FabSwingers.com forum: Nottingham Social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

We are really excited to bring you what we hope to be the first of many Nottingham Socials’!

The event will start at 1930 on the 6th July at a Pub/Restaurant, in Rushcliffe with great access routes for both Nottingham and the main trunk routes and finger food is provided within the ticket price.

We have set up this event in order to bring together likeminded swingers in relaxed environment to network, have a drink and get to know others in the area.

The social is available to those that are green tick or flag verified and this is an invitation only event.

We will add attendees to the guest list here as they are confirmed!

Hopefully the FAQ below will answer most of your questions but if anything is unclear please drop a message either to ourselves or to our co-hosts, Temptation and Desire!

We look forward to seeing many of you sexies there!

**Q&A**

Q: Can we bring our own drinks? A: no, this event is being held at a pub.

Q: Are single males welcome? - A: Males for this event will be personally selected and will be by exception.

Q: Where is it? – A: Our south Nottingham venue details will be provided to our select guest list 48 hours before the event.

Q: How much will the event cost? – A: £5 per person, payable by PayPal prior to the event, N.B. this payment is non-refundable and your Fab name must be quoted with the payment.

Q: How do I get onto the guest list? – A: Message one of the host couples (Temptation and Desire or Citizens of Valhalla) and we will revert. - Please note that this is an invitation only event and we will only extend the opportunity to book to those that we feel would fit well with the vibe we are seeking to create.

Q: Can we play on the premises? – A: No, this is a social only event.

Q: Do we have private use of the venue? A: No, we have an area of the venue, the intention will be to look at private options for future events.

Q: Who can attend? – A: Validated (green tick/flag) couple (mf) or single lady (f) and single males (m) by exception. As mentioned above, this is an invite only event and the guest list is being handpicked, the synergy of our guests is our top priority.

Q: I’m a single female/male can I bring an opposite sex partner? – A: Yes, if both of you meet the criteria above.

Q: How long will the event last? – A: We have the space for as long as we like (within their standard opening hours of the venue) so stay as long as you like.

Q: Why is the event so early? – A: We want to give people the opportunity to network at the start of the evening, leaving the remainder of the night to go clubbing / drinking or host an after party.

Q: Have you run this event before? – A: No, this is our first so if you are attending you will be part of a whole new Nottingham scene!

Q: How many people are you expecting to attend? – A: TBC!

Q: When will you tell us the location? – A: We're keeping the venue under wraps until the two days before (for obvious reasons). We will send everyone on the guest list joining instructions at that time.

Q: We look young, do we need ID? – A: Yes, if you’re under 25 please bring ID.

Q: What’s happening afterwards, are there any plans? A: We’re running the social; what happens afterwards is totally up to you.

Q: We’ve never been before, what is the dress code? – A: This is a relaxed affair so we are not asking for suited and booted, we want everyone to be comfortable so feel free to dress up or down as you see fit. If you are wanting inspiration, may we suggest that you think 1st date style rather than, "We have been together 15 years and what you see is what you get...".

Q: What can I/we do to help? – A: Promote the event, tell your friends, post it in your status and encourage people that you think will fit the demographic to message us. It is what you make it!

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By *s funCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Really looking forward to this xx

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By *ohnnotts25Man
over a year ago

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Can I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ay up!

I'm looking forward to meeting and mingling with you all!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure you will find plenty to "mingle" with!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Us too... cant wait to meet you guys!

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By *atanddogCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Count us in!

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By *r and Mrs J - 2018Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just about to PM you. We would love to be invited to attend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As are we! On countdown...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey,

Can you pop us down please?

S&A xx

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Looking forward to this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for the invite, very much looking forward to it! ??

J&K

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By * star couple xxxCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Cant wait for these,great idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant wait for these,great idea"

Aaaaaaaaaawwwwww thank you!!!

We (all of us) need as much support as we can get...

