FabSwingers.com forum: Next FFFF @ Xtasia, Friday 29th July (pt5).

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After the success of the last FFFF event, Paul and Flirt would like to offer you the opportunity to come to another FFFF event @ Xtasia.

FFFF(Fab Friends Free Fun) night, Friday the 29th July 2016.

Here's the rules for attending the FFFF night:

Couples and Single Females are Free entry. You'll need to be a genuine couple on Fab, with at least one verification as a couple for us to add you to the list. We think this is very fair as many singles are now starting to hook up as a couple just to get into an event, with no intentions of ever playing as a couple after it. That's not really the idea, and if problems arise on the night, it’s normally these relationships that give us the issues.

Single guys must be members of Xtasia already, or accepted as members of Xtasia but yet to visit. Bottom line here, if you’re not a member already of Xtasia, then apply for club membership via the club web site. (Just google Xtasia). You have plenty of time to be approved before the event. If you leave it till the last minute then you probably won't get in. Please only ask to be added to this guest list if you’re an approved club member.

Please note, we are also enforcing a rule to try to ease the pressure on couples and ladies playing. No single guys will be allowed into the lower playroom area unless invited in by a couple or single female. It’s predominantly a Social, if you can’t be bothered to chat before trying to play, you shouldn’t be there!! Make an effort guys, be sociable, it reaps rewards. We will also be enforcing our dress code, wear a T-Shirt, and you won’t get in!

Free entry to those who make the list, are club members and are well presented on the night.

Those who attend who aren't already club members, will get the chance to join if they like what they see. Please bring along valid ID if you think that might be of interest.

We also have our superb dance event on the Saturday night, DPraved, so why not make a weekend of it and join us for both?

Look at Premier Inn Central West Bromwich, the Park Inn at West Bromwich, the Travel Lodge at Oldbury, Premier Inn at Gas Street, West Bromwich for any deals that they may have for the weekend. Do try and book your hotel as soon as you can as they do tend to get booked up when these events are on.

Flirts bar will be open from 6pm if you fancy a few drinks, something to eat and a game or two of pool.

The club opens at 8pm for the event and closes again at 3am.

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By *heekypeachCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Think we got to part 9 last time so going well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think we got to part 9 last time so going well "

The thread in Wales section is on part 4 I think as well this time lol.

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Looks like a top night x

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"Think we got to part 9 last time so going well "

Checking into part 5 xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?"

Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?

Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck

Not bad mate well done yet again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?

Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck

Not bad mate well done yet again

Better save that until we see how many actually turn up tomorrow night

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?

Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck

Not bad mate well done yet again

Better save that until we see how many actually turn up tomorrow night

True but what ever it's not for lack of effort on your part mate. I think you've done a blinding job this time and the last

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

Premier inn doesn't do food till 6 pm

So we are going to eat up about 3 pm and go and find a weatherspoons

So anyone wanting to join us feel free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Premier inn doesn't do food till 6 pm

So we are going to eat up about 3 pm and go and find a weatherspoons

So anyone wanting to join us feel free

Wetherspoons is only about a 5 min walk from the hotel, through the pedestrianised part of the high street

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Is flirts not opening up early this time ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is flirts not opening up early this time ?"

No, 6pm this time. The last couple of times they've opened Flirts early for us hardly anyone went in until after 6pm anyway.

I might of popped in for a quick diet

but not many others did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it cash only in the club or do they accept card aswell ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it cash only in the club or do they accept card aswell ?"

As far as I know, cash only but I'm not 100% sure. Are you a member of Xtasia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few hours to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it cash only in the club or do they accept card aswell ?

As far as I know, cash only but I'm not 100% sure. Are you a member of Xtasia? "

I've never been but have been approved last month I think it was,

Kind of want to go as I enjoy the social side of it but not sure if I can afford it at the mo ha

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

"Premier inn doesn't do food till 6 pm

So we are going to eat up about 3 pm and go and find a weatherspoons

So anyone wanting to join us feel free

Wetherspoons is only about a 5 min walk from the hotel, through the pedestrianised part of the high street

Thank you me lovely

See you all later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guest list for tonight is now closed.

