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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Visiting my first club tonight! Nervous/Excited. Thought about it for a while and finally plucked up the courage and thought why not! Any advice would be much appreciated x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Visiting my first club tonight! Nervous/Excited. Thought about it for a while and finally plucked up the courage and thought why not! Any advice would be much appreciated x"

Make it your mission to chat to as many people as you can, not just those you fancy but anyone. Don't have expectations of getting laid, if you aim to have fun and meet people to talk to then you'll have a good time. If you get to play, then that's a bonus.

Cal

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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Thanks for the advice! Figured going with the mindset of not getting laid would be the best! Will definitely take what you said on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey!

I was where you were about a year ago and took the plunge. Went a few times and it started me on a journey meeting lots of people and ending up in some sexy situations.

Really friendly in LC, and I was looked after by the owners. So glad I did it. I’ll be honest I’ve took a break and started a new profile so I’m playing with the idea of going back!

All the best and I hope it goes well.

Tip I was given. Stick to the bar, be friendly and chatty. Don’t expect anything and you won’t be let down.

K

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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Hey!

I was where you were about a year ago and took the plunge. Went a few times and it started me on a journey meeting lots of people and ending up in some sexy situations.

Really friendly in LC, and I was looked after by the owners. So glad I did it. I’ll be honest I’ve took a break and started a new profile so I’m playing with the idea of going back!

All the best and I hope it goes well.

Tip I was given. Stick to the bar, be friendly and chatty. Don’t expect anything and you won’t be let down.

K"

Thanks for the response! It’s something I’ve been toying with for a while now so just going to go for it and hopefully have a good experience. Will definitely keep your tips in mind

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Im going tonight, il be the nervous red head drinking wine!

Xx

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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Im going tonight, il be the nervous red head drinking wine!

Xx"

Will keep my eye out for you! xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just go be polite, be friendly, smile, don’t stare at women especially in the mixed changing area, have manners, be a gentleman, expect nothing as sex is not guaranteed in any club.

I would not say sit at the bar all night as it looks like you’re not interested in meeting people.

Last 2 times I’ve been to LC only 5 people were in the club so I hope it’s busier for you OP.

Good luck.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Don’t know the layout of LC, but we’d definitely agree be friendly chatty at the bar, maybe play it cool ie don’t follow people around but when you accidentally bump into them later you might get a nice invite. That’s a free top chatting up tip.

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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Thanks for the responses you two will definitely keep the tips in mind!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think the worse thing is single guys who stare at women in clubs. It’s horrible and makes us feel like pieces of meat...

Be a gentleman and you’ll do ok.

Bhubsysi

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By *oungGentlemen7 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I think the worse thing is single guys who stare at women in clubs. It’s horrible and makes us feel like pieces of meat...

Be a gentleman and you’ll do ok.

Bhubsysi "

Will definitely try not to stare! And well I kind of pride myself on that.. having respect and showing genuine interest with someone first.. appreciate the responses x

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