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Dark Desires Black & Interracial Party at Vanilla Alternative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dark Desires are holding their first black & interracial Bump & Grind Beach Wear party at the Vanilla Alternative Friday 23rd June! We would love to hear from those of you interested in coming! We will have a live DJ playing old skool soul, R&B, reggae and sexy hip hop so expect the dancefloor to be packed as well as the play rooms!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Another promising event ruined by hip hop.

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By *exylondongrlWoman
over a year ago

Esher

OOh, these seem to be springing up all over.

After the success of Black Boudoir, I see they have scheduled they're follow-up party for Thursday 29th June too.

Can't wait to go back, the crowd was the hottest I've ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dancefloor will be grooving! Get ready to electric slide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, this is racist..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who doesn't like to get down LL cool J Doin it, or 50 cent candy shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I am so looking forward to this, I love grindng to fantastic music, its so sexy and to be in such a lovely, carefree environment as well will be awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be some hip hop yes, but also soul and reggae - i know the DJ and he is very experienced and will read the room to see what the guests want to hear x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Well, this is racist.."

Why? Just because an interracial night only plays MOBO music? They might put some Bowie on if you ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop."
why ruined?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?"

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say, I'm quite surprised with some of the negative comments about the music, I'm sure it will be quite varied from what has been promoted. You can't please everyone and some people will always find something to moan about (maybe they need go to look for some cheesy music nights to do some dad dancing!) lol

We won't be attending but hope that everyone that goes has a fab time and I know the team will create a great evening for you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism. "

It's not black only!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?"

But.....but.....it's interracial, meaning anyone can go, but mainly the folk that are into interracial sex. So can't see how it's racist at all.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Its one of those nights that attracts a lot of sexy black girls who are into white guys, and black couples who prefer to swap with white couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OOh, these seem to be springing up all over.

After the success of Black Boudoir, I see they have scheduled they're follow-up party for Thursday 29th June too.

I think I'll try that too!

Can't wait to go back, the crowd was the hottest I've ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?

But.....but.....it's interracial, meaning anyone can go, but mainly the folk that are into interracial sex. So can't see how it's racist at all. "

And if a fit white man turned up I'd happily have him spit roast me with a black dude (other colours available).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the name of these events needs to be looked at further in future. Hope everyone that goes enjoys it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?

But.....but.....it's interracial, meaning anyone can go, but mainly the folk that are into interracial sex. So can't see how it's racist at all.

And if a fit white man turned up I'd happily have him spit roast me with a black dude (other colours available)."

That sounds like fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?"

Yes actually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to say, I'm quite surprised with some of the negative comments about the music, I'm sure it will be quite varied from what has been promoted. You can't please everyone and some people will always find something to moan about (maybe they need go to look for some cheesy music nights to do some dad dancing!) lol

We won't be attending but hope that everyone that goes has a fab time and I know the team will create a great evening for you all.

"

Great comments .... so true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one question: are mixed race guys & girls welcome and do you get many people who might be solely black attending?

(Might be a daft question, but I wanted to ask it anyway, as you never know).

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Just one question: are mixed race guys & girls welcome and do you get many people who might be solely black attending?

(Might be a daft question, but I wanted to ask it anyway, as you never know)."

All are welcome. Even people who enjoy hip hop

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x"

Was it vanilla ice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone is welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a party!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark Desires are holding their first black & interracial Bump & Grind Beach Wear party at the Vanilla Alternative Friday 23rd June! We would love to hear from those of you interested in coming! We will have a live DJ playing old skool soul, R&B, reggae and sexy hip hop so expect the dancefloor to be packed as well as the play rooms! "

Def interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome! "

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dark Desires are holding their first black & interracial Bump & Grind Beach Wear party at the Vanilla Alternative Friday 23rd June! We would love to hear from those of you interested in coming! We will have a live DJ playing old skool soul, R&B, reggae and sexy hip hop so expect the dancefloor to be packed as well as the play rooms!

Def interested "

Great! There will be mire info closer to the date. But keep it free cause it's not one to miss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark Desires are holding their first black & interracial Bump & Grind Beach Wear party at the Vanilla Alternative Friday 23rd June! We would love to hear from those of you interested in coming! We will have a live DJ playing old skool soul, R&B, reggae and sexy hip hop so expect the dancefloor to be packed as well as the play rooms!

