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"Really hoping to make it to this....thanks all of you for inviting us xxx" You're most welcome, shall put you on the list. Xxx | |||
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"well would be a rude no too not sure we fit in the bracket though haha cant wait going to be a great night " Thanks for making the trip, shall add you to the list. Xx | |||
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"well would be a rude no too not sure we fit in the bracket though haha cant wait going to be a great night Thanks for making the trip, shall add you to the list. Xx" No problem sure it will be woth it and thankyou very much see you there xx | |||
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"How will the club be sectioned off for your guests and regular club visitors? I.e which parts are for your use?" There will be a separation at the entrance to the dancefloor, with one of us on wristband duty there. However, depending on numbers confirmed we have another couple of options we've discussed to give us our own area away from other patrons. | |||
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"How will the club be sectioned off for your guests and regular club visitors? I.e which parts are for your use? There will be a separation at the entrance to the dancefloor, with one of us on wristband duty there. However, depending on numbers confirmed we have another couple of options we've discussed to give us our own area away from other patrons. " Thanks for your reply. I was asking because I'm a regular at the attic but your event isn't for me so I wanted to know how much of the club would be accessible to regular club goers. Now I know that most of the club will be off limits I will choose to stay away that night and visit a different night. I hope you all have a fantastic time and your event is a big success. It's good to see something different happening even if it isn't my cup of tea | |||
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"How will the club be sectioned off for your guests and regular club visitors? I.e which parts are for your use? There will be a separation at the entrance to the dancefloor, with one of us on wristband duty there. However, depending on numbers confirmed we have another couple of options we've discussed to give us our own area away from other patrons. Thanks for your reply. I was asking because I'm a regular at the attic but your event isn't for me so I wanted to know how much of the club would be accessible to regular club goers. Now I know that most of the club will be off limits I will choose to stay away that night and visit a different night. I hope you all have a fantastic time and your event is a big success. It's good to see something different happening even if it isn't my cup of tea " Thanks, we hope it's a success. In our discussions with the owners about it we understand that they don't want to give up the whole club to this for the night, as they still want their regular Friday night crowd. But this particular Friday is usually quiet for them, hence we have it as a trial night and a separate area. There are still lots of rooms available for regular goers though. | |||
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"I'm in please " I'm afraid that your verifications and profile write up don't indicate that you're actively Bi. And while of course Bi play is not mandatory, we are trying to avoid a situation where single guys are only there for the ladies. | |||
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"Normally people are 'fab-straight' not 'fab-bi' " When you've had guys change their displayed sexuality in order to get a meeting, then you'll understand. Not saying that you have, but it happens. We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party. | |||
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"Normally people are 'fab-straight' not 'fab-bi' When you've had guys change their displayed sexuality in order to get a meeting, then you'll understand. Not saying that you have, but it happens. We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party. " So if my profile text said 'love sucking and riding a hard cock' I'd have been OK? | |||
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"Normally people are 'fab-straight' not 'fab-bi' When you've had guys change their displayed sexuality in order to get a meeting, then you'll understand. Not saying that you have, but it happens. We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party. So if my profile text said 'love sucking and riding a hard cock' I'd have been OK? " No, but if one of your verifications said something like that, then it would have been perfect. | |||
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"Normally people are 'fab-straight' not 'fab-bi' When you've had guys change their displayed sexuality in order to get a meeting, then you'll understand. Not saying that you have, but it happens. We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party. So if my profile text said 'love sucking and riding a hard cock' I'd have been OK? No, but if one of your verifications said something like that, then it would have been perfect. " Not everyone goes into detail on their verifications, I certainly don't as what happens behind closed door stays behind closed doors. One couple on the guest list knows I've had bi on my profile for longer than your event has been up. Trust me I'm not that desperate to attend an event a club that regularly holds bi events that I'd change my profile for it | |||
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"Can I be added to this please xx" Thanks for the interest, yes we shall put you on the list. If you need any more info drop us a line. | |||
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"Still seems like a long way off but we're looking forward to this one " It'll come quickly enough! | |||
