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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have carefully listened to the Prime Minister’s briefing today.

He has asked that we all make energetic & concerted efforts regarding social distancing.

Their advice is that if we do all work together as a nation we will start to see that our efforts make a profound difference to the control & suppression of the virus in order to contain it, whilst at the same time researching & testing.

This is a countrywide push and with this in mind We are making tomorrows friday night event our last event until further notice.

We will review this on a daily basis.

Yesterday I drew out my life savings from the building society to use to keep us going. Thats because We are, as We always have been, fully committed to Clubf and the alternative lifestyle building.

Equally I remain fully committed to our amazing staff and I will do my very best to ensure they remain under the employment of Clubf through this difficult time.

The hotel & dungeon will remain open at present for private bookings in an attempt to cover some of the running costs. Our cleaning regimes are excellent and will continue.

This decision has been the most difficult one to make, it is said with a tear in my eye but not a complaint.

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

Stay safe guys xxx

The reopening party will be one to remember xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry Sue, Simon and the team

We will be coming up as much as possible once you reopen after this storm to show our support x

KJ x

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By *ocialButterfly77Couple
over a year ago

DARLINGTON

Sad news, but sensible in light of the current situation, I really hope you manage to reopen once all of this has blown over, we are all going to need something to look forward to and let off some steam, I wish you all, both you and Simon and all of the staff good luck and good health in the coming weeks/months and I very much look forward to seeing you on the other side xx

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By *ohnboywaltonMan
over a year ago

North Cumbria/Cramlington/Seaton Delavel

Exceptionally difficult and uncertain time's at the moment.

A hard decision to make (believe me I know only too well), but I am sure that you have the full support of all the members on this. Including me. XX

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By *loydandlucyCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Sad news but your wise to do this, I’d hate to think I’d pick up the virus and pass it to a family member. I’m 100% sure your members will be right behind this sensible decision.. putting people before profit

Long term befits will be gained and once this blows over people will remember what you did for them

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Totally understandable and a brave decision. As much as we are all committed to this lifestyle the most important thing right now is to look after and protect ourselves and our families.

It has been said already but I am sure that we will have one hell of a reopening party!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sad news to here this we not been members long but love the club f and the staff sue and Simon are grate think we all should help the club as it’s help every member over the years it’s been open all members only if you want to think we should all put a £20 donation to the club to help them financially thought this so hard. time we all going thought and make sure that it can come thought this and stay open when all this has passed xx D & K xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very sad but very comendable decision, we have come to love clubf, and feel completely at home here. To sue Simon and all the staff we wish you all the best in these terrible times in the knowledge that we will get through this and a promise of our support in the future

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"I have carefully listened to the Prime Minister’s briefing today.

He has asked that we all make energetic & concerted efforts regarding social distancing.

Their advice is that if we do all work together as a nation we will start to see that our efforts make a profound difference to the control & suppression of the virus in order to contain it, whilst at the same time researching & testing.

This is a countrywide push and with this in mind We are making tomorrows friday night event our last event until further notice.

We will review this on a daily basis.

Yesterday I drew out my life savings from the building society to use to keep us going. Thats because We are, as We always have been, fully committed to Clubf and the alternative lifestyle building.

Equally I remain fully committed to our amazing staff and I will do my very best to ensure they remain under the employment of Clubf through this difficult time.

The hotel & dungeon will remain open at present for private bookings in an attempt to cover some of the running costs. Our cleaning regimes are excellent and will continue.

This decision has been the most difficult one to make, it is said with a tear in my eye but not a complaint.

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Hi Sue

Best wishes and good luck from us....

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By *ookies creamMan
over a year ago

sunderland

Let’s hope it doesn’t go on too long xx

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By *cared and curiousCouple
over a year ago

Jarrow

Sue, Simon.

We don't visit as much as we want to. But we definitely don't want to loose our club. Happy to support where we can. For sure we will drop an entry fee or two (3 or however long this goes on..) in the pot..

Looking forward to the after party..

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

We definitely need to help keep club and will certainly try and pop what we can in the fund x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone (well nearly everyone..) is being so nice and supportive, Thank you all xxx

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By *exyassfunCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

All the best to you all and we will see you on the other side xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a shame we were hoping to pop up in April for my partners birthday. Hope this thing sorts itself out soon.

Maybe on the grand reopening you could throw another booty social and have the place packed to the rafters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of you the staff and all the other clubs which are closed during this time. Good luck and see you all soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

CHANGE OF PLAN

WE ARE NOT OPENING TONIGHT.

I am listening to Boris and am supporting the massive collective effort of the country and not gonna open as planned for the final night xxx

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By *nd69Couple
over a year ago

hull

Arrrr gutted. We've just got our shift covered so we could attend the last night xx.

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By *eekendOffendersCouple
over a year ago

Teesside/Co Durham/Leeds

Hi Sue and the amazing team at ClubF,

We're thankful for your responsible approach to this unprecedented, awful situation.

We'll certainly be chipping in with some entry fees whenever we can to give a little support, and we look forward to seeing you on the other side of it all.

The warmth and generosity you and your staff have shown us over the years won't be forgotten, and we're sure plenty others will feel the same x

Stay safe and see you soon xxx

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

For those who missed the link and would like to help their favourite club, Sue has set up a crowd-funding page at https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/susan-gibbond (she said it's OK for me to post it)

I'm counting the days until the re-opening. Never mind that we don't know how many days that is. I'm a mathematician. It's well known that we can't count.

That party is going to be brilliant. Back with a bang!

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By *cared and curiousCouple
over a year ago

Jarrow

Going to pop our entry fee in for this Saturday...

Vertual party at home with just the two of us.. Haha..

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to pop our entry fee in for this Saturday...

Vertual party at home with just the two of us.. Haha..

X"

Thank you very much, there has been an amazing amount of generosity from the swinging & kinkster scene, I am touched.

At the moment we are planning and painting, luckily our paint store has enough paint for us to repaint a few rooms and we have some more mirrors to put up.....tricky to do much as hardware stores round us seem to be shut! But we are doing what we can and we are planning the future whenever that will be!

Stay safe y’all and your generosity is appreciated

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By *trongbow4Man
over a year ago

co durham

Thanks for the update on the club and great to hear of positive moving forward plans..im sure every member appreciates what your doing at the moment in this tough time. Stay safe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to the welcome back party. We would hate to not visit this amazing and welcoming club again.

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By *cared and curiousCouple
over a year ago

Jarrow

Well that was an awesome night at the club F in our head party.... Just us two guests but jeez we made the most of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent the club a message Sue, hope you're all safe and well x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It should have been Curvy Girls last night. The best night of the month. It just doesn't feel right not having it.

They'll be back one day, and that day will be wonderful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't wait to get back for gun times and great crack.

Stay safe guys and see you soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your support & messages guys.

We are all missing you all terribly! The staff have withdrawal symptoms and we are all dreaming of the re-opening!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Thanks for all your support & messages guys.

We are all missing you all terribly! The staff have withdrawal symptoms and we are all dreaming of the re-opening! "

We're loking forward to it too... Hope you are all well...

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"Thanks for all your support & messages guys.

We are all missing you all terribly! The staff have withdrawal symptoms and we are all dreaming of the re-opening! "

oh glad to hear from you 2 we texted see if were ok , stay safe you 2 love gnt xx

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley

All good in the hood, thanks for your lovely messages checking on us, and donations supporting us , we love you guys, we miss you guys and we cannot wait to be back......

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By *trongbow4Man
over a year ago

co durham


"All good in the hood, thanks for your lovely messages checking on us, and donations supporting us , we love you guys, we miss you guys and we cannot wait to be back...... "

Weve got to keep believing that we all going to be back enjoying your great events soon..so good to hear everyone is good in the hood xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t wait for this lockdown to be over and the club to reopen.

We had only just started coming to the club and we were hooked instantly.

Really excited about the reopening party

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my god i am missing my saturday nights out!!!!!

cant wait to see my good friends again and i promise to bring the donuts!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't wait to get back up to the club, we've missed it soooo much. Stay safe & see you all soon xx

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

We only managed to go twice before lockdown but we really loved our time there and hope you can survive and keep open the brilliant place you have built up.

Looking forward to our next visit, in the mean time we have donated our April visit entry fee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only managed to go twice before lockdown but we really loved our time there and hope you can survive and keep open the brilliant place you have built up.

Looking forward to our next visit, in the mean time we have donated our April visit entry fee."

That is so kind of you, Thank you so much, people have been so generous and we dont intend going anywhere so will be there when we get back to some sort of normality, Simon is working on the new room as we speak!

I am going in to work tomorrow and its going to be a surprise!

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

New room! How exciting

I hadn't quite managed to, umm, sample all of the other rooms before everything shut down. Some catching up will be needed when you re-open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun... Definitely have to try more rooms next time.

