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"It would help. But lots of single guys hide behind the straight option ...would they all just still bombard couples with “” I’m bi really but straight on profile as ...” ... ... " We all get these messages anyway though, the filter would block those from being able to contact us. If they then decided to start declaring themselves bi just to send a message, they're in for a fright at the meet.  
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"This would cut down on the waste of time messages we get from straight guys who can't read" Exactly that! | |||
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"Good idea x" I'd hoped more would comment on the post, instead they keep messaging me lol!! Her x | |||
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"Yes! Brilliant idea. Will definitely help cut the crap." Thanks! x | |||
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"It would definitely be an improvement to have a filter for bisexual only. As a single man, one of my searches is for bisexual couples. But to come up on that search BOTH he and she have to be bisexual. I do wonder if I miss out on some couples because she's listed as straight. The couples I prefer are where the male of a couple is bisexual." Wrong, Mrs is straight and we come up on bi searches. | |||
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"Curious would be good. I have had little play in an mmf with the man. I had bi on my profile and was in undated with message from gay men. I would only play in an mmf" It's simple, block single guys from messaging you. Doh! | |||
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"Yes!! Great idea, it's crazy how many men expect us to jump on them with the 'I'm not bi but I'll let Mr suck my cock' invite haha! " We must get a handful of those a day. I'm fed up being polite now, I just block them all lol x | |||
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"How would you see this working for couples? If the lady is bi but hubby is straight or vice versa, would these be blocked by the filter? I guess they would? " I think so long as one is bicurious/bisexual then they wouldn't be blocked due to their preference. | |||
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"How would you see this working for couples? If the lady is bi but hubby is straight or vice versa, would these be blocked by the filter? I guess they would? I think so long as one is bicurious/bisexual then they wouldn't be blocked due to their preference." I understand. I think it's a difficult one and more so with couples. As with singles they are either straight, bi curious, bi or gay and you can search for them that way. But with couples it's more complicated, as some will say they are a bi couple but one of them will be straight. In your profile you actually say you meet bi curious couples but that the male can be straight. For me, I think a search criteria where you can pick the sexual preference of both partners of a couple might work better but your suggestion would also help. I don't think it's an either / or rather both helping to improve things. | |||
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"I just feel that with the message filters, they're very basic. That's fine and they do their job for the most part but sexual preference should be an option. Our only other choice is to block single men from contacting us and we'll have to look for them ourselves. It's a shame having to do that but looks more likely that we'll have to. " Yes I think sadly that's an approach more and more couples are taking. | |||
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"Totally agree with your sentiments. We constantly get emails from people who are straight and are not noting our sexual preferences! Hope admin take this on board! "  | |||
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"Sounds like a great idea. Also as someone else said, would be good to be able to search for couples where the man is bi, regardless of the woman's orientation. " Also a great idea.  | |||
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"It would definitely be an improvement to have a filter for bisexual only. As a single man, one of my searches is for bisexual couples. But to come up on that search BOTH he and she have to be bisexual. I do wonder if I miss out on some couples because she's listed as straight. The couples I prefer are where the male of a couple is bisexual. Wrong, Mrs is straight and we come up on bi searches. " Look on my profile pic. That is my saved search. It says BOTH | |||
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"This gets our vote...and there are some gorgeous people on this thread! "Yes you are both gorgeous | |||
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"Hi! I'm curious to know if anyone else would like to see a "bi-curious/bisexual only" message filter added so only those with "bi-curious/bisexual/gay" listed on their profiles can contact you? I think this would be hugely beneficial to people like ourselves who clearly list our wants but get ignored and messaged anyway. I understand some get more messages than others and having to go through politely saying no thanks to a few dozen people is too much when if the filter picked them out neither them nor us would be wasting our time. I'm positive other site supporters would appreciate it. Thanks for reading! Her x " Agreed, it would be great to put in place but for a measure of equality and practicality for the ‘bi’s’ amongst us please also include a switch for us to block the straights from messaging us too... I personally have no interest in closet guys for example. I have no idea what your own experience is with bi messages but I would say well over 1/2 my incoming come from guys hiding under a straight profile. I suspect you may still get advances from them in truth even with a filter. | |||
