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first time looking for a guide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never been to a swinging club or any such place before.

its something that interests me greatly, but am very nervous of going on my own and so looking for someone as a guide /potential play partner. thanks dan .

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Lots of fellas looking for similar so you'll probably struggle unfortunately.

Going to a club for the first time isn't as bad as you think. Tell the staff it's your first time. They'll give you a tour. Clubs are really friendly places. Just chat to people, don't have any expectations and be respectful.

Do some research on the club you want to visit.

Be brave lol

Mrs x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Basically women are never going to agree to hook with a strange man to go to a club.

As the poster above says, there's loads of men asking this precise question. Your best bet is to find one of those men and you can go together for mutual support.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It is nerve racking going to a club for the first time and must be more so as a single. But honestly the people in there won't bite (unless you want them to!). Some people keep themselves to themselves. But some people will be friendly and chatty (which doesn't mean it's time to play!). We just LOVE club nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe approach it slightly differently....if you are chatting to someone and decide to meet why don’t you suggest meeting at a club, being honest of course about it being your first time. I find clubs a safe environment so prefer to meet there. My first visit was also a first meet and now over two years later we are regulars on the club scene together. Won’t work with everyone but I wouldn’t give up either. Good luck.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

My advice would be to look for a club night that you like the sound of where membership isn’t required. That way you’ll get to sample a club without the commitment of paying an absolute fortune up front.

There’s also a good chance there will be a Kik group set up so you’ll get chance to chat to others going beforehand. Try to chat with blokes too, you’ll find that the more sociable you are both before and on the night the better experience you’ll have.

Good luck and enjoy

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