Can't wait to visit again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s all how that Monday’s lockdown announcement gives us some hope on a opening date for the club

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

another saturday passing and another one missing you all!! hopefully soon!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missing you lovely lot! hope you're all safe and well hope you enjoyed the "dont rush" challenge video xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are all good and putting finishing touches to our new private room.....

We miss everyone, strangely though we are busy doing nothing much.....(hopefully you will all see ‘nothing much’ soon) xxxx xxxx

Video is FANTASTIC

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all good and putting finishing touches to our new private room.....

We miss everyone, strangely though we are busy doing nothing much.....(hopefully you will all see ‘nothing much’ soon) xxxx xxxx

Miss you soooooo much hang in there xx

Video is FANTASTIC "

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley

So I thought I would give you guys an update, as you may remember, the club was looking quite good before but we have been busy sprucing it up, re-painting, new mirrors, recovering some items etc etc, we don't have a big budget & to be honest are reluctant to spend a fortune until we know our future is certain with the government restrictions & social distancing.

In the meantime we are exploring opening the coffee shop area to a daytime sandwich bar (take-away for now, of course).

So If you see a notice board on the road as you drive by, please support us! This isn't the way we expected to go but needs must and we will not be defeated!

We love you guys and miss you all, every single lovely one of you!!

ps Simon misses his kilt so he has taken to naked hotel patrols.......

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By *trongbow4Man
over a year ago

co durham

Thanks you for update guys,your doing a fantastic job keeping the club going xx looks like we going to have wait a while longer yet to see the new look areas but maybe there is a bit light ahead.certainly an interesting idea opening a sandwich bar im sure you will keep us informed and local members come and support it if you get it open..xx

Ps Nice to hear simon is letting it all hang out xx

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By *ohnboywaltonMan
over a year ago

North Cumbria/Cramlington/Seaton Delavel

Naked hotel patrols???

What kind of place is this

Oh, yes, that's right.

It's THE BEST PLACE bar none!!

I am so looking forward to seeing what you have been doing.

Good luck with the sandwich bar XX

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

I think we need photo proof of these naked patrols lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think we need photo proof of these naked patrols lol

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Hahahaha! Am sorry but no phones are allowed inside the club

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Am sorry but no phones are allowed inside the club"

Send Simon in with a sketchpad and pencil?

I might not have thought this through...

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley


"Am sorry but no phones are allowed inside the club

Send Simon in with a sketchpad and pencil?

I might not have thought this through..."

I have spoken to Simon and he is willing to pose naked to prove he is naked.....hahaha, he says that now......

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley

So, we are waiting for guidance on the reopening of hotels and then we will see what it says.

We did have a measure up in the bar & cafe area and are confident we can get around 11 couples in with the 2 metre social distancing. But it depends what the guidelines say. We have hotel rooms so we can hold social events/stayovers at least. We should also be able to rent the playrooms for private bookings for couples/same households & social bubble couples.

Its coming slowly, though my feeling is that club nights, as we knew them, wont be happening for a long time.

We already had the temperature scanner and will continue that, plenty of handwashing of course and full contact details will probably be mandatory, just in case. I am waiting for a reply from Public Health England about hot tub/wet room areas use but I have a feeling that will be a no.

Exhibitionists & voyeurs will have a great time & teasing & tantalizing will become the norm....for now at least eh!

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It might be me but Is this still not a bit risky.....?

I mean how do you check people are part of each other’s “bubbles”?

How do you maintain people will adhere to guidelines once the drinks, happy atmosphere and lets be honest pent up sexual frustrations are all put into a single venue?

By allowing people to hire play rooms or other facilities are you not facilitating/encouraging Pack behaviour that could lead to spikes in the virus?

I mean it’s like giving someone the keys to an Air BnB with full knowledge that what they are getting up to has the potential of putting themselves and others at risk.

I might be totally wrong here so I welcome opinions.

And no it’s not just like meeting in a pub it’s a sex club and 90% of people attend sex clubs in the hope of meeting like minded people and possibly having.........yes you guessed it Sex!!!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"It might be me but Is this still not a bit risky.....?

I mean how do you check people are part of each other’s “bubbles”?

How do you maintain people will adhere to guidelines once the drinks, happy atmosphere and lets be honest pent up sexual frustrations are all put into a single venue?

By allowing people to hire play rooms or other facilities are you not facilitating/encouraging Pack behaviour that could lead to spikes in the virus?

I mean it’s like giving someone the keys to an Air BnB with full knowledge that what they are getting up to has the potential of putting themselves and others at risk.

I might be totally wrong here so I welcome opinions.

And no it’s not just like meeting in a pub it’s a sex club and 90% of people attend sex clubs in the hope of meeting like minded people and possibly having.........yes you guessed it Sex!!! "

Completely agree with you for once haha

Far too soon. If you cant visit more than 2 households how can you safely potentially shag 10 people??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For now it will be socials only & hotel stayovers. And private hires are private hires, for couples and people in support bubbles. Not everyone shags 10 people every time they go to a club, some go for social times to meet & chat with like minded people.

But then there will always be different viewpoints.

We can abide by govt advice and will, we always have.

You do what you feel safe doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And to be clear, before you take things out of context , this is also what I said.

Its coming slowly, though my feeling is that club nights, as we knew them, wont be happening for a long time.

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Reaching for popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room? "

Who said anything about group meeting? Not us!

Private hire is for couples or support bubble couples. As people cant walk in off the street we know who is in the building.

You are the one suggesting a twist to this .....Simon has a saying for this, its not the mouth its comes out of but the mind it goes into....

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room? "

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Btw ... the muppets telling is how not to catch it have nearly all caught it notwithstanding all the other double standards so good fucking luck to them

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Btw ... the muppets telling is how not to catch it have nearly all caught it notwithstanding all the other double standards so good fucking luck to them "

No need to use bad language....

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Btw ... the muppets telling is how not to catch it have nearly all caught it notwithstanding all the other double standards so good fucking luck to them

No need to use bad language...."

True, apologies

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

We can't wait to get back and see you guys xxx a social, a good laugh and a night away from the kids will be heaven xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We can't wait to get back and see you guys xxx a social, a good laugh and a night away from the kids will be heaven xxx"

It will be great to see you and thats how we are thinking xx

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Btw ... the muppets telling is how not to catch it have nearly all caught it notwithstanding all the other double standards so good fucking luck to them

No need to use bad language....

True, apologies "

I’m offended these days if someone isn’t getting offended about something stupid that’s offended them, so glad to not be really offended and put an apology back in said ‘Offendees’ offended mailbox

Blooming Snowflakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will someone please tell me what snowflake are I see that a lot ????? Or am I just a snowflake and don’t realise it

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m not disagreeing pal I don’t want to see anyone’s business go under and this is why the government put support packages in place.

But I do think this is more complicated than it’s being made out. The government has allowed the opening of hotels but not spas..... doesn’t clubf refer to itself as a hotel and spa on its signage? Lol

We all still have a responsibility to stop the 2nd wave we hear so much about and in my opinion private hires goes against that.

My assumption is that if you’re doing a private hire at a swingers club it’s not for a “social” i think that’s a fair assumption.

And your “bubble” doesn’t Allow multiple couples or individuals yet so it does make you wonder why private hire.....surely not so you and another couple can have full run of the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Hi all. I thought I’d seen clubf advertising “we can manage 11 couples “ long before today’s easing ( but not a large gathering public or private ) ... I’m astounded how anyone can even contemplate going to the club when gyms spas pools etc can’t even open. ??? Would clubf be open to law suits if heaven forbid someone did contract Covid in there premises sorry Spa??? I’m all for club gatherings but surely there’s a time and place ??? And july4 isn’t that time and clubf isn’t that place. ... il just grab the popcorn. ...

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that "

Google ‘snowflake generation’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that

Google ‘snowflake generation’ "

Aaaaah got it

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that

Google ‘snowflake generation’ "

. Pmsl I’m thinking the maiden is being sarcastic.

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that "

You are definitely not a snowflake xxx

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"I’m not disagreeing pal I don’t want to see anyone’s business go under and this is why the government put support packages in place.

But I do think this is more complicated than it’s being made out. The government has allowed the opening of hotels but not spas..... doesn’t clubf refer to itself as a hotel and spa on its signage? Lol

We all still have a responsibility to stop the 2nd wave we hear so much about and in my opinion private hires goes against that.

My assumption is that if you’re doing a private hire at a swingers club it’s not for a “social” i think that’s a fair assumption.