Def interested

Great! There will be mire info closer to the date. But keep it free cause it's not one to miss!"

Marked in the diary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby there ain't nothing wrong.... with a little bump and grind

Who doesn't love old school hip hop?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?

But.....but.....it's interracial, meaning anyone can go, but mainly the folk that are into interracial sex. So can't see how it's racist at all.

And if a fit white man turned up I'd happily have him spit roast me with a black dude (other colours available).

That sounds like fun!"

It does, doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Baby there ain't nothing wrong.... with a little bump and grind

Who doesn't love old school hip hop?!?!? "
we will definitely be dropping some R Kelly! Sex Me! Jodeci! And lots more!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I'd love this.

Can't make the 23rd but hope there's another one

V xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it's going to be a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baby there ain't nothing wrong.... with a little bump and grind

Who doesn't love old school hip hop?!?!? we will definitely be dropping some R Kelly! Sex Me! Jodeci! And lots more!"

Oooooh it's like you read my mind sounds like it will be a good night... I shall see closer to the time if I am free

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By *weetDreams222Couple
over a year ago

Knutsford

Do we need to be members

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Hmmmmm seriously considering seeing if I can change my plans to attend

V xx

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Do we need to be members "

Everyone attending events at The Vanilla Alternative should be registered with the club. It doesn't cost anything and is easy to do via the club's website www.thevanillaalternative.co.uk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x

Was it vanilla ice? "
wow no words...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x

Was it vanilla ice? wow no sense of humour ... "

True.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time."

It would be lovely to see you again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x

Was it vanilla ice? wow no sense of humour ...

True. "

I liked his dancing! Ice ice baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, this is racist.."

Why?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x

Was it vanilla ice? wow no sense of humour ...

True.

I liked his dancing! Ice ice baby!"

I remembered there being a lot of trouser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

It would be lovely to see you again x"

Likewise?. If you're going then message me or add me and we can catch up.

I'm going to register at the club tonight and if someone can give confirmation that it is happening I'll going to get myself a room (for sleep and after party shenanigans ;P).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

It would be lovely to see you again x

Likewise?. If you're going then message me or add me and we can catch up.

I'm going to register at the club tonight and if someone can give confirmation that it is happening I'll going to get myself a room (for sleep and after party shenanigans ;P)."

Good idea! Theirs rooms tend to get booked up pretty early.

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By *hybloke67Man
over a year ago

ROMFORD

Was just wondering if the club has increased the number of single guys allowed to attend on this night or will it remain the same as every other Friday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

It would be lovely to see you again x

Likewise?. If you're going then message me or add me and we can catch up.

I'm going to register at the club tonight and if someone can give confirmation that it is happening I'll going to get myself a room (for sleep and after party shenanigans ;P).

Good idea! Theirs rooms tend to get booked up pretty early."

When do you know for sure that this event is going to happen, I know you said you were gauging interest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

It would be lovely to see you again x

Likewise?. If you're going then message me or add me and we can catch up.

I'm going to register at the club tonight and if someone can give confirmation that it is happening I'll going to get myself a room (for sleep and after party shenanigans ;P).

Good idea! Theirs rooms tend to get booked up pretty early.

When do you know for sure that this event is going to happen, I know you said you were gauging interest?"

I have already agreed the date with the VA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is welcome!

Cool. I'll keep that in mind and an eye out for the event closer to the time.

It would be lovely to see you again x

Likewise?. If you're going then message me or add me and we can catch up.

I'm going to register at the club tonight and if someone can give confirmation that it is happening I'll going to get myself a room (for sleep and after party shenanigans ;P).

Good idea! Theirs rooms tend to get booked up pretty early.

When do you know for sure that this event is going to happen, I know you said you were gauging interest?

I have already agreed the date with the VA."

Nice. I'll put it down in my calendar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism. "

Oh turn it in you wally!!

Some women (myself especially) prefer black men, does that make us racist?? I love these events and the clientele that attend them. There's nothing to say you can't attend because of your skin colour, You might find a beautiful black lady to turn your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that female attention, what's not to love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's are your favorite tunes to Bump & Grind to!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FYI the event isn't listed on their event calendar at the moment.

