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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

We're 3 months into Covid-19 lockdown now. Some of us have worked all the way through it (NHS staff, shop staff, drivers etc.) while I've managed to isolate but am starting to do site work again now. Those of us who can't self-isolate due to work are unavoidably exposed to strangers when doing so. I do it as safely as I can. It seems hugely unreasonable that I can't take a similarly cautious attitude to sex meets. And on sites where it isn't outright forbidden, that's what I plan to start doing.

Meanwhile, my inbox here is increasingly filling with meet invites. Usually from people who don't have 8 years of photos and verifications, and site supporter status to lose.

The ban threat is now unjustly penalising those of us who actually put something into the site. While a newbie with no verifications loses nothing from a ban, simply signing up with a new account the following day, we risk to lose a lot.

Throughout this crisis, I've seen several sites deter meeting and remove their meeting features, but the Fab sites are the only ones I know of that have threatened account termination just for breaking the government guidelines. It might have seemed proportionate back in March, but as things ease off, it no longer does.

Please remove the threat of a ban for arranging play meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, this doesn't affect me either way, however it's well written , makes good points and sense.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Government 1m rule in place. So no 'touching' meets for a while yet.

Personal preference doesn't come in to it sadly. It's common sense really.

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By *elp_in_handWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because its what the law states...

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By *agan_PairCouple
over a year ago

portchester

Not from next weekend it’s not

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Because its what the law states... "

There are also laws about sex outdoors, yet outdoor sex meets have never been banned here.

It's illegal to send someone a dick pic if they haven't agreed to receive one, but that goes on here all the time.

If I decide to speed on the motorway, that's between me and the police. If a civilian deliberately obstructs me to make me stick to the speeding limit, they're breaking the law themselves. So maybe choosing to break the lockdown laws should be a matter between the individual and the police too, and not for contact sites to police on their behalf.

I'm actually more careful than most. I was one of 3 people wearing masks in Morrisions yesterday, and most weren't bothering to distance once they were in the shop.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

It also doesn't take into consideration that these meets may be social and so distanced.... and so we can verify they're a nice human being .... tho can't verify their bedroom skills!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It is hard to have sex with someone at a distance

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"It also doesn't take into consideration that these meets may be social and so distanced.... and so we can verify they're a nice human being .... tho can't verify their bedroom skills!! "

The 1st June update takes that into account

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Also being a good and valued member of society, with a functioning social conscience, meetings for sex just aren't realistic, even after the 4th July, because social distancing will still be in effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the vanilla dating sites saying I wonder? There is a lot very lonely people out there. Going to a massive drop in the birth rate next year

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By *tarcatcher2Man
over a year ago

ALLOA

There is no such thing as a ban on here have reported at least six people on here for having a meet on lockdown and they are still on site, and they are still flaunting it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the 4th July meeting indoors becomes according to the Prime Ministers statement in parliament yesterday one of guidance not legislation.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"There is no such thing as a ban on here have reported at least six people on here for having a meet on lockdown and they are still on site, and they are still flaunting it ."

People are not banned for a first offence, they may get a warning first

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"From the 4th July meeting indoors becomes according to the Prime Ministers statement in parliament yesterday one of guidance not legislation."

With social distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many have stuck to the rules , i see so many people on here asking for meets or saying they have met people

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Not from next weekend it’s not "

Really? How does the law change next week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not from next weekend it’s not

Really? How does the law change next week?"

Dominic Cummings might be up for a meet ?

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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago

Exeter

Got to agree Op. Think it's time to

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Until social distancing isn't a thing anymore, I fully support Fab's stance on this. If other sites are doing things differently then people are free to go ahead and use those ones if they are that desparate for sex.

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

Southsea, Portsmouth

On the note of this thread, i am suprised to see clubs deciding to open on 4th July! Certain that they are A) classed as a nightclub and still banned from openingby legislation along with casinos, beauticians, gyms etc, and B) cannot possibly social distance as its a sex club!?

And people have it on their status they are booked in! Ia that not arranging a meet?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"On the note of this thread, i am suprised to see clubs deciding to open on 4th July! Certain that they are A) classed as a nightclub and still banned from openingby legislation along with casinos, beauticians, gyms etc, and B) cannot possibly social distance as its a sex club!?

And people have it on their status they are booked in! Ia that not arranging a meet? "

Those clubs large enough &/or with a alcohol license are within the guidelines to open with social distancing in place.