And your “bubble” doesn’t Allow multiple couples or individuals yet so it does make you wonder why private hire.....surely not so you and another couple can have full run of the place

"

Private hire of private rooms I think not the whole place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that

Google ‘snowflake generation’ . Pmsl I’m thinking the maiden is being sarcastic. "

Who moi

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Hi all. I thought I’d seen clubf advertising “we can manage 11 couples “ long before today’s easing ( but not a large gathering public or private ) ... I’m astounded how anyone can even contemplate going to the club when gyms spas pools etc can’t even open. ??? Would clubf be open to law suits if heaven forbid someone did contract Covid in there premises sorry Spa??? I’m all for club gatherings but surely there’s a time and place ??? And july4 isn’t that time and clubf isn’t that place. ... il just grab the popcorn. ... "

I can't see how them opening the bar/cafe and hotel is any different to say the raddison opening without there spa facilities

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hi all. I thought I’d seen clubf advertising “we can manage 11 couples “ long before today’s easing ( but not a large gathering public or private ) ... I’m astounded how anyone can even contemplate going to the club when gyms spas pools etc can’t even open. ??? Would clubf be open to law suits if heaven forbid someone did contract Covid in there premises sorry Spa??? I’m all for club gatherings but surely there’s a time and place ??? And july4 isn’t that time and clubf isn’t that place. ... il just grab the popcorn. ...

I can't see how them opening the bar/cafe and hotel is any different to say the raddison opening without there spa facilities "

... so your saying just the bar area (unlicensed ) the reception area and “sandwich bar and staircase To “ hotel “ bedrooms will be the only areas open ??? One word. ... bollocks. ...

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Hi all. I thought I’d seen clubf advertising “we can manage 11 couples “ long before today’s easing ( but not a large gathering public or private ) ... I’m astounded how anyone can even contemplate going to the club when gyms spas pools etc can’t even open. ??? Would clubf be open to law suits if heaven forbid someone did contract Covid in there premises sorry Spa??? I’m all for club gatherings but surely there’s a time and place ??? And july4 isn’t that time and clubf isn’t that place. ... il just grab the popcorn. ...

I can't see how them opening the bar/cafe and hotel is any different to say the raddison opening without there spa facilities ... so your saying just the bar area (unlicensed ) the reception area and “sandwich bar and staircase To “ hotel “ bedrooms will be the only areas open ??? One word. ... bollocks. ... "

We'll that's how many hotels with spa facilities are gonna have to be ran.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hi all. I thought I’d seen clubf advertising “we can manage 11 couples “ long before today’s easing ( but not a large gathering public or private ) ... I’m astounded how anyone can even contemplate going to the club when gyms spas pools etc can’t even open. ??? Would clubf be open to law suits if heaven forbid someone did contract Covid in there premises sorry Spa??? I’m all for club gatherings but surely there’s a time and place ??? And july4 isn’t that time and clubf isn’t that place. ... il just grab the popcorn. ...

I can't see how them opening the bar/cafe and hotel is any different to say the raddison opening without there spa facilities ... so your saying just the bar area (unlicensed ) the reception area and “sandwich bar and staircase To “ hotel “ bedrooms will be the only areas open ??? One word. ... bollocks. ...

We'll that's how many hotels with spa facilities are gonna have to be ran. "

... honestly say that it will happen in this case????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The changing room wont be open either, as per govt announcement this afternoon, nor the spa.

You dont have to come if you think its bollocks thats fine. But we hope some do come.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that "

You are a one-of-a-kind though. And possibly get a bit wet when you melt. But of course I wouldn't know anything about that

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth "

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture..

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"

We'll that's how many hotels with spa facilities are gonna have to be ran. ... honestly say that it will happen in this case???? "

Call me naive, but yes. I'm assuming that we're all adults. We're supposedly capable of behaving in a responsible fashion.

And for those few who can't control themselves, I would imagine they'd quickly find themselves outside and not welcome back in.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"The changing room wont be open either, as per govt announcement this afternoon, nor the spa.

You dont have to come if you think its bollocks thats fine. But we hope some do come. "

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fear not I googled it!!!!! A snowflake is water that has frozen falling from the sky!!!!

I’m defo not that

You are a one-of-a-kind though. And possibly get a bit wet when you melt. But of course I wouldn't know anything about that"

x

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture.. "

. Pmsl the bigger picture. ??? You mean nobody dropping down dead even tho they were offered a chance to attend a “private “ party ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture.. . Pmsl the bigger picture. ??? You mean nobody dropping down dead even tho they were offered a chance to attend a “private “ party ???? "

You are posting on the wrong thread, no one has mentioned a private party.

Do people not understand there is a huge difference between private parties and swingers clubs right now?

Mainly we are getting ready to do what we are allowed to do and the private parties just carry on regardless......

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture.. . Pmsl the bigger picture. ??? You mean nobody dropping down dead even tho they were offered a chance to attend a “private “ party ????

You are posting on the wrong thread, no one has mentioned a private party.

Do people not understand there is a huge difference between private parties and swingers clubs right now?

Mainly we are getting ready to do what we are allowed to do and the private parties just carry on regardless......"

. Someone mentioned it I’m sure. ... so Sue are you telling the forum that the only areas that will be open at clubf will be reception cafe bar area and the staircase to the private bedrooms????????? ....

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture.. . Pmsl the bigger picture. ??? You mean nobody dropping down dead even tho they were offered a chance to attend a “private “ party ???? "

If you actually read stuff before posting you would not need such a large shovel to try and dig yourself out ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey,

It’s your club and your responsibility you guys can do what you want.

But aren’t group meeting internally still banned even in hotels?

I know the rules are open to some “Cummings” interpretation but isn’t a private hire basically a group meeting indoors?

I’m assuming then these private hires would be policed to ensure no more than the allocated number are allowed into a room?

They have put everything on the line to make it through this (scroll up).

Surely it is up to people to choose wisely and make choices accordingly as everyone is now fully aware of the risk / reward ratio. They have mitigated the risks like every other business so i say best of luck and hope they come out of this without losing everything.

My tuppence worth for what it’s worth

Hopefully will all work out for you guys... pity others don’t see the bigger picture.. . Pmsl the bigger picture. ??? You mean nobody dropping down dead even tho they were offered a chance to attend a “private “ party ????

You are posting on the wrong thread, no one has mentioned a private party.

Do people not understand there is a huge difference between private parties and swingers clubs right now?

Mainly we are getting ready to do what we are allowed to do and the private parties just carry on regardless....... Someone mentioned it I’m sure. ... so Sue are you telling the forum that the only areas that will be open at clubf will be reception cafe bar area and the staircase to the private bedrooms????????? .... "

Plus all The toilets & back yard area, the playrooms will be locked off. We are on four floors remember.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Great. Il look forward to seeing how it goes. If it goes. When it goes. ...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"so Sue are you telling the forum that the only areas that will be open at clubf will be reception cafe bar area and the staircase to the private bedrooms????????? ....

Plus all The toilets & back yard area, the playrooms will be locked off. We are on four floors remember. "

How much will it cost to come in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great. Il look forward to seeing how it goes. If it goes. When it goes. ... "

alot to do yet, the sneeze guards are being made as we speak....likely to be advance bookings only as strict limitations on numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you and hope it goes well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck to you and hope it goes well!"

Thank you , hopefully there will be people that come for the social & stayovers in the meantime and hoping the task force the government is setting up will decide we can open, or the vaccine is successful. But I think that may be some time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck to you and hope it goes well!

Thank you , hopefully there will be people that come for the social & stayovers in the meantime and hoping the task force the government is setting up will decide we can open, or the vaccine is successful. But I think that may be some time....."

Lots of people will come so concentrate on them and not the haters

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

You are correct no one mentioned private parties but you did mention private hires......what’s the difference?

As Sue said “well private hires are private hires”

So I can book the whole place out to hold a private party and the club is ok with that?

And to be clear...............

“Two households of any size will be able to meet indoors or outside. It will be possible to stay overnight.

However, the government does not not recommend meetings of multiple households indoors because of the risk of infection.

In addition, the two households would have to maintain social distancing - unless they were part of the same support bubble”

That’s the official guidelines so what action is the club taking to help enforce them when it’s been suggested “Private Hires” are ok?

Hmmmmmmm

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It’s not naive but if that’s the case what was the point of the lockdown?

You could simply announce there’s a dangerous virus the best thing to do is stay in and happy days

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s not naive but if that’s the case what was the point of the lockdown?

"

You were locked down alone or with a couple of people you had already been living with, to prevent the virus spreading. You weren't locked down with one hundred strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way to soon for any club to re open and it will ruin them as people will not forget their wealth before health moto.

We for one can't wait to get back to a club but ones that open now we will stay well clear of

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Way to soon for any club to re open and it will ruin them as people will not forget their wealth before health moto.

We for one can't wait to get back to a club but ones that open now we will stay well clear of"

Agree!! Now I understand business is business but the staff furlough doesn’t end till October so its only the standing cost of the club which is the same regardless of which industry your in!

Everyone will have an opinion on this and yes we are all adults and can make our own minds up! The club isn’t making anyone attended if they don’t want too! But agree conduct at this time will effect how we look in the future!

