked down, and up to them to remove filters when they're ready so they don't get bombarded within moments of joining.

It really is overwhelming when you first join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go. "

I’d rather you posted it to me so I could eat it with some fava beans and a nice Chianti

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!

What is it's point?"

Hopefully I can try and explain, it seems to me that any time a Wink thread is posted it results in the general consensus of "what's the point"

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t mind a wee wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"....have you any suggestions to improve Fab for the benefit of all?

Personally, so it would seem, we can get rid on the "wink" since it would appear most say that they don't respond or even ignore them...and

I think a "thanks but no thanks" button option on receiving a message

If not removed, how about you?

I way prefer the wink system thanks! Much better than random messages

I'm genuinely pleased for you, get many?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go.

I’d rather you posted it to me so I could eat it with some fava beans and a nice Chianti"

Fun fact about that.

The type of medication he would have been on comes with the recommendation that you do not eat beans or drink alcohol as it can counteract the effects of the medication. So what he was really saying was he wasn’t taking his meds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!

I just told you it does.

Should we remove just everything that doesn't work for you?"

Okay, sorry, the testosterone is strong in you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd.

This is the biggest improvement the site could possibly make

I hate wading through all the filthy minge pictures to find your beautiful little butterfly all the time.

This is charming

I’ll send my filthy minge pics elsewhere if they bother you so much

Just fish out the tampax XL first next time please

Take me as I am or watch me as I go. "

Just cut out the middle man and send your pics to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever someone goes to start a thread called ‘Cocks- what do women like more, girth or length?’ The user gets a message saying ‘ITS GIRTH, ITS ALWAYS GIRTH!’ and the thread immediately dIsappears, thus saving them time and us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the wink function myself but would like to be able to put photos in a different order."

Do you mind if I ask that you respond to all the winks you receive?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It would be good if people you have blocked you can’t see their forum posts as some use the forums to get a message to you which is not good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It would be good if people you have blocked you can’t see their forum posts as some use the forums to get a message to you which is not good. "

See, this is and can be useful, Fab or Moderators

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It would be good if people you have blocked you can’t see their forum posts as some use the forums to get a message to you which is not good. "

Would this not have a knock on effect on threads though as most comments use the quote option and there would therefore be large chunks of the thread that you couldn't read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....have you any suggestions to improve Fab for the benefit of all?

Personally, so it would seem, we can get rid on the "wink" since it would appear most say that they don't respond or even ignore them...and

I think a "thanks but no thanks" button option on receiving a message

If not removed, how about you?

I way prefer the wink system thanks! Much better than random messages

I'm genuinely pleased for you, get many?"

Just enough lol I check out their profile and wink them back if I would like to chat and works perfectly

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had some good meets off the back of winks.

If they don't work for you just ignore them or don't use them.

Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had some good meets off the back of winks.

If they don't work for you just ignore them or don't use them.

Simple.

Iv had 70 meets off winks alone, love winks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had some good meets off the back of winks.

If they don't work for you just ignore them or don't use them.

Simple.

I will be honest, I've never had a response from a Wink but the threads seem to indicate a similar response or need, hence my post

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Winks are a complete waste of time. They are lazy and serve no purpose.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It would be good if people you have blocked you can’t see their forum posts as some use the forums to get a message to you which is not good.

Would this not have a knock on effect on threads though as most comments use the quote option and there would therefore be large chunks of the thread that you couldn't read? "

As I said some blocked members use the forums to get a message through which is not good.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Wink - big fan, wish everyone would use it the way its intended.

Messages - defo need a friends inbox. Would be super efficient for all.

Suggestion - add questionnaire to profiles. Let a person answer a short 4 5 questionnaire filled out by the user before initial contact. Would help slow down the harassment towards female and couple users.

As an example, my questions would be;

Are you a female Y/N

Are you a part of a couple Y/N

Are you interested in a meet Y/N

Have you read my profile Y/N

I hope this makes sense. The questions can be pre set by admins and people can select the ones they want etc etc

Polls - would be good to be able to make polls with threads.