Over the last few years we have travelled down to the South West for some amazing partys at 666 and met some amazing people including the infamous dirty130 who founded the Bristol Social.

It was a run away success and down there they now have a thriving, vibrant, multifaceted scene where all tastes, styles, ages and kinks are catered to.

We were discussing with our good friends Temptation & Desire about this and how there must be some dirty, sexy, filthy types round here...

Turns out there is plenty, now to build on that desire and create a scene that's all of yours...

We are hopefully but humble servants to a movement.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been waiting for a Nottingham social for ages. Can I be put on the list please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be added to the list please. Have attended a few socials in York before. Always wonder why there is no socials in Notts. Glad someone took the initiative.

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We cant make that date unfortunately, but if you hold others please bear us in mind

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

6th July? Lovely

There's a Bikini Party on at Purple Mamba afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to come

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"6th July? Lovely

There's a Bikini Party on at Purple Mamba afterwards!"

I was thinking about giving the club a try while I'm in the area!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I can’t make this date as I’m actually hosting the same day but would love to attend a future social if pos and return to my old “neck of the woods”. Have a great time everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We loved the Notts social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"6th July? Lovely

There's a Bikini Party on at Purple Mamba afterwards!"

Perfect... we are starting early enough and transport to your place will be simple enough, to give attendees chance to check out your place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

Thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

Thankyou.

You're welcome... you look just the type who would "enjoy" (or is it endure) some of the toys in our box!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I should be around then xx

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By *ohnnotts25Man
over a year ago

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Guess I can’t come lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

Thankyou.

You're welcome... you look just the type who would "enjoy" (or is it endure) some of the toys in our box!!

Haha would you happen to have found my toy tag along Fridays event!?

you should come along. With your toy box!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

Thankyou.

You're welcome... you look just the type who would "enjoy" (or is it endure) some of the toys in our box!!

Haha would you happen to have found my toy tag along Fridays event!?

you should come along. With your toy box!!

It will be a grind... it's more like a toy crate!!!

But the treasures that lay inside will blow your mind...

And toy tag along sounds awesome, some of ours are downright dangerous!!!

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

I would like to attend, please can i be considered.

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guest list is developing nicely...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Guest list is developing nicely...

Not long now, can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guest list is developing nicely...

Not long now, can't wait!"

Aaaaaawwww they are going love you... couples luuuuuurrrrvvvveeee single females and we have another 2 coming so far so you won't be alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to come to you're social tigznpaz.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would like to come to you're social tigznpaz.xx"

We've messaged you guys... we're sure you will connect with plenty of the guests...

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By *r swing2Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

hi, can i be added to your list please? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guest list will be landing in your inboxes next week...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Confession...

Half of our reasoning for a social, apart from just bringing different people together to create their own circles in the area, is to recruit a few debauched souls to our humble idea for a party...

Simply an orgy... less party more sex...

If your in the room you are part of the tangle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all looking forward to attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huzzah!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Confession...

Half of our reasoning for a social, apart from just bringing different people together to create their own circles in the area, is to recruit a few debauched souls to our humble idea for a party...

Simply an orgy... less party more sex...

If your in the room you are part of the tangle..."

You say that like it’s a bad thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgy party in Valhalla

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Huzzah!

Aaaaaaaaawwwww you and our gymbunny friend were just the types we had in mind... super sexually assertive females...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Orgy party in Valhalla

Gods, goddesses, warriors and wenches...

I need more fur throws though! Those things and leather just make everything seem sexy!

Plus I just bought a new lamp... its 1940s movie style with a red bulb...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Confession...

Half of our reasoning for a social, apart from just bringing different people together to create their own circles in the area, is to recruit a few debauched souls to our humble idea for a party...

Simply an orgy... less party more sex...

If your in the room you are part of the tangle...

You say that like it’s a bad thing!"

It's good to be bad...

A d you know what they say...

