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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it." Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. " But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it." I’ve got a hot tub, your welcome to use it anytime with bikini on  | |||
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"Have seen people in jacuzzi at the club we use but, no disrespect to you, it looks out of place when everyone is naked. However I've never seen anyone get told they couldn't wear something in there. It's your choice and you should be allowed to wear a bikini if you wish Mrs x" No disrespect but I couldn't care less if people think I look weird. I have a ton of piercings and rainbow hair, stopped giving a shit about looking weird years ago lol | |||
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" I’ve got a hot tub, your welcome to use it anytime with bikini on "Haha thanks | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it." I think that’s the rule at only one of the clubs we’ve visited. Maybe some rules seem strange, but at the end of the day we usually side with the club owner lol. Try talking to the owner for the reason, might put your mind at rest. We’ve done that a couple of times on other issues where something has not seemed logical, and there’s usually a fairly believable explanation. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better" OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. " Sorry but I'm with fistloving. Detergents in washing powders are very strong. When the hottub pumps run under pressure any amount of detergent is amplified causing bubbles and foam which when settles leaves a scum floating on the surface and reduces filter life. That's why they ask users not to use oils and other cleansers on your body. I'm sure you you found scum floating in a club hottub you wouldn't want to use it and probably complain to staff that the tub is discussing and unclean | |||
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"Just to get this clear I have no I have no issue following their rules, just wanted to know other clubs that don't allow bathing suits. Maybe could have been avoided if they had a sign so I didn't need to be called out in a crowd." The club we go to has a no costume rule in hottub and pool. However it is clearly signed stating no clothing. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better" Oh and wet pussies and leaky cocks are ok as well? | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. " Of course its relevant. I said IF she had done what i said theres no issue even though shes sweated up, probably used the loo a few times but thats ok. Clean, but with swim suit.. not ok??? | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. Sorry but I'm with fistloving. Detergents in washing powders are very strong. When the hottub pumps run under pressure any amount of detergent is amplified causing bubbles and foam which when settles leaves a scum floating on the surface and reduces filter life. That's why they ask users not to use oils and other cleansers on your body. I'm sure you you found scum floating in a club hottub you wouldn't want to use it and probably complain to staff that the tub is discussing and unclean " I've been in a good few hot tubs in places other than swinging clubs, mostly where bathing suits are actually compulsory, & I have never noticed any issues with scum/foam. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. Sorry but I'm with fistloving. Detergents in washing powders are very strong. When the hottub pumps run under pressure any amount of detergent is amplified causing bubbles and foam which when settles leaves a scum floating on the surface and reduces filter life. That's why they ask users not to use oils and other cleansers on your body. I'm sure you you found scum floating in a club hottub you wouldn't want to use it and probably complain to staff that the tub is discussing and unclean " But can the clients shower in their swimsuit thereby rinsing chemicals off their body as well as out of the suit? | |||
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"We allow people in with swimwear if they wish but 99% of people go nakie. We ask EVERYBODY regardless of what they do and don't wear to jump in the shower before entering as products on the skin and detergents play havoc with the chemicals. We have to change the tub all the time anyway, but we at least want to get to the end of the night without that stinging eye feeling which doesn't come from chlorine, but actually from the products on your body mixing with the chlorine. " I did shower, I always shower because as someone else pointed out ive usually had sex by that point lol but I showered in the bathing suit obviously so that was rinsed out too. Totally up to the club I just wish they'd had a sign or something. This club seems to be anti clothing anyway so luckily it's not out local/regular. | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. But if the o.p had got in naked without showering for 2 days then no one would say anything, so how is that better OP says they shower before getting in. So your comment wasn’t relevant. Sorry but I'm with fistloving. Detergents in washing powders are very strong. When the hottub pumps run under pressure any amount of detergent is amplified causing bubbles and foam which when settles leaves a scum floating on the surface and reduces filter life. That's why they ask users not to use oils and other cleansers on your body. I'm sure you you found scum floating in a club hottub you wouldn't want to use it and probably complain to staff that the tub is discussing and unclean But can the clients shower in their swimsuit thereby rinsing chemicals off their body as well as out of the suit?" Probably won’t clean most of the soap/detergent/oils out. Clubs have there rules we was just explaining potential reasons. | |||