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" One couple on the guest list knows I've had bi on my profile for longer than your event has been up. Trust me I'm not that desperate to attend an event a club that regularly holds bi events that I'd change my profile for it " Agreed. No everyone likes to share the nitty gritty of every meet. | |||
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" One couple on the guest list knows I've had bi on my profile for longer than your event has been up. Trust me I'm not that desperate to attend an event a club that regularly holds bi events that I'd change my profile for it Agreed. No everyone likes to share the nitty gritty of every meet. " That's fine, we don't want graphic descriptions. And we aren't turning people down for not having that. But we can only make a judgement on the information we are supplied, and it was inconclusive as far as we were concerned. | |||
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"It works well for other Bi nights across the country, so we will go with it. Thanks for the constructive input though. " I've not seen any other nights be that anal! | |||
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"It works well for other Bi nights across the country, so we will go with it. Thanks for the constructive input though. I've not seen any other nights be that anal! " We direct your attention to the Cupid's Un-Bi-lievable event listing which states exactly the same thing. It works for them. We're sorry that you feel hard done by, but if we make one exception then we have to do it for all. | |||
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"It works well for other Bi nights across the country, so we will go with it. Thanks for the constructive input though. I've not seen any other nights be that anal! We direct your attention to the Cupid's Un-Bi-lievable event listing which states exactly the same thing. It works for them. We're sorry that you feel hard done by, but if we make one exception then we have to do it for all. " I don't feel hard done by, there is plenty of options for me. I just think it's ridiculous | |||
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"It works well for other Bi nights across the country, so we will go with it. Thanks for the constructive input though. I've not seen any other nights be that anal! We direct your attention to the Cupid's Un-Bi-lievable event listing which states exactly the same thing. It works for them. We're sorry that you feel hard done by, but if we make one exception then we have to do it for all. I don't feel hard done by, there is plenty of options for me. I just think it's ridiculous " Completely agree. I've spoken to Debs (owners partner) about it and she is in agreement so can't see it being a regular thing. | |||
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"It works well for other Bi nights across the country, so we will go with it. Thanks for the constructive input though. I've not seen any other nights be that anal! We direct your attention to the Cupid's Un-Bi-lievable event listing which states exactly the same thing. It works for them. We're sorry that you feel hard done by, but if we make one exception then we have to do it for all. I don't feel hard done by, there is plenty of options for me. I just think it's ridiculous Completely agree. I've spoken to Debs (owners partner) about it and she is in agreement so can't see it being a regular thing." Well we saw her, Ron and David on Saturday night and they seemed happy enough then. We explained when we discussed it initially how we were going to run the guest list. We appreciate that you've obviously got some desire to sabotage this now, but we're baffled as to why? We're trying not to take it personally but it's seeming that way. | |||
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"I'm not trying to sabotage it I just think it should be done in a fair way that's all. " Well if you spoke to Debbie on Saturday night, then she must have indicated that we were there and you could have spoken to us personally. Or, you could have mailed us privately on here with your concerns and we could have had a discussion. But no, you've decided to try and make us look bad on a public forum, and probably mentioned it to anyone you know not to come because of how we are running it. Effectively making the difficult job of getting people to turn out to a new event even harder. So sabotage. It's being done in a fair way. We're not turning people down on looks, race, body size. It's simple, everyone is going to be BI with verifications that indicate they are what they say they are. Not just guys, everyone. Even single women. We've actually NOT sent out invites to single women who state they are Bi when all their verifications are from single guys. We're trying to avoid what has happened at another Bi night in the area, where the last few times we've visited it has been taken over by Straight male/bi female couples and straight single guys. We've been given what is traditionally a quiet night at the club to run this trial event, in the hope we can get some people to come that wouldn't ordinarily visit. So it will impact regular goers minimally. Now if you'd like to come along then we'd be happy to have you there so you can see what we're trying to create. If you don't want to because of how we are running it, then that's fine also. But can we leave it there please. | |||
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"I have to say that this couple contacted me and were very polite .. while not my thing I did wish them luck with it. Also can't see debs talking so unprofessional about stuff. Normally keeps her cards close to her chest. While not my thing as I'm not into guys with guys and I realise this will be much more openly happening at an event like this.. I have passed the details on to people I feel will benefit it x Good luck. New events are quite hard to get off the ground x" Thanks for the support. | |||