See you all later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted I can't come tonight but im sure you will all have a fab night xxxxx

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Gutted I can't come tonight but im sure you will all have a fab night xxxxx

Gutted you won't be there too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know. .. was hoping to see you both too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Lee, it is with regret I am going to have to cancel my appearance tonight. Unfortunately I am needed elsewhere and not in a fun way! Gutted I cant go as I was really looking forward to this. Hopefully I will be at the next one. Have fun mate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey Lee, it is with regret I am going to have to cancel my appearance tonight. Unfortunately I am needed elsewhere and not in a fun way! Gutted I cant go as I was really looking forward to this. Hopefully I will be at the next one. Have fun mate x"

Thanks for letting me know. Hope to catch back up with you again soon!

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Absolutely gutted we can't make it. We hope you all have a great night xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fingers crossed all Motorways stay nice and clear today and this evening and everyone has a safe journey to West Bromwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to tonight xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looking forward to tonight xx"

It's looking like it's going to be another epic night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add us as well please?

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

On my way, roads clear so far xx

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By *ichaelxx11Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Lee, what's the count so far?

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By *ichaelxx11Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Impressive statistics

128 couples

37 single female

55 single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Impressive statistics

128 couples

37 single female

55 single guys"

Mmmmmm..looks like a very good night.

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By *taffsswingsCouple
over a year ago

lichfield

If the list is closed can we still get in ?

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

can we be added?? we gonna try make this

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By *enuineFunGuyUKMan
over a year ago

Salisury

Anyone stuck in traffic m5 is horrendous!

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By *unBiGuy17Man
over a year ago

small town south west

"Guest list for tonight is now closed.

See you all later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food served from 6 in flirts so all you sexy peeps stopping over in hotels why not kick it off with all the other sexy peeps early in flirts with the saucy chef

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x"

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!"

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x"

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"If the list is closed can we still get in ?"

You are Members so should be able to come anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach."

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guest list closed at 9am this morning. Xtasia members are still welcome to come along but your names won't be on the list.

If you're not members, then I'm afraid you're too late now.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You can upgrade us from a maybe. See you later

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By *onah10Man
over a year ago

birmingham

See you laters folks

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By *inkysubmissive84Woman
over a year ago

Telford

Looking forward for tonight getting there about 9pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone staying in the Park Inn wanting to share a taxi later?

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Just checked into the park. Blasted motorway

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?"

Pisshead

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

Pisshead

Ha ha needed after that journey lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

Pisshead

Ha ha needed after that journey lol"

Decided your driving back

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

Pisshead

Ha ha needed after that journey lol

Decided your driving back

Now that would be the drive of your life! White knuckle ride springs to mind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

Pisshead

Ha ha needed after that journey lol

Decided your driving back

Still stuck on the a1m 43 mile from home and it's taken nearly 2 hrs

see you all at 12

haha

I'm bursting for the loo

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x

M6 is stop start for no reason!!

Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there

only meant to be a 3hr trip x

We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.

on the plus side there's some dishy drivers

Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?

Pisshead

Ha ha needed after that journey lol

Decided your driving back

Still stuck on the a1m 43 mile from home and it's taken nearly 2 hrs

see you all at 12

haha

I'm bursting for the loo

xx"

Awch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just arrived premier inn new gas street...!! Time to get ready ??????

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

We will get toone of these events eventually. But sadly not tonight.. Jiggle has had an issue at work and not got back yet, and not looking like he will be back soon..

Sorry we can't make it. But sure everyone one will have a great night.

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By *ichaelxx11Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

In Birmingham for a drink or two then on to _tasia

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Just landed, the girls have gone for food lol

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By *alltwoCouple
over a year ago

Oxford

Leaving the park soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We will get toone of these events eventually. But sadly not tonight.. Jiggle has had an issue at work and not got back yet, and not looking like he will be back soon..

Sorry we can't make it. But sure everyone one will have a great night.

There's a thread started for the Sat night couples and single females on Sept 3rd

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

"We will get to one of these events eventually. But sadly not tonight.. Jiggle has had an issue at work and not got back yet and not looking like he will be back soon..