And I've submitted my registration - fingers crossed they let me go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FYI the event isn't listed on their event calendar at the moment.

And I've submitted my registration - fingers crossed they let me go."

We are still doing the posters. Just wanted to let people know as early as possible so everyone can keep the date free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism.

Oh turn it in you wally!!

Some women (myself especially) prefer black men, does that make us racist?? I love these events and the clientele that attend them. There's nothing to say you can't attend because of your skin colour, You might find a beautiful black lady to turn your head.

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We both prefer slim white people. I wonder when the club will hold a "Slim Whites" night - which of course people of any build or race could attend ?

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By *lusiveUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Essex/London

I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm in! "

Welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FYI the event isn't listed on their event calendar at the moment.

And I've submitted my registration - fingers crossed they let me go.

We are still doing the posters. Just wanted to let people know as early as possible so everyone can keep the date free!"

Alright, cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's are your favorite tunes to Bump & Grind to!?"

I love Pony and Let's Get It On and of course Bump & Grind

Excited for this event!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism.

Oh turn it in you wally!!

Some women (myself especially) prefer black men, does that make us racist?? I love these events and the clientele that attend them. There's nothing to say you can't attend because of your skin colour, You might find a beautiful black lady to turn your head.

We both prefer slim white people. I wonder when the club will hold a "Slim Whites" night - which of course people of any build or race could attend ?"

It does say it's an interracial night. So, live a little..."life is like a box of chocolates.."

For me it's nice to go somewhere where they don't mind you being mixed or see it as a plus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's are your favorite tunes to Bump & Grind to!?

I love Pony and Let's Get It On and of course Bump & Grind

Excited for this event!"

Our dj is gonna be rocking tunes!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism.

Oh turn it in you wally!!

Some women (myself especially) prefer black men, does that make us racist?? I love these events and the clientele that attend them. There's nothing to say you can't attend because of your skin colour, You might find a beautiful black lady to turn your head.

We both prefer slim white people. I wonder when the club will hold a "Slim Whites" night - which of course people of any build or race could attend ?

It does say it's an interracial night. So, live a little..."life is like a box of chocolates.."

For me it's nice to go somewhere where they don't mind you being mixed or see it as a plus."

To be fair "slim white night" is most party nights at the VA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's are your favorite tunes to Bump & Grind to!?

I love Pony and Let's Get It On and of course Bump & Grind

Excited for this event!

Our dj is gonna be rocking tunes!"

Awesome

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

Date pencilled in the diary. Fingers crossed we can attend, but know we have commitments earlier in the day. Hope we are not too tired!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Date pencilled in the diary. Fingers crossed we can attend, but know we have commitments earlier in the day. Hope we are not too tired!"

Would definitely be great if you guys could attend!!

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop."

WTF??? This is surely a Friday lay joke, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book marking this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the ladies, gents and couple's. They are allowing you to get on the guest list now, just phone them and you should be good to go.

Hope to see all you there (please be gentle, I'm still a little new lol).

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

So are we all ready for naughtiness on Friday 23rd June? l am and excited to meet like minded folk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have Shegitu sensual dance troop performing on the night!! Contact the VA and get your name on the guest list!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Bookmarking until I check the date as I've been wanting to do a road trip for a while and this is definitely something I'd be interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?"


"I can imagine the uproar of events catering for white and white lovers only. Is there any need to bring race into these events?"

I'm black and love white men,so the event that you describe would suit me fine and dandy.

It states INTERRACIAL (therefore is inclusive), so where's the excluding in that. If you love black women,go and have a look; simples! sheesh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?

Yes actually x

Was it vanilla ice? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope all you guys know the electric slide!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Any black couples going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Any black couples going? "
It is a couples and singles night.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Could be interested. Will ask Sir

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I hope everyone who attends has a great night, however in the past live DJs in the VA have had a tendency to play the music too loud which can make social interaction quite difficult, which after all is the purpose of the evening

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Hoping to be there

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Any black couples going? It is a couples and singles night."