Just like in my case everyone still looking for meets especially at the peak have been blocked on this site!

There is no hate or judgement in my response but my opinion!

I have had many a great time at this club and would hate to see it go under!

Good luck to Sue, Simon And there team at this time as you can’t seam too do right for doing wrong!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It is very sad people's business is suffering so much. The whole reason we keep away from people even now is to stay safe from the people like Dominic Cummings and there's thousands of them around the country. Think someone said earlier health before wealth. Using hotel as an excuse to open a swingers club doesn't sound like a good idea at all. Even the meeting of two households has to be at least 1 meter distance so private hire of rooms is not within guidelines we'd say. Getting respect from people is the best thing a business can have. Saying that people have short memories and there's people out there who have never stuck to guidance so people will go. We'd give places that do this now a wide birth forever. People's safety in a club is paramount, not just today but always

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"It is very sad people's business is suffering so much. The whole reason we keep away from people even now is to stay safe from the people like Dominic Cummings and there's thousands of them around the country. Think someone said earlier health before wealth. Using hotel as an excuse to open a swingers club doesn't sound like a good idea at all. Even the meeting of two households has to be at least 1 meter distance so private hire of rooms is not within guidelines we'd say. Getting respect from people is the best thing a business can have. Saying that people have short memories and there's people out there who have never stuck to guidance so people will go. We'd give places that do this now a wide birth forever. People's safety in a club is paramount, not just today but always "
. ... exactly. And there’s no private hire allowed so please don’t hide behind the word hire instead of party. ..il be looking forward to see who chances the private hire gathering because as other people have added earlier they must be crazy. ... .... noticed there was a very very sharp u-turn by clubf When a few questions were raised ... hopefully they will keep clubf Spa closed until officially allowed too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You are correct no one mentioned private parties but you did mention private hires......what’s the difference?

As Sue said “well private hires are private hires”

So I can book the whole place out to hold a private party and the club is ok with that?

And to be clear...............

“Two households of any size will be able to meet indoors or outside. It will be possible to stay overnight.

However, the government does not not recommend meetings of multiple households indoors because of the risk of infection.

In addition, the two households would have to maintain social distancing - unless they were part of the same support bubble”

That’s the official guidelines so what action is the club taking to help enforce them when it’s been suggested “Private Hires” are ok?

Hmmmmmmm"

You are running off at a tangent and taking part of what was said and twisting it into an implication that we are trying to allow something we are not allowed to do. We are not doing that!

To clarify, I said private hires Of individual rooms for couples and support bubble couples! And hiring the whole Hotel for a private party is something totally different, its a Massive difference. We are not hiring the hotel for private parties.

The club always has followed legal guidelines & advice, much more than many and we are certainly more safety Orientated & cleanlines conscious than many other clubs & private parties (which is happening already but Its easier to pick away at us).

Just for info, we have been in discussion with Public Health England who are fully aware & in agreement with what we are doing as we are a hotel not just a club.

Those who dont agree with coming for a social and help us get back on our feet and back to normality then please stay away as we dont want you! Our reputation is excellent and will remain so as we will fully follow guidelines , to imply we are about to lose it is quite below the belt, but hey ho, it will all come out in the wash.

Small steps.

Like loads of other businesses we are opening soon and following the guidelines. If you dont understand why I cant make you understand why.

As we work things out we will update out profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is very sad people's business is suffering so much. The whole reason we keep away from people even now is to stay safe from the people like Dominic Cummings and there's thousands of them around the country. Think someone said earlier health before wealth. Using hotel as an excuse to open a swingers club doesn't sound like a good idea at all. Even the meeting of two households has to be at least 1 meter distance so private hire of rooms is not within guidelines we'd say. Getting respect from people is the best thing a business can have. Saying that people have short memories and there's people out there who have never stuck to guidance so people will go. We'd give places that do this now a wide birth forever. People's safety in a club is paramount, not just today but always . ... exactly. And there’s no private hire allowed so please don’t hide behind the word hire instead of party. ..il be looking forward to see who chances the private hire gathering because as other people have added earlier they must be crazy. ... .... noticed there was a very very sharp u-turn by clubf When a few questions were raised ... hopefully they will keep clubf Spa closed until officially allowed too..."

Not sure what U turn you mean? Very very sharp or otherwise? The hot tub & wet area has never Going to be open? As for anyone else saying anything, if it comes from my mouth its my decision and likely to be true, if a u turn needs making , or if I need to change my mind as more information emerges, then I will but the only person who has permission to speak on behalf of the club is Simon and he isn't on here so I have to do all the talking.

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

An open forum discussion is open too all options!

At the end of the day Clubfs local council will have the last say! Not us on here! If you don’t want to go don’t go if you do go!

Happy days

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

As I said previously it’s your club, business and responsibility I just questioned if it was totally possible to truly maintain the guidelines in a place that Is a swingers club first and a hotel second.

No arguments just an honest opinion questioning if this was a good idea.

Since we are in the North East I will give a Mike Ashley example

He decided to keep Sports Direct stores open at the start of the lockdown as in his opinion they where an “essential/key” business. I have no doubts a business of that size could and would have taken measures to protect staff.......as well as mitigate the risk of a law suit.

Clearly the public didn’t agree and he soon did a U-Turn

I think the view here is similar. The risk In a swingers club is a lot higher so why take the risk, ride it out for longer be 100% sure.

And yes you are running a business so you should enquire into a government backEd business bounce back loan which will give you up to £50k @ 2.5% interest free for the first year.

I believe small businesses can also apply for a £10k grant which you don’t pay back.

The help Is out there!!!!!

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I totally agree with you 110%

But I will add blocking someone from you profile because they have an no offensive opinion you don’t agree with doesn’t really reflect very well

Btw that’s not you lol x

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ... "

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered"

. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ... "

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

"

Sorry let’s try that again

I totally agree with you 110%

But I will add blocking someone from you profile because they have an non-offensive opinion you don’t agree with doesn’t really reflect very well

Btw that’s not you lol x

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in "

. No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ... "

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

"

People are entitled to their views whether they’re agreed with or not.

I myself saw the status update on their profile and took it that they were opening on the 4th as a hotel which is super duper and good luck n all that, however it did give the impression that play may be happening whether we took it the wrong way or not thats not my point, my point is I finished my popcorn and my chair was starting to get uncomfortable so thought I’d take a ride on the band wagon !!!! . Ding ding

I tend to stay away from forums because of this very reason , people don’t like to be criticised period and we’re all guilty of being defensive. What was a simple question asked by sexy guy north who is by the way ...... very (Stop it Mohawk this is neither the time or the place to try and pull). !!!!

Anyway come on you lot let’s all hug it out and let people have their say without bashing there’s way too much hate in the world for us chilled out swingers to be getting all irate at one another

Xxxx. Currently spreading glitter on you all so smile that shits expensive xx

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

People are entitled to their views whether they’re agreed with or not.

I myself saw the status update on their profile and took it that they were opening on the 4th as a hotel which is super duper and good luck n all that, however it did give the impression that play may be happening whether we took it the wrong way or not thats not my point, my point is I finished my popcorn and my chair was starting to get uncomfortable so thought I’d take a ride on the band wagon !!!! . Ding ding

I tend to stay away from forums because of this very reason , people don’t like to be criticised period and we’re all guilty of being defensive. What was a simple question asked by sexy guy north who is by the way ...... very (Stop it Mohawk this is neither the time or the place to try and pull). !!!!

Anyway come on you lot let’s all hug it out and let people have their say without bashing there’s way too much hate in the world for us chilled out swingers to be getting all irate at one another

Xxxx. Currently spreading glitter on you all so smile that shits expensive xx"

Haha love you lass but did ya have to with the glitter I'll have it in my creases for days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

People are entitled to their views whether they’re agreed with or not.

I myself saw the status update on their profile and took it that they were opening on the 4th as a hotel which is super duper and good luck n all that, however it did give the impression that play may be happening whether we took it the wrong way or not thats not my point, my point is I finished my popcorn and my chair was starting to get uncomfortable so thought I’d take a ride on the band wagon !!!! . Ding ding

I tend to stay away from forums because of this very reason , people don’t like to be criticised period and we’re all guilty of being defensive. What was a simple question asked by sexy guy north who is by the way ...... very (Stop it Mohawk this is neither the time or the place to try and pull). !!!!

Anyway come on you lot let’s all hug it out and let people have their say without bashing there’s way too much hate in the world for us chilled out swingers to be getting all irate at one another

Xxxx. Currently spreading glitter on you all so smile that shits expensive xx

Haha love you lass but did ya have to with the glitter I'll have it in my creases for days "

Sorry hehe x

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. "

. Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl.

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

People are entitled to their views whether they’re agreed with or not.