All the club updates I've seen have been clear it's social not sex

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Loads of people have been meeting on here all the way though lockdown and put up pictures showing the meets too

I don’t think clubs will open up till later in the year same as nightclubs

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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago

Southsea, Portsmouth

They come under the club rule, not pub. The club i have seen people saying they are attending has nothing on their website about social only... Its business as usual.

Until the 1 mtr is removed and contact is allowed it shouldn't be an option.

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

One of the great things about bdsm is sex isn't a necessary requirement to be part of the scenario.

I tell masochists to stand facing the wall and I use a 7ft ( physical distancing ) whip to lightly flick the skin ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the 4th July meeting indoors becomes according to the Prime Ministers statement in parliament yesterday one of guidance not legislation.

With social distance. "

The social distance indoors is guidance not legislation from the 4th July.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"There is no such thing as a ban on here have reported at least six people on here for having a meet on lockdown and they are still on site, and they are still flaunting it ."

Report again if they are still meeting. As a mod has said they dont get banned on 1st offence, but if they are still doung it then fab needs to know and act accordingley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the replies about social distancing. Have you been watching the news lately? Thousands crammed on beaches, riots, demo's, the list goes on. The police don't seem too bothered to me. Plus, it isn't a law, it's a guideline.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"All the replies about social distancing. Have you been watching the news lately? Thousands crammed on beaches, riots, demo's, the list goes on. The police don't seem too bothered to me. Plus, it isn't a law, it's a guideline. "

Some are trying to follow these guidelines as well. Hence the posts about social distancing.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"All the replies about social distancing. Have you been watching the news lately? Thousands crammed on beaches, riots, demo's, the list goes on. The police don't seem too bothered to me. Plus, it isn't a law, it's a guideline.

Some are trying to follow these guidelines as well. Hence the posts about social distancing. "

Well said that lady

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Luckily I'm so well endowed, I can actually have penetrative sex whilst observing social distancing guidelines! (it is 2cm apart that we're supposed to stay, isn't it?)

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan
over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area


"All the replies about social distancing. Have you been watching the news lately? Thousands crammed on beaches, riots, demo's, the list goes on. The police don't seem too bothered to me. Plus, it isn't a law, it's a guideline. "
The police don't seem too bothered because how the hell can they safely disperse crowds without inflaming trouble? The country's mentality is like a tinderbox, kicking off everywhere with Police being targeted.

Tbh, I wouldnt trust the judgement of people choosing to meet now in this scene. The sex scene has always brought out those seeking kicks at any cost. Now the risk isn't just personal or to those they have sex with (STDs etc), it's to friends, family and vulnerable in society. Gambling with your own life is a personal decision but it's wholly selfish when your kicks can have a wider impact on innocent lives. I'd consider it similar to d*unk driving.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"All the replies about social distancing. Have you been watching the news lately? Thousands crammed on beaches, riots, demo's, the list goes on. The police don't seem too bothered to me. Plus, it isn't a law, it's a guideline.

Some are trying to follow these guidelines as well. Hence the posts about social distancing. "

This!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Luckily I'm so well endowed, I can actually have penetrative sex whilst observing social distancing guidelines! (it is 2cm apart that we're supposed to stay, isn't it?) "

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By *aastyKnixWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We're 3 months into Covid-19 lockdown now. Some of us have worked all the way through it (NHS staff, shop staff, drivers etc.) while I've managed to isolate but am starting to do site work again now. Those of us who can't self-isolate due to work are unavoidably exposed to strangers when doing so. I do it as safely as I can. It seems hugely unreasonable that I can't take a similarly cautious attitude to sex meets. And on sites where it isn't outright forbidden, that's what I plan to start doing.

Meanwhile, my inbox here is increasingly filling with meet invites. Usually from people who don't have 8 years of photos and verifications, and site supporter status to lose.

The ban threat is now unjustly penalising those of us who actually put something into the site. While a newbie with no verifications loses nothing from a ban, simply signing up with a new account the following day, we risk to lose a lot.

Throughout this crisis, I've seen several sites deter meeting and remove their meeting features, but the Fab sites are the only ones I know of that have threatened account termination just for breaking the government guidelines. It might have seemed proportionate back in March, but as things ease off, it no longer does.

Please remove the threat of a ban for arranging play meets."

