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FFFF @ Xtasia, Friday 31st May (pt4)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Paul and Flirt would like to offer you the opportunity to come along to another great Friday FFFF event @ Xtasia and I'll be running the guest list here on Fab.

FFFF (Fab Friends Free Fun), Friday 31st May. Dress code for the event is smart casual, so no hoodies, caps, ripped jeans etc.

Here's the rules for attending the FFFF Event:

COUPLES are Free entry if on the guest list. You'll need to be a genuine couple on Fab, with at least one meet in person verification as a couple for us to add you to the list. We think this is very fair as many singles are now starting to hook up as a couple just to get into an event, with no intentions of ever playing as a couple after it. That's not really the idea, and if problems arise on the night, it’s normally these relationships that give us the issues.

SINGLE FEMALES are free entry if on the guest list.

SINGLE GUYS must be members already, or accepted as members of Xtasia but yet to visit. Bottom line here, if you’re not a member already of Xtasia, then apply for club membership via the club web site. (Just google Xtasia). You have plenty of time to be approved before the event. If you leave it till the last minute then you probably won't get in. Please only ask to be added to this guest list if you’re an approved club member. Please mention when posting in the thread that you are a member/have been accepted for membership or you won't be added to the guest list.

All members are still welocme to attend even if not on the guest list, though normal entry rules and charges will apply.

PLEASE NOTE, we are also enforcing a rule to try to ease the pressure on couples and ladies playing. NO single guys will be allowed into the lower playroom area unless invited in by a couple or single female. It’s predominantly a Social, if you can’t be bothered to chat before trying to play, you shouldn’t be there!! Make an effort guys, be sociable, it reaps rewards. We will also be enforcing our dress code, look scruffy, and you won’t get in! Be warned!!

Free entry to those who make the list, are club members and are well presented on the night.

Those who attend who aren't already club members, will get the chance to join if they like what they see. Please bring along valid ID if you think that might be of interest.

Look at Xtasia website 'Accommodation' page for onsite hotel rooms, Premier Inn Central West Bromwich, the Park Inn at West Bromwich, the Travelodge West Bromwich, Travelodge Oldbury, Premier Inn at Gas Street, West Bromwich for any deals that they may have for the weekend. Do try and book your hotel as soon as you can as they do tend to get booked up when these events are on.

Flirts bar will be open from 6pm if you fancy a few drinks, something to eat and a game or two of pool to help start the evening.

The club opens at 8pm for the event and closes again at 3am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guest list for tonight's event is now closed.

Couples and single females can still turn up but normal rules and prices apply. Single male members can still turn up but normal entry prices will apply. Single male non members can't just turn up I'm afraid.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

See you soon.

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"See you soon."

Can’t wait to see you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See you soon."

I hope you have a great night! I'll hopefully see you at the next one x

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By *hat black guyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m a member of Fab & Xtasia, I’m on the guest list. Very curious about the theme & atmosphere

Either way I’ll say hi & do my best to fully enjoy XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a member of Fab & Xtasia, I’m on the guest list. Very curious about the theme & atmosphere

Either way I’ll say hi & do my best to fully enjoy XX "

You may be a member of FAB and Xtasia but you're not on the guest list I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous as attending alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous as attending alone "

Don't be. Come look for us xminxyx and me.

We are friendly. My first time but with my friend. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nervous as attending alone "

You'll be fine once you're in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous as attending alone

Don't be. Come look for us xminxyx and me.

We are friendly. My first time but with my friend. X"

Thank u sweet. I've been previously but never alone

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next? "

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it

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By *isa and MangoCouple
over a year ago

London

Thanks for a great night.

Lisa and I had a very naughty time

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By *om barbaraCouple
over a year ago

staffordshire

Morning great night at xtaisa ffff we had a bit fun in orgy room! Please say Hi if it was you? We had hot BJ with a great ending off two hot blondes one barb the other was the center of attention. With two or three other couples.

X

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By *halky90Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Top night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks to those who came and spoke with us last night (and for the compliments on outfits!) - sorry to those who we had messaged previous but never got around to chatting/playing.

Hope everyone had a great night!

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Our favourite club, we had a great night xxx

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By *atching and WantingCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Thanks for a great night, made even better by the guys in the cinema room !! Although sorry to the one for not having his final showdown ??

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

Thank for a great night was nice meeting Paul & Flirt for the first time in nearly ten years since the day of Blackpool fun house.

Xtasia's FFFF night was very well attended by all who had there names on the list.

Got to mention the bar staff superb never stopped working.

