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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wheres the best clubs for someone whos never been?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The Newby Club is good

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are probably some all over the country. Look at the reviews here, see what you think of those, look at the websites.

What concerns you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres just so many and im trying to figure out if i should start locally or travel to one that may be better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where is the newby club

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Theres just so many and im trying to figure out if i should start locally or travel to one that may be better"

Read reviews, look at available nights, look at prices.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Where is the newby club"

Just someone being silly. There's no such place.

Have a look at the websites for a few and decide which one sounds the best for you.

Wherever you go, let them know it's your first visit. You will get a tour and staff will look out for you.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If you choose a reasonably local one, you'll be able to go there often, get to know the regulars, and get a lot more out of it than you ever could from a single visit.

The right club depends mostly on you, so it's hard for people who don't know you to recommend one. Go to one, if you're comfortable there keep going. If you're not, go elsewhere the next time.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Theres just so many and im trying to figure out if i should start locally or travel to one that may be better"

All the clubs are basically the same mate, the main difference being whether you stay fully dressed once inside, or "dress down" to boxers or a towel. Some have alcohol licences, most are bring your own. As far as being a single guy visiting a club, check their websites for when single guys are 'allowed' in, as they tend to limit single male numbers at particular times, also check if there's a waiting list for membership. On the subject of memberships, be prepared for a shock with regard to pricing, and learn the meaning of 'Gender disparity'!

Never expect sex.

Don't expect the place to be filled with gorgeous people.

Be prepared for an anti-climax! They're really nothing more than a bar with music, and areas where people have sex either in the open for exhibitionists, or in private rooms for the more shy.

Be prepared to talk first to strangers, as single guys are rarely approached by others.

Try a couple of different clubs, you'll never know unless you go!

All the best!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn i thought he was taking the piss should have trusted myself lol. Cheers for the advice think thats my main concern being new to the scene and not knowing the kind of do's and dont's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i suppose thats true get to know the people and youll soon be comfortable. Cheers

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Where is the newby club

Just someone being silly. There's no such place.

Have a look at the websites for a few and decide which one sounds the best for you.

Wherever you go, let them know it's your first visit. You will get a tour and staff will look out for you. "

It was me. Being silly. Newby = newbie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah little embarrassed i fell for that haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yeah little embarrassed i fell for that haha "
don’t worry, you won’t be the last

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Wheres the best clubs for someone whos never been?"

Clubs are like hats you just have to find the one that suits you.

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