I myself saw the status update on their profile and took it that they were opening on the 4th as a hotel which is super duper and good luck n all that, however it did give the impression that play may be happening whether we took it the wrong way or not thats not my point, my point is I finished my popcorn and my chair was starting to get uncomfortable so thought I’d take a ride on the band wagon !!!! . Ding ding

I tend to stay away from forums because of this very reason , people don’t like to be criticised period and we’re all guilty of being defensive. What was a simple question asked by sexy guy north who is by the way ...... very (Stop it Mohawk this is neither the time or the place to try and pull). !!!!

Anyway come on you lot let’s all hug it out and let people have their say without bashing there’s way too much hate in the world for us chilled out swingers to be getting all irate at one another

Xxxx. Currently spreading glitter on you all so smile that shits expensive xx

Haha love you lass but did ya have to with the glitter I'll have it in my creases for days

Sorry hehe x"

Thank you my lovely.

For anyone who believes Mowhawk you are free to mail me for .........POST COVID MEETS. In the meantime we can share some banter

For anyone that requires my financial advice, understanding of government support or would like to tap in to my vast collection of “it could only happen in swinging” stories please contact my agent Mowhawk Maiden who charges 10%

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought the 1m rule indoors only applied if there are masks and perspex screens between tables.

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why people who don't want to go are getting so ansy, sue is opening within the allowed guidelines and I know for a fact no one will get away with trying to break any of these rules!!

People are entitled to their views whether they’re agreed with or not.

I myself saw the status update on their profile and took it that they were opening on the 4th as a hotel which is super duper and good luck n all that, however it did give the impression that play may be happening whether we took it the wrong way or not thats not my point, my point is I finished my popcorn and my chair was starting to get uncomfortable so thought I’d take a ride on the band wagon !!!! . Ding ding

I tend to stay away from forums because of this very reason , people don’t like to be criticised period and we’re all guilty of being defensive. What was a simple question asked by sexy guy north who is by the way ...... very (Stop it Mohawk this is neither the time or the place to try and pull). !!!!

Anyway come on you lot let’s all hug it out and let people have their say without bashing there’s way too much hate in the world for us chilled out swingers to be getting all irate at one another

Xxxx. Currently spreading glitter on you all so smile that shits expensive xx

Haha love you lass but did ya have to with the glitter I'll have it in my creases for days

Sorry hehe x

Thank you my lovely.

For anyone who believes Mowhawk you are free to mail me for .........POST COVID MEETS. In the meantime we can share some banter

For anyone that requires my financial advice, understanding of government support or would like to tap in to my vast collection of “it could only happen in swinging” stories please contact my agent Mowhawk Maiden who charges 10% "

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. "

. They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers.

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers. "

My status update was referring to prior planning and working out whats what, and like I said again the 1 metre rule wont make that much difference, it doesn’t work like that.

Mohawk, we arent opening for private parties, Just socials, And the hotel part, when we sre allowed to open, I try and follow the rules, thought you knew me better than that

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

Its funny how one thing can be said and so many can read it a different way! Yet some have read it exactly as it was meant, we were seeing how it was going to work as the situation was moving finally with the economy getting back.

Sorry for blocking you saj, I was taking the lead from your friend, say something someone doesn’t like and block them , its not a thing I do often but I will own it, I felt annoyed and frustrated you had completely misinterpreted what I had said so instead of banging my head against a brick wall I pressed the block button, like I said I am sure it will all come out in the wash...forgive me for feeling human, obviously been locked up for too long, need to find a nice place for a social......

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

"

Thanks for clarification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers.

My status update was referring to prior planning and working out whats what, and like I said again the 1 metre rule wont make that much difference, it doesn’t work like that.

Mohawk, we arent opening for private parties, Just socials, And the hotel part, when we sre allowed to open, I try and follow the rules, thought you knew me better than that

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

Its funny how one thing can be said and so many can read it a different way! Yet some have read it exactly as it was meant, we were seeing how it was going to work as the situation was moving finally with the economy getting back.

Sorry for blocking you saj, I was taking the lead from your friend, say something someone doesn’t like and block them , its not a thing I do often but I will own it, I felt annoyed and frustrated you had completely misinterpreted what I had said so instead of banging my head against a brick wall I pressed the block button, like I said I am sure it will all come out in the wash...forgive me for feeling human, obviously been locked up for too long, need to find a nice place for a social......

"

Sue i didn’t say I thought you were hosting private parties I simply said I’d misread your status on profile !!!!!

I was merely putting my own view across in a lighthearted way and it wasn’t aimed at club f. I was replying to a lovely couple who also posted on this open forum. And whom also saw my post as lighthearted when they ended up with glitter in every orifice!!!!

I stayed it was super you were opening the hotel side !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers.

My status update was referring to prior planning and working out whats what, and like I said again the 1 metre rule wont make that much difference, it doesn’t work like that.

Mohawk, we arent opening for private parties, Just socials, And the hotel part, when we sre allowed to open, I try and follow the rules, thought you knew me better than that

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

Its funny how one thing can be said and so many can read it a different way! Yet some have read it exactly as it was meant, we were seeing how it was going to work as the situation was moving finally with the economy getting back.

Sorry for blocking you saj, I was taking the lead from your friend, say something someone doesn’t like and block them , its not a thing I do often but I will own it, I felt annoyed and frustrated you had completely misinterpreted what I had said so instead of banging my head against a brick wall I pressed the block button, like I said I am sure it will all come out in the wash...forgive me for feeling human, obviously been locked up for too long, need to find a nice place for a social......

Sue i didn’t say I thought you were hosting private parties I simply said I’d misread your status on profile !!!!!

I was merely putting my own view across in a lighthearted way and it wasn’t aimed at club f. I was replying to a lovely couple who also posted on this open forum. And whom also saw my post as lighthearted when they ended up with glitter in every orifice!!!!

I stayed it was super you were opening the hotel side !!!! "

Stated not stayed !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers.

My status update was referring to prior planning and working out whats what, and like I said again the 1 metre rule wont make that much difference, it doesn’t work like that.

Mohawk, we arent opening for private parties, Just socials, And the hotel part, when we sre allowed to open, I try and follow the rules, thought you knew me better than that

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

Its funny how one thing can be said and so many can read it a different way! Yet some have read it exactly as it was meant, we were seeing how it was going to work as the situation was moving finally with the economy getting back.

Sorry for blocking you saj, I was taking the lead from your friend, say something someone doesn’t like and block them , its not a thing I do often but I will own it, I felt annoyed and frustrated you had completely misinterpreted what I had said so instead of banging my head against a brick wall I pressed the block button, like I said I am sure it will all come out in the wash...forgive me for feeling human, obviously been locked up for too long, need to find a nice place for a social......

Sue i didn’t say I thought you were hosting private parties I simply said I’d misread your status on profile !!!!!

I was merely putting my own view across in a lighthearted way and it wasn’t aimed at club f. I was replying to a lovely couple who also posted on this open forum. And whom also saw my post as lighthearted when they ended up with glitter in every orifice!!!!

I stayed it was super you were opening the hotel side !!!! "

Oooooooops

Sorry mowhalk! My bad . More glitter needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo... is a private hire evening different to a private party ??? ??? And I seriously don’t think your playrooms will be locked. The government states bubbles and two households only. You’ve said your happy to have 11 couples in clubf. By the way that was advertised even before new regulations on Tuesday ..... You will always get people not adhering to rules ..please don’t facilitate them by opening up any areas ... your sandwich bar might be okay as that can be policed easily enough. ..but not human sandwiches ...

maybe its just me.... but i was reading "11 couples" as "11 hotel rooms for couples"

i ain't getting involved in how every single word is being written and torn to pieces..... as a single bloke i aint going anywhere at the moment!

but aren't we putting the cart before the horse a bit here..... wait to see whats announced officially, and then questions can be answered. It was listed as having enough room for 11 couples in bar areas not in “hotel” rooms. And that was before the easing of restrictions on Tuesday. ...

Yeah the had measured the place and said the had room with distancing measures for 11 couples same as your local pub or restaurant will have, it was a statement of how many people the would be able to safely have in . No. Your wrong. It was stated BEFORE the one metre distancing for pubs restaurants etc. ie measured at two metre regs. ...

I'm sure the will have measured with the regulations that were in place at the time of measuring tbf, you can't take something stated before the rules changed sue was just making the statement that when allowed the could open with x amount of people compiling with the rules on that day. . Well that’s just hunky dory then. So with the first measurements at 11 couples there will be 22 couples now then ??? Pmsl. . They say sarcasm is lowest form of wit. But it’s great for the pop corn munchers.

My status update was referring to prior planning and working out whats what, and like I said again the 1 metre rule wont make that much difference, it doesn’t work like that.

Mohawk, we arent opening for private parties, Just socials, And the hotel part, when we sre allowed to open, I try and follow the rules, thought you knew me better than that

Sally slinky no you dont have to have booths with plastic in between.