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"I'm not trying to sabotage it I just think it should be done in a fair way that's all. Well if you spoke to Debbie on Saturday night, then she must have indicated that we were there and you could have spoken to us personally. Or, you could have mailed us privately on here with your concerns and we could have had a discussion. But no, you've decided to try and make us look bad on a public forum, and probably mentioned it to anyone you know not to come because of how we are running it. Effectively making the difficult job of getting people to turn out to a new event even harder. So sabotage. It's being done in a fair way. We're not turning people down on looks, race, body size. It's simple, everyone is going to be BI with verifications that indicate they are what they say they are. Not just guys, everyone. Even single women. We've actually NOT sent out invites to single women who state they are Bi when all their verifications are from single guys. We're trying to avoid what has happened at another Bi night in the area, where the last few times we've visited it has been taken over by Straight male/bi female couples and straight single guys. We've been given what is traditionally a quiet night at the club to run this trial event, in the hope we can get some people to come that wouldn't ordinarily visit. So it will impact regular goers minimally. Now if you'd like to come along then we'd be happy to have you there so you can see what we're trying to create. If you don't want to because of how we are running it, then that's fine also. But can we leave it there please. " You have invited single ladies who don't have bi-play verifications because you messaged me several weeks ago to invite me to this event. All my verifications are from single men with the exception of one social veri from another single lady from the forums and 2 social veris from couples after chatting at the attic. If you are vetting everyone to ensure the are actually bi then you perhaps need to be a bit more thorough. I'm not coming to the event because I'm not "properly" bi, I don't seek to play with ladies but will go with the flow if it feels right in a group situation - probably best described as hetero-flexible rather than bi. I really do want your event to be a roaring success. It's great to have new stuff happening even if it isn't my cup of tea but arguing about it on the forums isn't going to encourage people to attend. | |||
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"I'm not trying to sabotage it I just think it should be done in a fair way that's all. Well if you spoke to Debbie on Saturday night, then she must have indicated that we were there and you could have spoken to us personally. Or, you could have mailed us privately on here with your concerns and we could have had a discussion. But no, you've decided to try and make us look bad on a public forum, and probably mentioned it to anyone you know not to come because of how we are running it. Effectively making the difficult job of getting people to turn out to a new event even harder. So sabotage. It's being done in a fair way. We're not turning people down on looks, race, body size. It's simple, everyone is going to be BI with verifications that indicate they are what they say they are. Not just guys, everyone. Even single women. We've actually NOT sent out invites to single women who state they are Bi when all their verifications are from single guys. We're trying to avoid what has happened at another Bi night in the area, where the last few times we've visited it has been taken over by Straight male/bi female couples and straight single guys. We've been given what is traditionally a quiet night at the club to run this trial event, in the hope we can get some people to come that wouldn't ordinarily visit. So it will impact regular goers minimally. Now if you'd like to come along then we'd be happy to have you there so you can see what we're trying to create. If you don't want to because of how we are running it, then that's fine also. But can we leave it there please. You have invited single ladies who don't have bi-play verifications because you messaged me several weeks ago to invite me to this event. All my verifications are from single men with the exception of one social veri from another single lady from the forums and 2 social veris from couples after chatting at the attic. If you are vetting everyone to ensure the are actually bi then you perhaps need to be a bit more thorough. I'm not coming to the event because I'm not "properly" bi, I don't seek to play with ladies but will go with the flow if it feels right in a group situation - probably best described as hetero-flexible rather than bi. I really do want your event to be a roaring success. It's great to have new stuff happening even if it isn't my cup of tea but arguing about it on the forums isn't going to encourage people to attend." | |||
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"P.S. As a true pansexual I am very happy to perform door 'sexuality checks' on ALL GUESTS attending, without charge obvs Whilst I am obviously being light hearted I do totally get why you are asking for verified bi... I've seen plenty of events go sour when one half of the couple isn't ok in the environment etc x" Happy to be a stand in on door check duty whilst Charlie sprinkles her magic around within the club xxx Also agree about bi nights turning sour with the wrong mix of guests. As pansexuals we are unfortunately a minority that needs to make the absolute most of every event that caters for us as they are still relatively few and far between xxx | |||