"Good men can only dream about what bad men do!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could we please be concidered please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We had the best evening with a friend of ours...

A completely normalised evening of sexual flirtation over a sensual meal and delicious wine...

We're hopefully going to bring a few more into our world after the 6th...

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By *upersexysCouple
over a year ago

hucknall

Thanks for invite we will be attending xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for invite we will be attending xxx"

Hey guys I take it TemptationAndDesire have invited you, they are on the hunt at the min... and welcome... xx

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By *erbycouple7Couple
over a year ago

derby

Thanks for invite we will be coming

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By *upersexysCouple
over a year ago

hucknall

Yes they did xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes they did xx"

Those guys are soooooo on the ball...

While we're out on a scarecrow hunt with the kids!! Ha ha!

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By *ik00090Man
over a year ago

oxford

hope, im going to attend it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are hopefully going will confirm shortly x

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By *ssandaCouple
over a year ago

Newark

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By *ssandaCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Paid up and looking forward.

Essanda x

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By *oltariCouple
over a year ago

Grantham

Been looking down to this though usual potential issues re babysitters etc. We will let you know, but if not please keep us in mind for future events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the invites been sent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you put us down on list please

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

I'd love to attend but still not 100% yet

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By *ohnnotts25Man
over a year ago

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Guess I don’t get a invite then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Confirmed guests so far:

MRandMRSHurricane C

BondGirl SF

CatAndDog C

CH2002 C

CitizensOfValhalla C

CrimsonRose SF

SpiritEsprit SF(offline)

Essanda C

FulltimeFuntime C

hungrycaterpillar260 C

Will_and_Raven C

_s fun C

TemptationAndDesire C

TheCheekyChap SM

TightandHard C

TigznPaz C

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By *ssandaCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Any confirmed couples, please feel free to contact us on fab x

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By *arker and Lady PCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Could we be added to the guest list please?

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By *edsky29Couple
over a year ago

Fine Ass City

Can we be added to the list please.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We would love to have attended this event and we already know some of the attendees. Gutted we are both working that weekend. Could we be considered for future events please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, this will be the first of many events we hope. X

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Of course, this will be the first of many events we hope. X"

Perfect thank you, hope it goes well for you all. Sure it will with all the sexies on the list.

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By *otts24FunMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

So, we mailed the organisers of this social to ask for an invitation and didn’t even get a polite no.

Obviously we don’t fit the ‘vibe’ they are trying to achieve but would have expected some basic courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, we mailed the organisers of this social to ask for an invitation and didn’t even get a polite no.

Obviously we don’t fit the ‘vibe’ they are trying to achieve but would have expected some basic courtesy."

I had the same feel. I have attended lots of socials and parties before. But never been ignored by the organisers. Even if it is to say no. But I see here, many messages are being ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t fault their response with us. They were more than happy to invite us. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I am a single male and like to attend

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By *arker and Lady PCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We haven't heard back from them either x

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By *isage2Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

So looking forward to seeing the hosts again( been far too long) and meeting some sexy couples and fems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will add you to the list for next time! We totally have to bring you home!

Thankyou.

You're welcome... you look just the type who would "enjoy" (or is it endure) some of the toys in our box!!

Haha would you happen to have found my toy tag along Fridays event!?

you should come along. With your toy box!!

It will be a grind... it's more like a toy crate!!!

But the treasures that lay inside will blow your mind...

And toy tag along sounds awesome, some of ours are downright dangerous!!!"

Sound intriguing

... the more the merrier!

lol. My next “toys arse us event” is on the 23rd August

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking forward to catching up with you guys too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ooh now that would have been one worth investigation....or is it a more formal interrogation that is required...sadly we aren't around for that date though arrrghh! Keep us posted...the stars will align...some time

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

CM you mail me details please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi .could we be added onto the list to attend please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For any that we have not responded to, we realise this is frustrating.

We are working hard to ensure that this event it truly one to remember as our first Nottingham Social.

