FabSwingers.com forum: Swingles at Xtasia

By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Are you single, and a swinger? If so, we're starting a new evening on the 4th Thursday of the month, at Xtasia in West Bromwich, which we'd like to invite you to attend. Starting at 8pm, through to Midnight, we'll try and make it a safe, and fun evening for all, ladies and gents, to get to know each other, and offer a play environment if needed as well.

If you fancy joining us all, please add your name below. Its just £5 in per person for the evening. Couples are welcome if they are happy to play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is the first one of these nights on Thursday 27th June then?

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"So is the first one of these nights on Thursday 27th June then? "
Yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is the first one of these nights on Thursday 27th June then? Yes it is

Don't think I can make that one

I'll put my name down for the one in July though when you post a thread on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you put my name down as a maybe, need to see if can get Friday of work, thanks

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Could you put my name down as a maybe, need to see if can get Friday of work, thanks"
Will do, but don't worry too much, we're finishing around Midnight, so plenty of time to sleep.

Going to use one thread for all names, rather than different threads each month. Should build up into a nice long list of singles who play!

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

DirtyinParadise

LeeNW

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

DirtyinParadise

LeeNW

Naughtysexyminx

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Edit,,,,taking out the couples bit from the initial post. Its a singles event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edit,,,,taking out the couples bit from the initial post. Its a singles event."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi please put me d0wn x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow a singles only event, it's about time a club started doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Edit,,,,taking out the couples bit from the initial post. Its a singles event."

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

DirtyinParadise

LeeNW

Naughtysexyminx

Mr_Naughty9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DirtyinParadise

LeeNW

Naughtysexyminx

Mr_Naughty9

Slowly starting to get a list going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be up at 4.30 for work, and live an hours drive from you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add

Naughty miss

Justanidiot

Kitten123

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be up at 4.30 for work, and live an hours drive from you lol"

Get the Friday off work and then spen Thurs and Friday night at the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea ! Please put me on the list, thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

add me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i could come, but it's on a school night and i live 2 1/2 hrs away

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By *lirt_tasiaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm coming.... Lol

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I'm coming.... Lol

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God did you,

DirtyinParadise

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm coming.... Lol

Again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please put me down for this

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

DirtyinParadise

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Rajman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi thanks put my name down cheers

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Rajman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

add me please

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Would really love to give this a go but will probably be the august one by the time I can get childcare on a thurs night and get down there

will be keeping my eyes on this

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Popping_Candy

Rajman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Popping_Candy

Rajman

I'm probably not going to be able to make it down for this until July or August, but still keeping my eye on the guest list, so I hope lots more people get thier names down for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plz add me as a maybe is membership required on the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plz add me as a maybe is membership required on the night "

As this is going to be one of thier regular nights, rather than a social type night, then I'm pretty sure Membership would be required.

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Plz add me as a maybe is membership required on the night "
Yes it will be, however we think you'll be happy with the offer we're currently operating for new members, makes it very worthwhile

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plz add me as a maybe is membership required on the night Yes it will be, however we think you'll be happy with the offer we're currently operating for new members, makes it very worthwhile

I did notice that offer on your website, very very good offer that's for sure.

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By *oaningMiaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

not sure when id be able to make it, but if this a general list of those who'd like to go at somepoint - then stick me down

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

It is indeed:

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

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By *lirt_tasiaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm sure ring n ride could pick you all up lol

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

Yorky_Hunk

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Pamela + 1

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

Yorky_Hunk

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By *lirt_tasiaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mo Leicester

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Pamela + 1

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

Yorky_Hunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bazza69

BirdMad

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mo Leicester

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Pamela + 1

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

Yorky_Hunk

List is starting to come along nicely now.

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

2 more days to go before we try this one out. Lets make it a good event and a regular fixture in our calendar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 more days to go before we try this one out. Lets make it a good event and a regular fixture in our calendar.

Fingers crossed it starts off as a great night and then gets better and better month on month

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Any more names to be added for tomorrow nights fun? Got a good few now coming along, and we'll try to chat to everyone to come up with ideas for the next few events. Get along and add suggestions for us.

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By *arkLife.Man
over a year ago

here and there

Please add me of possible, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please put a friend abs 1000 down thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall be coming so put my name done please? thank you

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Abs 1000

Bazza69

BirdMad

BostinAustin

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mo Leicester

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Pamela + 1

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

TytheDick

Yorky_Hunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there could you put my name down please x

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What a great idea, def interested in the July event, Pixma

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Feedback after last nights event. We had 13 guys in, and 2 females.

So, not sure what happened to you gals, but the lads were slightly bored, lol. Think we need to explore the reasons why it went this way if we can, at least then we'll know if we have a viable evening or not.

The two gals that came both came as almost a couple, ie two single play friends, so had the security of a man on their shoulder. Is it the case of a genuine single female needing a chaperone in this environment?

Are the single gals looking to play in a couples environment as well? Are single ladies happy to be single and not looking for regular playmates which this night might offer them?

Come on folks, talk to us so we know what to do in the future. Keep adding names to the list as well ready for next month, and we'll try to do a roll call just before the event to see who is definitely coming along.

