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VA Bi Night Friday 7th March 2025 !

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By *emember OP   Man
16 weeks ago

St Neots

Get Ready for Our Next Bi-Night!

Our hugely successful event keeps growing—thanks to you!

Join us for another incredible evening with the vibrant LGBT community at our exclusive, members-only bi-night.

When: Friday, March 7th, 8 PM - 2:30 AM

Where: VA

This is where connections are made—don’t miss out!

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By *BaileyxTV/TS
16 weeks ago

St Neots

Signed up and can't wait!

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By *tanarrowsMan
16 weeks ago

peterborough

I am booked!

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By *891_kelWoman
16 weeks ago

rushden

Coming out of hibernation for this one

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By *igG86Man
15 weeks ago

Buckden

Signing up on Tuesday so hopefully I'll see you all there. Is anyone going for pre-drinks at the premier inn?

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By *srsozeMan
15 weeks ago

Romford

I'm gonna be there again in March … I’m ready for some serious fun!

I’m looking to meet some sexy people and make some new friends. 😉 Who's in?

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By *sabellaMaxCouple
15 weeks ago

Between the Shires

Hoping to make it to this event for our first visit to VA.

Looking forward to a fun night.

X

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By *obbromsgroveMan
15 weeks ago

bromsgrove

I’ll be there on the 7th will be great to make some new connection looking forward to seeing you all 😈😘

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By *eelee1234Man
15 weeks ago

Cambridge

Went to my first bi in February. Looking forward to going back on the 7th of March. The last one was so busy. Had a great night. Lots of fun

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By *ed Lolly Yellow LollyWoman
15 weeks ago

Wellingborough

Hi everyone

I’m planning on coming on the 7th March!

It’ll be my first bi night so quite excited about it.

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By *emember OP   Man
15 weeks ago

St Neots

It's hotting up to be another fun event ...

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By *twentyNorfolkCouple
15 weeks ago

cambs norfolk border

We’re hoping to be there and greedy

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By *nnandElleCouple
15 weeks ago

Brackley

We sadly can't make the March bi night, but will hopefully be back in April!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

We will be there, room booked on site, can’t wait!!

Really want to enjoy lots of play this time, come and say hi

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By *unswingmcCouple
15 weeks ago

St Neots

We are planning on coming along to celebrate M’s birthday. Looking forward to it!

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By *sabellaMaxCouple
14 weeks ago

Between the Shires

Booked our tickets. Very excited for our first visit to VA. We’ve heard great things about this club and it’s been on our list for a very long time.

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By *NM_AdventuresCouple
14 weeks ago

Royston

We've booked our tickets

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots


"Booked our tickets. Very excited for our first visit to VA. We’ve heard great things about this club and it’s been on our list for a very long time. "

Bi Nights at VA are

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By *endulum coupleCouple
14 weeks ago

bedfordshire

The last one was such an amazing night, the atmosphere and fun were electric,

super hot and awesome people attended.

We will see you all there! xx

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By *icumbiCouple
14 weeks ago

Basildon

We are booked. Our first Bi night but not our first visit to VA. Booked on site and looking for lots of couple and MMF fun

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

This will not be a small event.. expect a crowd ....but a fun one at that..

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By *BaileyxTV/TS
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Exciting! Hurry up Friday!

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By *endulum coupleCouple
14 weeks ago

bedfordshire


"Exciting! Hurry up Friday!"

So agree with this, wishing the week away lol

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Going to be a hot one....

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By *ing217Man
14 weeks ago

CAMBRIDGE

Booked for tomorrow 7th

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Get Ready for Our Next Bi-Night!

Our hugely successful event keeps growing—thanks to you!

Join us for another incredible evening with the vibrant LGBT community at our exclusive, members-only bi-night.

When: Friday, March 7th, 8 PM - 2:30 AM

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By *nnandElleCouple
14 weeks ago

Brackley


"Booked for tomorrow 7th"

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford


"Booked for tomorrow 7th

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!"

They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots


"Booked for tomorrow 7th

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!

They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile! "

Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

And to be fair...as most Bi guys fully know....most of the private meets we have are with "straight" married guys

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Not to mention some cultures frown on the lgbt community ...

We welcome all as long as they are club members and understand the event .

It wasn't that many years ago being gay was illegal...

Let's not stay in that bigoted mindset.

Oddly it's the older generation that seem to be stuck on the notion that Bi Night is only for Bi people ..

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford


"Booked for tomorrow 7th

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!

They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!

Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)"

Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options.