Oh i thought you were organising it! My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMAO at some of the posts/responses on here...

sense of humour bypass springs to mind

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Haven't been to VA in a few years, but hopefully the young lady and myself can attend

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"LMAO at some of the posts/responses on here...

sense of humour bypass springs to mind "

Me too. Hope they're not going

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"LMAO at some of the posts/responses on here...

sense of humour bypass springs to mind

Me too. Hope they're not going "

Don't be mean! Some people just won't have a bad thing said about hip hop!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"LMAO at some of the posts/responses on here...

sense of humour bypass springs to mind

Me too. Hope they're not going

Don't be mean! Some people just won't have a bad thing said about hip hop!"

I'm not sure I even know what it is

But I'm sure I'll love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"LMAO at some of the posts/responses on here...

sense of humour bypass springs to mind

Me too. Hope they're not going

Don't be mean! Some people just won't have a bad thing said about hip hop!"

Come on! We'll be spinning sexy hip hip, not gangster rap! 50 cent's just a lil bit, LL cool J Doin it. Who would want to shake what ya mama gave ya to that!!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope everyone who attends has a great night, however in the past live DJs in the VA have had a tendency to play the music too loud which can make social interaction quite difficult, which after all is the purpose of the evening "

We are trying to change the vibe for this night. More of a night club feel, with more people dancing than standing or seating around talking.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I hope everyone who attends has a great night, however in the past live DJs in the VA have had a tendency to play the music too loud which can make social interaction quite difficult, which after all is the purpose of the evening

We are trying to change the vibe for this night. More of a night club feel, with more people dancing than standing or seating around talking."

Sounds like a great night to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like my kind of night. How do I get my name down lovely ? Xx

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

Contact VA and add your name on the guest list hun

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London


"Contact VA and add your name on the guest list hun "
What more could you ask for... good music, good social vibes, great venue, sensual dancers performing, stylish sexy clothing collection to view and purchase for the Ladies and pure naughty fun! Whoopeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contact VA and add your name on the guest list hun What more could you ask for... good music, good social vibes, great venue, sensual dancers performing, stylish sexy clothing collection to view and purchase for the Ladies and pure naughty fun! Whoopeeeeee"

Oh yesss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know many that can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops! Can't give out numbers on the forum! I'm a bad boy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ideas for beach wear anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so looking forward to this event - great music, dancing ... grinding and lots of sexy guys and gals to get hot, hot, hot with and do what comes naturally ... ooh can't wait to hear who is coming to parttyyy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas for beach wear anyone?"

Rubber wet suit but with access to all areas lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ideas for beach wear anyone?

Rubber wet suit but with access to all areas lol x"

That's just naughty! But nice!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I am so looking forward to this event - great music, dancing ... grinding and lots of sexy guys and gals to get hot, hot, hot with and do what comes naturally ... ooh can't wait to hear who is coming to parttyyy xx"

Me

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I wish I could come to this....wish you all the luck with it, and hope it becomes a regular event. If so I will definitely be there for the next one.

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

That's a shame hun

But l can't hold down my excitement - roll on 23rd June.... ready to make some shapes on the dancefloor and showcase Nalawear for you beautiful sexy women!

Sensual dancers are ready so lets PARTY fabber's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am so looking forward to this event - great music, dancing ... grinding and lots of sexy guys and gals to get hot, hot, hot with and do what comes naturally ... ooh can't wait to hear who is coming to parttyyy xx

Me

We are looking forward to seeing you strut!!

Xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a shame hun

But l can't hold down my excitement - roll on 23rd June.... ready to make some shapes on the dancefloor and showcase Nalawear for you beautiful sexy women!

Sensual dancers are ready so lets PARTY fabber's "

Give the club a call to get on the guest list early. If you let me know once it is done I'll make sure the list is kept up to date.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"That's a shame hun

But l can't hold down my excitement - roll on 23rd June.... ready to make some shapes on the dancefloor and showcase Nalawear for you beautiful sexy women!

Sensual dancers are ready so lets PARTY fabber's

Give the club a call to get on the guest list early. If you let me know once it is done I'll make sure the list is kept up to date.

"

I on the list (hopefully). I mailed Jules a week or so ago. Room booked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a shame hun

But l can't hold down my excitement - roll on 23rd June.... ready to make some shapes on the dancefloor and showcase Nalawear for you beautiful sexy women!

Sensual dancers are ready so lets PARTY fabber's

Give the club a call to get on the guest list early. If you let me know once it is done I'll make sure the list is kept up to date.