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"Just to get this clear I have no I have no issue following their rules, just wanted to know other clubs that don't allow bathing suits. Maybe could have been avoided if they had a sign so I didn't need to be called out in a crowd." 100% agree with you, no big deal if they have a rule and signage, but no signs followed up by an embarrassing encounter probably spoiled your night altogether  | |||
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"We allow people in with swimwear if they wish but 99% of people go nakie. We ask EVERYBODY regardless of what they do and don't wear to jump in the shower before entering as products on the skin and detergents play havoc with the chemicals. We have to change the tub all the time anyway, but we at least want to get to the end of the night without that stinging eye feeling which doesn't come from chlorine, but actually from the products on your body mixing with the chlorine. I did shower, I always shower because as someone else pointed out ive usually had sex by that point lol but I showered in the bathing suit obviously so that was rinsed out too. Totally up to the club I just wish they'd had a sign or something. This club seems to be anti clothing anyway so luckily it's not out local/regular." We're totally OTT on signs!!! hahaha | |||
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"I’d feel uncomfortable being naked whilst you’ve got a swimsuit on, you can oogle others but they can’t oogle you! I would think you were weird getting in a swingers hot tub with a bathing suit and it probably makes other people uncomfortable too, strange behaviour! " I didn't realise the sole purpose of a hot tub was to "oogle" other people | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. " yes but doesn't cum leave a line too    | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it." Another reason may be the bacteria that actually can build up under your costume, while in the hot tub, even if showered before and after. The bacteria results in cold sore blisters all over the area covered but concentrated on the hot moist bits. Google it for the name etc Nasty things! | |||
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" No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. " I've been in the hot tub at Chams and my ex thinks I'm scum  | |||
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"Last time I was at Chams there was a fully clothed couple who were browsing the club and at one point they were standing by the hot tubs watching us all - I didn’t like that much "perving its unerving when so high above its a technique they use in interviews to gain the upper hand | |||
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"I’d feel uncomfortable being naked whilst you’ve got a swimsuit on, you can oogle others but they can’t oogle you! I would think you were weird getting in a swingers hot tub with a bathing suit and it probably makes other people uncomfortable too, strange behaviour! " Not strange behaviour to us or wouldn't make us feel uncomfortable. OP you're welcome in your swimming costume near us  | |||
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"I’d feel uncomfortable being naked whilst you’ve got a swimsuit on, you can oogle others but they can’t oogle you! I would think you were weird getting in a swingers hot tub with a bathing suit and it probably makes other people uncomfortable too, strange behaviour! I didn't realise the sole purpose of a hot tub was to "oogle" other people" Not the sole purpose and at no time did I intimate it was, but we are there to relax, check people out and play. If peeps can’t get there kit off at a swingers club, maybe they should go elsewhere | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. " So does perfume, after shave, deodorant, body sweat and whatever is left between your legs from an earlier fuck!!!!!!! | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. So does perfume, after shave, deodorant, body sweat and whatever is left between your legs from an earlier fuck!!!!!!!" That’s why clubs ask you to shower before getting in the hot tubs  | |||
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"We've been to several clubs (Townhouse included) where we've seen people in swim wear in the hot tub. On our first few club visits, Steph chose to wear a bikini as she didn't feel confident enough to bare all. Climbing in and out of a tub is never the most elegant of moves at the best of times
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. So does perfume, after shave, deodorant, body sweat and whatever is left between your legs from an earlier fuck!!!!!!! That’s why clubs ask you to shower before getting in the hot tubs "And of course everyone does exactly that.....NOT!!!!! | |||
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"We've been to several clubs (Townhouse included) where we've seen people in swim wear in the hot tub. On our first few club visits, Steph chose to wear a bikini as she didn't feel confident enough to bare all. Climbing in and out of a tub is never the most elegant of moves at the best of times
It's odd that the club in question didn't want to support the OP in dressing in a way that mad her feel comfortable. I thought that's the overriding principle of good clubs?