Its funny how one thing can be said and so many can read it a different way! Yet some have read it exactly as it was meant, we were seeing how it was going to work as the situation was moving finally with the economy getting back.

Sorry for blocking you saj, I was taking the lead from your friend, say something someone doesn’t like and block them , its not a thing I do often but I will own it, I felt annoyed and frustrated you had completely misinterpreted what I had said so instead of banging my head against a brick wall I pressed the block button, like I said I am sure it will all come out in the wash...forgive me for feeling human, obviously been locked up for too long, need to find a nice place for a social......

Sue i didn’t say I thought you were hosting private parties I simply said I’d misread your status on profile !!!!!

I was merely putting my own view across in a lighthearted way and it wasn’t aimed at club f. I was replying to a lovely couple who also posted on this open forum. And whom also saw my post as lighthearted when they ended up with glitter in every orifice!!!!

I stayed it was super you were opening the hotel side !!!!

Oooooooops

Sorry mowhalk! My bad . More glitter needed "

On its way

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Kicks off work gear ....gathers a beer and some popcorn. ... do I???? Should I ??? Nah can’t be arsed. It’s been a long long day. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sue is trying to do is open as a hotel following the guidelines to try and get some income, hubby is self employed so we know what it's like

Good for sue hope all becomes clear from the government soon xxx

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over a year ago


"Kicks off work gear ....gathers a beer and some popcorn. ... do I???? Should I ??? Nah can’t be arsed. It’s been a long long day. ... "

Glad to hear I have provided you with some fun & entertainment!

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over a year ago


"All sue is trying to do is open as a hotel following the guidelines to try and get some income, hubby is self employed so we know what it's like

Good for sue hope all becomes clear from the government soon xxx"

Thank you , yes the guidance has been published today, we are going to take small steps and feel our way, I am looking forward to the banter (quietIsh banter as shouting makes spit spray further...) I have missed that chat & friendliness of members and hopefully a few will brave it as well.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Kicks off work gear ....gathers a beer and some popcorn. ... do I???? Should I ??? Nah can’t be arsed. It’s been a long long day. ...

Glad to hear I have provided you with some fun & entertainment! "

. Not only you Sue.

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By *ocialButterfly77Couple
over a year ago

DARLINGTON

I'm in a support bubble and have always loved the social side of club f, it's somewhere different to play and I for one need a change of scenery as someone who has been working from home it can be very boring seeing the same place day in day out, so I welcome club f opening, even if it is the hotel rooms and bar as I have missed my friends more than anything, also my support bubble partner has kids and it's not feasible for me to go to his, I know both Sue and Simon are responsible people who will do everything they can to ensure their members stay safe and that's my forpennorth

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By *tependousMan
over a year ago

Richmond (N.Yorks)

Bottom line as I see it nothing changes. You pre book an overnight stay, you stay 2m from anyone not in your bubble and follow the club rules, which I'm sure will be diligently briefed on entry as we all recieved on our first visit. If you cant obey the rules then your braver than me! I dont want yarked of Simon, Sue or Charlotte!!

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By *ocialButterfly77Couple
over a year ago

DARLINGTON


"Bottom line as I see it nothing changes. You pre book an overnight stay, you stay 2m from anyone not in your bubble and follow the club rules, which I'm sure will be diligently briefed on entry as we all recieved on our first visit. If you cant obey the rules then your braver than me! I dont want yarked of Simon, Sue or Charlotte!!"

This, yes exactly! I'm a sassy woman but rules is rules as club f!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I will be looking at booking a hotel! Soon with a couple of my bubble peeps!

I know for a fact that Sue and Simon will follow the guidelines and always have! So why would they not now!?

Just know that if you are an adult and you can do what you want to do!? Everyone has an opinion everyone has a voice!

If people choose to stay at the club hotel or another hotel its up to them!

Sur Simon and my Club F family! Good luck see you all soon! Missed you all loads!

#peaceout!

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Guessing the name has changed regards clubf ??? It’s a hotel now Not a spa??? ... okay so it’s a hotel. I’m nearly sure a hotel has to have a drinks license if any alcohol is on premises ??? So we can all just hang around drinks water and pop ??? Popcorn alert popcorn alert. ::: sound the klaxons grab the hard hats. ...

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over a year ago


"Guessing the name has changed regards clubf ??? It’s a hotel now Not a spa??? ... okay so it’s a hotel. I’m nearly sure a hotel has to have a drinks license if any alcohol is on premises ??? So we can all just hang around drinks water and pop ??? Popcorn alert popcorn alert. ::: sound the klaxons grab the hard hats. ... "

So I have just booked 5 star hotel and they have a spa!

Wow!

1. The spa is closed!

2. The bar is closed but we have been told they have applied for a licence to take own alcohol (wow the way if the world)

3. We can even have breakfast in the hotel but need to book a time!

#simples!!!

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By *pineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Whitefield

It's good to hear we are not the only ones listening to announcements like good citizens; then quite quickly trying to figure out loopholes x

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"It's good to hear we are not the only ones listening to announcements like good citizens; then quite quickly trying to figure out loopholes x"
. Pmsl Pmsl pmsl. Soooooooooo right. Dofs cap and retires to shit and ponder. Pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open it to everyone and call it an eye test

I'm joking

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By *tependousMan
over a year ago

Richmond (N.Yorks)

If its aloud to open and you want to go, then go. If you dont, dont. The doors wouldn't even be open unless it was sanctioned and the authorities were content with the measures put in place. It's not loop holes, or skewed interpretation of government direction. It's about meeting the requirements laid out, passing an inspection and then partially opening with the correct rules in place for everyone's safety. I can only assume that those who have taken umbrage to this wont be having haircuts or visiting pubs etc?

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Haha haha is this still going on!!?!

There are a couple of things that are not really being considered or are being skimmed over.........

1, A hotel with a spa is different to a sex/swingers club with a spa. In my opinion it’s a swingers club, hotel then a spa in that order.

2, All hotels allow you to bring alcohol in. Even the travelodge doesn’t strip search you to locate your litre bottle of Vodka before allowing you to check in however normally and especially now they will not allow you to consume said alcohol in the public areas with other guests.

3, Yes people do stick to the rules because they are adults and can be trusted.....until they have a drink. VE Day was a perfect example of that as the NHS reported a spike in admissions due to alcohol related “issues”.

4, I have heard of couples and singles being allowed to hire out playrooms for overnight stays at clubf which I am sure isn’t permitted as part of any hotel licensing the club might have. So it’s not as simple as saying the club will stick to the rules!!

5, And finally if you are an employee, volunteer, promote the club on your profile page your view will be biased even if that view Is unconscious. Your view is welcome and should be expressed but your affiliation with the club does raise a small question about credibility.

The club shouldn’t go under there is help out there. So sit tight you’ve got this far another month won’t hurt. This also seems to be the policy from other clubs in the UK and in this case I think it’s a good idea to follow the pack rather than be a trailblazer xx

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over a year ago


"If its aloud to open and you want to go, then go. If you dont, dont. The doors wouldn't even be open unless it was sanctioned and the authorities were content with the measures put in place. It's not loop holes, or skewed interpretation of government direction. It's about meeting the requirements laid out, passing an inspection and then partially opening with the correct rules in place for everyone's safety. I can only assume that those who have taken umbrage to this wont be having haircuts or visiting pubs etc? "

I don’t think it’s taking umbrage I may be wrong but those who have shared their thoughts are just they’re opinions whether we agree with them or not . It’s a forum at the end of the day . Some posts I agree with some I don’t, that’s just how it is.

I’ll certainly be getting my hair done in July that’s for sure. But through my own personal choice I won’t be putting myself in An environment that may lead me to not adult in an appropriate manner surrounded by hot folk

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By *tependousMan
over a year ago

Richmond (N.Yorks)


"Haha haha is this still going on!!?!

There are a couple of things that are not really being considered or are being skimmed over.........

1, A hotel with a spa is different to a sex/swingers club with a spa. In my opinion it’s a swingers club, hotel then a spa in that order.

2, All hotels allow you to bring alcohol in. Even the travelodge doesn’t strip search you to locate your litre bottle of Vodka before allowing you to check in however normally and especially now they will not allow you to consume said alcohol in the public areas with other guests.

3, Yes people do stick to the rules because they are adults and can be trusted.....until they have a drink. VE Day was a perfect example of that as the NHS reported a spike in admissions due to alcohol related “issues”.

4, I have heard of couples and singles being allowed to hire out playrooms for overnight stays at clubf which I am sure isn’t permitted as part of any hotel licensing the club might have. So it’s not as simple as saying the club will stick to the rules!!

5, And finally if you are an employee, volunteer, promote the club on your profile page your view will be biased even if that view Is unconscious. Your view is welcome and should be expressed but your affiliation with the club does raise a small question about credibility.