Glad to say a good number of the single lads took advantage of a membership offer we have running and signed up for Fridays as well, so our Greedy Gals tonight should be happy

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Abs 1000

Bazza69

BirdMad

BostinAustin

DirtyinParadise

HubaBuba

Ibramit2009

JustanIdiot

Kitten123

LeeNW

LubieLoo

Mo Leicester

MoaningMia

Mr_Naughty9

Naughty Miss

Naughtysexyminx

Pamela + 1

Pixma

Popping_Candy

Rajman

Ring n Ride

TytheDick

Wolverine01

Yorky_Hunk

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Interestingly after the first nights turnout, we've had a reasonably negative revue from one of the guys. We had a look at his profile and he obviously frequents one of the other clubs that provides girls for the evenings fun. This is one way to handle the in-balance, however its not a route we'd ever dream of taking, so if looking for a "definite" f**k, please, go elsewhere.

So...other solutions needed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interestingly after the first nights turnout, we've had a reasonably negative revue from one of the guys. We had a look at his profile and he obviously frequents one of the other clubs that provides girls for the evenings fun. This is one way to handle the in-balance, however its not a route we'd ever dream of taking, so if looking for a "definite" f**k, please, go elsewhere.

So...other solutions needed??

If you want to go to a SWINGERS club, then Xtasia is the place to go, post on here when you're thinking of going and try to get some intrest, so quite a few people all turn up on the same night. Get some banter going in the forums or by PM so that you start to get a bit off a feel for the people that are going to turn up, this will all help people to get to know each other on the night!

Last Thursay was of course the first night this has been tried @ Xtasia, with luck and a bit of effort on the part of people on here it could become a great night.

If you want a f**k no matter what, then go to a club that pays girls to play, this isn't swinging as far as I'm concerned, but each to thier own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list looked very male heavy, I know it deterred me

Hopefully you will get some more positive and constructive feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The list looked very male heavy, I know it deterred me

Hopefully you will get some more positive and constructive feedback

The list in this thread is a 'general list of those wishing to attend the event at some point, rather that any specific Month though, so don't forget to either post in this thread or start a seperate thread for when you hope to go and then see what sort of a response you get to that!

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

I've been giving this a little thought over the last couple of weeks which I'll share for what they are worth.

In principal, I think the idea is a good one, though it will probably have some hiccups along the way and will need tweaks, but Xtasia have proven with other ideas that they are willing to learn, compromise, adapt and improve to deliver something thats worth while having.

The biggest problem I see with the event is with it being on a Thursday night, and while it does finish about midnight, in practical terms unless you live local to the club, it would mean a very late night home with work the next day, for example in my case, if I left at exactly midnight, I wouldn't get home til 1.45am and staying at the hotel isn't practical on a weekday.

I'd therefore suggest changing the day or time of such an event for example to me the best day to hold it would be a Sunday afternoon, though I know the club has various other events on during most Sundays so would require some rescheduling. Perhaps as an alternative a Saturday afternoon from midday to say 6pm would work, as you'd have some single guys and girls whom have stayed over from the previous night at the hotel and some whom can travel on a Saturday without the concerns of work the next day. You never know that could even lead to a "new couple" joining the club on a Saturday night or at least people going off and having fun back at the hotel or for a meal/extended social somewhere or other.

Overall though I think this idea does have legs but getting it to work successfully may prove very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I mostly go to clubs either Friday nights (I like men

) or Sunday afternoon. Mid week would be difficult for me, and as I have no problems approaching men I'm not sure this is 'aimed at me'.

Allow couples in, even those that play separately might be good for numbers, but deters my friends and I from going.

I know a number of people are working on singles only nights so I'll just sit back and watch the space(s)

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Feedback after last nights event. We had 13 guys in, and 2 females.

Are the single gals looking to play in a couples environment as well? Are single ladies happy to be single and not looking for regular playmates which this night might offer them?

Glad to say a good number of the single lads took advantage of a membership offer we have running and signed up for Fridays as well, so our Greedy Gals tonight should be happy

If you mean you don't know what happened to the girls on the list, I for one said right at the beginning that it would be months before I was able to come down on a Thursday night so if that was meant to be a list of people who were going to be there last week, I should not have been on it.

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"If you mean you don't know what happened to the girls on the list, I for one said right at the beginning that it would be months before I was able to come down on a Thursday night so if that was meant to be a list of people who were going to be there last week, I should not have been on it."

Yes we were aware we were building up a list of maybe's for all events, not specific to this month at all, but from the list which was balanced around 60/40 ratio, of people who may be attending, to end up with a ratio of 85/15 was disappointing and leaves us wondering what next.

We'll keep running the list so interested parties can add their names, but will then do a check just before the event for definates, and try to ensure we keep a good ratio turning up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the night wasn't what I was expecting.

being a newcomer to swinging and _tasia,

I'll take it as beginners luck. Hopefully a few established events will ease me into

the scene and I will be back for this night because

it has potential.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Will give this a go this thursday 25th July, so please add my name to the list.

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By *tasia OP Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Going to suggest we close this thread and start a new one for the next date as we need to changes the rules slightly and modify what the expectations are. New thread will be names "Swingles @ Xtasia".

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