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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

We are wondering what to expect at a swingers club?.

We are beginners at this and would like advice & guidance on attending.

We are very intrigued with the Mrs already talking about attending one with her female friend.

Thanks in advance folks.

Squirt & Gallo

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana


"Hi all,

We are wondering what to expect at a swingers club?.

We are beginners at this and would like advice & guidance on attending.

Hi guys,

We would strongly recommend trying a club.. and both think it's best thing we ever did.

Just see it like going to any normal vanilla club.. but with the advantage of all the great facilities and plenty genuine swingers if you do feel comfortable enough to have fun.

Our first club was Youtopia near Scarborough (closed now).. and for us it was enough just joining another couple naked in the hot tub.

Every club we have been to since we have always had amazing night out.. not always playing..just as much or little as you feel.

Hope this helps.. but if you have any questions feel free to ask.

We are very intrigued with the Mrs already talking about attending one with her female friend.

Thanks in advance folks.

Squirt & Gallo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are wondering what to expect at a swingers club?.

We are beginners at this and would like advice & guidance on attending.

We are very intrigued with the Mrs already talking about attending one with her female friend.

Thanks in advance folks.

Squirt & Gallo "

When this is over you need to go libs book an on-site room.. you will love it, it’s like going to a club with all the trimmings x

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"

When this is over you need to go libs book an on-site room.. you will love it, it’s like going to a club with all the trimmings x"

The Vanilla Alternative and OurPlace4Fun are also great clubs.

Expect a social are for mingling, and a play area for being naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

We are wondering what to expect at a swingers club?.

We are beginners at this and would like advice & guidance on attending.

We are very intrigued with the Mrs already talking about attending one with her female friend.

Thanks in advance folks.

Squirt & Gallo "
debauchery, sex, pulsating organs, naked succubus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't found someone who's taken my Interest... Found a guy and we are setting it up for when this is all over, It's taken a year because we don't come on here everyday.. And it's very hard to keep me interested in anyone. I won't just fuck anyone.. I needed to feel confident and comfortable and till now no one has done this. As it states we have found a guy and we are setting it up.. For June once lockdown is over.. Squirt

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By *argudMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

try angels not toofar from you , totally chilled lovely people, and no pressure to do anything that you don't want to

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"I haven't found someone who's taken my Interest... Found a guy and we are setting it up for when this is all over, It's taken a year because we don't come on here everyday.. And it's very hard to keep me interested in anyone. I won't just fuck anyone.. I needed to feel confident and comfortable and till now no one has done this. As it states we have found a guy and we are setting it up.. For June once lockdown is over.. Squirt "

You don't have to explain yourself to anybody x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No harm in doing a bit of research now, for the future. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No harm in doing a bit of research now, for the future. Good luck OP "
you're seasoned aren't you oh tanned one

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No harm in doing a bit of research now, for the future. Good luck OP you're seasoned aren't you oh tanned one "

Is that as in sprinkled with salt and pepper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No harm in doing a bit of research now, for the future. Good luck OP you're seasoned aren't you oh tanned one

Is that as in sprinkled with salt and pepper? "
i was thinking more like ginger or chervil

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Hi all,

We are wondering what to expect at a swingers club?.

We are beginners at this and would like advice & guidance on attending.

We are very intrigued with the Mrs already talking about attending one with her female friend.

Thanks in advance folks.

Squirt & Gallo "

The midland social at flirts West Bromwich (first Wednesday of the Month, in the pre-covid-19 era) sometimes did a tour of xtasia. That was interesting.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No harm in doing a bit of research now, for the future. Good luck OP you're seasoned aren't you oh tanned one

Is that as in sprinkled with salt and pepper? i was thinking more like ginger or chervil "

Ooh that sounds more posher

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Expect a range of different types of people, who will mostly be friendly and open. Management will welcome you, explain the setup and show you around. There's likely an informal area, with drinks, where you can socialise, changing and ablutions areas, and an array of open and private spaces that you can opt to engage with others within.

You didn't have to move anywhere, you could just stay where you are comfortable, perhaps just staying at the bar, talking with others. You can wander around, seeing how others are going about their facilities enjoyment, without stopping, which could swiftly draw people to you. Admirers may follow you and you can always make it clear that you have no interest, if anyone gets too keen.

There may be facilities that you can simply enjoy, similarly to a health club, such as a hot tub.

Perhaps just consider it like many nights out - you relax, enjoy some facilities and not others, you chat with staff and customers socially, even without mutual burning sexual interests. You've let your hair down, encountered some new people - possibly some from here who you'd chatted to beforehand, arranging to meet up there.

It's no big deal, it's just another social outlet, except for anyone who goes and fully expects that they will have sex on tap, as some misinformed may do. It's one of the easiest things that you can do. Each venue is different, different nights may be themed or cater for various interests, some clubs may fit you better than others. Worst case, the 1st one doesn't suit you fully and you invested in a night out.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Chameleons isnt far from you, near walsall...friendly, relaxed and I think great facilities. Nice bar ..you can chat and have a drink and take things at your own pace...

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Just be yourself go in with an open mind I like to tell people it's just like being in a""normal"" club but sometimes with less clothes x don't be afraid to talk to people and if you choose a club to visit and your nervous give them a call they won't mind xxx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same."

Great advice

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same.

Great advice "

Your the experts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same."

Wow you should write your own erotic review of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well said.

I couldn't have said it any different.

This lifestyle is very erotic,kinky and sexy. It is about finding what you like.

We have made some good friends whilst visiting clubs. Sex is just the icing on the cake.

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds

Hmm, interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a club is as good as the people who turn up as with most things

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same.

Great advice

Your the experts "

Cheeky lol, yeah we like what we like H, clubs are our social lifestyle with added fun. Met some lovely people xx

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"We've been to over 50 clubs in 5 countries and if we have learned one thing it is don't expect anything, but be ready for everything.

No two clubs are the same and no two nights are the same.

Wow you should write your own erotic review of them"

Well I suppose "I haven't got time" is no longer an excuse.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Our first club was Youtopia near Scarborough (closed now).. and for us it was enough just joining another couple naked in the hot tub.

AHH the wonderful youtopia hot tub now that's a blast from the past took ages to fill it though lol

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