Sorry we can't make it. But sure everyone one will have a great night.

There's a thread started for the Sat night couples and single females on Sept 3rd

...

xx"

Thanks for the info, I'll check the diary and find the thread.

hopefully we are free! #fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just want to say a huge thanks to Lee for adding me to the list and he seems a top bloke

Lots of very lovely looking people and I'm sure there's a few sore heads this morning ha

Had a very quiet drive home last night hence the no drinks but was a very lovely night indeed !

Anyone who I spoke to feel free to drop me a verification and onto the next event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a fantastic time last night. Lee you did an amazing job and thanks to everyone we met and chatted to for making us northerners feel very welcome.

Please feel free to say hi if you remember us xx

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Massive thanks to Lee for yet again pulling together such great numbers for our FFFF event. Team here also worked their butts off, well done guys and gals. The invite only approach to the playrooms worked for those serious about playing...they made an effort elsewhere first and were rewarded by a play invite, rather than just loitering and hoping!

Was an amazing night, with some amazing folks...thank you all, don't think we dealt with a single incident all night!

Just type in FFFF to search for the next one in Sept, however that is couples and single ladies only on a Saturday night this time.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Great night.... Sore heads this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.s. I was the red head with an electric blue dress and shoes....I'm useless at remembering names so please say hi if we met

Jane x

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By *taffsswingsCouple
over a year ago

lichfield

We had a fantastic night!! Thanks to all the staff and lee that made it so memorable

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Massive thanks to Lee for yet again pulling together such great numbers for our FFFF event. Team here also worked their butts off, well done guys and gals. The invite only approach to the playrooms worked for those serious about playing...they made an effort elsewhere first and were rewarded by a play invite, rather than just loitering and hoping!

Was an amazing night, with some amazing folks...thank you all, don't think we dealt with a single incident all night!

Just type in FFFF to search for the next one in Sept, however that is couples and single ladies only on a Saturday night this time.

Yes a great night indeed.

Unfortunately we didn't experience this with the playrooms. There was a small group that gathered (very similar to the ones at the previous ffff) and one in particular managed to join in sneakily without consent, which we nipped in the bud very quickly.

That's by no means any bad reflection on _tasia or the staff, who excelled as always. And wouldn't even blame the organisers.

This small minority of men really do need to understand some basic concepts, because swinging is so varied, we all have different journeys and their actions do invade space that really shouldn't with some simple courtesy at the beginning. I did feel sorry for one chap who left the club next to us saying "I'm scum". I believe he was tarnished with the single male brush.

Like I said, no bad reflection on the club or the staff, which we will continue to champion and endorse every time we meet new people. No bad reflection to the organiser (as it is a good night) and none to the majority of single men, who actually are pleasant, respectful and worthy and welcome to be part of the swinging community, but this small minority your actions really let yourselves down and make it harder for the other guys.

Aside the small incident, which we didn't report as we sorted it, but know if we did Xtasia would have dealt with it professionally as always, it was a great, successful night with great couples, great men and great females.

A suggestion for the next mixed night is a ticket system (a bit like when you go to a shop and try clothes on, they give you a card with a number to denote how many items you are taking). It might be worth implementing that if a single male is invited, that they leave with that couple. Handing out a 1 (female), 2 (couple), 3 (couple + a male) ticket to come in and handing it back on the way out.

All in all, thank Lee, Paul & Flirt, the Xtasia crew for a fantastic night!

We look forward to the next one. xx

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

Ohhh please move on and get a life. Sometimes we act like swinging is all we have.its just a bit of fun on the side.relax and stop being serious.yes some single guys stroll down and try to perv but hey like u say swinging is a journey.maybe it was there. By the way it was an ffff party with single guys allowed. Not excusing it but sometimes we need to relax and not take things too serious as if that's our life.it was a good night and no need to bring this up everytime.that undermines the good job the security team did. They made sure they tried to curtail the single guys that go downstairs.they did a marvelous job.u can't come up and say _tasia or the security team did a good job yet castigated single guys who came downstairs to hv fun. Bringing it up here and writing bout it.complaining like u hv no life is just too low and in fact getting boring.its hard for single guys and sometimes u understand with them.again not excusing bad behaviour but I was there with friends and it's wasn't so bad as to put it on this forum.if u hv a problem then find a couples only night and go.or find a lockable room and play. Jeez sometimes I think some of us over emphasise issues and bring unnecessary complaints.it was a good night.praise the organisation and stop being a grumpy person.live n let live. Xtasia.u did a good job.there would always be bad behaviours in parties.even in couple only nights.not everyone that comes in as coupled are really couples.so move on. And fantasise on a brilliant night.