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"I wonder why we people with no people skills often run swingers events and even clubs. Reading back on this thread is a prime example of this. Take a few minutes the read back this thread and with just basic "people skills" this whole hostile thread could have been avoided. Imagine how many people clicked on this thread, interested in attending (as I did) and then saw the hostile environment created by the so called hosts of the event and just moved on, as I am doing now. " | |||
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"Looking forward now! Got Saturday off so can party late in Friday!," Yay! You can be off the chain then | |||
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"Hello lovelies.. This looks absolutely fab! Could I please be put on the guestlist? " Hi there, yes we will add you now. Look forward to seeing you there. Xx | |||
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"Looking forward to attending this event with a friend, come and say hi, travelling from Portsmouth, looking forward to meeting new people " I’m the Portsmouth taxi service I only charge 1 blowjob each way lol Can’t wait for the event it’s going to be fantastic | |||
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"Looking forward to attending this event with a friend, come and say hi, travelling from Portsmouth, looking forward to meeting new people I’m the Portsmouth taxi service I only charge 1 blowjob each way lol Can’t wait for the event it’s going to be fantastic " Cheeky bugger you should be happy having a younger model on your arm | |||
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"Looking forward to attending this event with a friend, come and say hi, travelling from Portsmouth, looking forward to meeting new people I’m the Portsmouth taxi service I only charge 1 blowjob each way lol Can’t wait for the event it’s going to be fantastic Cheeky bugger you should be happy having a younger model on your arm " 1 blowjob each way is a bit steep. Hold out for a bit of a snog on the way and an over-the-pants handjob. | |||
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"Its being attracted to the person, not necessarily the gender. " I’m Pansexual , absolutely I’ve never been to that club but your event looks inviting. | |||
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"Looking forward to attending this event with a friend, come and say hi, travelling from Portsmouth, looking forward to meeting new people I’m the Portsmouth taxi service I only charge 1 blowjob each way lol Can’t wait for the event it’s going to be fantastic Cheeky bugger you should be happy having a younger model on your arm 1 blowjob each way is a bit steep. Hold out for a bit of a snog on the way and an over-the-pants handjob. " Anything for you Mr looking forward to it xx | |||
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"Checking in " Thanks, see you Friday x | |||
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"Hello....Can you add me please? Been to the Attic before and it’s a brill space...great layout and a bi night puts the cherry on the cake! I’m 50% straight and 50% gay...so will put in 100% effort on the night I promise!! Anyone who like to meet me there pls get in touch. Thanks, Will " Thanks Will, shall add you to the list. X | |||
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"Its being attracted to the person, not necessarily the gender. I’m Pansexual , absolutely I’ve never been to that club but your event looks inviting. " Let us know if you want to get on the list x | |||
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"Been encouraged by the wonderful and beautiful Tina Von Teese to attend so if you are happy for me to attend please add me to your guest list xxx " Sorry but your sexuality is down as straight, it's just for openly bi people. | |||
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"Hi both Could you add me to the list? I have a rare Friday night free xx" Yes will put you on the list now. See you Friday xxx | |||
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"Heyyy, Can I be added to the guestlist please, I have sent a private message also xxx" Yes we've added you. Just to note, the single guy list is now closed. | |||
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"Hi there Can not wait for Friday. It's going to be a great night " We are going to have a lot of fun | |||
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"Hi, Please add us to your guest list. We are both looking forward to meeting lots of old friends and hopefully making some new ones. Dave and Val XXXX" Will be good to see you both again xx | |||
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"Hi, Please add us to your guest list. We are both looking forward to meeting lots of old friends and hopefully making some new ones. Dave and Val XXXX Will be good to see you both again xx " Me thinks this is going to be one hell of a night | |||
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"Omg it's going to be utter debauchery now ! And I'm trying to get my partner in kink Miss Nikki in on the act now those who know her know its going to be Very Kinky indeed !" I do like kinky | |||
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"Hi, Please add us to your guest list. We are both looking forward to meeting lots of old friends and hopefully making some new ones. Dave and Val XXXX" Will add you to the list. See you Friday xx | |||
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"Finally found the right thread. Yes, some might know me as Miss Tina's partner in kink, although I don't think our antics are that kinky but simply devine Particularly if Mrs Greedy joins in Please add me to the guest list. " Your added, see you Friday. Xx | |||
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"I'd like to be added to the guest list for your event at Attic on 14th. Bi_guy2016. Danny York" We're afraid we have enough guys at the moment. Xxx | |||