The club shouldn’t go under there is help out there. So sit tight you’ve got this far another month won’t hurt. This also seems to be the policy from other clubs in the UK and in this case I think it’s a good idea to follow the pack rather than be a trailblazer xx"

First of all, I am not an employee, volunteer or promoter, but allow me to address your points in order:

1. With all playrooms locked and spa facilities / changing rooms out of bounds, it's just like a hairdresser's which does nails and beauty treatments. Have your hair cut, not your nails or pubes.

2. Pubs/bars are opening with specific restrictions in place on 4th of July, I fail to see your point here?

3. Alcohol related issues would refer to d*unken injuries or illness due to over consumption I presume? I'd like to think that those who attend are of a more mature mindset and wont be trying to body surf down the stairs. As for the effect of alcohol lowering inhibitions, what's to stop the same thing happening in the group of 6 you can meet outside?

4. From personal experience, I'm sure that this must be permitted and regulated, as I was asked to leave past closing time as I was not down as an overnight guest and the numbers could not accommodate me due to fire regulations.

5. I am not affiliated with the club, merely pointing out that for them to open, they must have met the required safety standards, just the same as any other establishment which wishes to partially re open.

As you stated, we are all adults. We retain the right to decide whether to go or not and the ability to conduct ourselves accordingly if we do.

The above is not a personal attack, please dont take it as such. I'm just providing counter arguments to the points made and fostering healthy debate

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If its aloud to open and you want to go, then go. If you dont, dont. The doors wouldn't even be open unless it was sanctioned and the authorities were content with the measures put in place. It's not loop holes, or skewed interpretation of government direction. It's about meeting the requirements laid out, passing an inspection and then partially opening with the correct rules in place for everyone's safety. I can only assume that those who have taken umbrage to this wont be having haircuts or visiting pubs etc? "

I see your point but by opening you are facilitating behaviour that could cause future problems to wider society.

Why open if you don’t need to? Isn’t is better to protect your patrons for a little longer?

There is no inspection or sign off the government trust the business owner to follow guidelines. No one is coming around to sign you off as good to go.

If that was the case it would take years to get back to normal.

I go to a pub to have a drink - if it’s hard to socially distance, or there is a risk to health I don’t go and I’d probably report the place and encourage others not to go.

I go to the barbers to get my hair cut and leave. I don’t go for the banter, free cups of tea or to read Take a Break. If my barber doesn’t look like his following guidelines I’d probably report him and encourage others not to go.

I go to a swingers / sex club to meet like minded people and to hopefully have S..........You can guess the rest.

So as I have said before from a business point of view there is help out there and no immediate requirement to open so don’t rush. Give it a little longer your patrons aren’t going anywhere but some might end up at the local Crem if you do open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and just for the record I am now holding interviews for a social bubble partner !!!! Seeing as I can now have visitors

PPE will be provided.

Please send CV’s to my inbox

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Oh and just for the record I am now holding interviews for a social bubble partner !!!! Seeing as I can now have visitors

PPE will be provided.

Please send CV’s to my inbox "

My CV is already in the post I didn’t lick the stamp or envelope so you are safe.......well I think.

But let’s be honest we all know there are people on this forum and in the wider scene that have still been meeting couples, FWB’s blah blah blah

It’s not just government advisors that have been sneaking off to see their mistress

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By *tependousMan
over a year ago

Richmond (N.Yorks)

What behaviour is being facilitated? The club have stated that it is open for social only.

I understand your point about like minded individuals, but I could draw comparison to any social or sports club in this instance. For example, if the rugby club bar opens I dont see that as facilitating a scrum?

I stand corrected on the point about inspections, makes sense that this wouldn't be feasible. I do however remember reading earlier in the thread that the club are liasing closely with Public Health England, the same organisation partially responsible for creating the guidance measures.

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What behaviour is being facilitated? The club have stated that it is open for social only.

I understand your point about like minded individuals, but I could draw comparison to any social or sports club in this instance. For example, if the rugby club bar opens I dont see that as facilitating a scrum?

I stand corrected on the point about inspections, makes sense that this wouldn't be feasible. I do however remember reading earlier in the thread that the club are liasing closely with Public Health England, the same organisation partially responsible for creating the guidance measures."

So in my opinion you are more tempted to have a drink in a pub then you say sitting in the park or at work.

I think you are more likely than not to eat a Big Mac if you are sitting in a McDonald’s (other burger chains are available) etc etc

With that logic I think you are more likely to swing in a swinging club with other swingers.

Yes the club rooms will be closed but as I say there is some evidence the club has been a little loose on the rules before I.e letting people stay over in play rooms.

Sue updated her status about 10mins after BoJo made his announcement. Her status suggested she was reopening...........I mailed Sue directly asking if she was going to open her response

“Yes it looks like the playrooms will be closed unless we have private’s hires but all will become clear over time....”

She didn’t respond when I mailed back to question that decision even though the message had been picked up.

So in my opinion making The playrooms available in one form or another was on the table. In my opinion the aim was to make as much of the facilities available and encourage playing at clubf in one form or another.

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Oh and I’ve said it before this is an open forum.

No one has been offensive and I welcome the open debate and discussion.

I’ll be honest I thought this topic was done 24hrs ago hence the start of My message this morning

But blocking me because you don’t disagree with my opinion is like refusing to shop at Tesco because you are a vegetarian and it sells meat

It doesn’t reflect well on your viewpoint. If you disagree then challenge that like the young man has been doing this morning.

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By *ookies creamMan
over a year ago

sunderland

There are a number of guidelines for pubs clubs opening including signing in with phone number for each person or that so not get served staff distancing and cleaning have no gone through it all but it does put considerable restraints on clubs and if they breach they are shut down if individuals meet socially at the club and take it fury away from the club That’s up to them no advised though but the club have no control what happens outside

And I’ve not heard of the club hiring rooms during lockdown and do no believe Management would allow it

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"There are a number of guidelines for pubs clubs opening including signing in with phone number for each person or that so not get served staff distancing and cleaning have no gone through it all but it does put considerable restraints on clubs and if they breach they are shut down if individuals meet socially at the club and take it fury away from the club That’s up to them no advised though but the club have no control what happens outside

And I’ve not heard of the club hiring rooms during lockdown and do no believe Management would allow it"

. ... then your wrong .... believe it when people tell you they allowed it. ... and as regards the 10 mins after boho relaxing the lockdown the club were saying they had measured up and could fit 11 couples in ... that was there post there measurements ..now that it’s down to 1 metre (but still no touching nudging kissing fucking ) then we must assume there’s now “room” enough for 22 couples ??? ... please don’t facilitate any people who wish to errrrrr chat with others and then provide the bedrooms (as no play areas are open .... ( ooops there’s my breakfast flying over rooftops) ... but guess everyone has there own opinion on “safe “ .....just don’t provide .......

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By *lub F Co.DurhamCouple
over a year ago

Stanley


"What behaviour is being facilitated? The club have stated that it is open for social only.

I understand your point about like minded individuals, but I could draw comparison to any social or sports club in this instance. For example, if the rugby club bar opens I dont see that as facilitating a scrum?

I stand corrected on the point about inspections, makes sense that this wouldn't be feasible. I do however remember reading earlier in the thread that the club are liasing closely with Public Health England, the same organisation partially responsible for creating the guidance measures.

So in my opinion you are more tempted to have a drink in a pub then you say sitting in the park or at work.

I think you are more likely than not to eat a Big Mac if you are sitting in a McDonald’s (other burger chains are available) etc etc

With that logic I think you are more likely to swing in a swinging club with other swingers.

Yes the club rooms will be closed but as I say there is some evidence the club has been a little loose on the rules before I.e letting people stay over in play rooms.

Sue updated her status about 10mins after BoJo made his announcement. Her status suggested she was reopening...........I mailed Sue directly asking if she was going to open her response

“Yes it looks like the playrooms will be closed unless we have private’s hires but all will become clear over time....”

She didn’t respond when I mailed back to question that decision even though the message had been picked up.

So in my opinion making The playrooms available in one form or another was on the table. In my opinion the aim was to make as much of the facilities available and encourage playing at clubf in one form or another.

"

Okay, this is Sue here and I am not going to keep getting drawn into this, but do feel I have to defend part of what you have said.

For your info you are not blocked on the clubf profile, just my personal one. Tbh I don't even know who you are, but mohawk says you are fit so you must be.....

As I recall, you asked me pretty swiftly after the BoJo announcement and before detailed guidance, a question about the jacuzzi? I couldn't answer, so when I wrote, 'it will all become clear in time' that's what I meant, I am sorry you feel slighted by not receiving another response back, my inbox was quite busy then.

I think we need to clarify a few things as you have said, you stated we were doing private hires - point 4 on a previous comment '4. I have heard of couples & singles being allowed to hire out playrooms for overnight stays at clubf which I am sure isn't permitted....'- I have not hired out the hotel over lockdown - period - I do not break the rules and rather than besmirching my name with what you 'think' rather than what you actually have facts about, I think you should keep libelous & accusatory comments to yourself.