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

It was even a free night courtesy of the lovely club. Be happy thank them and stop being ungreatfull by whinning and moaning. U had the choice not to come.

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By *olski_blackieCouple
over a year ago

london

I agree. As a couple we like to see single guys come in and join us.somwtimes it's fun even if they join without being invited.ut adds to the spice. That's our journey.thats what we like.every one has there journey and preferences. My advice is find a couple only party if u gonna whine about little issues as this.its a night were single guys are allowed.so instead of bringing sissy especially to tarnish a good night. Avoid coming for the nxt one.or wait there is a couple one coming up soon.attend that and avoid every party that allows single guys. What u indirectly saying is _tasia couldn't control or organise a party and the idea of given a card to every guy is the silliest thing I hv ever heard. Just a question.do u guys hv a life or is swinging ur life cos if u really think cos of u there would be a card system then u living in a world of ur own

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"I agree. As a couple we like to see single guys come in and join us.somwtimes it's fun even if they join without being invited.ut adds to the spice. That's our journey.thats what we like.every one has there journey and preferences. My advice is find a couple only party if u gonna whine about little issues as this.its a night were single guys are allowed.so instead of bringing sissy especially to tarnish a good night. Avoid coming for the nxt one.or wait there is a couple one coming up soon.attend that and avoid every party that allows single guys. What u indirectly saying is _tasia couldn't control or organise a party and the idea of given a card to every guy is the silliest thing I hv ever heard. Just a question.do u guys hv a life or is swinging ur life cos if u really think cos of u there would be a card system then u living in a world of ur own"

To the above comments the 1st comment about single guys being in and around the playrooms is completely warranted and doesn't need to be slated by petty narrow mindedness of others! We all have our preferences and it was stated that single guys were only allowed around the play areas if invited? The initial comment was in no way negative and merely pointing out that an issue occurred and was dealt with and in no way was slating a fantastic night that the club and organiser put a hell of effort into. I for one had a cracking night and will be back and thank Lee and the club and staff for all the effort and work they put into making a very very enjoyable night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top night, heads fuzzy...bring on Dpraved

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By *alltwoCouple
over a year ago

Oxford

Fantastic evening, good to meet lots of you, we had a great time and we hope you did too! Thanks to the two lovely couples we shared a taxi with to and from the Park Inn, drop us a message if you see this

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire

Amazing, amazing night with a great atmosphere, great music, great people and overall a very horny place to be.

Was our first ffff night and will definitely be back for another and another!!

Thanks to everyone involved in the organisation.

Boots X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great night! Rough today!

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly

We can't thank Lee,Paul and flirt for all the effort that they put into this last night to make it a brilliant night.

The 19 people who came with us from wales loved it and we will defo be back soon.

Keep up the good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow !!! What a great experience FFFF night was we were lucky enough to go with friends and every intention of playing with them for the first after all they are neighbours (literally...well a stones throw ...who'd have guessed) the atmosphere was amazing the organiser (Lee) did a fantastic job, and huge thanks to the owners and the staff who we felt were friendly polite and professional... We met many new couples and were given lots of names and Fab names we can't remember them all... A suggestion for may be some small cards along the bar or lounge area in order to take names etc ... Not sure where you'd keep the completed cards although I have a few ideas he he !! As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so... I could hardly complain I was with another gorgeous lady at the time!! Can't wait for another FFFF night we for one will be signing up again and will be endorsing the event to our other FAB friends ... If you remember our names and managed to get to the bottom of this feel free to wink and message us..... We don't bite... Unlike some !!! You know who you are !!!! ???????????????? P&B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great night and it was great to meet some new faces. We'll get the veris done shortly.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

@_ornykaty @_olski_blackie you've obviously missed the point and rest assured it is in no reflection a negative to Xtasia in the slightest.