Hopefully it won't be as long visiting _tasia's again.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for not making last night; IVF is leaving Katherine very fragile. Hope you ALL had a FABulous time?!? Xo

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it "

Lee.... I was looking for you.

You missed a great night. It was epic. Had a blast m’self.

Xx

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!

Brilliant night. If you saw or remember me, say hi. Best bit was when I nearly fell off the bed in the cinema room after being ........

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it "

I’m afraid I can’t make that one as I have a full work schedule. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it

Lee.... I was looking for you.

You missed a great night. It was epic. Had a blast m’self.

Xx"

Glad you had a good night I had to be up for work @ 6am this morning so couldn't make last night in the end

I hope to catch up with you again soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliant night. If you saw or remember me, say hi. Best bit was when I nearly fell off the bed in the cinema room after being ........ "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it

I’m afraid I can’t make that one as I have a full work schedule. Xx"

The FFFF event after that is Friday 6th September I hope you can make it along for that one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it

I’m afraid I can’t make that one as I have a full work schedule. Xx

The FFFF event after that is Friday 6th September I hope you can make it along for that one xx"

When’s the next couples and single ladies one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brilliant night, massive thanks as always to Lee for sorting a superb list...still partying here! So....whens next?

Glad it was a good night just gutted that I couldn't be there

I think the next one could well be Friday 26th July

Watch the forums tomorrow evening as there might well be a new thread appearing for it

I’m afraid I can’t make that one as I have a full work schedule. Xx

The FFFF event after that is Friday 6th September I hope you can make it along for that one xx

When’s the next couples and single ladies one?"

Not until next year now, the rest of this years are all Friday night open to all events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not until next year now, the rest of this years are all Friday night open to all events "

That’s a shame, we might not make it to an ffff night until next year then. No matter how polite and behaved the majority of the guys are, there is always a small number of lurkers/stalkers, who either wait in the play rooms or follow you into them, no conversation ready to pounce and try and join in. At one point Missy was approached at the bar while Mr went to the toilet. It was the first time we’d been apart during the evening, and one “gentleman” offered her a drink, four times she told him no, only for him to continue to “encourage” her to have one. If you can’t accept a no to your offer of a drink, what else will you not accept a no to? Pammy on the bar checked on her and asked if Missy was ok, thankfully she can handle herself in most situations so it wasn’t a massive issue. As we said the majority were well behaved and the dance floor play room area was more securely monitored later in the evening (not that _tasia’s hard working and friendly team should have to). We had a nice chat with one male from Warwick sort of way, who came over, asked if he could sit at the same table and even asked if he could have a chat - which we did for a good ten mins or so. We both had a great night in the end all in all, but we always seem to have a better night on a Saturday. We will probably get to the dates of the next ones, see the guest list and end up giving it another go, but it is a shame we have to wait over seven months for a Saturday, but then again we are really grateful to _tasia for putting on these free events, which they clearly don’t have to do.

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"Not until next year now, the rest of this years are all Friday night open to all events

That’s a shame, we might not make it to an ffff night until next year then. No matter how polite and behaved the majority of the guys are, there is always a small number of lurkers/stalkers, who either wait in the play rooms or follow you into them, no conversation ready to pounce and try and join in. At one point Missy was approached at the bar while Mr went to the toilet. It was the first time we’d been apart during the evening, and one “gentleman” offered her a drink, four times she told him no, only for him to continue to “encourage” her to have one. If you can’t accept a no to your offer of a drink, what else will you not accept a no to? Pammy on the bar checked on her and asked if Missy was ok, thankfully she can handle herself in most situations so it wasn’t a massive issue. As we said the majority were well behaved and the dance floor play room area was more securely monitored later in the evening (not that _tasia’s hard working and friendly team should have to). We had a nice chat with one male from Warwick sort of way, who came over, asked if he could sit at the same table and even asked if he could have a chat - which we did for a good ten mins or so. We both had a great night in the end all in all, but we always seem to have a better night on a Saturday. We will probably get to the dates of the next ones, see the guest list and end up giving it another go, but it is a shame we have to wait over seven months for a Saturday, but then again we are really grateful to _tasia for putting on these free events, which they clearly don’t have to do."