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"I’d also add to this that sexuality should be a profile feature which is chosen at signup and is set. If someone should travel during the course of their ‘development’ then an admin request to change it would be made in the same style as a single to couple profile or vice versa. It would stop a lot of the ever switching profiles. Perhaps veri summaries should also be displayed as standard too." This!!!!! Quite agree. | |||
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"I’d also add to this that sexuality should be a profile feature which is chosen at signup and is set. If someone should travel during the course of their ‘development’ then an admin request to change it would be made in the same style as a single to couple profile or vice versa. It would stop a lot of the ever switching profiles. Perhaps veri summaries should also be displayed as standard too." Fully support this! | |||
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"Hi! I'm curious to know if anyone else would like to see a "bi-curious/bisexual only" message filter added so only those with "bi-curious/bisexual/gay" listed on their profiles can contact you? I think this would be hugely beneficial to people like ourselves who clearly list our wants but get ignored and messaged anyway. I understand some get more messages than others and having to go through politely saying no thanks to a few dozen people is too much when if the filter picked them out neither them nor us would be wasting our time. I'm positive other site supporters would appreciate it. Thanks for reading! Her x " would definitely make life easier | |||
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"That option would be perfect, we state our preference in our profile and on the headline and in our profile text of what we want and still 'straight', 'can be bi for you', 'don't put bi cos men try it on' approaches "YES!! Exactly this. I really hope the FAB team are reading this feedback. xx | |||
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"That option would be perfect, we state our preference in our profile and on the headline and in our profile text of what we want and still 'straight', 'can be bi for you', 'don't put bi cos men try it on' approaches
YES!! Exactly this. I really hope the FAB team are reading this feedback. xx"FAB take note please  | |||
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"That option would be perfect, we state our preference in our profile and on the headline and in our profile text of what we want and still 'straight', 'can be bi for you', 'don't put bi cos men try it on' approaches
YES!! Exactly this. I really hope the FAB team are reading this feedback. xx"Doubt it, we've asked about this numerous times over the years and no response. | |||
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"That option would be perfect, we state our preference in our profile and on the headline and in our profile text of what we want and still 'straight', 'can be bi for you', 'don't put bi cos men try it on' approaches
YES!! Exactly this. I really hope the FAB team are reading this feedback. xx
Doubt it, we've asked about this numerous times over the years and no response. "The more people ask, the more chance they'll take notice though surely? We're their bread and butter at the end of the day. | |||
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"We believe this would be a great idea, but also the option to block bisexual and bi-curious, kind of a ‘straight only’ filter so to speak" Of course, it should work both ways x | |||
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"It would help. But lots of single guys hide behind the straight option ...would they all just still bombard couples with “” I’m bi really but straight on profile as ...” ... ... " This | |||
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"That option would be perfect, we state our preference in our profile and on the headline and in our profile text of what we want and still 'straight', 'can be bi for you', 'don't put bi cos men try it on' approaches
YES!! Exactly this. I really hope the FAB team are reading this feedback. xx
Doubt it, we've asked about this numerous times over the years and no response.
The more people ask, the more chance they'll take notice though surely? We're their bread and butter at the end of the day. "We can but hope, but they've ignored it this long. | |||
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"Finally got sick of it, so naming the straight people who contact us claiming to be bi. If the site won't give us the option to block them we'll name them. Should help those who don't wish to meet bi people as well." Block them from contacting you again with a private note. That's as good as it gets. | |||
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"Finally got sick of it, so naming the straight people who contact us claiming to be bi. If the site won't give us the option to block them we'll name them. Should help those who don't wish to meet bi people as well. Block them from contacting you again with a private note. That's as good as it gets. " We do. But it's not really good enough. Those people are also deceiving those who don't wish to meet with bi people. Seems it's not that important to the site though. | |||
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"Finally got sick of it, so naming the straight people who contact us claiming to be bi. If the site won't give us the option to block them we'll name them. Should help those who don't wish to meet bi people as well." I think the vigilante approach rarely strengthens an argument, I also feel so called “shaming” can be quite damaging on some occasions to those named. I agree with a lot of the considered comments on the thread. Ideally we would all get messaged purely by those we are looking for. I get messages from the “straight guys”, those out of my age range, the married, the cheaters, the ugly (sorry but I am human) etc... it’s annoying to have messages in numbers but when all said and done, what damage are they doing and what gives me the right to be horrible when actually they are just saying I find you attractive? One should also be careful, it’s very easy to position oneself as a little bit bigoted, accidentally. Charli X | |||