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"I’d feel uncomfortable being naked whilst you’ve got a swimsuit on, you can oogle others but they can’t oogle you! I would think you were weird getting in a swingers hot tub with a bathing suit and it probably makes other people uncomfortable too, strange behaviour! Not strange behaviour to us or wouldn't make us feel uncomfortable. OP you're welcome in your swimming costume near us "Thank you  | |||
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"Ok so this is really bugging me so I wanted to know if other clubs do this. We've been to 5 different clubs. 4 if which I've used the hottub and always wear a bathing suit because I never go topless. It was never an issue in the other clubs but the one we went to recently kicked me from the hot tub. They told me I can't wear clothes in there. I explained it's a bathing suit (frilly lolita style so doesn't look like a typical bikini) and id showered before going in. Nope. Still not allowed. It's naked or nothing so I got out. If I'd have seen any sign I'd have stayed out but they didn't have them. Now it's bugging me because she was saying it's not safe for the hot tub. Normal folk wear bathing suits in hottubs? Bathing suits are made for it. I'm so confused. Do other clubs not allow people in the hottub wearing bathing suits? I'm totally baffled by it. Do you use soap and detergent to wash your swim stuff? When you get in a hot tub the remnants of the soap that doesn’t get 100% washed out can come out and cause a scum to build up on the surface. It also affects the chemical levels within the hot tub. Chemicals can be expensive. No swimsuit no scum and cheaper to run. So does perfume, after shave, deodorant, body sweat and whatever is left between your legs from an earlier fuck!!!!!!! That’s why clubs ask you to shower before getting in the hot tubs
And of course everyone does exactly that.....NOT!!!!!"Haha well I nearly gassed meself once...put on fresh deoderant, nice aftershave thought this would impress everyone...well you can imagine... | |||
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"Admittedly, we haven’t been to many clubs, but I would have thought it would be a given that you go naked in hot tubs. J" Not necessarily? Especially as you're not meant to actually "play" in the club hot tubs I've been to. | |||
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"Admittedly, we haven’t been to many clubs, but I would have thought it would be a given that you go naked in hot tubs. J Not necessarily? Especially as you're not meant to actually "play" in the club hot tubs I've been to. " really well most hot tubs ive been to have had people playing in them | |||
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"For the people saying I need to get naked let me just explain one thing... YOU HAVE ZERO RIGHTS TO SEE ANYONE NAKED! It's a swinger's club FFS not a nudest camp. I dress down like everyone else, I wear pretty lingerie and always dress to impress. I just refuse to remove my bra. Some people hide behind a towel. Some people wonder around butt naked. For the guy who said I can't look at others if they can't look at me naked what logic is that in the swinging scene. Does that mean people who play in private rooms can't watch others? It's my body and my choice." omg i have every right to see you naked I'm entitled | |||
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"Admittedly, we haven’t been to many clubs, but I would have thought it would be a given that you go naked in hot tubs. J Not necessarily? Especially as you're not meant to actually "play" in the club hot tubs I've been to. " Indeed. We’ve seen the signs, although some people don’t seem to be able to read, nor understand that by going naked in hot tub doesn’t mean you’re open for sex to anyone or everyone. OP: if the club hasn’t made it clear about their policy on wearing swimsuits in hot tubs, then they are at fault and shouldn’t embarrass you. Perhaps in future ask about their policy when going to a new club. 
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"I’d feel uncomfortable being naked whilst you’ve got a swimsuit on" Exactly this. And Exactly the same as I felt being naked at a Naturist club that had fully clothed people wandering around in it. Sometimes those rules apply to protect the feelings of other members. | |||
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