I had similar experiences with men who just touch in the dogging area. I can give them a firm “NO”, whilst I’m with my boys. Woe betide they don’t listen. They’ll see a very different butterfly.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Not until next year now, the rest of this years are all Friday night open to all events

That’s a shame, we might not make it to an ffff night until next year then. No matter how polite and behaved the majority of the guys are, there is always a small number of lurkers/stalkers, who either wait in the play rooms or follow you into them, no conversation ready to pounce and try and join in. At one point Missy was approached at the bar while Mr went to the toilet. It was the first time we’d been apart during the evening, and one “gentleman” offered her a drink, four times she told him no, only for him to continue to “encourage” her to have one. If you can’t accept a no to your offer of a drink, what else will you not accept a no to? Pammy on the bar checked on her and asked if Missy was ok, thankfully she can handle herself in most situations so it wasn’t a massive issue. As we said the majority were well behaved and the dance floor play room area was more securely monitored later in the evening (not that _tasia’s hard working and friendly team should have to). We had a nice chat with one male from Warwick sort of way, who came over, asked if he could sit at the same table and even asked if he could have a chat - which we did for a good ten mins or so. We both had a great night in the end all in all, but we always seem to have a better night on a Saturday. We will probably get to the dates of the next ones, see the guest list and end up giving it another go, but it is a shame we have to wait over seven months for a Saturday, but then again we are really grateful to _tasia for putting on these free events, which they clearly don’t have to do.

I had similar experiences with men who just touch in the dogging area. I can give them a firm “NO”, whilst I’m with my boys. Woe betide they don’t listen. They’ll see a very different butterfly.

"

Ww only went once to FFFF on a Friday, didn't enjoy it for above reasons. Need more Sat event for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a more positive note...

A big thank you to Lee, and all the team at Xtasia for putting on a great event. It was very warm in there, and there were a lot of thirsty people to look after, and did a great job of it. Some great music throughout the night ensuring that - while we were there - there was always someone on the dance floor. A very entertaining night with many great dresses and outfit changes. Missy would be very interested to find out were the lady with the navy/black dress with white polka dots got her dress from. Regrettably, we never had a chance to ask, had we done so we’d have hoped to chat more . Some of the outfits inspired a rather productive shopping trip to merry hell today .

Thanks again to Lee and the Xtasia team!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my first time attending a club and I'll put it this way, I'll pick this over a normal night out any day!

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"Not until next year now, the rest of this years are all Friday night open to all events

That’s a shame, we might not make it to an ffff night until next year then. No matter how polite and behaved the majority of the guys are, there is always a small number of lurkers/stalkers, who either wait in the play rooms or follow you into them, no conversation ready to pounce and try and join in. At one point Missy was approached at the bar while Mr went to the toilet. It was the first time we’d been apart during the evening, and one “gentleman” offered her a drink, four times she told him no, only for him to continue to “encourage” her to have one. If you can’t accept a no to your offer of a drink, what else will you not accept a no to? Pammy on the bar checked on her and asked if Missy was ok, thankfully she can handle herself in most situations so it wasn’t a massive issue. As we said the majority were well behaved and the dance floor play room area was more securely monitored later in the evening (not that _tasia’s hard working and friendly team should have to). We had a nice chat with one male from Warwick sort of way, who came over, asked if he could sit at the same table and even asked if he could have a chat - which we did for a good ten mins or so. We both had a great night in the end all in all, but we always seem to have a better night on a Saturday. We will probably get to the dates of the next ones, see the guest list and end up giving it another go, but it is a shame we have to wait over seven months for a Saturday, but then again we are really grateful to _tasia for putting on these free events, which they clearly don’t have to do.

I had similar experiences with men who just touch in the dogging area. I can give them a firm “NO”, whilst I’m with my boys. Woe betide they don’t listen. They’ll see a very different butterfly.

Ww only went once to FFFF on a Friday, didn't enjoy it for above reasons. Need more Sat event for couples "

It won’t stop me from going. I have my boys to look after me.

Love the event. It’s just letting some men know their place

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By *Flutter-Woman
over a year ago

Not in f’kin London!


"It was my first time attending a club and I'll put it this way, I'll pick this over a normal night out any day! "

Normal is boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was my first time attending a club and I'll put it this way, I'll pick this over a normal night out any day!

Normal is boring "

Couldn't agree more!

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By *om barbaraCouple
over a year ago

staffordshire

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By *herryberry15Woman
over a year ago

bedworth

Best night out in ages xx

I didnt have any issues that are written above however i had a lovely time and met some lovely people xx

I dont attend couple only nights even with my husband its just not for us. So im very greatful ffff has been on a friday both times ive gone.

Xx

I look forward to the next one in july

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By *om barbaraCouple
over a year ago

staffordshire

Was great night when next Saturday foam party??. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best night out in ages xx

I didnt have any issues that are written above however i had a lovely time and met some lovely people xx

I dont attend couple only nights even with my husband its just not for us. So im very greatful ffff has been on a friday both times ive gone.

Xx

I look forward to the next one in july "

A thread is now running here on the forums for the next Friday night FFFF event on 26th July

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/events/889155#message_19901318

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