We have gone there for many years, it's our favourite club, we endorse it every time we meet new people and trust us, we are all over the country and meet new people all the time. In fact, we have been quoted and used on their website.

You can ask Paul, Flirt, and all the team who we know very well and would call them friends who know they full well have our support.

We have been swinging for a long time now so rest assured, we know exactly how it works.

I'm glad somebody actually read the post properly and understood what we were communicating!

You'll notice that there is support there for single guys also. And there are many frustrated by the minority's actions as it tarnishes them with the same brush, which is unfair for them.

As a single male who had been on the scene for years, I didn't go on the club scene much and one of the reasons is I did not want that association.

Yes it was a mixed night, yes we had a choice to attend and yes we had the choice whether we played or not in the rooms and what you are missing is that a rule was created for the play rooms for the exact reasons that we were looking for. Now I can assure you that this rule was not made just for me. Obviously there are a number of people that want the same thing.

You imply it is a bit of fun and of course it is. And I'm sure you have preferences. We have played with a lesbian couple in the past. What if he had done it to one of these girls? The guy didn't come and start playing with me? They're simple thing that should be common courtesy in an era where swinging is so diverse. And _tasia, the staff or the organisers are not in control of this and I repeat do not take any blame for this!

It wasn't bad of course. If it was, we would have reported it to the team, but we handled it. It is no reflection of the club or the night. It was highlighting an incident and simply offering some insight and what may help improve it in the future. You'll note that we have said it was a great night, but if you think a night cannot be called great without the odd incident, then you're up in the clouds. Rest assured, we will be writing a club review and it will be getting another positive report with no mention of the incident.

By the way, we have had incidents in the past and taken them offline, and been encouraged to utilise the forums to discuss.

As for your post, it simply goes to shows that you go for a personal attack. I could do the same but all that would do is put me on your levels and detract from the point I was making. Trust us, we have a great life in and out of swinging and have many verifications from fantastic people (including the security who we are supposed to be slating. And I'm sure they also know that if there was a major incident and they needed support, I've got their backs). We must be doing something right.

Happy swinging x

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B "

Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too.

And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thank you for reading. That's exactly the point I was making.

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire

"Wow !!! What a great experience FFFF night was we were lucky enough to go with friends and every intention of playing with them for the first after all they are neighbours (literally...well a stones throw ...who'd have guessed) the atmosphere was amazing the organiser (Lee) did a fantastic job, and huge thanks to the owners and the staff who we felt were friendly polite and professional... We met many new couples and were given lots of names and Fab names we can't remember them all... A suggestion for may be some small cards along the bar or lounge area in order to take names etc ... Not sure where you'd keep the completed cards although I have a few ideas he he !! As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so... I could hardly complain I was with another gorgeous lady at the time!! Can't wait for another FFFF night we for one will be signing up again and will be endorsing the event to our other FAB friends ... If you remember our names and managed to get to the bottom of this feel free to wink and message us..... We don't bite... Unlike some !!! You know who you are !!!! ???????????????? P&B "

Well said

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

U might claim to hv a great life but I doubt it as it doesn't show.so sad to think cos u hv good verifications proves u are what u not.move on and show u hv a life.stop whinning n complaining over silly issues. Like a fellow reader said.single guys are not serial killers.stop trying to tarnish there image.u might know the owners.u might hv been coming _tasia for donkey years ( Which tells a lot and confirms my believe in what u really are) but that really don't mean u hv the brains to understand how to let trivial issues lie. Yes u can come to my level cos u way way below my level as u take swinging matters so serials that u hv to come here n Blab stupid about trivial issues in a sex club.hv a bit of shame n go prepare for the week ahead. The night was perfect. And don't pretend to approve the night by writing a good review about the club when u are actually bringing discord and more hate on single guys. Again seriously get a life

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him

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well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him

well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now"