I've been working all through the lockdown, travelling all over the country and coming into contact with people in many different situations. In a lot of cases it seems to me that many people just cannot obey simple instructions;one way systems, marks and arrows painted on the floor etc, keeping safe distance (either they can't or won't). So, the only way anyone can ensure their own safety is to use their own judgement and take their own precautions.

It could be argued that this could also apply to more intimate meets.

Each person making their own judgement about what risk is posed by and to the people they're meeting,,,,,,except,unfortunately there is one element that none of us can control. That is asymptomatic infection.

You,or the person/s you meet,may be carrying the virus without even knowing it.

This seems to me to be a good reason to avoid getting too close to strangers until testing and contact tracing is up and running and demonstrably effective.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

I really can't understand the urgency some people have to get meetings organised etc. The threat is far from over, and very very real, albeit rules have been relaxed as regards social distancing. Fab to my mind have done a great job to date and will relax their rules further as and when they feel it is ok to do so with due regard to updates from the government

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I really can't understand the urgency some people have to get meetings organised etc. The threat is far from over, and very very real, albeit rules have been relaxed as regards social distancing. Fab to my mind have done a great job to date and will relax their rules further as and when they feel it is ok to do so with due regard to updates from the government "

Totally agree with you, well said. X

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I really can't understand the urgency some people have to get meetings organised etc. The threat is far from over, and very very real, albeit rules have been relaxed as regards social distancing. Fab to my mind have done a great job to date and will relax their rules further as and when they feel it is ok to do so with due regard to updates from the government

Totally agree with you, well said. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the note of this thread, i am suprised to see clubs deciding to open on 4th July! Certain that they are A) classed as a nightclub and still banned from openingby legislation along with casinos, beauticians, gyms etc, and B) cannot possibly social distance as its a sex club!?

And people have it on their status they are booked in! Ia that not arranging a meet?

Those clubs large enough &/or with a alcohol license are within the guidelines to open with social distancing in place.

All the club updates I've seen have been clear it's social not sex "

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"We're 3 months into Covid-19 lockdown now. Some of us have worked all the way through it (NHS staff, shop staff, drivers etc.) while I've managed to isolate but am starting to do site work again now. Those of us who can't self-isolate due to work are unavoidably exposed to strangers when doing so. I do it as safely as I can. It seems hugely unreasonable that I can't take a similarly cautious attitude to sex meets. And on sites where it isn't outright forbidden, that's what I plan to start doing.

Meanwhile, my inbox here is increasingly filling with meet invites. Usually from people who don't have 8 years of photos and verifications, and site supporter status to lose.

The ban threat is now unjustly penalising those of us who actually put something into the site. While a newbie with no verifications loses nothing from a ban, simply signing up with a new account the following day, we risk to lose a lot.

Throughout this crisis, I've seen several sites deter meeting and remove their meeting features, but the Fab sites are the only ones I know of that have threatened account termination just for breaking the government guidelines. It might have seemed proportionate back in March, but as things ease off, it no longer does.

Please remove the threat of a ban for arranging play meets."
I agree with you

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By *lamourpussyCouple
over a year ago

Cirencester


"On the note of this thread, i am suprised to see clubs deciding to open on 4th July! Certain that they are A) classed as a nightclub and still banned from openingby legislation along with casinos, beauticians, gyms etc, and B) cannot possibly social distance as its a sex club!?

And people have it on their status they are booked in! Ia that not arranging a meet?

Those clubs large enough &/or with a alcohol license are within the guidelines to open with social distancing in place.

All the club updates I've seen have been clear it's social not sex "

No they are not! Nightclubs are not allowed to open on 4th July even if they can follow social distancing guidance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no such thing as a ban on here have reported at least six people on here for having a meet on lockdown and they are still on site, and they are still flaunting it .

People are not banned for a first offence, they may get a warning first"

Loads of people have "meet now" in updates and have done for a while and keep doing it. Admin don't do and haven't done anything about most of them.

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By *lamorous GilfWoman
over a year ago

BASILDON

My friend is a key worker. All the residents were tested, and she asked to be tested too. Turned out my friend had the virus, not 1 symptom. She then had to get her daughter and son in law to test, also positive, not one of them had symptoms.

So all the selfish people who still think it's ok to meet while all this is going on, go ahead, but just remember this, you never know who is a carrier, who they have passed it on to. You may get it and then so on. Some people don't get symptoms, but you could pass it on to someone that could get it really bad and even worse.

