FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging Singles Night @ The Lodge Fri 29th Nov 2013

By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Join us for a NEW night just for singles - great music and the chance to meet with other likeminded singles for a fun night. Whether you are new to the lifestyle or to clubs - or an experienced swinger - The Lodge is the perfect environment for you. Perhaps chill out in the hot tub (£5 per person) with some friends before making your way to one of the several themed open and private play rooms to choose from. There is never any pressure to play and therefore should you just want to come along and have a drink in good company at our very reasonably priced bar then this is an ideal opportunity.

Ladies £5.00 and Guys £10.00 - payment on entry. Usual dress code applies - no jeans or trainers.

Message me or reply in here to be added to the guest list

Pink x

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

ps: I know the website currently says it's a vanilla/ non swing event - this is incorrect and will be changed asap!

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By *enuinetallstuMan
over a year ago

nr beauly

"ps: I know the website currently says it's a vanilla/ non swing event - this is incorrect and will be changed asap!

changes should be amended by tomorrow, and tickets now available online, message us for link x this should be a fun night xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wishing I was single now I have seen some of the hotties going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammit wish I was single so I could come along!!! X

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Dammit wish I was single so I could come along!!! X"

seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dammit wish I was single so I could come along!!! X

seconded

It's ok ladies. I'll endeavour to have enough sex for all of us! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol , good girl xxx

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

Such a shame you have to be single to attend. I could do with a naughty night of flirting with single men! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dammit wish I was single so I could come along!!! X

seconded

It's ok ladies. I'll endeavour to have enough sex for all of us! xx"

Thanks hun

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh, it should be good - shaping up nicely with some lovely people attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I hear, making me even more jealous now x

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well if some of the guys who've messaged me saying they'll be there end up going I'm going to have a fantastic time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear , please don't take this as unconstructive criticism , but this has to be one of the daftest ideas ever .

A club for swingers which has a night forbidding swingers ?

The concept of encouraging singles is great , and admirable - especially as all clubs restrict single guys .

But to actually say couples cannot attend a Friday night club event ?

What possible reasoning is behind this ? Swinging is about enjoying the company of like minded people , and we welcome single guys and girls , yet we are not welcome to attend our local swinging club as we are a couple !

Sorry guys but this is farcical and a step too far which leaves dumbfounded

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Surely this event which I understand is to be run on a quarterly basis is designed to encourage people into the scene who might not ordinarily go as they feel intimidated by the greater number of couples in attendance at events. In this case singles will be able to interact and engage in a friendly and relaxed environment and experience things in a 'beginners' environment with no pressure to play unless they wish to do so. The last singles event at the Lodge was a non swinging event and tested the water on what people would like to see and management have responded accordingly. As with everything in this world, you will never people able to please everyone and whilst the venue is not open to couples on this occasion it has been open to couples yesterday (Weds) and will be open to couples on Saturday and for a majority of future events.

I appreciate that a minority of people feel that the decision to limit this event to a certain group of people is disappointing, however special events for specific demographic groups are run on a regular basis by many clubs across the country be it events designed for restricted age groups, BDSM and fetish fans, BMFC etc (a full list would be too long).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah .... so the event is designed for beginners to get a feel for a swinging club .

Forgive me , but a swinging club is a facility for swingers.... a pub or a nightclub is the facility for singles to mingle with singles !

How will singles in a swingers club get the feel for a swingers club when there are no swingers there ?

And as for the predatory implication , I will state quite categorically that we have never behaved in such a way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking foreword to it

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

And as for the predatory implication , I will state quite categorically that we have never behaved in such a way . "

Nowhere is it implied that you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Join us for a NEW night just for singles - great music and the chance to meet with other likeminded singles for a fun night. Whether you are new to the lifestyle or to clubs - or an experienced swinger - The Lodge is the perfect environment for you. Perhaps chill out in the hot tub (£5 per person) with some friends before making your way to one of the several themed open and private play rooms to choose from. There is never any pressure to play and therefore should you just want to come along and have a drink in good company at our very reasonably priced bar then this is an ideal opportunity.

Ladies £5.00 and Guys £10.00 - payment on entry. Usual dress code applies - no jeans or trainers.

Message me or reply in here to be added to the guest list

Pink x"

What's stopping couples going as singles?

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

What's stopping couples going as singles?"

Essentially nothing - people aren't expected to prove that they are single. I'm sure some attached people will be attending - however, in that case I would expect that they would be mingling and playing singly - if you are a couple who ONLY play as a couple it isn't really in the spirit of an evening for singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's stopping couples going as singles?

I would imagine that could be quite exciting for couples to try

I like the idea of that!xx

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Playing singly at the same time? I'm sure some other couples would agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule be be that my husband and myself wouldn't be allowed to communicate with each other! I know that would drive him wild!! How exciting

always up for trying something different xxx

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"My rule be be that my husband and myself wouldn't be allowed to communicate with each other! I know that would drive him wild!! How exciting

always up for trying something different xxx"

We've tried similar ourselves in a club on a mixed night before - it was good fun! :D I wouldn't personally be able to keep the pretence up for long, though!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like good fun to me! Not sure I could avoid mingling with the boy all evening, but I would enjoy flirting & playing with singles whilst he is busy doing his own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah.... the plot thickens !

So couples who play separately are now encouraged to attend .

An interesting twist ....

What if the husband is happy to watch and not touch ?

What is the opinion of the singles attending ?

A genuine question ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like good fun to me! Not sure I could avoid mingling with the boy all evening, but I would enjoy flirting & playing with singles whilst he is busy doing his own thing

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Ah.... the plot thickens !

So couples who play separately are now encouraged to attend .

An interesting twist ....

What if the husband is happy to watch and not touch ?

What is the opinion of the singles attending ?

A genuine question ...

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Green refers to the earlier comment, Essentially nothing - people aren't expected to prove that they are single. I'm sure some attached people will be attending - however, in that case I would expect that they would be mingling and playing singly - if you are a couple who ONLY play as a couple it isn't really in the spirit of an evening for singles.

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

I think this night is a fab idea, both myself and my partner would have been very interested in a swinging single night before we met as we both were looking to meet someone but knew that we wanted to meet someone that we could continue swinging with in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange answer

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

You shared your thoughts about the night so we shared ours. Not sure how that makes our response strange xx

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By *ardiffmale30Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I can totally see what you mean I would love to meet a partner that is into swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You shared your thoughts about the night so we shared ours. Not sure how that makes our response strange xx"

Sorry ... not your post !

The one before

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By *iss kitty glosWoman
over a year ago

gloucester

Anybody know where I can get a quickie divorce ????

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

"I can totally see what you mean I would love to meet a partner that is into swinging.

Me too

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

As a single I think this is a great idea. I have been to a few clubs with a couple who are friends of mine and I personally find it quite intimidating as a single with other couples. Good luck with your evening. Shame I live so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My rule be be that my husband and myself wouldn't be allowed to communicate with each other! I know that would drive him wild!! How exciting

always up for trying something different xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody know where I can get a quickie divorce ????

Lol !

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By *inktherapy OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"As a single I think this is a great idea. I have been to a few clubs with a couple who are friends of mine and I personally find it quite intimidating as a single with other couples. Good luck with your evening. Shame I live so far away

Thank you

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Anybody know where I can get a quickie divorce ????

How bloody rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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