I on the list (hopefully). I mailed Jules a week or so ago. Room booked "

Great! It's gonna be a fun night!

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

New lines for Nalawear have just landed Ladies your in for a treat....

Repeat orders placed as these pieces are HOT. Only the best for you sexy fabber's!

I'm sooooo excited for the 23rd June. Get on the guest list asap to avoid any disappointment, it's gonna be a wild nite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a shame hun

But l can't hold down my excitement - roll on 23rd June.... ready to make some shapes on the dancefloor and showcase Nalawear for you beautiful sexy women!

Sensual dancers are ready so lets PARTY fabber's

Give the club a call to get on the guest list early. If you let me know once it is done I'll make sure the list is kept up to date.

I on the list (hopefully). I mailed Jules a week or so ago. Room booked "

Get your moves ready!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're definitely gonna be rocking some Cameo so if you Wanna learn how to rock the electric slide. Check this YouTube link!

https://youtu.be/dv2qKpna3lM

Get practicing people!

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"We're definitely gonna be rocking some Cameo so if you Wanna learn how to rock the electric slide. Check this YouTube link!

https://youtu.be/dv2qKpna3lM

Get practicing people!"

Ok I reckon even I can do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're definitely gonna be rocking some Cameo so if you Wanna learn how to rock the electric slide. Check this YouTube link!

https://youtu.be/dv2qKpna3lM

Get practicing people!

Ok I reckon even I can do that "

I'm sure! Not sure my knees will take the kneeling variation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi! Can myself and my friend be added to the list, Dreamcatcher and PrincessFuckTable. Definitely interested in this event. Thanks! Dreamcatcher Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You guys are in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there please put my name down on the list for this party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's are your favorite tunes to Bump & Grind to!?

I love Pony and Let's Get It On and of course Bump & Grind

Excited for this event!

Our dj is gonna be rocking tunes!"

I cant wait for this night - really looking forward to the music, dancing and sexy people x

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Nothing wrong with the music, no. But, an event that discriminates based on race is the definition of racism.

Oh turn it in you wally!!

Some women (myself especially) prefer black men, does that make us racist?? I love these events and the clientele that attend them. There's nothing to say you can't attend because of your skin colour, You might find a beautiful black lady to turn your head.

"

Hear hear. I prefer black men but still play with white men ocassionally. As it says interracial it can hardly be racist Think this guy has an issue that he needs to deal with

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Would I be able to come dressed as Prince?

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great night, I'll check the diary x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hoping to get. Will know nearer the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like a great night, I'll check the diary x"

Great! Hope you can make it. Let me know and I'll put you on the list!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up"

You guys should definitely come!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come! "

lol thanks for the invite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite "

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

So the 23rd June is fast approaching and l'm ready to get my groove on in more ways than one!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the 23rd June is fast approaching and l'm ready to get my groove on in more ways than one!!! "

How many more ways?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

1 month to go. Single guys you need to register on the Vanilla Alternative website before you can be put on the guest list. Do miss out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow not long to wait now - so looking forward to this night... sexy music for sexy peops mmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow not long to wait now - so looking forward to this night... sexy music for sexy peops mmmm xx"

All you sexy people get on the list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a bit of garage and jungle myself. I'm white. I can dance to anything. Just cause u can't dance to hip-hop don't put the rest of us down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly like the sound of this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly like the sound of this "

Come and get your nasty on with us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couple of weekends away! Single guys register with the Vanilla Alternative online. Couple and single females let's me know if you want to get on the list!

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *ala44Woman
over a year ago

London


"So the 23rd June is fast approaching and l'm ready to get my groove on in more ways than one!!!

How many more ways?"

Plenty! The dancefloor is just one way

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Another promising event ruined by hip hop. why ruined?

Have you ever seen a white man try and dance to hip hop?"

Yeah lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Sounds like a very interesting night

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

Ooh this sounds great idea! Vanilla Alternative is on my list clubs to visit amd this is just my kind of night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh this sounds great idea! Vanilla Alternative is on my list clubs to visit amd this is just my kind of night "

Come shake that thang with us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

"

They will be queuing up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

"

Not so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far "

We run late!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't forget people, the beach theme is optional. Come sexy, come comfortable, but make sure you cum!!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Don't forget people, the beach theme is optional. Come sexy, come comfortable, but make sure you cum!!