View profile - instead of just stopping people from contacting users, users should also be able to select who can view their profile and pictures. Would be beneficial from unwanted attention and a bigger benefit to user security.

Forum search - would ve a good addition, a lot if threads are de ja vu, some topics discussed daily - what porn categories to you watch - being the main culprit.

Happy to discuss these ideas and improve where i have been naive or wrong. Happy fabbing all xox

Are you aware this user is not sextually interested in men? Y/N

The results would show before i see the msg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reply and quote function where you end up with messages going back and forth between people, each containing dozens of lines of quoted text, most of which is irrelevant because each new message is only responding to the last line of the previous message, is really very annoying.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"The reply and quote function where you end up with messages going back and forth between people, each containing dozens of lines of quoted text, most of which is irrelevant because each new message is only responding to the last line of the previous message, is really very annoying.

That's just down to the user.

When it gets too big, I usually cut out the top part, to keep the reply focused.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

A couples profile should enable both to be in a chat room at the same time. Currently, i believe only one of the couple can be in the same room, which is useless for us as we are locked down in separate counties and if I'm in the chat room he can't watch me.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Winks are a complete waste of time. They are lazy and serve no purpose. "

From my own experience I disagree. They may serve no purpose for you, but they work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just down to the user.

When it gets too big, I usually cut out the top part, to keep the reply focused. "

If only everyone would do that it would make the threads faster to scroll through & more fun to read.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"The wink button does work, keep it

And it isn't doing any harm either, so I wouldn't vote to lose it. It does work for some people.

I agree with you, it doesn't do any harm, but what's the point if it doesn't fulfill its point!"

It does fulfill its point for some people. I have responded to winks. As many messages as winks get ignored, so no difference really

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By *eat and discreetCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

The wink system works for us so we think keep it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

improve the chatroom. It is just so irritating how you can be typing something in a box to reply and then realise you are typing it in someone else's box that through not fault of their own is trying to say Hi. Worst chat system in the world. It could be so much better if say more like SH, you know the one I mean

It is just so Klunky and old, like something from the year 2001 not 2020. Please improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just down to the user.

When it gets too big, I usually cut out the top part, to keep the reply focused.

If only everyone would do that it would make the threads faster to scroll through & more fun to read."

This is OK in principle but there are a lot of spin doctors on here that cut stuff out and then your reply becomes out of context and suits their agenda rather than what you intended it for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mute button in the forums so you can mute posts from people that irritate you

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I think a 'potentially fake profile' button, just below (friend, wink, report, etc.).

If multiple people think the same thing and someone gets 7 in a week, then admin have a decision to make. (They could ask the profile to send 'we are genuine,

, written down in a photo, to continue on the site'

We all know there are loads of sad chaps pretending to be a couple on here! (Stolen holiday snaps etc.)

Admin don't wait for someone to be reported 7 times before they check a report. They check it at the first report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A keyword search for interests.

Its hard to tell what people are... or arent into.

Could save a lot on wasted messages.

Works for a lot of other places.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Winks have worked for us. Lazy? Arguably yes, but also a massive time saver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The option to be able to tag specific users in the forums, but only if they are on you friend list (to avoid being pestered).

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The option to be able to tag specific users in the forums, but only if they are on you friend list (to avoid being pestered).

Just a thought. "

Or maybe this already exists but I am not aware of it.

Or it is exclusively for paid members.

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"The option to be able to tag specific users in the forums, but only if they are on you friend list (to avoid being pestered)."
Tag? To what end?

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Still think a friends inbox would he a good idea, separated from the rest of the messages to see them more easily and not get them lost in the crowd."

I recently suggested being able to tag messages in your inbox to create your own filters if you will, messages from friends could be tagged with friend automatically but you could also add GB and filter to another level as well.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

That's just down to the user.

When it gets too big, I usually cut out the top part, to keep the reply focused.

If only everyone would do that it would make the threads faster to scroll through & more fun to read.

This is OK in principle but there are a lot of spin doctors on here that cut stuff out and then your reply becomes out of context and suits their agenda rather than what you intended it for."

They can try until sometime scrolls up, looks at the full context and calls them out on it, so they immediately loose their argument.

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