We are currently reviewing the gov.uk guidance and writing our own specific guidelines for guests. We are completing a risk assessment. we are doing everything we have to & more, like we always do.

We will then, in a small way, open, if people want to come, they will come, if they dont come, then that's fine, if no -one wants us open, we will not open, but while they do and when we are allowed to open, and only then, we will.

I am fine that you have an opinion, I may not like what people say but I need to hear it. But please stop publicly writing your opinions about clubf details you really don't know about, it is damaging and not really very nice at all.

Its already been said, Simon wont let people break the rules! He wont, he never does, so why do you persist in thinking we are going to.

If you want to write to me about this, then please write to this profile where you are not blocked

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over a year ago

Yes I do have a connection to the club! So.....

So the decision to open as a hotel has been made! Like it or dont!

Go! Dont go!

As far as I know at no point during lock down was the club used for private meets!

Why would Sue and Simon do that! They havent broken the rules before they would not risk it!

Again people shit stirring! Must be bored in the house! In the mother fucking house bored!

So go or dont go!

Now have you all written to Air bnb to complain to them about allowing apartment hotels to open up! Were you can have 4 to 6 people in a room!??

#peaceout

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What behaviour is being facilitated? The club have stated that it is open for social only.

I understand your point about like minded individuals, but I could draw comparison to any social or sports club in this instance. For example, if the rugby club bar opens I dont see that as facilitating a scrum?

I stand corrected on the point about inspections, makes sense that this wouldn't be feasible. I do however remember reading earlier in the thread that the club are liasing closely with Public Health England, the same organisation partially responsible for creating the guidance measures.

So in my opinion you are more tempted to have a drink in a pub then you say sitting in the park or at work.

I think you are more likely than not to eat a Big Mac if you are sitting in a McDonald’s (other burger chains are available) etc etc

With that logic I think you are more likely to swing in a swinging club with other swingers.

Yes the club rooms will be closed but as I say there is some evidence the club has been a little loose on the rules before I.e letting people stay over in play rooms.

Sue updated her status about 10mins after BoJo made his announcement. Her status suggested she was reopening...........I mailed Sue directly asking if she was going to open her response

“Yes it looks like the playrooms will be closed unless we have private’s hires but all will become clear over time....”

She didn’t respond when I mailed back to question that decision even though the message had been picked up.

So in my opinion making The playrooms available in one form or another was on the table. In my opinion the aim was to make as much of the facilities available and encourage playing at clubf in one form or another.

Okay, this is Sue here and I am not going to keep getting drawn into this, but do feel I have to defend part of what you have said.

For your info you are not blocked on the clubf profile, just my personal one. Tbh I don't even know who you are, but mohawk says you are fit so you must be.....

As I recall, you asked me pretty swiftly after the BoJo announcement and before detailed guidance, a question about the jacuzzi? I couldn't answer, so when I wrote, 'it will all become clear in time' that's what I meant, I am sorry you feel slighted by not receiving another response back, my inbox was quite busy then.

I think we need to clarify a few things as you have said, you stated we were doing private hires - point 4 on a previous comment '4. I have heard of couples & singles being allowed to hire out playrooms for overnight stays at clubf which I am sure isn't permitted....'- I have not hired out the hotel over lockdown - period - I do not break the rules and rather than besmirching my name with what you 'think' rather than what you actually have facts about, I think you should keep libelous & accusatory comments to yourself.

We are currently reviewing the gov.uk guidance and writing our own specific guidelines for guests. We are completing a risk assessment. we are doing everything we have to & more, like we always do.

We will then, in a small way, open, if people want to come, they will come, if they dont come, then that's fine, if no -one wants us open, we will not open, but while they do and when we are allowed to open, and only then, we will.

I am fine that you have an opinion, I may not like what people say but I need to hear it. But please stop publicly writing your opinions about clubf details you really don't know about, it is damaging and not really very nice at all.

Its already been said, Simon wont let people break the rules! He wont, he never does, so why do you persist in thinking we are going to.

If you want to write to me about this, then please write to this profile where you are not blocked "

Thank you for responding.

I didn’t say the club had hired out private rooms during the lockdown. To my knowledge this has not happened.

I apologise if that was taken in the wrong way.

My point was the club has allowed people to stay in the private rooms overnight in the past. This I am sure is against any hotel licence or might also be against hotel/building regs (I’m no expert).

Sooooooo....if the rules have been bent in the past it’s difficult to take “rules will be enforced” at face value.

I assume membership, entry fee will be waived for hotel Patrons as you will only be operating as a hotel?

I also think you are misinterpreting my point of view. I have not called out the clubs facilities etc etc any criticism that has come from me would apply to any Swinging/sex club who adopted the same policy. This is not not about clubf but the policy given the current pandemic.

Unfortunately it seems like clubf seems to be the only club of this type that thinks it’s the right time to open......and no I have not fact checked this just checked on the clubs locally and those I have visited in the past.

I wasn’t slighted about you not responding to my mail and appreciate you are busy hence I raised my concerns in the open forum. To be honest I think individuals On this forum have been slighted even offended by my opinion.

I think my points have been calm, clear and non-argumentative but appreciate that’s my opinion.

It might be me and this is no criticism of the club and more of a question for the wider scene .........

You can’t get too close

You have to bring your own alcohol

All play and spa facilities will be closed

You cannot play!!

So there has to be easier places to hold a social or am I missing something?

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By *exyguynorthMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yes I do have a connection to the club! So.....

So the decision to open as a hotel has been made! Like it or dont!

Go! Dont go!

As far as I know at no point during lock down was the club used for private meets!

Why would Sue and Simon do that! They havent broken the rules before they would not risk it!

Again people shit stirring! Must be bored in the house! In the mother fucking house bored!

So go or dont go!

Now have you all written to Air bnb to complain to them about allowing apartment hotels to open up! Were you can have 4 to 6 people in a room!??

#peaceout"

So I did do a fact check here...........

I think I’ve pointed out already I did not say the club hired out rooms during the pandemic. Didn’t come from me so this is either a Mis-read or misunderstanding.

###FACT CHECK ALERT####

Air BnB suspended all international bookings during the pandemic. Mainly due to public criticism.

It’s only possible to entire premises on Air BnB from 4th July.

Their website and booking process still contains Covid warning messages.

The majority of Air BnBs are entire premise hires of homes and apartments not of rooms in a swingers/sex club.

Like a hotel ie Hilton if you behave inappropriately your contract will terminated and you will asked to vacate. This is in the T&Cs of the booking.

If you have a mini party in a hotel room or an Air BnB and you are found out you will be asked to shut it down or leave.

In the case of clubf the host/owners are facilitating even encouraging indoor activities and grouping of more than one household which is still goes against the government guidelines.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Yes I do have a connection to the club! So.....

So the decision to open as a hotel has been made! Like it or dont!

Go! Dont go!

As far as I know at no point during lock down was the club used for private meets!

Why would Sue and Simon do that! They havent broken the rules before they would not risk it!

Again people shit stirring! Must be bored in the house! In the mother fucking house bored!

So go or dont go!

Now have you all written to Air bnb to complain to them about allowing apartment hotels to open up! Were you can have 4 to 6 people in a room!??

#peaceout"

Pmsfl as you did on the shhh thread!! Pot kettle

Peace out

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By *aucyPlayersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Miss you Sue and Simon and can’t wait to return when it is safe to do so! Hope you are well xx

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside


"Miss you Sue and Simon and can’t wait to return when it is safe to do so! Hope you are well xx"

What they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss you Sue and Simon and can’t wait to return when it is safe to do so! Hope you are well xx

What they said "

Ditto we can only echo these other lovely fabbers miss you guys ain't no party like a clubf party xxx

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

funny how people have a dig but back up what another clubs doing ni on the same cant wait to see whats been done on all our return ,long as wor gaz aint been let loose with a hammer inplacfp should be made into a rave song .gnt xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking forward to visiting again when we can. Won't be for another couple of years unfortunately. Mrs is pregnant and expecting at the end of the year so no play for us for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking forward to visiting again when we can. Won't be for another couple of years unfortunately. Mrs is pregnant and expecting at the end of the year so no play for us for a while "

Great profile you sound like you have similar interests to use x

K is also pregnant and due end of Nov with our first x

We want to go to clubf soon to show our support and obv social only. Maybe our paths will cross in the future x

KJ x

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By *issy_BCouple
over a year ago

another dimension

Hi, m here,

Wow what a read!! We missing clubf so much that I’ve actually dreamt of gangbanging on McDonald’s tables while waiting in a queue .

Pmsl (not the first weird dirty dream let me tell you let’s just all stay safe and follow rules until told we can do otherwise.

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By *issy_BCouple
over a year ago

another dimension

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