So think with your brain instead of your genitals.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"On the note of this thread, i am suprised to see clubs deciding to open on 4th July! Certain that they are A) classed as a nightclub and still banned from openingby legislation along with casinos, beauticians, gyms etc, and B) cannot possibly social distance as its a sex club!?

And people have it on their status they are booked in! Ia that not arranging a meet?

Those clubs large enough &/or with a alcohol license are within the guidelines to open with social distancing in place.

All the club updates I've seen have been clear it's social not sex

No they are not! Nightclubs are not allowed to open on 4th July even if they can follow social distancing guidance. "

I haven't seen any clubs opening as a nightclub nor before the 4th of july.

They are opening as a pub and those lucky enough to have hotel rooms, as a hotel. Which IS within the guidelines.

No one is forcing people in, those that want to go and socialise & support their clubs will. Those that dont, wont.

The club's are liaising with their local councils

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're 3 months into Covid-19 lockdown now. Some of us have worked all the way through it (NHS staff, shop staff, drivers etc.) while I've managed to isolate but am starting to do site work again now. Those of us who can't self-isolate due to work are unavoidably exposed to strangers when doing so. I do it as safely as I can. It seems hugely unreasonable that I can't take a similarly cautious attitude to sex meets. And on sites where it isn't outright forbidden, that's what I plan to start doing.

Meanwhile, my inbox here is increasingly filling with meet invites. Usually from people who don't have 8 years of photos and verifications, and site supporter status to lose.

The ban threat is now unjustly penalising those of us who actually put something into the site. While a newbie with no verifications loses nothing from a ban, simply signing up with a new account the following day, we risk to lose a lot.

Throughout this crisis, I've seen several sites deter meeting and remove their meeting features, but the Fab sites are the only ones I know of that have threatened account termination just for breaking the government guidelines. It might have seemed proportionate back in March, but as things ease off, it no longer does.

Please remove the threat of a ban for arranging play meets."

Which is more important to you, your lifestyle being the need to get the todger into work and ignoring the ban threat, or your life.

The lockdown under the prevention of deadly virus epidemic/pandemic was brought in to protect us all, this won't officially lift until 1st August can you not wait

As for the ban, it should be enforced

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We're 3 months into Covid-19 lockdown now. Some of us have worked all the way through it (NHS staff, shop staff, drivers etc.) while I've managed to isolate but am starting to do site work again now. Those of us who can't self-isolate due to work are unavoidably exposed to strangers when doing so. I do it as safely as I can. It seems hugely unreasonable that I can't take a similarly cautious attitude to sex meets. And on sites where it isn't outright forbidden, that's what I plan to start doing.

Meanwhile, my inbox here is increasingly filling with meet invites. Usually from people who don't have 8 years of photos and verifications, and site supporter status to lose.

The ban threat is now unjustly penalising those of us who actually put something into the site. While a newbie with no verifications loses nothing from a ban, simply signing up with a new account the following day, we risk to lose a lot.

Throughout this crisis, I've seen several sites deter meeting and remove their meeting features, but the Fab sites are the only ones I know of that have threatened account termination just for breaking the government guidelines. It might have seemed proportionate back in March, but as things ease off, it no longer does.

Please remove the threat of a ban for arranging play meets.

Which is more important to you, your lifestyle being the need to get the todger into work and ignoring the ban threat, or your life.

The lockdown under the prevention of deadly virus epidemic/pandemic was brought in to protect us all, this won't officially lift until 1st August can you not wait

As for the ban, it should be enforced "

As far as I can see on here, it is enforced. And rightly so. Perhaps the OP should stick to the other sites if he is that desparate for sex.

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

The virtue signalling is kind of expected. It's so easy to be Mister or Little Miss Perfect online. I wonder how many practise what they preach in real life.

I could almost believe that it is a minority that doesn't care, until I go around Morrisons and realise I'm one of about 5% of people actually bothering with masks, and I'm sharing a space with people who are only distancing when forced to while queuing for entrance or the checkouts.

Lockdown is, for all intents and purposes, over. For now, at least. We have moved to a supposed social distancing phase. So why, when people are packing Bournemouth beach so tightly that you can't see an inch of sand in the photos, are we still focusing our contempt on people who want to have a risk aware shag?

It's been over 3 months now. It could go on for another 3 or more. It could go on forever if we don't get a viable vaccine. We might be just round the corner from another full lockdown if the R value spikes, in which case, maybe we should be taking advantage of the relatively relaxed rules now.