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By *acky RacersCouple
14 weeks ago

Lincoln


"Not to mention some cultures frown on the lgbt community ...

We welcome all as long as they are club members and understand the event .

It wasn't that many years ago being gay was illegal...

Let's not stay in that bigoted mindset.

Oddly it's the older generation that seem to be stuck on the notion that Bi Night is only for Bi people ..

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Whole I agree with inclusivity, I think calling people bigots is a bit unfair...people come to bi nights for the potential for bi male play because it us sometimes frowned upon at regular club nights...we've been to bi nights inundated with straight single males where the atmosphere isn't conducive, there are difficulties with open bi male play because the straight guys don't want to witness it and they didn't respect boundaries and personal space...if there isn't the emphasis on bi sexuality, they may as well just be normal nights...

We travel quite a distance for the speciality of these nights and you do seem to get the balance right whereas in the past it wasn't...but having a preference for the opportunities bi nights offer doesn't make us bigots...

PP

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Are Bi events only for Bi men?

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

bigoted person:

a person who hates or refuses to accept the members of a particular group .

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

The crowd we have at VA events are amazing and certainly not bigoted.

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots


"Booked for tomorrow 7th

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!

They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!

Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)

Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options. "

Yeah standard...never been but wants to comment negatively...

Seen it before not new...Next

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford


"Are Bi events only for Bi men?

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No, but they are supposed to be geared towards bi, bi-curious and gay men. They're supposed to be a "safe haven" for those men to "get it on" in a supportive environment full of like-minded people. That's my understanding of a bi night, and that's why I like to attend a proper bi night, to watch men openly play with each other within the fear of being judged. But I guess that option no longer provides the levels of attendance required to keep the event afloat.

However, as long as everyone at a bi night event is aware of, and ok with, the possibility of seeing same-sex open play, particularly male on male play, then that's all fine.

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford


"Booked for tomorrow 7th

I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!

They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!

Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.

Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)

Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options.

Yeah standard...never been but wants to comment negatively...

Seen it before not new...Next

"

Please note, just because I have never been to the bi night run by you, or in the club you are currently running the event in, it does not mean I have no right to comment and express my opinion. It is an open forum. It also does not mean I am "bigoted", "close minded" or whatever other adjectives you'd like to throw at me. I very much enjoy watching men play and it saddens me that more and more "bi nights" are becoming so by name only as they are getting "inclusive".

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Darling....your eyes would be wide open with what occurs at the event...it even has straight people visiting to indulge in the atmosphere.

X

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Basically the days of Bi events only being for Bi men are over.

That's why you don't see them so much.

Even hetro people in the lifestyle are exploring beyond the vanilla hetro wife swap...

The scene is changing....this is due to a more accepting generation stepping up.

It's so wonderful to see and be a part of....

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By *ackandjill3315Couple
14 weeks ago

aldershot

We are planning on dropping in 🤟

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Today, we party...

We have two DJs for the night, and I, along with a dominatrix, will be in the club ensuring everyone is not behaving...

There are no other nights like a VA Bi Night!

Unlike other bi events, we are not male-heavy, as we believe that sexual fluidity is for everyone, not just men.

At VA Bi events, 75% of attendees are couples, and we have an ever-growing female & trans presence…

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Am really looking forward to it, I love the atmosphere and really hoping to play this time, fingers crossed

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By *icumbiCouple
14 weeks ago

Basildon

Can't wait!!

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By *Y6 funcoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Preesall, Poulton-Le-Fylde

Hi please add us.

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
14 weeks ago

northamptonshire

Looking forward to tonight! Hoping for some naughty fun!!!

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By *sabellaMaxCouple
14 weeks ago

Between the Shires

Getting very excited for a hot night. X

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By *eam SlutCouple
14 weeks ago

Bedford

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By *d79Man
14 weeks ago

Cambridge

See you later

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots

Amazing night...thank you all for coming down...

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By *sabellaMaxCouple
14 weeks ago

Between the Shires

Well, that was just a bloody hot AF night! Loved the whole vibe, thanks for the welcome. We’ll definitely be attending a few more VA Bi nights this year.

X

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By *emember OP   Man
14 weeks ago

St Neots


"Well, that was just a bloody hot AF night! Loved the whole vibe, thanks for the welcome. We’ll definitely be attending a few more VA Bi nights this year.

X"

Glad you enjoyed the evening!

It was an absolute pleasure having you there, and we look forward to seeing your gorgeous selves back soon. Have a wonderful weekend

James x.

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