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him

well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now

Maybe just maybe your the sad f**k that needs to move on here as we've all said what a great night it was and that this incident was dealt with without involving staff and management and that they all did a tremendous job not just on the night but the planning that also went into it and that we thank them all for the great job that they've done and that the majority of us who have a vanilla (will explain what it is) life along with a swinging life are looking forward to the next FFFF"
wow. Now is anger and swearing.not surprised there considering ur type. Just surprised u know what being a sad f..k is cos u seem to be the one.complaining about nonsense.guess u got no shame and sulk about swinging.no wonder u been on the scene for ages. I hv moved on. Have u? We shall find out cos I understand the anger as u can't stand being put in check

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By *ustme02Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

Excellent night team _tasia and lee. Thank you looking forward to the next one already mwah xx

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him

well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now

Maybe just maybe your the sad f**k that needs to move on here as we've all said what a great night it was and that this incident was dealt with without involving staff and management and that they all did a tremendous job not just on the night but the planning that also went into it and that we thank them all for the great job that they've done and that the majority of us who have a vanilla (will explain what it is) life along with a swinging life are looking forward to the next FFFF wow. Now is anger and swearing.not surprised there considering ur type. Just surprised u know what being a sad f..k is cos u seem to be the one.complaining about nonsense.guess u got no shame and sulk about swinging.no wonder u been on the scene for ages. I hv moved on. Have u? We shall find out cos I understand the anger as u can't stand being put in check"

Pmsl as yes I know what swingings all about and know how much effort the club and organisers put into a night like last night unlike you miss 1 veri 3 years ago! And once again a big thanks to Lee and Xtasia and staff for a cracking night xx

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Chill out everyone. Social media can put a point of view across a bit wrong sometimes.

It was a great, great night (as was tonight) in a great Club and everyone got in for free.... Result!

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By *lirt_tasiaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks to all for the various messages. We, as always read all the comments, learn from them as best we can and do as much as possible to improve the club. No need for rows, we listen to all opinions. Next event on the 3rd Sept is now up on the Forum.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Totally agree Flirt!

Last post on this thread for us, as we are not getting involved in a pointless argument with an individual.

It wasn't a criticism of the club, it was a statement and a suggestion on maybe how this particular night might be improved.

Unfortunately, this individual is taking this off piste, and with their comments being personal about our life and also being rude to another profile simply dilutes any point they're trying to make and damages their credibility.

So on a final note. I reiterate that an individual's action does not reflect: the club, the organiser's event, the group they belong to (ie ALL men). They are responsible AND accountable for their actions.

And again highlight that we enjoyed yet another fantastic night at the great club Xtasia is! And will continue to support, champion and promote (in our opinion) the best adult entertainment venue in the UK!

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By *ornykatyWoman
over a year ago

London

Credibility??? Well I am not gonna argue or struggle with u about ur swinging Credibility. I will let u win on having more Credibility in the swinging scene. Tells a lot bout what u really are.my point has been made and agreed to by people with real Credibility in the real world. Single guys hv always been given a bad name n tarnished and its high time someone atleast gives them a voice.shame some people just cant bear the thought of it.anyway the night was perfect and the single guys in general where ok. On to the nxt ffff.

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Must have been a great night as other ones I attended. Some people should learn that in life, 'All's well that ends well' rather than grumble like a baby who attended a party where another kids cake dropped on his shoes although all that kid does is attend every party even those where there's a slight chance of a cake dropping on his shoes.

I've met and chatted with Paul on numerous occasions at both Xtasia and flirts bar and truth is you can't please everyone although this man and his team tries to make sure the number of cakes dropped is at extremely low which still might not be good enough to some people who might claim to be part of the team.

Can't wait to visit again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very weird how a perfectly valid piece of constructive criticism about a particular incident has been turned into something it never was.

Great night! Interesting walking around trying to read name-stickers. Thanks to all involved!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted to say a very big thank you to everyone that managed to get along to the FFFF night on Friday. It was great to get to chat to quite a few of you. If I did chat to you, I'll apologise now for whatever I might of said or done

An even bigger thank you goes out to Paul, Toni and all the Xtasia team who do such a great job helping us to have so much fun.

Hope to catch up with lots of you again very soon,

Lee

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