FabSwingers.com forum: Naughty Forties, Frisky Fifty & Saucy Sixties, for the older crowd out there ..

By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Here is the title for our party that we are testing out for the older crowds out there, what do you think ?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I don't like any of the names makes me feel old lol.....

but I suppose it has to be done

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

What should i call it though so they know what the party is for ??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like any of the names makes me feel old lol.....

but I suppose it has to be done"

I'm with you, turn 40 later this year and would rather not think of myself as the older crowd

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

So maybe i should just miss out for the older crowd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So maybe i should just miss out for the older crowd lol

That would soften the blow. Although tbh personally we like the dynamic of a real mix of ages so even if we were local probably aren't your target audience.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

On our website i have put it as the title i have on here, but then added for people of all ages but i just want to make it a night for those people who are getting missed out over 50 really but a lot of 50 plus years people are still fanatastic such as myself im 54. But people block people of our ages. If you get what i mean. xxx Maybe i should do it from fifties upwards ??? People of that age can then know that all the people turning up would be similar ages.

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

Sounds a fab idea, shame you are so far away. x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

How about this version, im changing the website to it now too.

Frisky Fifties and Saucy Sixties Night and their admirers, (be it singles or couples)

A sexy night of fun for everyone but a chance for all the more experienced crowd to meet up together with people of similar ages....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Over 40s night?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"How about this version, im changing the website to it now too.

Frisky Fifties and Saucy Sixties Night and their admirers, (be it singles or couples)

A sexy night of fun for everyone but a chance for all the more experienced crowd to meet up together with people of similar ages....

Being older doesn't necessarily make you more experienced

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

lol, im trying to take out the old x lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Naughty 40s and over night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fine wine night for those who appreciate a more mature vintage

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The fine wine night for those who appreciate a more mature vintage

Sounds like a wine tasting

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By *rs-buffWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in east Anglia

Naughty forties and over night that way we can come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol it shame you to far away I'm 50 and would def attend

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I like to think of myself as a 'frisky fifties'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great Idea.

Wish more clubs did this.

Good luck, I'm sure it will be well attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice idea and should pull in some people who maybe wouldn't normally go to clubs, suspect you'll have lots of messages from fab aged under 40 who will admit to really being older, but you can check the ages on the I.D's produced or will you just open it up to anyone anyway i.e. "Admirers" if so it's just a normal night isn't it?

It's funny how that never works in reverse eg an under 40's night with lots of 60 year old plus admirers in attendance x

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By *iamondinthebuffCouple
over a year ago

the boro

Great idea for the over 40s we would attend with lots of our friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience the majority of guests on a club night seem to range from late 30s to early 50s, most of which seem happy to interact and play together. A few couples above that age range have mentioned to us that they feel left out as lots of the younger guests just don't seem interested. Maybe a night aimed at that group may be the answer. As a previous poster mentioned you may even attract a new group of guests who don't go to clubs but go to house parties and private meets for the same reason. Inviting admirers should make people feel comfortable knowing that guests are either of similar age or if not are at least more than happy to interact within that age group

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

lol so we will keep with the Naughty Forties as well then. The night is open to younger people too. The main idea is for us older generation to be able to meet up with similar ages and not feel out of place. So many older couples are now messaging saying they are too old. No one is ever too old. Age is just a number and you will only feel old if you act it. If you act young you will remain younger for much longer. X (hopefully)

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Well said sXFM x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I will have to change the website again when I get home later x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

What date are you having this party ?

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Friday 9th June Capdage I hope I spelt that right x

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

"Friday 9th June Capdage I hope I spelt that right x

Flitting fifties. Next? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id call it mature parents night lol.

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn

"Friday 9th June Capdage I hope I spelt that right x

Flitting fifties. Next? Lol"

Oops meant flirting fifties! Pmsl

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Lmao loving these answers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about grab a granny nite lol

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

Sounds great to us. If there is a list, could you put us down please

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We will see you soon AngnNick

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *imbob999Couple
over a year ago

oakham

We are hoping to go to a club for the first time and would feel less nervous if we knew we would not be the oldest couple there, I often feel like a 21 year old but can never find one lol x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We look forward to meeting you Jimbob x I have private messaged you

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still in my dirty thirties but only for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is the title for our party that we are testing out for the older crowds out there, what do you think ?

Oh YES PLEASE...!!!

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By * and PCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"What date are you having this party ?"

The date for this event is now confirmed for Friday 9th June

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is the title for our party that we are testing out for the older crowds out there, what do you think ?

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.. The age restrictions would not tempt me to attend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol so we will keep with the Naughty Forties as well then. The night is open to younger people too. The main idea is for us older generation to be able to meet up with similar ages and not feel out of place. So many older couples are now messaging saying they are too old. No one is ever too old. Age is just a number and you will only feel old if you act it. If you act young you will remain younger for much longer. X (hopefully)

Good positive attitude, but the reality is different.

Age isn't just a number but a biological state in progress. Even degress after the pinnacle .

I'd suggest that you advertise for those 50 and above. The 40s are still young and hunk.

Surely you won't turn anyone away, even if it's a hot 20 something yo lass or dick...

All the best!

From someone fast approaching the dreaded 40

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Ahhh but as some one else pointed out there are younger people that enjoy being with the older generations x hence the admirers x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Sexy minx what would tempt you to come along?

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Kiosk we look forward to meeting you on this night?

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By *weet Delight2016Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

I don't like it either.

I feel and look better at 45 than I did at 20!

Check out my profile pics taken only months ago.

Age is just a no afterall

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Jioso that is predictive text can be a pain lol

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Wow sweet delight, what would tempt you to come along x

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Hopefully my figure will be like that soon with the pole dancing lessons I'm doing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jioso that is predictive text can be a pain lol"

Not as much as typing on a small smart phone...

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

That's what I'm on I phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I'm on I phone

Same here...

How's the crowd growing for the party?

Let me know when you run strictly under 40s . Few guys, loads of women...

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We have had a lot of interest in this night. We have tried under 40's as in Only the young but it didnt work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like this idea and applaud the club for catering to a more mature membership, who can otherwise be easily overlooked.

As luck would have it, I'll be in the area that weekend, so I'm hoping to attend. (If I can remember to get my name down, in time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_aydeesclub,

See here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/626086

I'm fighting for your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so its for over 40s -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so its for over 40s - "

And admirers x

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

"Here is the title for our party that we are testing out for the older crowds out there, what do you think ?

Like the idea but not the name.

How about Frisky Forties +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Putting The OLD into Old Perves Nite"

OK, perhaps not

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

This night is going well, getting lots of interest

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

So who is coming this night is on the 9th June is getting closer woo hoo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So who is coming this night is on the 9th June is getting closer woo hoo xxx"

- hotel is booked

. Looking forward to it.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

It will be good to meet you vectored

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ileyMan
over a year ago

basildon

C u friday Jd'S is it looking like a busy night so far menny peeps bookt? Im knot at home at the moment but will send u my membership number u ask me for.For friday and the camping weekend by the end of the week.

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Claire pop me name down hun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or Tracey in this thread please X

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By *aydeesclub OP Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Your on the list Rusty

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