And if it does spike again, it'll be the beachgoers congregating in their thousands rather than Fabbers meeting one person at a time for sex, that's to blame.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"The virtue signalling is kind of expected. It's so easy to be Mister or Little Miss Perfect online. I wonder how many practise what they preach in real life.

I could almost believe that it is a minority that doesn't care, until I go around Morrisons and realise I'm one of about 5% of people actually bothering with masks, and I'm sharing a space with people who are only distancing when forced to while queuing for entrance or the checkouts.

Lockdown is, for all intents and purposes, over. For now, at least. We have moved to a supposed social distancing phase. So why, when people are packing Bournemouth beach so tightly that you can't see an inch of sand in the photos, are we still focusing our contempt on people who want to have a risk aware shag?

It's been over 3 months now. It could go on for another 3 or more. It could go on forever if we don't get a viable vaccine. We might be just round the corner from another full lockdown if the R value spikes, in which case, maybe we should be taking advantage of the relatively relaxed rules now.

And if it does spike again, it'll be the beachgoers congregating in their thousands rather than Fabbers meeting one person at a time for sex, that's to blame."

I think you will find the vast majority of 'Mister perfect or little miss perfects DO practice what they preach. If you're that desperate for sex then go right ahead but don't expect Fab as a web site to condone your choice to ignore all the advice that is given

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By *aastyKnixWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The virtue signalling is kind of expected. It's so easy to be Mister or Little Miss Perfect online. I wonder how many practise what they preach in real life.

I could almost believe that it is a minority that doesn't care, until I go around Morrisons and realise I'm one of about 5% of people actually bothering with masks, and I'm sharing a space with people who are only distancing when forced to while queuing for entrance or the checkouts.

Lockdown is, for all intents and purposes, over. For now, at least. We have moved to a supposed social distancing phase. So why, when people are packing Bournemouth beach so tightly that you can't see an inch of sand in the photos, are we still focusing our contempt on people who want to have a risk aware shag?

It's been over 3 months now. It could go on for another 3 or more. It could go on forever if we don't get a viable vaccine. We might be just round the corner from another full lockdown if the R value spikes, in which case, maybe we should be taking advantage of the relatively relaxed rules now.

And if it does spike again, it'll be the beachgoers congregating in their thousands rather than Fabbers meeting one person at a time for sex, that's to blame."

Crowding on a beach or round a football stadium, going to pubs, meeting for intimate encounters,,,, all potentially risky activities.

If you feel you can trust the person you're meeting, and they can trust you, maybe just exchange phone numbers and make your arrangements that way. It's clear that fab site management don't want to be involved,maybe for fear of being held responsible if bad things happen.

It's possibly a case more of covering asses than of protecting the public.

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I think you will find the vast majority of 'Mister perfect or little miss perfects DO practice what they preach. If you're that desperate for sex then go right ahead but don't expect Fab as a web site to condone your choice to ignore all the advice that is given "

Really? So explain the Morrisons situation then. If that's a valid indicator, then 95% of the general public doesn't particularly give a shit about social distancing or the virus.

As for "I think you will find", what I'm finding is lots of people on here asking for play meets. Probably even more than I was getting before all of this started. No, I think you will find that, amongst all of the cheats and those ashamed of their lifestyle on here, meeting on the side while claiming not to be is just one more dirty little secret. Probably the same bunch that's clapping for the NHS on a Thursday, so their neighbours can see that they care, but breaking the rules with respect to having friends and family round when they think nobody is looking.

And since this is primarily a site for people seeking hookups, it's hilarious for anyone on here to call anyone else 'desperate.'

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

I am not the one that is seeking a lift on advertising meetings so yes I do consider those that wish Fab to condone such meetings desperate as the vast majority on here ARE sticking with the guidelines..

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I am not the one that is seeking a lift on advertising meetings so yes I do consider those that wish Fab to condone such meetings desperate as the vast majority on here ARE sticking with the guidelines.. "

Where is your evidence? Mine is an inbox full of people seeking play meets, and several messages from people who agree with what I'm saying here, but don't wish or dare to say it on the forums. (Though for balance, one message saying that anyone breaking lockdown should be shot.)

You are simply making the same statement over and over again. An assumption that you've plucked out of the air that you can never prove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not from next weekend it’s not "

But not in Wales

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I am not the one that is seeking a lift on advertising meetings so yes I do consider those that wish Fab to condone such meetings desperate as the vast majority on here ARE sticking with the guidelines..