"

Cum or come? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget people, the beach theme is optional. Come sexy, come comfortable, but make sure you cum!!

Cum or come? Lol"

Both!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far "

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly like the sound of this "

Hope to see you on the dancefloor!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

"

To be honest I'm a little conflicted. We normally focus on couples parties and events that attract orally bi men. That said we really love the VA and the change in emphasis could be interesting. It will be our very first interracial party if we attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single straight woman, I feel most comfortable at these kind of events. Gutted to be missing the first one, wish you every success with it, and hope to attend the next one if it becomes a regular fixture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!"

Still no response. Very disappointing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

To be honest I'm a little conflicted. We normally focus on couples parties and events that attract orally bi men. That said we really love the VA and the change in emphasis could be interesting. It will be our very first interracial party if we attend."

Will if you do decide to attend I'm sure you will have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

Still no response. Very disappointing lol "

Here they come!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

To be honest I'm a little conflicted. We normally focus on couples parties and events that attract orally bi men. That said we really love the VA and the change in emphasis could be interesting. It will be our very first interracial party if we attend.

Will if you do decide to attend I'm sure you will have a great time."

Oh go on then, please add us to the list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

To be honest I'm a little conflicted. We normally focus on couples parties and events that attract orally bi men. That said we really love the VA and the change in emphasis could be interesting. It will be our very first interracial party if we attend.

Will if you do decide to attend I'm sure you will have a great time.

Oh go on then, please add us to the list "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very interesting. We're going to the VA tonight for the first time in a while and will certainly be interested in attending on June 23rd. I will mention this to my GF when she wakes up

You guys should definitely come!

lol thanks for the invite

No problem. Let me know if you can make it

To be honest I'm a little conflicted. We normally focus on couples parties and events that attract orally bi men. That said we really love the VA and the change in emphasis could be interesting. It will be our very first interracial party if we attend.

Will if you do decide to attend I'm sure you will have a great time.

Oh go on then, please add us to the list "

Done! You know it makes sense!! Should be a great night!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's gonna be hot!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Definitely if this weather continues . I'll know by Wednesday. Baby sitter permitting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely if this weather continues . I'll know by Wednesday. Baby sitter permitting "

OK. Don't forget to register on the VA website and call them to be put on the list if you are coming as a single male.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Is the BMFC having their annual beach party at Radlett's this year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely if this weather continues . I'll know by Wednesday. Baby sitter permitting "
mmmm hope to see you there ... come and say hi x

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Is the BMFC having their annual beach party at Radlett's this year? "

Yes - The date is displayed on my profile and on the BMFC website (i'm way too professional to hijack someone else's thread)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Is the BMFC having their annual beach party at Radlett's this year?

Yes - The date is displayed on my profile and on the BMFC website (i'm way too professional to hijack someone else's thread) "

I should think so! AMAZING buffet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

Still no response. Very disappointing lol

Here they come!"

NO offers. So cant attend. Guys I'm gutted

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Definitely if this weather continues . I'll know by Wednesday. Baby sitter permitting

OK. Don't forget to register on the VA website and call them to be put on the list if you are coming as a single male."

I'll be going with a lady friend

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Definitely if this weather continues . I'll know by Wednesday. Baby sitter permitting mmmm hope to see you there ... come and say hi x "

Hope to be there as it sounds like a really good night . I'm sure you Will,what I'm not sure us how you'll know it's me haha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

Still no response. Very disappointing lol

Here they come!

NO offers. So cant attend. Guys I'm gutted "

How come single women aren't allowed to attend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

Still no response. Very disappointing lol

Here they come!

NO offers. So cant attend. Guys I'm gutted

How come single women aren't allowed to attend? "

Its more that I wouldn't attend alone.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Would love to go. Hopefully will find a hot black guy to take me

They will be queuing up!

Not so far

Come on guys! Step up with your A game!

Still no response. Very disappointing lol

Here they come!

NO offers. So cant attend. Guys I'm gutted

How come single women aren't allowed to attend?

Its more that I wouldn't attend alone. "

Seems weird. Each to their own i guess.

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