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"Finally found the right thread. Yes, some might know me as Miss Tina's partner in kink, although I don't think our antics are that kinky but simply devine Particularly if Mrs Greedy joins in Please add me to the guest list. Your added, see you Friday. Xx" Brilliant, can't wait. Just been to the salon for a full wax in preparation Will you publish the latest approved guest list? | |||
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"Finally found the right thread. Yes, some might know me as Miss Tina's partner in kink, although I don't think our antics are that kinky but simply devine Particularly if Mrs Greedy joins in Please add me to the guest list. Your added, see you Friday. Xx Brilliant, can't wait. Just been to the salon for a full wax in preparation Will you publish the latest approved guest list?" Will try to do the latest one tonight, but if you scroll back up there was one from Monday. X | |||
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"Can I be added to the guest list please? " Yes of course. Shall add you now. Xx | |||
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"Well it's finally here, the first ever Pantazia@TheAttic. I know you are all going to make it a great night of debauchery and fuckage. I would just like to thank all of you for your support and helping us to creat this new event. See you all tonight :0)" Wishing you a fantastic night gutted we cant be there as we know it will be one hell of a night Good luck and hope this becomes a regular thing | |||
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"I'm a little confused, with the attic being open to the general public too this evening, coupled with your very strict entrance criteria, how will this work? If a member of your party wishes to invite a normal club attendee to play will that be allowed by you? Or will they need to load up their fab profile for you to judge if they are bi enough for you. What parts of the club are sectioned off for your event? Also how has this been done? Are their privacy screens up? How will it be policed to ensure only people attending your party will have access to those areas? Will normal attendees on a Friday night be paying a subsidised rate as they will have reduced facilities? Regards," Don't be confused, go to confused dot com. This is a trial event to see how things work, run in conjunction with and with the support of the club owners. If things don't work, well we can try to change them for the next one, or it simply won't happen again and we are fine with that. But we are grateful for everyone who has said they are coming, and not manufacturing problems for us for helping it to work. As for those sniping from the sidelines as they're a bit peeved, well..... | |||
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"I don't understand why you won't say how the club will be divided? What parts will remain open to the normal friday night crowd. You have said you will be playing your music, so you must have the dance floor/seating area. How will this area be divided off, will it be a physical barrier? What other areas have been set aside? I really don't understand why you can't just say "We have the dance floor and seating area blocked off solely for us and also 4 play rooms" " Since you're so concerned, from the car/ mirror room down. | |||
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"I don't think it's fair to invite people to a Bi only event, have such strict criteria to attend that because Bi people are being turned away because they don't have graphic verifications proving they are bi on their fab profile. Then they turn up at your event, the place is half full of the usual Friday night straight crowd, probably frustrated as to why parts if the club are not available to them even though they have paid full price. Then you expect your party to all sit in full view of everyone, doesn't sound like you have privacy screens. Then depending how many of you turn up the owner will assign you some play rooms. The crowd the attic attracts is not the most liberal from my experience. Can you at least assure people there is extra security on tonight?" I've answered all I'm going to. You are clearly trying to make trouble. You said as much in your first post. We've explained earlier on why the event is being held tonight, so not going through it again. Nor will we continue to explain why we are checking people and what we are looking for. Please find someone else to harass. | |||
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"How did we not see this ...can you add us to the guest list please xx" Yes of course. Xx | |||
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"Okay, you may not like me, but these are valid questions I think you should answer. Not to me but to the people travelling from across the country to attend your event. I have genuine concerns for security of your guests, when I attended the attic previously it allows in large groups of people unchecked, no ID checks taken from anyone - unlike other clubs. At the one and only night I have attended there was a group of about 7 middle age men d*unk sat right in the middle of the club, between the maze and the upstairs bar - talking at everyone who passed. I certainly wouldn't be comfortable sat at a Bi event in the corner. I know you think I'm trying to "make trouble" as you put it but my concerns are genuine, and I gave you opportunity to address them, an opportunity everyone can see you were unable or unwilling to take. " As someone that has run events before. I think the organisers of this one are working well to try new event at the Attic. Yes there may be teething issues but they have been very open and honest about this being the first one and as such feel that we need to support and be honest with how the event pans out. Also we are regular attendees to the attic and there are plenty of staff/security at the venue and anyone that is causing any issues are removed. They also do limit the amount of single men they let into their events so it's not full of them In the long run maybe raising questions you want answering via private message is a better starting point. Specially as you have very limited experience of the attic itself only being there once. | |||
