FabSwingers.com forum: Unverified Purge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here's a suggestion:

What if profiles that have been here for longer than 6 Months and still unverified or verified profiles that have been inactive for longer than 12 months got automatically deleted/removed? That would not "force" anyone to meet up since you can easily get verified by webcam;

I believe that it would really clean up the website and keep it much more genuine

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Why do they bother you ?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Or we could allow people to use the site how they wish.

Not everyone is here just to meet for sex and verifications plus the restrictions have already lasted for 6 months. So even those that are shouldn't be meeting for sex & verifcations.

Others just use this site for their own wants, and taking a break of a year or more is very common. Because swinging is more than just a site. Life happens.

Use the site filters to seek what you want and accept that others can use the site as they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how it would clean up the site OP.

Are you saying those not verified aren't genuine?

There are many who get a verification without having been genuinely verified.

Verifications aren't all they're cut out to be OP.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Use mail and search filters then discount any returned results where profiles have been inactive over a certain time

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We have been on this site nearly 6 months and are still not verified.

Initially because of lockdown

But now because we are not prepared to invite just anyone into our bed. We know what we want and are prepared to wait until we find that.

We have recently had several messages from people we have never even spoken to or turned down ages ago messaging us to call us time waisters and fakes because of our lack of verification.

Why should we rush just to keep you or anyone else happy?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a couples profile with nearly 200 verifications but it has been hidden for two years. My partner didn't want to swing any more but we have left it in case he changes his mind. Also, if the site deleted it through inactivity, all those people would have our verification for them disappear.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

Your suggestion is fine in theory, but utterly impractical in reality.

Firstly, what about those people who through no fault of their own other than COVID, haven't met since March? Does that disallow them from being members on here.

Plus, what about people who cannot meet due to their location circumstances? EG, four years ago, I worked in the Scottish Highlands where if I wanted to meet anyone, I'd have to travel to Perth (2 hours by train or coach) or Edinburgh or Glasgow (3.5 hours away) but I didn't drive; last means of return public transport were at 6pm from these cities). But I'd be penalised under your scheme!

Or, your suggestion of using webcams as a means of verifying, is impossible for a number of people to use. Why?

Because not everyone is techie minded; I don't have a computer now but when I did, I found them immensely difficult to operate! I even struggle at times with my smartphone!!

But then one last point; a lot of people on here who don't wish to publicise their Verifications, purely by their own choice. Are you saying they would have to change their view simply to remain on the site?

Think again!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Here's a suggestion:

I believe that it would really clean up the website and keep it much more genuine"

The issue is, some people take a long time to find their feet in this lifestyle. Some will spend months or years looking longingly through the window of fab before they decide if it is or isn't the right thing to accentuate their life.

The very nature of swinging is being open, friendly and accommodating. Finding reason to exclude people seems counter intuitive.

Cal

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