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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R "She has not come up with anything yet. Can't we just have a good night without any of drama the forum brings . It won't appeal to everyone. I am however  | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R She has not come up with anything yet. Can't we just have a good night without any of drama the forum brings . It won't appeal to everyone. I am however "I have no interest in drama! I was just looking for clarification. | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R She has not come up with anything yet. Can't we just have a good night without any of drama the forum brings . It won't appeal to everyone. I am however
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going. " Eh so what's B going to do that night lol | |||
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going. Eh so what's B going to do that night lol" The Onega lol strong and feisty x  | |||
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going. Eh so what's B going to do that night lolThe Onega lol strong and feisty x "Onega ?? | |||
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"I will defo be up for going to that hopefully she will also do an afternoon for it as well as I work nightshifts "Look forward to seeing you there x | |||
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"I will defo be up for going to that hopefully she will also do an afternoon for it as well as I work nightshifts
Look forward to seeing you there x"I hope to meet you also x | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R "Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x" x | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R "I’m sure you’ll pass !  | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R
I’m sure you’ll pass ! "Awww, thank you , but more concerned about the age of the cubs  
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"As I’m 40 this year I guess I can be classed as a cougar and scott is 10 years younger lol Musicmaid "  . Xx | |||
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"We could go as I’m older than Jim. He would love being called a cub lol" Ditto! Although I don’t think John would like to be a cub K x | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x"Or it could be a night like kink night which is essentially just a "fun for all" but the name of the night encourages people who are into kink to attend so it kind of also becomes the theme too
... so it might encourage more older women and younger men to approach each other since there will be an assumption they came to that theme night because it intrigues them | |||
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required? R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x
Or it could be a night like kink night which is essentially just a "fun for all" but the name of the night encourages people who are into kink to attend so it kind of also becomes the theme too
... so it might encourage more older women and younger men to approach each other since there will be an assumption they came to that theme night because it intrigues them " Thanks for helping to clarify cx | |||
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"We could go as I’m older than Jim. He would love being called a cub lol Ditto! Although I don’t think John would like to be a cub K x" He can be a spiky hedgehog then lol L x | |||
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"We could go as I’m older than Jim. He would love being called a cub lol" Damn right I would!!
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here "I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland! Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?! Is this not in our interest after all?! If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it! Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed! Hope this makes sense. Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand. You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea! Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through | |||
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through " | |||
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through "Yep... well said as ever Max | |||
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled "Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?! If you mean the thread closed... why? And what makes you think the thread is not going well?? I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them. Nothing wrong with that! Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin. Max San lol | |||
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going. " I'd go, if it's one of my free weekends x | |||
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled
Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?!
If you mean the thread closed... why?
And what makes you think the thread is not going well??
I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin.
Max San lol "Should have said that I can see the plug being pulled on the event My point still stands though that the bitching will reach the level it has done in the past when something new has been proposed. The plug gets pulled by the organiser, who can blame them when it's much more hassle than it's worth | |||
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled
Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?!
If you mean the thread closed... why?
And what makes you think the thread is not going well??
I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin.
Max San lol
Should have said that I can see the plug being pulled on the event
My point still stands though that the bitching will reach the level it has done in the past when something new has been proposed. The plug gets pulled by the organiser, who can blame them when it's much more hassle than it's worth"I see what you mean! However... Don't think this organisor is going to let themselves be intimidated though | |||
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through "I agree with you Max. As punters, all we need to do it turn up and enjoy. Why worry about the how’s, the what’s and the what ifs. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work! Be fun to trial it though! | |||
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"Glad im not the only one who thinks it will be a fun night . Every night in cjs is good ,but be nice to try something different. I have no idea why the bitching is always going on. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I know i aint the only one who has a fondness for the cubbys "It would be of help if you clarified what constitutes " bitching" . Or is it just any reply or opinion that does not allign with your own chain of thought. Ps im not bitching, i hope, just seeking some clarificaton so as not to end up in the bitching category. | |||
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