Where is your evidence? Mine is an inbox full of people seeking play meets, and several messages from people who agree with what I'm saying here, but don't wish or dare to say it on the forums. (Though for balance, one message saying that anyone breaking lockdown should be shot.)

You are simply making the same statement over and over again. An assumption that you've plucked out of the air that you can never prove. "

Evidence? Ok then where is yours? I am not making the same statement over and over again I am making my opinions freely known, something I am entitled to do so as are you.. If you wish to go ahead and meet others then do so but as I have said all along don't expect Fab to condone your actions by going against the guidelines..

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The virtue signalling is kind of expected. It's so easy to be Mister or Little Miss Perfect online. I wonder how many practise what they preach in real life.

I could almost believe that it is a minority that doesn't care, until I go around Morrisons and realise I'm one of about 5% of people actually bothering with masks, and I'm sharing a space with people who are only distancing when forced to while queuing for entrance or the checkouts.

Lockdown is, for all intents and purposes, over. For now, at least. We have moved to a supposed social distancing phase. So why, when people are packing Bournemouth beach so tightly that you can't see an inch of sand in the photos, are we still focusing our contempt on people who want to have a risk aware shag?

It's been over 3 months now. It could go on for another 3 or more. It could go on forever if we don't get a viable vaccine. We might be just round the corner from another full lockdown if the R value spikes, in which case, maybe we should be taking advantage of the relatively relaxed rules now.

And if it does spike again, it'll be the beachgoers congregating in their thousands rather than Fabbers meeting one person at a time for sex, that's to blame."

Ha ha ha! You're 'Virtue Signalling!'

The go to foot stamping tantrum for those who find themselves on the wrong side of moral debate

Thank you for validating Fabs stance.

And as for all of the messages requesting meets, forward them to the administrators.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"There is no such thing as a ban on here have reported at least six people on here for having a meet on lockdown and they are still on site, and they are still flaunting it .

People are not banned for a first offence, they may get a warning first

Loads of people have "meet now" in updates and have done for a while and keep doing it. Admin don't do and haven't done anything about most of them. "

They don't check every profile, it helps if people report it so they can take a look

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

And if it does spike again, it'll be the beachgoers congregating in their thousands rather than Fabbers meeting one person at a time for sex, that's to blame."

That one person you meet could have it, you may not be any safer

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Evidence? Ok then where is yours? I am not making the same statement over and over again I am making my opinions freely known, something I am entitled to do so as are you.. If you wish to go ahead and meet others then do so but as I have said all along don't expect Fab to condone your actions by going against the guidelines.. "

My evidence is sitting in my inbox. I could quite easily prove it, but it would be both a breach of trust and a violation of forum 'name and shame' rules to provide any details here.

Now let's take each other at our word here: I have a level of interest that's at least back to pre-Covid levels, whereas you're not experiencing the same thing. Maybe it's random chance, maybe I'm getting more attention because I'm posting more pics and vids, or maybe it's regional. But while I've proven to my own satisfaction that something is going on, having witnessed it with my own eyes, you're not in a position to prove that it isn't, just because you haven't witnessed it with yours.

Basically, I'm the person who's been to Australia, and you're the flat-Earther denying that it exists.

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By *icoleAndLisaTrans OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Ha ha ha! You're 'Virtue Signalling!'

The go to foot stamping tantrum for those who find themselves on the wrong side of moral debate

Thank you for validating Fabs stance.

And as for all of the messages requesting meets, forward them to the administrators."

I suggest you Google the meaning of 'virtue signalling.' I'm actually admitting to not being virtuous and being tempted by pleasures of the flesh. It's a degree of honesty that I'm not sure is there in some other posts.

Of course I'm in a position to meet. If you're stuck isolating with the wife, and no excuses to leave the house (not even work) I can see how that might breed resentment for those who are in a position to go looking for fun.

That last paragraph isn't directed at anyone in particular, by the way. But I suspect some of the holier than thous wouldn't be adhering quite so strictly to lockdown if their partners weren't watching their every move.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Has anyone actually been banned tho? I've seen & reported people who have been looking for meets during the last few months & they are still active & looking even now

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales


"From the 4th July meeting indoors becomes according to the Prime Ministers statement in parliament yesterday one of guidance not legislation."

4th of July applies to England. Not elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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When Admin update anything you will be able to see it through the meet,event section on the blue menu along the top

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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