In an effort to achieve that for those already booked to attend we are constantly balancing the group so that there is a good mix.

We will respond to those that we feel will add to that balance and to those people we will provide further details and an invitation to attend will be extended.

We are really keen to ensure that there is something for everyone attending and really appreciate the support and interest that we have had to date!

We look forward to seeing those of you attending on the 6th!

An updated guestlist will be available soon!

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By *elicious_candyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Morning could we be added to the list please xx

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

v=can i be added please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And here we have the updated guestlist!

MRandMRSHurricane C

BondGirl SF

CatAndDog C

CH2002 C

CitizensOfValhalla C

CrimsonRose SF

SpiritEsprit SF

Essanda C

Expert Vanilla C

FulltimeFuntime C

hungrycaterpillar260 C

KinkycplNott C

Minx202 SF

OandK C

Purekinkyfilth30 C

Will_and_Raven C

_s fun C

Sarahnrich C

TemptationAndDesire C

TheCheekyChap SM

TightandHard C

TigznPaz C

_isage2 C

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By *elicious_candyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Could we ask why we dont meet the criteria for your SOCIAL ...because I'm very interested in knowing ...and possibly all the others that have requested to go but are ignored without a reply of no sorry you'll not fit in with our other guests ....will wait on a reply thanx in advance

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By *elicious_candyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"We haven't heard back from them either x"
I've asked the reason why we dont meet the criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven't heard back from them either x I've asked the reason why we dont meet the criteria"
.... probably just don't like look of us... should be allowed to attend regarding of size/age/gender etc.a organized social event is a organized social event at end day.and leave it to the choice of others if want to engage in conversation with who ever they like as everyone has their own preferences...if was private party at their home understandable..if out age range etc.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven't heard back from them either x I've asked the reason why we dont meet the criteria.... probably just don't like look of us.(noticed other couple helping with social has looked at our profile).. should be allowed to attend regarding of size/age/gender etc.a organized social event is a organized social event at end day.and leave it to the choice of others if want to engage in conversation with who ever they like as everyone has their own preferences...if was private party at their home understandable..if out age range etc....."
reply ? Wouldn't hold breath..

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By *iss deliciousWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

I haven't heard a thing .....very rude to not reply......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Social is to meet like minded people. I have met couples who are not looking for single guys for sex but still they are friends with me. This should be renamed as Nottingham private meet. More than social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree. Social is to meet like minded people. I have met couples who are not looking for single guys for sex but still they are friends with me. This should be renamed as Nottingham private meet. More than social. "
..... definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long to go!

We're looking forward to meeting you all

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By *otts PervsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Looking forward to meeting everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *palfruits44Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Hi,

Could you let us know if there's going to be another social, we would like to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone. Firstly we would like to thank everyone who was able to attend. The venue was pact with lovely people from all walks of the community. We are so pleased that everyone had a great time and that new connections were made and playmates were found. We will absolutely try to host another event before the summer is out if we can find a large enough venue.

To everyone who we didn’t manage to invite, we are very sorry this event passed you by. The reality is the venue could only accommodate so many people and we were a little bit over subscribed at the end

. We will make sure that the next event is posted to the forum / events and will ask everyone to contact us directly for invites as the forum doesn’t notify of new messages and a couple of days may go by before it’s checked.

Thank you again to everyone and let keep up the momentum to try and normalise the community in wider world

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By *otts24FunMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

We didn’t merit an invite but the funny thing is we have met and played with at least 4 of the couples who were on the guest list.

Think the organisers of this event need to understand what a SOCIAL is supposed to be about.

A social should be inclusive and open to all not just those the organisers like the look of.

The need to balance the number of single guys is understood but apart from that there should be no element of selection.

Well done on managing to irritate and annoy a number of very lovely people who would have added much to any social.

Rant over we will now get on with organising our next trip to PDI.

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