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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx"" Well said, media created panic over all this Is anybody actually check how many people die or is infected by flu each year. We had friend who die from flu, was healthy before no issues. Do we isolate or behaves like this when flue is active?No. If club stay open we will support it visiting | |||
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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx" Well said, media created panic over all this Is anybody actually check how many people die or is infected by flu each year. We had friend who die from flu, was healthy before no issues. Do we isolate or behaves like this when flue is active?No. If club stay open we will support it visiting I think you are not understanding the simple fact that Covid 19 ISNT the flu." ![]() | |||
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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx" Well said, media created panic over all this Is anybody actually check how many people die or is infected by flu each year. We had friend who die from flu, was healthy before no issues. Do we isolate or behaves like this when flue is active?No. If club stay open we will support it visiting I think you are not understanding the simple fact that Covid 19 ISNT the flu. ![]() Very true. ![]() | |||
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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx"" Well put & good luck with the challenges you will face over the next few months. We would like to see our Clubs survive as well ![]() | |||
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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx" Well put & good luck with the challenges you will face over the next few months. We would like to see our Clubs survive as well ![]() Is there going to be a knock on effect? If there is forced isolation and people can't work they won't have an income, if that's the case we will have to cut back and club visits will have to be postponed for a while as I'm sure will be the case for others. | |||
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"I have just been researching about hot tubs, as I'm wanting to go to a club this week that has one. The outcome of my research has been that properly maintained hot tub could not spread the virus. " But people in it could? We love Chams and the jacuzzis there but are giving them a miss right now | |||
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"Instead of opening for club nights surely clubs can still hire out their rooms for personal use? I know some places hire out their dungeons or have other income generating ventures such as make up and dressing for TVs individually. For some clubs it may only be the large events that are affected and the other income generating pursuits can still continue. " We hire out all the time. One of the conversations we will be having is if we can still run the small private hires for those who want the place for personal use. It's all very up in the air to be honest xx | |||
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"We have seen some really daft comments on here .... researching if hot tubs spread infection..... people should research Covid 19 Someone can be infected, without knowing it, you only have to be near them, it’s spread on there breath, they could be spreading it for well over a week without knowing it, that’s why we have to change out lifestyle, keep out of their space" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We have seen some really daft comments on here .... researching if hot tubs spread infection..... people should research Covid 19 Someone can be infected, without knowing it, you only have to be near them, it’s spread on there breath, they could be spreading it for well over a week without knowing it, that’s why we have to change out lifestyle, keep out of their space ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I, for one, will continue supporting the club I attend regardless of whether it is open or closed. I'll attend until I either catch the virus and have to self isolate or until the club has to close." If hubby didn't have a respiratory condition I'm sure we'd still be going to Chams too. Far to risky unfortunately | |||
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"While not in the adult industry I stand to loose my businesses which are events, we are keeping calm and carrying on. We are low risk, we work to live a OK life, not rolling in it, have no back up funds same as most small businesses, I'm actually more bothered from the backlash and reactions to those what I consider to be, over panicking" People actually forget about this point,world didn’t stop.we need to live and think about future. Sitting at home will not bring us benefits.we need eat,pay bills etc. Its easy to get in to debits,then struggling years to pay out | |||
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"I, for one, will continue supporting the club I attend regardless of whether it is open or closed. I'll attend until I either catch the virus and have to self isolate or until the club has to close. If hubby didn't have a respiratory condition I'm sure we'd still be going to Chams too. Far to risky unfortunately " | |||
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"I, for one, will continue supporting the club I attend regardless of whether it is open or closed. I'll attend until I either catch the virus and have to self isolate or until the club has to close. If hubby didn't have a respiratory condition I'm sure we'd still be going to Chams too. Far to risky unfortunately " Your situation and decision I can understand. Give us the information and then let individuals make their own judgements.... | |||
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"I have just been researching about hot tubs, as I'm wanting to go to a club this week that has one. The outcome of my research has been that properly maintained hot tub could not spread the virus. " Thanks for sharing this ![]() | |||
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"“now is the time for everyone to stop non essential contact with others... people working from home where they possibly can... avoid pubs, clubs & theatres” crikey.... thats it for clubs for the forseeable future i think.... just hope its not too long.... godspeed to all the club owners! see you on the other side! ![]() Who said that? | |||
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"Just on the news now. " Yeah, I'd read somewhere the press conference was half 5 | |||
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"“now is the time for everyone to stop non essential contact with others... people working from home where they possibly can... avoid pubs, clubs & theatres” crikey.... thats it for clubs for the forseeable future i think.... just hope its not too long.... godspeed to all the club owners! see you on the other side! ![]() the prime minister in the corona virus briefing 10 minutes ago...... | |||