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"TO ALL THE CLUB IS OPEN AS NORMAL WHY PEOPLE WHO DONT COME FRIDAY NIGHTS ARE MAKING A FUSS I THOUGHT SWINGING IS FOR EVERYONE MY CLUB CERTAINLY IS OPEN TO ALL RON " We're on team ron lol xx | |||
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"Can we ask a question . Mrs sp has a girlfriend she might also come with us although she is obviously bi she is not on fab we can prove she is fit and bi if you give us a try lol xx " Sorry, everyone needs to be verified as Bi through fab and the public verifications left on tbeir profiles. As the hosts said previously "We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party." There are lots other Bi parties at other clubs though without this silly criteria for your friend to enjoy. | |||
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"Can we ask a question . Mrs sp has a girlfriend she might also come with us although she is obviously bi she is not on fab we can prove she is fit and bi if you give us a try lol xx Sorry, everyone needs to be verified as Bi through fab and the public verifications left on tbeir profiles. As the hosts said previously "We're trying to ensure that it's verifyable that everyone is going to be comfortable at this party." There are lots other Bi parties at other clubs though without this silly criteria for your friend to enjoy." Wow get a life Dreamy I have been to a few bi events and have had to be veried as bi at all of them This is not and will not be an issue to us. The amount of men that contact us and their profiles state they are straight but suddenly they message us as bi is stupid. So we like bi events that Veri those going are bi | |||
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"Many people who visit the club are bi on any night and so mix with others so whats the difference do you want all bi people banned from clubs " Ron - you and I are in agreement. It's silly to turn people paying customers away because they decide not to put graphic verifucation on FAB. If you look higher up on this thread - that is exactky what your hosts for the event this evening have done. I was quoting them from higher up the thread to show how ridiculous they are - and you clearly agree People that would have paid to come to your club tonight, £25 each all being turned away. Scroll up on this thread and look how your potential customers have been dealt with | |||
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"Many people who visit the club are bi on any night and so mix with others so whats the difference do you want all bi people banned from clubs Ron - you and I are in agreement. It's silly to turn people paying customers away because they decide not to put graphic verifucation on FAB. If you look higher up on this thread - that is exactky what your hosts for the event this evening have done. I was quoting them from higher up the thread to show how ridiculous they are - and you clearly agree People that would have paid to come to your club tonight, £25 each all being turned away. Scroll up on this thread and look how your potential customers have been dealt with " No they have said there will be an area that has been designated for the bi event at the club. The rest of the club is open as normal And I don't expect any reply to this as you ignore anything that has been said to you before hand | |||
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"as I said the club is open to all if its not their thing there is other rooms and plenty o lockable rooms for all this event has been run right and looking at things there will be more" With the reduced rooms and facilities, no dance floor, reduced seating etc. What's the discounted entry price for your normal Friday night crowd? Also will people be made aware there is an bi event on before you take their money on the door? | |||
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"It's the same thing, the hosts here are representing the club. They would have walked through the door and each paid £25. Because it was attracting new people, some of those people may well have come back multiple times or even become a regular, meaning creating more revenue for the club many times over. Surely that's the idea if these events. If someone's profile states they are Bi, but they chose not to publish verifications where bi/gay activities are outlined they are being turned away, that doesn't make sense. We live in a world where a man can identify himself as a woman, but to get into a Bi event at the attic you need proof, and only from one website (fab). As long as Ron knows what's happened and whatever his taking are for tonight, it could have been much more, also the bad blood created by his hosts on here with potential customers. From Rons reply he cleary wasnt aware you were declining his potential customers in the way you we're, as he called me out when I quoted the hosts. " It's not your club. It's not your event. Your profile is hidden. You're pretty much the definition of an unpleasant troll. | |||
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"as I said the club is open to all if its not their thing there is other rooms and plenty o lockable rooms for all this event has been run right and looking at things there will be more With the reduced rooms and facilities, no dance floor, reduced seating etc. What's the discounted entry price for your normal Friday night crowd? Also will people be made aware there is an bi event on before you take their money on the door?" You clearly don't know the club layout, as I already told you the dancefloor was available to all. Enjoy your night wanking away furiously behind the keyboard while the rest of us are out fucking. | |||