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"Finally got sick of it, so naming the straight people who contact us claiming to be bi. If the site won't give us the option to block them we'll name them. Should help those who don't wish to meet bi people as well. I think the vigilante approach rarely strengthens an argument, I also feel so called “shaming” can be quite damaging on some occasions to those named. I agree with a lot of the considered comments on the thread. Ideally we would all get messaged purely by those we are looking for. I get messages from the “straight guys”, those out of my age range, the married, the cheaters, the ugly (sorry but I am human) etc... it’s annoying to have messages in numbers but when all said and done, what damage are they doing and what gives me the right to be horrible when actually they are just saying I find you attractive? One should also be careful, it’s very easy to position oneself as a little bit bigoted, accidentally. Charli X "The asking nicely approach for this to be included in the message filters approach yields no results and after the 10th message in the space of about 15 minutes my patience ran out. We are certainly not bigoted though | |||
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"The asking nicely approach for this to be included in the message filters approach yields no results and after the 10th message in the space of about 15 minutes my patience ran out. We are certainly not bigoted though "For sure, I think we all get that though... I had a rude guy today, my no thank you was greeted by a reply insinuating I had an issue because he was Asian. I didn’t obvs, I just had an issue with him being a knob, I deleted and moved on... bi guys aren’t the issue, guys who can’t rejection are. I just think as someone of the Bi plus spectrum I read a few of the responses from people above and cringe on their behalf if I’m honest. Any changes regarding ‘sexuality’ filters need to be fair and cover all groups and preferences. Just my opinion x | |||
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"The asking nicely approach for this to be included in the message filters approach yields no results and after the 10th message in the space of about 15 minutes my patience ran out. We are certainly not bigoted though
For sure, I think we all get that though... I had a rude guy today, my no thank you was greeted by a reply insinuating I had an issue because he was Asian. I didn’t obvs, I just had an issue with him being a knob, I deleted and moved on... bi guys aren’t the issue, guys who can’t rejection are.
I just think as someone of the Bi plus spectrum I read a few of the responses from people above and cringe on their behalf if I’m honest.
Any changes regarding ‘sexuality’ filters need to be fair and cover all groups and preferences.
Just my opinion x"Yes, it should be an option to select the sexual preferences as a whole. | |||
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"I don't think shaming anyone is the way forward, although I totally understand the frustration. This is something members feel passionate about." We have tried contacting the site with the suggestion numerous times with no response, reported specific people asking for the same. No response. It happened to be a particularly annoying guy with rude messages. Put one status and admin are all over it, suggesting we contact them if we have a problem. Yes, we tried that | |||
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"Good idea x I'd hoped more would comment on the post, instead they keep messaging me lol!! Her x" I'll comment on the post then, I think it's a great idea | |||
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"There is a "bi/bi curious" search option now for profiles. Granted not messages but it is there for those being proactive " There is indeed but that doesn't stop non-bi people from contacting us and that's what these filters are about. If I don't want men or those without pics to contact us I can select the filter option to stop them. I'd like the exact same thing for sexual preference/orientation. Lou x | |||
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"Any admins/moderators able to give any feedback on this? There's literally dozens of site supporters who use the forums in favour of this on this post and the countless others members have posted, yet nothing. #GiveUsTheFilter" Here, here | |||
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"There is a "bi/bi curious" search option now for profiles. Granted not messages but it is there for those being proactive " Oooh didn’t realise this .... she hits the browse button immediately lol xx | |||
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"Any admins/moderators able to give any feedback on this? There's literally dozens of site supporters who use the forums in favour of this on this post and the countless others members have posted, yet nothing. #GiveUsTheFilter" Bi filters matter | |||
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"Hi! I'm curious to know if anyone else would like to see a "bi-curious/bisexual only" message filter added so only those with "bi-curious/bisexual/gay" listed on their profiles can contact you? I think this would be hugely beneficial to people like ourselves who clearly list our wants but get ignored and messaged anyway. I understand some get more messages than others and having to go through politely saying no thanks to a few dozen people is too much when if the filter picked them out neither them nor us would be wasting our time. I'm positive other site supporters would appreciate it. Thanks for reading! Her x " It would save on the usual message back “it says that you are straight on your profile “. And the answer on a postcard please | |||