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"“now is the time for everyone to stop non essential contact with others... people working from home where they possibly can... avoid pubs, clubs & theatres” crikey.... thats it for clubs for the forseeable future i think.... just hope its not too long.... godspeed to all the club owners! see you on the other side! ![]() I'd got the timing wrong for the press conference so I was late lol | |||
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"See swingers club are above government advise and still carry on!! " The advice has only just been given, give them time. | |||
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"It seems the OP changed their mind on the post, but feel the current situation is too big not to be chatting about it on this forum. Here's a statement from Townhouse Vicki from the last thread that for us, sums up the current position nicely: We have and will continue to stay in contact with Public Health and take guidance from them, based on scientific fact and information which is changing everyday. Boris said yesterday that it is highly likely that pubs, clubs and restaurants will be closing after next weekend, but I will be speaking with Public Health again tomorrow to see if this will be brought forward for venues such as ours. For those saying clubs are all about the money, it's a fine line. Most clubs are not big money making businesses anyway. Overheads are VERY high in our game and at this time of year, most of us tread water to stay afloat. We also have overheads whether we are open or closed and it is unlikely that non essential businesses like ours will favour from any government hand out. We are also self employed, so no sick pay or benefits for us while we are closed. This is our reality folks. We don't just play around at this. We have a venue which leaks money every month whether we have customers or not and we have a mortgage and bills to pay in our private lives. If we close, which is looking likely, then for how long? There is only so long that a business can stay closed and still pay it's outgoings, before it's not viable. Businesses have contingency funds but they only last a short time. Insurance in our game is complicated and I will be chatting to our insurer tomorrow to see if we can recoup anything through this crisis... I think it could be a 'No'. So for those who are slagging us all off for staying open, there are lives behind these kinky walls, there are obligations to others and there are potential terminal outcomes. So I WILL NOT be lead by people on here almost bullying clubs who stay open. I will continue to take a lead from Public Health and government recommendation. I think all clubs will be quieter at the moment but for those who have 'braved the storm' so far, I hope you remain fit and well. If/when clubs are told to close, it could be a long while before we open again. Some may not re-open at all if it's hit them hard. A month out of business will be enough to shut some clubs down. But when we do, I hope you will continue to support your local clubs and help them get back on their feet rather than attending private parties with almost zero overheads and pocket money for the organisers. We work hard for you guys and this is a time when we will all need your support to get back on track. This is a game and a bit of fun for all of you, but for club owners this is our reality and our livelihoods and your local clubs will need you more than ever if we have to close. Vicky xx"" ![]() | |||
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"See swingers club are above government advise and still carry on!! " we will be in lockdown just like the rest of the world it's all a conspiracy.. ![]() | |||
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"Not weeks anymore it’s going to be months isn’t it ![]() ![]() lol the virus doesn't just come and disappear its a virus like the flu virus it comes and goes forever unless a miracle cure is found, the self isolation thing is great for those in a position to do it but not for those that aren't, you can't isolate effectively anyway you need things to survive not excluding money, life goes on ![]() | |||
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"But this virus is acting differently then flu. More contiguous. " contagious, hey it is what it is, you will get it so will i hopefully we will be ok I'm going out panic shopping later when shops open you coming? I wanted to go now but I'm in torquay everything is shut ![]() | |||
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"I have just been researching about hot tubs, as I'm wanting to go to a club this week that has one. The outcome of my research has been that properly maintained hot tub could not spread the virus. " And you are seriously considering getting in one with total strangers? | |||
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"We have seen some really daft comments on here .... researching if hot tubs spread infection..... people should research Covid 19 Someone can be infected, without knowing it, you only have to be near them, it’s spread on there breath, they could be spreading it for well over a week without knowing it, that’s why we have to change out lifestyle, keep out of their space" I know. Staggered at that post about the hot tub. | |||
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"I, for one, will continue supporting the club I attend regardless of whether it is open or closed. I'll attend until I either catch the virus and have to self isolate or until the club has to close." When it’s closed????, must be lonely!! | |||
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"See swingers club are above government advise and still carry on!! " they havent told them to close. Just advised people not to attend... and there is the clue.. "advised " not told dont.... so for now many wont close | |||
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"I have just been researching about hot tubs, as I'm wanting to go to a club this week that has one. The outcome of my research has been that properly maintained hot tub could not spread the virus. And you are seriously considering getting in one with total strangers? " You still have to get there, get changed in changing rooms, walk to the hot tub.... is it really worth the risk! ![]() | |||
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"While not in the adult industry I stand to loose my businesses which are events, we are keeping calm and carrying on. We are low risk, we work to live a OK life, not rolling in it, have no back up funds same as most small businesses, I'm actually more bothered from the backlash and reactions to those what I consider to be, over panicking" I'm in the same kind of business and feel the exact same way, the season was just beginning for me after a long winter. Now it's been put on hold by this virus. I had to tell the staff they will be on very reduced hours from next week ![]() | |||
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