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"as I said the club is open to all if its not their thing there is other rooms and plenty o lockable rooms for all this event has been run right and looking at things there will be more With the reduced rooms and facilities, no dance floor, reduced seating etc. What's the discounted entry price for your normal Friday night crowd? Also will people be made aware there is an bi event on before you take their money on the door? You clearly don't know the club layout, as I already told you the dancefloor was available to all. Enjoy your night wanking away furiously behind the keyboard while the rest of us are out fucking. " Thanks for clarifying. So you didn't say the following about the dance floor? "There will be a separation at the entrance to the dancefloor, with one of us on wristband duty there. However, depending on numbers confirmed we have another couple of options we've discussed to give us our own area away from other patrons." And "The tunes will be on a slightly different level for the evening as we are going for a hedonistic atmosphere, and were going to have the blacklights and UV paints out on the dance floor." | |||
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"Thrap thrap thrap thrap......uunngghh" Anyway thanks for all the hard work you have been putting in to set up tonight. See you later x | |||
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"Thrap thrap thrap thrap......uunngghh" Nothing you can say to the facts, is there? | |||
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"Thrap thrap thrap thrap......uunngghh Anyway thanks for all the hard work you have been putting in to set up tonight. See you later x" Will do, trying not to let the troll bring us down. Xx | |||
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"Thrap thrap thrap thrap......uunngghh Nothing you can say to the facts, is there? " Yawn bored of you now. We going to get ready to have an amazing night of bi fun | |||
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"the facts are the club is still open to all we close parts off for events such as greedy girls and other events this is no different " How do you ask the girls to verify that they are in fact "greedy girls". Do they have to load up verifications on fab, or do you just take their word for it? Why should this event be different? Also, is the dance floor closed as your hosts previously advised, with their own music playing or will it be normal service? | |||
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"the facts are the club is still open to all we close parts off for events such as greedy girls and other events this is no different How do you ask the girls to verify that they are in fact "greedy girls". Do they have to load up verifications on fab, or do you just take their word for it? Why should this event be different? Also, is the dance floor closed as your hosts previously advised, with their own music playing or will it be normal service?" Wow you just don't know when to stop do you. Every event is different. We have been to bi events where the whole club is closed for the event only. Some have different areas close off Also there is a big difference in regards to greedy girls xx it is only going to attract girls that are into them events or curious about them We know all too well not everyone that tries to pass themselves off as bi are bi | |||
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"the facts are the club is still open to all we close parts off for events such as greedy girls and other events this is no different How do you ask the girls to verify that they are in fact "greedy girls". Do they have to load up verifications on fab, or do you just take their word for it? Why should this event be different? Also, is the dance floor closed as your hosts previously advised, with their own music playing or will it be normal service?" Here's an idea, why not pull your trousers up and come along, find out for yourself. | |||
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"Really looking forward to the event tonight, however the club is divided, set up and whatever music is playing on the dance floor. It's a great club, with loads of rooms and space so everyone can enjoy themselves. So, it's Friday night. If anyone hasn't got anything nice to say, don't say it. Go Pantazia Let's have fun " | |||
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"the facts are the club is still open to all we close parts off for events such as greedy girls and other events this is no different How do you ask the girls to verify that they are in fact "greedy girls". Do they have to load up verifications on fab, or do you just take their word for it? Why should this event be different? Also, is the dance floor closed as your hosts previously advised, with their own music playing or will it be normal service? Here's an idea, why not pull your trousers up and come along, find out for yourself. " You're right, put me on the guest list please. | |||
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"the facts are the club is still open to all we close parts off for events such as greedy girls and other events this is no different How do you ask the girls to verify that they are in fact "greedy girls". Do they have to load up verifications on fab, or do you just take their word for it? Why should this event be different? Also, is the dance floor closed as your hosts previously advised, with their own music playing or will it be normal service? Here's an idea, why not pull your trousers up and come along, find out for yourself. You're right, put me on the guest list please. " Pretty certain Ron has said the rest of the club is open as normal | |||
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"I'm bored now, have a good night all - take care " Yay at last | |||
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