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"Sounds like a great idea. Also as someone else said, would be good to be able to search for couples where the man is bi, regardless of the woman's orientation. " yes I agree | |||
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"...Thanks for reading! Her x " Seems like a reasonable and popular idea. Did you get a reply from fab? | |||
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"...Thanks for reading! Her x Seems like a reasonable and popular idea. Did you get a reply from fab?" Nope, does anyone ever? Not sure what the point in this section is when it goes ignored. | |||
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"Yes!! Great idea, it's crazy how many men expect us to jump on them with the 'I'm not bi but I'll let Mr suck my cock' invite haha! " What for real never hear that till now , probs cos am single guy but this site has so many type of people | |||
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"I'm bi but get lost of supposedly straight guys messaging me." A lot of “straight guys” message me as Well asking to suck me off , well am gynesexual so I like trans or somethings boys in dress but why they put straight in bio then | |||
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"Unfortunately there is a massive misconception around bisexuality, especially for bisexual men. People often think if a man is bisexual, they cannot enjoy women anymore as much as they enjoy with men or every bisexual men like to stick something to other guys bums in a shallow sense. Where also women expected to enjoy every aspect of bisexuality too. Most times they are not the case! Perhaps it’s easier to act with pre-judgements when you don’t have enough information around bisexuality " I can definitely attest to the fact that I don't want to stick my dick in every guy and indeed I haven't. I enjoy women and men but, with both, if there's no attraction, both physical and personality wise I won't be interested. That's the case for us both, regardless of which sex. | |||
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"Unfortunately there is a massive misconception around bisexuality, especially for bisexual men. People often think if a man is bisexual, they cannot enjoy women anymore as much as they enjoy with men or every bisexual men like to stick something to other guys bums in a shallow sense. Where also women expected to enjoy every aspect of bisexuality too. Most times they are not the case! Perhaps it’s easier to act with pre-judgements when you don’t have enough information around bisexuality
I can definitely attest to the fact that I don't want to stick my dick in every guy and indeed I haven't. I enjoy women and men but, with both, if there's no attraction, both physical and personality wise I won't be interested. That's the case for us both, regardless of which sex."Fully agree xx | |||
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"Unfortunately there is a massive misconception around bisexuality, especially for bisexual men. People often think if a man is bisexual, they cannot enjoy women anymore as much as they enjoy with men or every bisexual men like to stick something to other guys bums in a shallow sense. Where also women expected to enjoy every aspect of bisexuality too. Most times they are not the case! Perhaps it’s easier to act with pre-judgements when you don’t have enough information around bisexuality
I can definitely attest to the fact that I don't want to stick my dick in every guy and indeed I haven't. I enjoy women and men but, with both, if there's no attraction, both physical and personality wise I won't be interested. That's the case for us both, regardless of which sex.
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"...Seems like a reasonable and popular idea. Did you get a reply from fab? Nope, does anyone ever? Not sure what the point in this section is when it goes ignored." Yup, the desert that is site feedback! [Thank you for using your Client Services. Have a wonderful day.] | |||
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"100% yes "Lol and then hide their profile | |||
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"Loads of men won't put bisexual or bicurious on their profiles because of prejudice and stigma. It's socially far more acceptable for women to be bisexual and bicurious, but for men it's still means discrimination and social prejudice. So you would miss loads of potential people. " I can live with that, I'm sure others can too. It's down to those men to break the stigma and be true to themselves and others about who they are and more importantly if they can't be honest to begin with we wouldn't want to meet them. It would be their loss above ours. | |||
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" I can live with that, I'm sure others can too. It's down to those men to break the stigma and be true to themselves and others about who they are and more importantly if they can't be honest to begin with we wouldn't want to meet them. It would be their loss above ours. " | |||
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"Hi! I'm curious to know if anyone else would like to see a "bi-curious/bisexual only" message filter added so only those with "bi-curious/bisexual/gay" listed on their profiles can contact you? I think this would be hugely beneficial to people like ourselves who clearly list our wants but get ignored and messaged anyway. I understand some get more messages than others and having to go through politely saying no thanks to a few dozen people is too much when if the filter picked them out neither them nor us would be wasting our time. I'm positive other site supporters would appreciate it. Thanks for reading! Her x " Yes it would be great if fab had the option but even today I’ve been contacted by the male of a couple who on their profile states he straight but asking for a mm Bi meet with no wife involvement. Gets annoying so many so called couples on here but the men trying to play solo and not be upfront about being bi on their profile. Or those that advertise that their both Bi wanting to meet Bi men but it’s only the man who wants to meet..had one recently and all he did was talk about how many men he’d met behind his wife’s back !!! | |||
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"Unfortunately there is a massive misconception around bisexuality, especially for bisexual men. People often think if a man is bisexual, they cannot enjoy women anymore as much as they enjoy with men or every bisexual men like to stick something to other guys bums in a shallow sense. Where also women expected to enjoy every aspect of bisexuality too. Most times they are not the case! Perhaps it’s easier to act with pre-judgements when you don’t have enough information around bisexuality "Hi, yes I’ve had this conversation with many women who also are bi but they can’t get it out of their head that I don’t like the female form equally... I actually have more bias towards the female form but just like the added bonus if the male is bi also. | |||
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"All for that idea. "Totally agree Dropped you a cheeky message also xx | |||
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"Yes pls!!!! Gets annoying straight lads messaging then they say oh not bi when it’s on our profile that’s what we’re after. Or they will “let” Male half suck their cock! Or they won’t put bi on profile as people they meet don’t do bi men. Also couples who don’t want bi men, so why keep looking at profile loads????" From my experience it’s usuallly the man who’s secretly Bi and is seeking solo meets... that is the majority of messages that I receive especially from couples profiles be they set as straight or bi it’s usually just the man wanting to meet ....Its so frustrating even for us single Bi men. I feel as a single Bi man I’m looked at in a way that says I’ll jump on anyone just because I’m Bi.. That couldn’t be further from the truth. | |||
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"Hi! I'm curious to know if anyone else would like to see a "bi-curious/bisexual only" message filter added so only those with "bi-curious/bisexual/gay" listed on their profiles can contact you? I think this would be hugely beneficial to people like ourselves who clearly list our wants but get ignored and messaged anyway. I understand some get more messages than others and having to go through politely saying no thanks to a few dozen people is too much when if the filter picked them out neither them nor us would be wasting our time. I'm positive other site supporters would appreciate it. Thanks for reading! Her x " | |||
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"All for that idea.
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Dropped you a cheeky message also xx"Splendid!! | |||
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"I’m amazed this filter doesn’t exist! I love this site and it would be a great addition. Hopefully can be added at some point! Seems a straight forward addition to make "Doesn't it? I can't see it happening though, we don't get any responses to our suggestions even when they're supported by so many people. #WasteOfTime | |||
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"Absolutely, hopefully work the other way too and stop the bi requests to str8 guys!" If they're a single guy and you're not looking for guys, block all from messaging you, simple. If it's a couple, they might think you're fab straight, roll with it! | |||
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"Yes pls!!!! Gets annoying straight lads messaging then they say oh not bi when it’s on our profile that’s what we’re after. Or they will “let” Male half suck their cock! Or they won’t put bi on profile as people they meet don’t do bi men. Also couples who don’t want bi men, so why keep looking at profile loads????" TOTALLY THIS!!! | |||
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"Brilliant idea! "Thank you! I'd love some feedback on this from the site team though. | |||
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"Yes pls!!!! Gets annoying straight lads messaging then they say oh not bi when it’s on our profile that’s what we’re after. Or they will “let” Male half suck their cock! Or they won’t put bi on profile as people they meet don’t do bi men. Also couples who don’t want bi men, so why keep looking at profile loads???? From my experience it’s usuallly the man who’s secretly Bi and is seeking solo meets... that is the majority of messages that I receive especially from couples profiles be they set as straight or bi it’s usually just the man wanting to meet ....Its so frustrating even for us single Bi men. I feel as a single Bi man I’m looked at in a way that says I’ll jump on anyone just because I’m Bi.. That couldn’t be further from the truth." This is so true, and as our possible sexual partners are at least doubled in number, we can be picky. So all you "straight" lads messaging us bi men with " u wanna sum mi cok?"...believe us...we really don't. | |||
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"Unfortunately there is a massive misconception around bisexuality, especially for bisexual men. People often think if a man is bisexual, they cannot enjoy women anymore as much as they enjoy with men or every bisexual men like to stick something to other guys bums in a shallow sense. Where also women expected to enjoy every aspect of bisexuality too. Most times they are not the case! Perhaps it’s easier to act with pre-judgements when you don’t have enough information around bisexuality
I can definitely attest to the fact that I don't want to stick my dick in every guy and indeed I haven't. I enjoy women and men but, with both, if there's no attraction, both physical and personality wise I won't be interested. That's the case for us both, regardless of which sex.
Fully agree xx"Absolutely | |||
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